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blowjohn:
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What do u think would have justified such a brutal act?
Yes they should
Its we men that are quick to do jungle justice.
Its we men that do most of the rape so what the heck r u saying?
Dont talk from ur Anus abeg.
Nonsense human

You are the one who is a nonsense human being because not all men are rapists and not all rapists are men. BOYS AND MEN DO GET RAPED TOO AND WOMEN INVOLVE THEMSELVES IN JUNGLE JUSTICE! Stop talking like a brainless dolt!

Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,

I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.

After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.

My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.

Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .

Thoughts??

I hope you are not trying to blackmail this guy because fro the psychology of this write-up, it seems to me that you are more concerned about his "stinginess" and may be using his "no vision" life to cover up.

Because the modern day Nigerian lady does not mind if her man is a no vision-no focus man but as long as he spends on her frivolously, they are okay with it.

I stand to be corrected though

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Naija246:
the biggest mistake in my opinion is to even consider marriage

Guys should know that you will enjoy your life far better when you are single than when married.
Being single affords you the luxury of:
-developing new skills
-saving a chunk of what you earn
-it affords you the opportunity to travel more.
-you will age slower(due to less stress)
Etc
The benefits of single life for a man far outweighs the pros of being married.
We men are doing Women a HUGE!! favor by marrying them.

guys, don't let any lady sell you the idea that marriage benefits you.. it's a scam!!
Marriage benefits Women not men!!
Hoard your ring!!

May God bless you with long life and anything you have ever desired in life for this comment! So APT!!

Divine89:
Then at 14 I went to school and lied to my teacher that my uncle was abusing me.

but my uncle had sworn because I made him lost his children for 1yr 9 months that I will never found happiness in my life and I will never enjoy the fruit of my labour which it is true as I am typing this

I once said and keep on saying it that 98% of the claims ladies and women make about them being sexually abused as children or teens is nothing but LIES TO GAIN SYMPATHY AND SEEK FOR UNDUE ATTENTION!

I was once accused by my late mother's caregiver of raping her because i refused to fall to her acts of seduction on me.

I went outside under the full glare of the moon stark naked and cursed her.

Months later, her 3 year old daughter was fatally abused by a boy of 16 and was admitted in the hospital for severe complications from VVF a year later, her 9 year old son died of a strange ailment and now, i heard she is on ARVs as a result of being positive for HIV.

Guys, if any daughter of Eve accuses you of anything you didn't do, curse her naked. That stuff is potent!

They will endure it at home silently but come on social media to like Rant Hq and Nairaland to vent.

Anyway, to answer your question, women love men who hurt them and hurt men who love them.

If you check well now, na her type go dey pamper the man and will spend her last card to celebrate his birthday. Women are the most confused creatures on earth.

Shugavee:
stop cheating, made u write this rubbish?? I pity the woman u involved with , but u see ,, u are not God n if there is only 2 good men in the world one is mine!

If we check now, your man dey even nack your sister behind your back.We know your type! Awon noise-making gang

SCAM VIRUS!

MelaninSkinGirl:
Very cruel man. You will have daughters one day, we need solutions rather than men thinking this is a woman only problem. Society is made up of men and women and both parties should be emotionally, physically and mentally sound for society to thrive and not just survive.

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Then why were you sounding as if men are the demons while women are the victims?

MelaninSkinGirl:
I am sure ladies you can all relate with this, many women all believe that all men are nice but in fact they are shy, sly and slick. Women get carried away and get loved up and think love is true but these men walk all over women

Many women do not look before they leap and end up in deep water. So ladies, guard your heart, play hard to get or you will regret the day you were born when he leaves you for another woman/man because "Good men are like finding a needle in a haystack".

So you think that "playing hard to get will make a man not walk over you?"

Seems you are in kindergarten!

All these pointers you made here are where men fall victim and not the women.

Ladies are approached by over 10 men in a day so they sit back and pick those who can foot their bills without caring whether the guy in question cares about their feelings. Then when another lady with the same mindset who is more endowed comes along and the man feels he has had his fill with you and decides to kick you one corner, you run to social media and cry blue murder like you are doing now.

You ladies deserve the kind of men who treat you like that since you all deliberately go for them over material stuff and ignore the "good guys" who honestly love and care for you.

So please nurse your wounds jejely as a result of the wrong choices you made and leave men out of it.

Thank you!

Blossomfirst:
Woman power! We rule

A woman assaults a man and this is what you have to say? So "Woman power" to you is when a woman hits a man? Shame on you!

virginboy1:
Cultists I fit understand.. But wetin Prostitutes do you?

Prostitutes are filthy! They ply their trade with so much bile and venom like it is the fault of men that they are trading their bodies. They deserve the hottest part of hell!

Iyajelili:
But you are still the one that will call us cheap with low self-esteem.

I for one values a woman who walks up to me to tell me how she feels about me. The oes i call cheap are those lazy ones who go half naked on social media like Badoo or stand by the roadside using their bodies to feed!

Paul8000:
I have apologized to her on my knees all to no avail.

This is where your problem lies! You are behaving like a "Sissy-man".

Man Up and show her you are in charge.

If she doesn't co-operate, divorce her a*se...

if she refuses divorce, "put her to sleep"!

So they actually removed the body from the coffin?

...see how shallow the grave is.

I won't pass Gudu cemetery again

adechi:
Abba kyari didn't just die yesterday.
He has died long before yesterday....

If this virus is what killed him, and the research shows that we need to distance ourselves in anywhere ,no handshake , no close contact....

But this late fellow according to this report here state s here that he was with buhari,osinbajo and the rest,
Now was there any social distance at the time Abba was with all this people ?

And have they all been isolated ,quarantine , or whatever you call it ?

Pls my fellow Nlanders let's see to this

Nigerians will not ponder over this points you raised because THEY ARE ALL GULLIBLE!

Blackfire:
Is that all...


Igbos and chest beating.

At least we have a solid reason to chest beat unlike you with your outdated toyish archaic Autonov1

ElasticStone:
Bro, u be mumu o.

I am buying my mom a brand new Toyota Corolla 2010 by August this year. I cant buy my dad cause I cannot afford to buy him a car better than the one he drives now. Not everybody is hungry and in need of money like u.

#ProudySimp

This guy is already countin his chickens before they hatch!

Chai!...but i thought they said FG is paying for it?

Meanwhile...the person who edited this below won't make heaven

Ebonyi people are the most vicious and most wicked people in the South East

Serves them right! I hate Cultists and Prostitutes with a passion. They deserve to die of starvation

At least the Governor try sef give them Beans with stone to chop. One Area Council chairman here in FCT took 30 bags of rice and beans and disappeared!

The lady you dated gave you HIV and you still went ahead to marry her?

Nigerian men sef

medTechworld:
Don't visit the sin of one lady unto other innocent ladies who are not aware of what went wrong in your previous relationship.

"NO NIGERIAN LADY IS INNOCENT!"

Rule 4 Clause 16 of the Playboys Association Constitution of Nigeria

Na sooooo

Anybody wey die now...na Corona...

No be me una dey tell that one

The more you look the less you see!

COVID-19 in Nigeria na SCAM!

mhiztee15:
Lol calm down I know

Ok o

Hmm...see the thread a guy called Skales opened here

https://www.nairaland.com/5037157/why-prefer-married-women-single#75951297

mhiztee15:
Heart of men are wicked!

May God help us not to open our doors to wicked people

I have noticed that this bible verse seems to be one of the favorite passages of the scripture for women. I hooebyou know that when the bible said "Heart of Men"..?it means both man and woman

DonMekino:
so the lockdown is a reason to steal from ppl? I don't want to sound tribalistic, but these Yoruba dominated areas in Lagos always experience these kinds of organized gang robberies. and the worst is the law enforcement agencies seem powerless against such

Oga...you are not sounding tribal but factual. All those Yoruba youths that know nothing but omonile, owo-mida and agberoism need to eat na. Some of them are even here on Nairaland bashing Igbos for selling Lacadera and gala.

There is lockdown in Abuja for 2 weeks and no single case of harassment or robbery but look at una Eko...
And someone will say Lagos is better than Abuja.