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PlayerMeji:
Oga, you dont have to apologize to anyone, what you wrote is clearly easy for any badger to understand what you meant...

If Jesus can fall asleep, who are we humans to form boss!

Jesus did not sleep in a meeting the comparison is absurd. Nobody is saying Tinubu should not sleep but let him not be sleeping where matters that concerns him is being discussed.
How can he sleep in such place when it seems they don't like him if not why they post picture of him sleeping in a meeting.

PandoraObi:
Jesus Christ slept in the boat when he was tired during the storm on the sea, Jesus Christ is GOD that came to earth in human form, Tinubu is mere human

they tell u say na during meeting Jesus sleep?. You know how many sleep he don sleep before they reach the meeting?. Why you like this Tinubu like this?. Are u not ashamed that he is the best person APC can provide amidst vibrant men like osinbajo and others.

He get luck say no be my relative I for tire for vehicle drive am for express.

Totilopussylick:
If that be the case

The Obedient group are disobedient for refusing to pay for the stadium .

After all they have been doing it with their pockets money.

why will they pay?. They do rally for one place?.

overseasnbeyond:
Take your Obidient stupidity else where, what about the money stolen by your front runner in pandora paper.
sorry for your loss, Obi is going down .

compare the so call money he stole from Pandora to the one Tinubu and Atiku has stolen which is better?.let's go for the smaller thief that will not steal us away.

Why are so afraid of giving us the price. The idea of price is for one to know if it is in the range we can buy. You don't expect one to expose his or her number by calling people any how when u don't know who is who in this country.

830k

Corridon:
We have to obey the laws if we want to progress as a nation. What you can't do in London is what you are doing in Nigeria. We all want a sane country but we don't want to be sane.

if u drive against traffic in London ur car will not be seized and u also imprisoned. For the first time I understand the power of tribalism.

Confused country.

fman:
That is molestation and jungle justice...
Don't advocate such!!

what kind of justice did he give to his mum. If na me I for throw from window.

chuckdelis:
Fine Jersey, no World Cup.

any need to go world Cup just to go participate. Let them stay and keep our mind in peace

OyeofIkoTuN:
Lol....

Nigerians don't have that mind

Suffering and smiling is the motto

wait till all hope is lost there u will see the action of a hopeless man.

spearman:
There is no Nigeria. There is no Southern Nigeria. We are Yoruba Ibo Ijaw Ikwere Isiko etc and so Southern Unity is forever an illussion. Besides Ibos hate Yoruba too much because of envy. Yoruba has sea and culture and stay in their homeland and Ibos are green with envy turned to hate.

I'm not an Igbo man, but I can authoritatively say no Igbo man will envy a yoruba man. For what exactly? Those things u mentioned, the Igbo have them even with crude oil. They are out there because they see business opportunities outside. And mind d u yuroba's are not the major consumers of goods In lagos majority of those goods leaves lagos.

Militant1:
I will try to be brief and straight to the point.

My wife stays up late (11pm -12 am) every blessed day.... That's the problem.

We live in Lagos and have 2kids, 3yo and 8 months. My wife was working before but left the job when she gave birth. There is a job waiting for her when the baby is 1y6mnths, therefore she is a stay at home mom.

We live on the mainland but I work on the island so I live home as early as five. In our house we have all the amenities you can think of; 24 hrs light (NEPA plus inverter), running water, gas, 2 washing machines etc to make a home 95percent comfortable but my wife can't seem to cope and it started when we had one child.

She doesn't wash my clothes, my office shirts and suits are given to dry cleaner to arrange while my other laundry I do myself every weekend with the washing machine.

When I get home by 7pm or 8, that's when she now starts rushing to bath the kids and prepare dinner, so we eat by 9 or 10. Before the kids play play and play, by 11pm we are still awake. Sometimes I go to bed by midnight and have to wake up by 4am to go to work again. It's impacting on my health and my work. She will sleep by 12 am and wake up by 8 or 9am the following day.

I have tried to beg and appeal to her. If I eat out and come home to just sleep, she go dey vex. If I just come home shower and sleep the kids who have passed their bedtime will be playing and when madam is ready to sleep they won't agree to sleep. She will beat them, guess who they will come crying to- daddy that just started sleeping and has to wake by 4am, I will now pet and pet till 2am before kids sleep.. I have advised her that kids have a bedtime(8pm). When I man up and off the tv by 9pm and tell everyone to go to bed, she says I am disrespecting her. She reports me to her mum.

Worse still our sex life is horrible... We have sex like once in 2 month.. At 35 I am in my sex prime and can Bleep everyday but she doesn't seem to care about me because she is always tired am I pity her so I don't demand sex so much.

I fully understand stay at home is not easy and I help her when.

I tried to create a schedule for her.

Wake up by 6am
By 7 she suppose don clean finish
By 8 breakfast should be ready for her, kids
9-10am bath herself and the kids
10-12 do any other stuff in the house
12-3pm rest, watch movies, chill
3-5pm... Do whatever she likes
5pm boil water and bath the kids
6pm she don bathe and bath kids
7pm... Food don done... Everything dey freezer
8pm we eat
By 9 everyone goes to bed and we knack 1hr

I throw the trash every day
Na me dey go market buy foodstuff
On weekends I clean the house
I wash my all my clothes
I provide all the finance in the house
I satisfy her on the bed when we naka. She begs me that she's tired
I buy her gifts, drop 3k for her everyday
Why should we have a house help when she is a stat at home mum (for now)

So what's the problem..


Mothers, are my demands too much?
Mothers, please when do you close your kitchen and go to bed?
Are you still awake by 11pm every blessed day.
Am I crazy?

Please advice me.

I have begged her, pleaded, shouted, done everything. Sometimes I intentionally come home late (10-11pm) thinking that the kids have gone to bed but my first child will be watching cartoon.

Please advice me. I am going crazy, Lagos is stressful

go sale the inverter. Eat ur food from outside, force the kid to sleep by 9 or 10 . Leave her body go tell her.

Ekejoestar:
I highly doubt the authenticity of this story cos

1- she could have claimed she bought it with her money she saved for many years.

2- she could have arrenged with any of her female friend and claim it's an early wedding gift.

3- her family members could have claimed they bought the phone for her, maybe her brother or sister.

4- it's not possible for someone to cancel a wedding because of an iphone, an alpha male would have seized the phone while a simp will call family meeting ( that is if it ever reach the stage)

5- you can never catch a Nigerian girl unless you catch her in the act or with video evidence.

There are many excuses to give even if the girl is dumb.

Pls you guys should stop insulting our collective sensibility on this internet.

And people should stop believing every story they saw online hook line and sinker.

Meanwhile, this is a classical example of " them dey drag me ( like tiger gen) go where I no know" scenerio.

do u know the kind of family she came from or the kind of friends she has 3 she is possibly a broke girl.

SergeantTitus:
Why do nigerians living abroad fail to come back to Nigeria even for Important things like their parents death, burial, brother's wedding etc? I also find it weird some remain there for 15, 20, 30 years without ever visiting home even if na just once.

some of them dey lagos shame no allow them show their beautiful faces as the whole family think say they Yankee.

newbornmacho:
Why don't you guys calm down and watch the video....haba? Context is everything you know

why such header.

ObamaMessi:
May thunder fire the vagina that those troops came out from!


Why would they not go and fight ipob terrorist and afonja skull miners?

this is why many people will keep dieing in ur region.

Chaos14:
Where can i find a church like this in nigeria.
**modified**
thank you all for dropping location i go see una there. Please give me more likes and shares

if try this in Nigeria, the crowd u will entertain may even lead to stampede in ur church. Then u begin to face critics from government and the masses in general.

This is why I always recommend people to go to school and study mathematics very well.
You lost 150k instead of relaxing, u decided to Lose another 5k plus rice worth 6k. Meanwhile simple mathematics would have made him understand that revenge will cost him another 11k making his lost 161k.

LeoDeKing:
Tinubu will never respond to inconsequential olodo seeking his attention.

He can join his ipobs on social media and continue ranting, pim, you no go hear from Tinubu.

Atiku is the only challenger, so he is not bothered by all the cacophony of noise coming from the headquarters of hate, bitterness and aggression.

with ur language control I don't think u are an idioot, but it worries me that anyone with his normal sense would want to allow people that are retired and are supposed to be resting, to come from retirement at their old age to occupy sensitive offices that determine our future and that of our children. Please let not vote because of sentiment but do the right thing. We all are one Nigeria except u don't agree with that.

LeoDeKing:
Tinubu will never respond to inconsequential olodo seeking his attention.

He can join his ipobs on social media and continue ranting, pim, you no go hear from Tinubu.

Atiku is the only challenger, so he is not bothered by all the cacophony of noise coming from the headquarters of hate, bitterness and aggression.

na wa oh. Please I'm confused over the love u people have for Tinubu APC and PDP atiku. From where I stand this people are the set of people that has brought us this back with alot of atrocities bad government and just name it. Or is there something good happening in the country I can not see from where I stand?. Please educate me I really need to see something good that is going on in this country.

Tunjibalogun:
I'm a Catholic but once in a while I get to attend pentecostal churches when invited by colleagues though. So I went to this very well known pentecostal church. I found out the following:

(1) They've now modelled their church into several services just as it is done in the Catholic Church unlike before when they go to church by 7am and return by 2pm

(2) They have the pictures of their daddy GO inside the church just like the Catholics use those of Jesus

(3)They also had ornaments like holy oil just like in the Catholic church

(4) They have communion service just like in the Catholic church. I took their wine and communion though

It seems to me like the essence of the pentecostalism is now been defeated because the pentecostal churches we knew when growing up never had these aspects that resembled the Catholic Church practices. To add to it some pentecostal churches now ordain bishops too which were never existent to them them except to the orthodox churches.

u have been going with the impression all the while.

dyera:
I suspect that the reason he is threatening them to not come close to the pipelines in Rivers state is because he is into oil theft.

Tompolo can't stop any militant in the militant territory. Does he know their creek.

Ofunaofu:
*Says ‘I will collect gun from anybody that flouts warning’





https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/09/stay-away-from-kalabari-dokubo-asari-warns-tompolo-soldiers/

this is exactly what the government is looking for ahead of this election. Fight among the youth if not why will they give pipeline surveillance to one person to oversee the whole creek in Niger delta.

oluseyiforjesus:
Tinubu told us Buhari is coming to fight corruption....... Becos he sold Buhari to Nigeria may he never smell aso rock....

remove the may and replace it with will.

Domipraiz:
Good evening to you all. I don't know if this is the right place to drop this.

Am a married man. I lived in the same compound with my best friend sister. We Just moved into the neighborhood not too long (11 months ago). My friend's sister is also married with kids.

Let me go straight to the point, ever since we moved into the compound this woman has been disturbing my wife with gossip. She's a full house wife while my wife is running a M.sc programme but due to ASUU strike, she has being at home. This woman will come to my wife and talk bad things about everyone living in the neighborhood including those living in our compound. Most funny thing about her is that once she leave our apartment, she's moving into the next apartment.

My wife and I have studied her very well that most time we try to avoid, ignore or resist her from coming to our house but to no avail.
Not that I can't warn her to stop coming but am trying to avoid issues that will arise between me and my friend and also her husband.

She was keeping malice with another woman (Mrs Adelaku) in our compound because the woman ignored her totally as a result of her gossip.

Last two weeks Mrs Adelaku came to our apartment to invite my wife to her brother's wedding and as a result of that she thinks my wife is getting closer to that woman.

Yesterday she came to our house and confronted my wife of gossiping with the other woman (Mrs Adelaku) about her. That when neighbors are trying to settle issues between her and Mrs Adelaku that she quoted my wife. She accused my wife of telling Mrs Adelaku everything she has being telling her. And also tell my wife not to confront Mrs Adelaku.

But my wife went to Mrs Adelaku that same day to confront her but she swear with the bible and everything she has that she never tell her anything related to that. That perphers she and my wife are not a gist partner if not for the wedding invitation that she brought.

With anger, my wife went back to this woman (my friend sister) and tell her what the woman said. She later apologies to my wife that it was a trick. That she just wants to know their discussing that when she came with the wedding I.V she discovered that the woman (Mrs Adelaku) stayed a little bit longer in our apartment.

Ever since my wife has developed so much hatred for her/ her husband and even my friend that she doesn't want to see anyone of them again in our apartment.

Am so sorry for the long story, am not to good in this. Kindly bear with me.

What can I do in this situation? Matured mind please, thanks.

when ur wife was enjoying the gossip did she tell ur friend?. She had used her hand to invite trouble and want to rub it on you. Well ur call choose between controlling ur wife or losing your friend.

ijustdey:
https://leadership.ng/fg-decries-underpayment-of-nigerian-doctors-abroad/

serve which country exactly? Did government pay their tuition fee?. How many of their children are studying in Nigeria.
This useless government does not know that if there is opportunity for everyone to leave this country we will gladly accept, let the government go and drill the crude oil themselves and sale it themselves because they are the once enjoying the money.

chukzyfcbb:
Internal runs?

See them. Na Una dem dey give job only the Rob the owner blind.

Person never start job, u don dey encourage am to do runs. What runs if not to take on dubious act that will short-change the owner

After Una go blame APC for all the wrong doings

look, let me tell u, anytime u decide to pay ur worker peanut, just have it in mind that some must dey lost for ur office. U check out 40k for 30 days.
The runs sometime is not to steal from the hotel but u might have some free rooms to resale.like one guy man weh leave his house carry baby to hotel and must go back home to avoid the wrought of madam. Such rooms can be given out and u keep the money.

Emeka71:
I'll suggest that you should take none of the 2 jobs because they don't tally with your career while you should still try to embrace entrepreneurship and pursue your career because your career comes 1st and career achievement shall be a success to you.

this is also good.

robinso01:
You should not even think twice before accepting the osogbo offer, it gives you a day off and time to yourself than the Ibadan offer, the salary is even heavier than Ibadan offer. Osogbo is more affordable than Ibadan in terms of cost of transport, feeding, etc

remember na cleaner he go, go do there oh. Imagine somebody adding cleaner as his job experience as a graduate.
2. As a manager in an hotel no how small small runs no go show up. And it is also a plus to his experience.
3. He will also be having at least 4 to 5 hour rest during his work hour.
Just saying maybe u will reconsider ur opinion.

Chioma4eva:
I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?

sometimes it could be that having tested the kuntus they then discovered that it is not what they think it is.