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I know that girl, truly she no dey wear pant.

sirdozie1:
Nice

2.4 Milla.

Cyntie55:
There is this guy, we dated for 2 years before he traveled abroad (Italy) 2019. Our relationship was going on well even when he traveled out, we were always calling each other on video calls everyday. I was so faithful to him.

Suddenly (last year March), he started avoiding me. He could go for months before he replies my calls or chats.
Atleast no matter how busy you are, you can always spare 1 minutes of your time with the person you claim you love.

Please note, he's always online, We do video calls mostly on WhatsApp and anytime I try to reach him on video call or send him a message.... it always ring and deliver but he won't pick or reply.

Here are my reasons why I'm so confused whether to move on with my life or not.

1) Although before he started avoiding my calls, he told me he was busy... that he was working on something (but he never disclosed the particular "thing" to me)

2) We were supposed to get married as planned last year August. But this is May 2022 and absolutely nothing is in progress about it.

3)I discussed with his friend about it and he told me he's in a relationships over there. (I don't know if to believe him or not, because he didn't show me proof)

Now, it been a year I'm enduring his character. I feel like I'm stuck alone in this relationship. Heaven knows I haven't offended him in any way. I wish he could open up to me and tell me what I was doing wrong so that I could adjust. OR he should just tell me he's in a relationship so that I could move on.

I plan visiting his elder sister this weekend and explain to her the issue on ground but on a second thought I think I'm too forward. I'm jst confused and I feel hurt.

Cynthia baby we move......

DarlingtonC:
So I have this married neighbour. When I bought my bus, he didn't congratulate me. He just asked me if the bus is mine, and I said yes, and he just walked away.

Now he wants me to lend him the bus to use and pack some of his belongings out of the compound.

If you were in my shoes, would you lend him the bus to use?

because u bought bus you want everybody in the cpd to congratulate you. Even if you are not concern if the Man and his family has eaten.

3milli I pick it up.

At least this one has made us proud no be all those ones weh dey marry their grandmother for what ever reason.

Bahamas95:
Date.


I don't like it, it's too sweet......I find it very difficult to swallow after chewing it.

who ask u if u like am. Please try and resist the urge to talking too much.

doggedfighter:
Some will start meeting him to do same for them.

In these days of kidnapping and insecurity doing this to your car puts you at risk.

na so. This exact how a man will think.

Wetin he do them nah? Even if no snap their wedding pictures we'll is that enough to kill him.

They need to change the coach and all the players in this club.

vastolord4:
What was the ministry of transport and the road safety people doing? Movement should have been halted including announcements should have been made immediately it started

before the news get to them, the storm would have stopped. That stuff doesn't last 10 minutes in Nigeria.

Where is the money?. Because all those this will not foot his bill for one year. Except what I'm seeing is not 1 dollar and 20 dollars bills.

Ballzproblemm:
because they feel this women are ashawo, and will be bringing in men in and out any how

and this can expose the compound to bad men.

Salihusaliheen:
am a guy and first born, though I have male siblings bt they can't try such.mind u

so who's siblings do want to help u with the answers. U can try your cousins or relatives.

snipernigga:
Go to the Catholic or Anglican church

to do what exactly?.

Salihusaliheen:
If I read about a lady being raped,I felt like shedding tears.seriously women are not given the respect they deserved,even in her husband house she is not safe.why we men?

you should ask the male in your family they may have answers.

pozehnani:
This calls for serious concern especially for the female folk as ladies are the ones at the receiving end of this whole cruelty and madness of ritualism that has become the order of the day in our already decaying society.

The rate at which female body parts are being ripped on a daily basis by their supposed boyfriends and lovers leaves me wondering if one can still have a genuine guy/relationship without having to watch your back that he's going rip your organs the next minute.

Right now, its very difficult to agree to date a guy without the fear or thoughts of being used for rituals because the heart of every Young guy/man has been seered with a hot iron and so hardened and desperate to make money at all cost that they wont think twice when presented with an opportunity to do money rituals.

These days if a guy approaches me, I walk as fast my legs can carry me and I'm most tempted to scream "ritualist!!!!
It is that bad.
A guy can not approach you and the next thing on your mind is rituals. Like seriously, its appalling.

Please, with this rising trend of killing and havesting female body parts, is it still advisable to accept guys/ mens advances talk more dating them?. And don't even begin to tell me to go to my religious circle because they are everywhere. Some are disguising as bro in the church. In fact 90% percent of men are desperate to get rich quick therefore can be easily influenced by this evil trend.

What should we single ladies do?
Avoid men totally?

I like my life abeg.

Sad.
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on a second thought girls should start going to village to marry because that is where we were going to get good girls. It's the ladies turn since the guys in the town are no more save for them

obembet:
I tire o...

I don search tire.. but I will join Rev sister soon Sha...

have you try me?. You will love me wella.

The truth is, it all depends on how much u are making. Bear you drink can not run you down except you are always buying for ur friends.

Have they not been doing it without your support? Maybe the people above gives a fucck. but, as for me LALA we don't give a fucck

This is what he has done for in 7 years and u praise him for that. By the way, did he do it with his money?. Are you aware of where he is taking the money from to pursue his presidential ambition?. Kogi state money. Right now he is spreading your money on a goal he cannot achieve.

tonididdy:
Guy that 200k in your acct is better than any stupid investment for now.
Keep the money for acct, go back to where you for husto the 200k and husto another one, put for account and just dey enjoy your life dey go

Don't let NO one deceive you about any stupid investment. Money for hand is 100% better than....

with this mentality, my bro it won't be well with

Threesha:
From DM

there is a game somewhere. She doesn't what someone to know she is married.

Largehead1930:
I’ve been battling with this for years. It seems my head is a big bigger than that of others. I always wear faze caps but people still see my big head.
Please I need motivation o. I don’t know if it’s reason why some babes will give me their phone number and refuse picking my calls afterwards
I can’t even wear Those Hausa caps cos my size no dey there .

It’s really affecting my self esteem

I don't think your head is the problem why girls are not into you, I think u need money.
Do you know shatta bandle. He has girl friend.

kenzysmith:
This is wrong very wrong

But anty my advise next time u get a job try and be servicing who ever incharge

she might be miss leading people imagine she pronounces road as load. How does that speck about the station.

oshadaves:
1m serious buyer
07036860297

sale am to that guy above 800k he try.

When I read the headline I burst into laughter to the extent my kid were asking me why I am laughing. This guy is funny however he is till better that all those thieves buying form for 100million.

Edit the headline I tot he stole.

Na man you be

Why are people dashing him money?. Is that a medium through which they Hammer?.

womenareapess:
and are they both working at the same office presently?

is working together the bone of contention or loving a colleague.

womenareapess:
yes and a big yes!

Is against the rule but most date secretly

you lie.my White friend in Canada married his colleague.