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yemite100:
I want you to advise me on what to do, I'm finding it hard to ask this girl for sex, she has been with me for the past three days now, we sleep together on the same bed but I'm always scared to touch her in the night, even as i type this message she is beside me watching Korean fil
It's really giving me sleepless night, I don't know how to ask her for sex I cant even touch her body..
I need your advice guys..

so a girl can not sleep in ur house in peace?

NeedHelpNow:
I had a meeting with a hooker and she spit on my penis twice touching it with her hands as per lubrication,

Do I stand the chance of getting hiv? Never had penetrative sex with her neither did she put her mouth on my penis. Opinions needed cause am soo scared.

when u dey go Bleep ashawo you didn't let us know, now u want our advice when the deed is done already.
By the way where did u see local ashawo from that uses her saliva as lubricant.

Zonefree:
If na like this fried rice dey be, I'd rather stick with my fufu and egusi soup.

Cooking skill = 0%
Razor mouth = 100%

no wonder all ur muzzles do come out finish.

daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

place die with it. Even if hr ask deny. I u confess something like to me, ur life will never remain.

The two in the middle must be related.

Throwback:
Payback time.

Will Obi the ethnic bigot attend this that is not in Anambra?

A local thinker who never thought he would one day seek for national office, so he put on the garb of an ethnic champion.

Even his opinion about APGA is what has kept that party restricted in growth.

go and ask questions. It only a foolish that will insist he can not change his words.

seunmsg:
Obi is a serial liar. His campaign is based on lies, falsehood and propaganda. The way he goes about lying so effortlessly is really troubling. It’s a red flag that can’t be ignored.

Tinubu is always saying the truth.

BigCowH0rn:
No she isn't. She is a loyal wife doing what the man can't cos it's so necessary.
I have been in your shoes before.

What you should have done is taken the guy out for a drink and asked him how far with things then just droped the cash in his lap and walk.

Guy, use this one buy fuel.
Everyone saves face that way.






Yes.
They were probably sitting down together when she made that call.
If the guy was really offended and ignorant he would have returned the money

Orlando return my money!!! That one na lie.he is capable of retrieving my debt, spend it and feel comfortable telling he has spend it because of our relationship.

LegalWolf:
I don't know how old you are, but it appears you are slow. Very slow at that. A woman who is your friend's wife called you and you didn't think it fit to hint your friend about it. What if he sees bank alert and notices a transfer from you, how would you explain to him that nothing is going on between his wife and you?

lol if even see his wife without him I may not recognise her. we are in two different state. And his choice of woman and mine is in parallel lane.

highchief1:
women cannot watch their kids go hungry.she did what every woman will do,just be open in your dealings.as a guy man too,when u know ur guy is down financially don’t wait for him to ask before pushing him something once once.as the wife make that move u for tell her ok,after a few minutes I just call ur friend to send his Acc details then send to him

I don't see him, he is in lagos while I'm in PH. So I may not know much.

SmartyPants:
I dont understand.

You sent the money to his account...why are you surprised that he knows his wife asked?

Clearly he and his wife discussed asking you. He overruled her and then suddenly you sent money.

Dont you think a mature man can put two together and realise it was his wife that still asked?

this is exactly what another a friend told me. But i never thought of it in that direction. My concern at that moment was the involvement of the baby food and also I used to send him money sometime, that didn't make think straight.

Tegabadguy:
guy you know wise...this one na plan work

I really don't mind if he play me cause growing I use play him wella.

Popesuccess:
No she is not trying to cause problem, she just decided to tell him which is the right thing to do.

why will she do a thing like that after telling me otherwise.
I'm thinking maybe the guy man has refused to disburse the money amicably so it cause some rifts.

No wonder they don't care about calling off the strike. Student you can hear it from one of them. Get ur degree from home.

Truvelisback:
They had had discussion on weda to seek help from u or not. Ur friend might be shy to ask u for help, so the decided to do that.

he can't be shy we are just more than friend we grew up together we even share cloth those days I even borrow his things more we are just like brothers even some people tot we are. And he does not hesitate to ask me for anything.

ThemanS:
i dont have money for business. I just want the car to be fetching money for buying fuel. Even if its going on errands and stuff like that

sale the car and buy large quantity of fuel. When APC increase fuel sale the fuel and by the car back.

ahnie:
She planned it with her husband issa colabo thingy.

I don't want to believe it's a plan because I don't see any reason why he would want to plan that considering our closeness.

I was minding my business in my office trying to get out of tedious drawing I was doing, suddenly my phone rang. I checked, it was an unknown number so I ignored the call and continued with my work. The phone rang again I still did not pick. About 15 minutes later a text came from the same number that she is Mr X (my friend) wife that if I'm free I should call her back.

Immediately I had to call back.
She picked and start by apologising for calling but she couldn't just help it. That they are very broke at the moment even their little baby food is finished and no money to buy it that she had asked her husband to call me but he said he doesn't want bother me. She just had to take my number from his phone to secretly call me. She said I should send them any amount I can and I should please not let her husband know she called me that I can also send the money to his account.

I was not having much at that time so I sent 20k to his account only for my friend to call me later to thank me and also indirectly warn me not ever listen to such call from his wife.

My concern here is, why is that the same person that asked me not to tell her husband be the same person to tell her husband or is she trying to cause problem between us?

Guy man has refused to eat for close to 12 months

BATified2023:
The guy can’t b 100% innocent as portrayed in this write up,let’s wait for d other side of d story

Is he d only one selling drinks in d state?
Y only him?

The last time we check any unknown gunmen caught suddenly turn to innocent hard working citizens

just wondering if it is his responsibility to trace unknown gun men. The people government couldn't know for years. Also who many time do we ask of the identity of our customers.

EmiDon11:
My girlfriend went to a clinic for pregnancy check up yesterday.

I was serious praying for God to do me just one wish.

But when she came back, smile was all over her face.

I asked her, whats the outcome of the test?

What she said to me is "congratulation"

I said for what?

She told me she is preg**nt.

I didn't ask her for the test result papers or what ever they call it, bcoz i dont know how to check it.

I was just staring her in shock but she keeps on smiling and laughing.

She went home after i didnt ulter a word to her.

Something told me in my mind that she just wanna play mind games with me.

Bcoz it cant be.

I dont know how to get her to tell me the truth, cuz she behaves somehow atimes.

So pls how can you tell, when u see the result paper?

Cuz the food wey ah chop since yesterday no gree digest.

tell her to allow u see her perent so u can tell them and also get their consent to allow her keep the pregnancy. Don't be panic even if she agrees allow u follow her. Very close to her house she will tell the truth or what she wants.

Gracepikin33333:
Please advice me elders in this travel section.

Togo

The younger one looks better.

Realtvnigeria10:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DUxzzEf3ZVQ

A Nigerian lady has gone online to mock a club big boy that wooed after she discovered what he does for a living.

She said that the guy was repairing phones at the market just a day after he was spraying money on her at a night club.


The young lady shared a video showing when she was walking towards his work and she filmed him in the market.

She thought about going to greet him and make him feel embarrassed following the events of the previous night where he took on the role of a big spender.

Reacting, captainjeffgoodvibe said; How is that your business na

doctall_kingsley; Olosho Dey yab person wey get handwork nawaooo

the.estherrr; What na happen Did he steal the money Nawaa

myhairven; So what is funny now he shouldn’t hustle again?what is the essence of this video now ?

labod702; Shey that one no be work ni

Watch video below;

https://fb.watch/eHlc2_jLhR/

how do think most of us make our money?. If see me in the field and see me in the town, I'm more like a different person.

ahnie:
Bread that's the common man's hope of survival the price has skyrocketed tremendously.

Jesus even emphasized the importance of bread by feeding 5 thousand multitude with bread and fishes, but today bread no be your mate.

I had to get this bread and sardine for my kids as lunch this afternoon,just 2kids between the ages of 7rs and 5yrs them still dey insist on my getting another bread for them.

That small loaf of bread is 450 naira only, apparently if I calculate the both sardines 1500 naira for 2 and bread 450 naira.

Close to 2k just for lunch, honestly it's killing and frustrating at same time.

May God airpus.

what kind of food is this for children?.

Edipet:
Please recommend.

have u tried fufu?.

prechbills1:
My fiance and I have been dating for the past 3years. I attained 24 last week, I wanted to get married to her last year but I just wanted to wait till I attain 24.

The problem I have now is my mom. She is opposing our marriage because my fiancee is 5 years older than me, I'm 24 while she's 29. My dad has already endorsed the marriage, I'd have liked to go on with the marriage but I don't think going into marriage without both parents blessing is sensible that's why I need my mom's blessing and endorsement.

My fiance has good character, she's very kind and intelligent, I can't afford to lose her because of pressures from my mom at least I'm an adult.

I don't know what's happening, my mom endorsed our relationship but she doesn't endorse our marriage just because she's 5years older than me. The thing is, I can't leave this lady ,not now not ever, she have done so many things for me.

in fact she even promised to provide 80% of the things needed for the marriage!. She is rich, yes she is, the house I'm in living in now belongs to her, I moved in with her in 2016.

The truth is I love her and I can't afford to lose her because of my mom's wish. Both her parents and my dad have given us go ahead for marriage but my mom still doesn't want me to marry because of age and my fiance is beautiful.

I don't know what do now ,that's why I think I need advice from you guys,.I don't know if I should go ahead with the marriage without my mom's endorsement/blessings.

please advice

your mother allow the girl to train u finish now she is saying something else. That is one side.
2. A 24 years old boy in this country is till small considering the fact that you seems not to have ur own money.
It is just injustice to the girl, if not, I and with ur mother. 24 : 29 is not the same thing as 30:35.

Amuroba:
No.
It's called "Respect" for your N!gga,
What do you think the lady is after his Ex friend for? , If not for some stupid (trying to get him jealous) Childish game

she does not have any reason to make him jealous considering the fact that she was the one that left him.

Amuroba:
You are bad friend not because you f×cked your friend EX but because you did that behind his back, a very b!tch as$ act.

You should have told him how his EX is after your d!ck. If he is a real gee, he will let you smash as H0s are meant to be passed around.

is the Ex the owner of the girl.

Ehismarkninetee:
Before you start to judge me, remember that the girl you are sleeping with now is also someone’s Ex. Well I cannot say I am totally in the right for sleeping with my friends Ex girl friend- They broke up 2 years ago.

So coincidentally she rented an apartment close to my house. As I was driving I saw her on the way I offered her a ride and that was how it started. That same evening she called me that she is coming to know my house and I accepted. When she came I noticed she was giving me the green light. I took the opportunity and slept with her so good.

Now she cannot get enough from me. She asked if we could date officially. I told her it will be difficult since she was the one who broke up with my friend. I will not lie to myself I have developed feelings for here. And I think I will give Love a chance.

my concern here is for you. Should incase ur friend do not care about it, can you end up marring her?. You happiness should also be a concern.

3.5m I come for it.