Politics › Re: Stay Away From Kalabari, Dokubo-Asari Warns Tompolo, Soldiers by deavicky(m): 1:58pm On Sep 11, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: FG Detects 54,000 Fraudulent Payroll Entries In IPPIS by deavicky(m): 3:41pm On Sep 10, 2022 |
oluseyiforjesus: Tinubu told us Buhari is coming to fight corruption....... Becos he sold Buhari to Nigeria may he never smell aso rock.... remove the may and replace it with will. |
Family › Re: Help! My Wife Doesn't Want To See My Best Friend In Our Apartment Again by deavicky(m): 3:18pm On Sep 10, 2022 |
Domipraiz: Good evening to you all. I don't know if this is the right place to drop this.
Am a married man. I lived in the same compound with my best friend sister. We Just moved into the neighborhood not too long (11 months ago). My friend's sister is also married with kids.
Let me go straight to the point, ever since we moved into the compound this woman has been disturbing my wife with gossip. She's a full house wife while my wife is running a M.sc programme but due to ASUU strike, she has being at home. This woman will come to my wife and talk bad things about everyone living in the neighborhood including those living in our compound. Most funny thing about her is that once she leave our apartment, she's moving into the next apartment.
My wife and I have studied her very well that most time we try to avoid, ignore or resist her from coming to our house but to no avail. Not that I can't warn her to stop coming but am trying to avoid issues that will arise between me and my friend and also her husband.
She was keeping malice with another woman (Mrs Adelaku) in our compound because the woman ignored her totally as a result of her gossip.
Last two weeks Mrs Adelaku came to our apartment to invite my wife to her brother's wedding and as a result of that she thinks my wife is getting closer to that woman.
Yesterday she came to our house and confronted my wife of gossiping with the other woman (Mrs Adelaku) about her. That when neighbors are trying to settle issues between her and Mrs Adelaku that she quoted my wife. She accused my wife of telling Mrs Adelaku everything she has being telling her. And also tell my wife not to confront Mrs Adelaku.
But my wife went to Mrs Adelaku that same day to confront her but she swear with the bible and everything she has that she never tell her anything related to that. That perphers she and my wife are not a gist partner if not for the wedding invitation that she brought.
With anger, my wife went back to this woman (my friend sister) and tell her what the woman said. She later apologies to my wife that it was a trick. That she just wants to know their discussing that when she came with the wedding I.V she discovered that the woman (Mrs Adelaku) stayed a little bit longer in our apartment.
Ever since my wife has developed so much hatred for her/ her husband and even my friend that she doesn't want to see anyone of them again in our apartment.
Am so sorry for the long story, am not to good in this. Kindly bear with me.
What can I do in this situation? Matured mind please, thanks. when ur wife was enjoying the gossip did she tell ur friend?. She had used her hand to invite trouble and want to rub it on you. Well ur call choose between controlling ur wife or losing your friend. |
Politics › Re: FG Decries Underpayment Of Nigerian Doctors Abroad by deavicky(m): 3:03pm On Sep 10, 2022 |
ijustdey: https://leadership.ng/fg-decries-underpayment-of-nigerian-doctors-abroad/ serve which country exactly? Did government pay their tuition fee?. How many of their children are studying in Nigeria. This useless government does not know that if there is opportunity for everyone to leave this country we will gladly accept, let the government go and drill the crude oil themselves and sale it themselves because they are the once enjoying the money. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Which Of The Two Jobs Should I Go For?? by deavicky(m): 11:31am On Sep 10, 2022 |
chukzyfcbb: Internal runs?
See them. Na Una dem dey give job only the Rob the owner blind.
Person never start job, u don dey encourage am to do runs. What runs if not to take on dubious act that will short-change the owner
After Una go blame APC for all the wrong doings look, let me tell u, anytime u decide to pay ur worker peanut, just have it in mind that some must dey lost for ur office. U check out 40k for 30 days. The runs sometime is not to steal from the hotel but u might have some free rooms to resale.like one guy man weh leave his house carry baby to hotel and must go back home to avoid the wrought of madam. Such rooms can be given out and u keep the money. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Which Of The Two Jobs Should I Go For?? by deavicky(m): 11:14am On Sep 10, 2022 |
Emeka71: I'll suggest that you should take none of the 2 jobs because they don't tally with your career while you should still try to embrace entrepreneurship and pursue your career because your career comes 1st and career achievement shall be a success to you. this is also good. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Which Of The Two Jobs Should I Go For?? by deavicky(m): 11:11am On Sep 10, 2022 |
robinso01: You should not even think twice before accepting the osogbo offer, it gives you a day off and time to yourself than the Ibadan offer, the salary is even heavier than Ibadan offer. Osogbo is more affordable than Ibadan in terms of cost of transport, feeding, etc remember na cleaner he go, go do there oh. Imagine somebody adding cleaner as his job experience as a graduate. 2. As a manager in an hotel no how small small runs no go show up. And it is also a plus to his experience. 3. He will also be having at least 4 to 5 hour rest during his work hour. Just saying maybe u will reconsider ur opinion. |
Romance › Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by deavicky(m): 7:34pm On Sep 09, 2022 |
Chioma4eva: I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria? sometimes it could be that having tested the kuntus they then discovered that it is not what they think it is. |
Romance › Re: Dreadlocks: Two Ladies Rejected Me Because Of This by deavicky(m): 12:45pm On Sep 07, 2022 |
Halimaatz: eyaah.
Let see your pic. you want to see if u are capable of accepting him?.don't worry u won't like him. He stays down my street operating locally thinking that is where the world ends. |
Health › Re: Exodus Of Doctors May Worsen Nigeria’s Poor Health Indices, Says NMA by deavicky(m): 9:03am On Sep 07, 2022 |
Just in a period of 6 months report of doctors leaving the country has come in, in more that 10 different ways. The government is seeing it and yet won't do anything till gets out of hands then they will start looking for who blame. |
Education › Re: End In Sight For ASUU Strike As FG Reviews ‘No-work No-Pay’ Policy by deavicky(m): 8:59am On Sep 07, 2022*. Modified: 12:33pm On Sep 07, 2022 |
You people don't know FG'S problem at the moment. They were busy looting the lectures salary in the name of no work no pay. Right now they don't have their salary anywhere so paying is now a problem. |
Politics › Re: DSS Investigates Video Of Governor Yahaya Bello Threatening To Shoot Any Critic by deavicky(m): 8:42am On Sep 07, 2022 |
Where the video make we the Nairaland investigator follow help DSS investigate am. |
Politics › Re: Is Atiku The Owner Of Tiger Skyscraper Estate In Dubai? - Fact Check by deavicky(m): 9:46pm On Sep 05, 2022 |
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Health › Re: Man Faints, Dies Of Hunger In Calabar by deavicky(m): 1:46pm On Sep 05, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: Tinubu Campaign Group Ask INEC To Disqualify Peter Obi Over Diaspora Funding by deavicky(m): 2:04pm On Sep 04, 2022 |
This Tinubu camp claim is as good as me writing to INEC to disqualify Tinubu for using fake Bishop. |
Literature › Re: Robinson Crusoe: Who Else Remembers This Novel? Indomie Generation Stay Off. by deavicky(m): 4:18pm On Sep 03, 2022 |
Rozross: I don’t like reading novels, aside the ones I was forced to read in secondary school, I’ve never read any since then. Bring science and anything calculation let’s play and see to that. I be my father’s daughter true true lol. ZoneFree indomie generation pikin I’m sure you won’t know anything about this novel who asked you all this things? 1 Like |
Sports › Re: Nigeria May Be Stripped Of Commonwealth Games Gold Medal by deavicky(m): 7:48am On Sep 03, 2022 |
They are just looking for way to discredit Tobi because they know that record will stand for decades with the Africans. |
Travel › Re: Man Attempting To Cross Into Italy By Sea From Libya Changes His Mind (Video) by deavicky(m): 6:44am On Sep 03, 2022 |
UselessBuharist: I’ll just make it brief, I was in my early 20’s, my friends talked me into the journey but I didn’t know they were not travelling with us until the day we left Nigeria.
I didn’t have much information about the journey but because they told me it’s easy and fun I left Nigeria with them.
We were first held by rebels in the desert for 28 days, mind you I left Nigeria Feb 3rd 2009 and I got to Libya in March.
The owner of the uncomplicated building we were living brought the police to arrest us 4 days after I got to the house, some guys were arrested but i and some other guys escaped, we ran into the cemetery and slept there till 6AM.
I found a Nigerian who offered to allow me stay in his house, few days later I told him that I got a connection to cross to Italy and I will be living the following day.
The following morning this guy left the house and locked everyone inside, he returned in the evening with 3 guys, a Ghanian and 2 Nigerians. The moment he entered the house he pointed at me saying this is the boy before I knew what was happening they stated beating me asking me to follow them. I resisted and fought back, the landlord heard the noice, he came knocking so the guys quickly ran away.
The following morning this guy asked me to pay him $300 before he will allow me leave, I said you should have said that instead of bringing people to beat me up. Then I gave him the money and left his house to the camp from where we were to be taken to the sea side.
The same night we were taken to the sea side, when we got there we were ask to sit on the floor and not make noice, about 3 minutes later a small balloon boat came and was taking us 30/30 to the big boat, I was on the 3rd batch, few minutes after I entered the big boat, we saw boats coming towards our direction behold they were coast patrol.
The person that was to sail our boat told everyone that we will all die instead of him to allow the police arrest him then he zoomed off, the police chased our boat till they caught us when we were almost out of Libya territory.
We were arrested and taken to prison on Sunday and we broke the prison on Tuesday and escaped. We were chased all night……. Na long story bro I hope I get to document all that happened on that trip one day. I lost my left eye as a result of the beating I got from the guys that were invited to beat me. it is well. This what a bad leader can cause. We all now have the intention to leave our own father land.ⁿ |
Travel › Re: Man Attempting To Cross Into Italy By Sea From Libya Changes His Mind (Video) by deavicky(m): 6:37am On Sep 03, 2022 |
UselessBuharist: I was arrested and taken to prison on this water in 2009/04/03 hope u are still in prison? |
Politics › Re: Tinubu, Shettima Distancing Themselves From Buhari's Failure - PDP Mocks APC by deavicky(m): 8:00am On Sep 02, 2022 |
What smart move!!!! Who would want to associate with failure |
Politics › Re: Dele Alake: Peter Obi Deceiving Everybody, I Won’t Retract My Statement On Him by deavicky(m): 9:54am On Sep 01, 2022 |
At least OBI said something, what will Tinubu do for Nigeria?. |
Career › Re: What Do You Advise Me To Do? by deavicky(m): 11:33pm On Aug 31, 2022 |
AllKnowing: This’ll be quick. You’ve got a skill, OP; you’ve definitely picked up salient information from your current job and employer over the years. Yes yes, useful knowledge/ information is also a SKILL! I said it!
What do I advise:
1. Armed with 3M you could, starting January, try to replicate a business similar to the company’s where you work. Use only 35% of this 3M as your initial capital. Do not start a business you haven’t apprenticed at. If by June 2023 your business hasn’t got some form of traction, then activate my second suggestion...
2. Leave Nigeria. Avoid the popular pitfall of aiming at USA, or Canada, or UK, or Germany with 2.6M balance. Give Austria or Finland or Norway or France a shot.
Godspeed, Sir! leave Nigeria with 3m?. U better be kidding me that is about 5000 Dollars. |
Career › Re: What Do You Advise Me To Do? by deavicky(m): 11:29pm On Aug 31, 2022 |
DaddyGideon: Good day Nairalanders I've been a regular member in here but I'd decided to open a fresh account for the sake of privacy, and please pardon my typographical errors or probably correct them for me cause I like learning.
So here's the thing, I've been working for someone as a labourer for the past five years in a small private company. A very stressful work and very time consuming that I see no future in it and its affecting my health at the same time causeI always look stressed up, however I've been able to save a little over 3 million within this period of time. But your man is getting old, am 27 and by now I'm supposed to have a sable business of my own I should be doing.
Now am planning to leave the work cause to me it seems like I've wasted all this years cause I don't have any single skill to start with, I have no knowledge of any business to venture into and if I decide to go and start learning handwork it will take me more time, hence my confusion.. So many thought have been going through my mind. if I should relocate, buy a small car and start uber business or if I should look for a way and leave the country, or if I should just venture into business.
Please guys what do you advise me to do find a skill u call learn while u are still on ur laborer job as u call it.uber is good but you can still do better and also employ others. |
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Can Not Win. Concrete Proof. by deavicky(m): 10:39pm On Aug 31, 2022 |
Ebi2233: Threatened by a structureless and strong hold less party shey? 
Igbo know nothing about politics. see where people that know alot about politics has taken us to. I'm sure you don't know that Nigeria is not a country because only where animals dowels will allow all this unnecessary killings, looting breakdown of law and order to strive and become a normal thing. People are being permanently displayed from their home town and made them to stay permanently in IDP camps, people are kidnapped and remain in the hands of the abductors almost forever. Is that the kind of country u ever which to live in?. Let try the peter Obi for once and see if he will help to restore things in this country because we are really in a mess right now. Beside we should also stop seeing this as an Igbo Agenda but an agenda that will change things in this country. I'm sure if another Igbo man with a questionable character comes in, people will not accept him they way they sand for Obi. You too check it out upon all the vibrant people in APC yet they choose Tinubu also same applies to PDP. I must tell u that I personally like PDP but when I see someone whom I believe is better than who PDP presented, I had to make a u-tune. If APC had given us Osinbajo I would have honestly voted him. It will be a sacrilege to see an obvious thing and still chose to go the wrong way. This brings me to asking what exactly do people see in an age man like Tinubu and Atiku. Can't the youth rule Nigeria?. Let all this old fox rest. Retirement age in Nigeria is 65 why giving our sensitive offices to retired people after we will say there in no job in the country meanwhile retired people come back to pick up job that are meant for us. Let's try and be wise and forget sentiment, ethnicity and religion and do the right think for the sake of our children and our beloved country. |
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Can Not Win. Concrete Proof. by deavicky(m): 10:09pm On Aug 31, 2022 |
Ebi2233: Peter Obi I'm sure u don't know that only a foolish man will say he can not change his mind. Even God almighty changes his mind let alone mortal. |
Career › Re: Please Nairalanders, I Need Your Advice. by deavicky(m): 7:21pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Skillsmaster: Good evening all. Forgive my typos. Please I am in a state of confusion right now. I posted here on nairaland last year concerning me starting a teaching job in Abuja. I have been teaching in this school for a year and half now.
My salary is 40k (on appointment letter) but there is always deduction of 10% (4k) every month which they promised to pay all the deductions by end of each session. Till now, they are yet to pay it, giving excuses of no money on ground. But they paid it to those that resigned as far as two months notification is given.
I applied in other schools before the beginning of last term, two among the schools invited me for an interview but I didn't go because of this 10% of a thing. I made up my mind to resign beginning of this term so that I can collect my 10%. Last week, I got another invite from one of those schools I applied. I went and came out successful but their salary is 60k.
I requested for 100k but they said they can only pay 60k. I didn't accept it because of the distance. Early hour of Saturday, I received a message from the school, congratulating me that I have been shortlisted for employment. I was confuse because I didn't agree with the pay. And I will be teaching in primary section.
Assuming they can even pay me 80k, I can forget about the 10% and start another hustle there. (I planned relocating to the area because of distance).
Should I accept this offer and forget about the 10% (72k+) in the school I am now? Or should I talk to them if they can allow me to resume by January so that I can collect my money from this school? Will they accept?
Please house, I need your input on this.
Note: I will go to the school and confirm if they've agreed to increase my pay. Before the invite, I have already made up my mind to tender my resignation letter immediately school resumes. leave that 40k abi 30 job to somewhere better because they will keep holding ur salary to a point where u will be at their mercy. |
Romance › Re: I Mistakenly Got A Friend Pregnant And Now This Is Happening..wat Should I Do??? by deavicky(m): 1:09pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
ccjoe: I haven't been able to sleep since yesterday. I'm a promising young guy and still in school and this girl is my bestie in school. We do it regularly and without condom, I never knew it will end like this. Pls i'm just an orphan and still very young.. I need advice on how to handle this situation now..
##Mature minds only and no insult pls. this kind mistake dey sweet oh |
Romance › Re: Lady Narrates How Her Life Improved After Quitting Prostitution For Paying Less by deavicky(m): 9:07am On Aug 28, 2022*. Modified: 1:07pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Ashawo cheep for there oh 10 pounds around 10k here.why are they travelling that for while it appears more expensive here. |
Politics › Re: INEC Warns Against Campaigns In Churches, Mosques, Violators Risk Imprisonment by deavicky(m): 8:21am On Aug 28, 2022 |
derecho: Wetin concern INEC? they are all thieves supporting bad government and they don't want a positive change. But it will shock them. |
Food › Re: What's The Weirdest Food Combo You've Heard Or Seen? by deavicky(m): 6:12pm On Aug 25, 2022 |
:drinking garri with bread. Sweet potato and better leaf |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Advice: Should She Risk It Or Leave It by deavicky(m): 5:12pm On Aug 23, 2022 |
Mactons: A friend of mine called me that she applied for a job with INTEGRATED VECTOR MANAGEMENT, in Uyo.
Luckily, she was successful but she became sceptical when they asked her to pay #8,500 for the induction fee.
She is worried that why would a company that want to hire her ask her to pay for a T-shirt and materials for her induction training.
Please I would love to know if anyone can verify if they are legit so I can make a decision. don't try it. The moment u try am, they go tell u to send another money so u can do the traing online instead of paying transport to uyo. |
Politics › Re: Arewa Youths Storm NNPC, Demand Termination Of Tompolo’s Surveillance Contract by deavicky(m): 7:40am On Aug 23, 2022 |
saintjimos: Imagine the north trying to interface in south oil
It's the audacity for me , lol you sef check am nah. 30 billion to secure pipeline, you like am like that?. This what weak governance has brought us to. |