₦airaland Forum

Juliusmalema:
Nobody is responsible for the frustrations in Omoluabi states.

What is your employment status?

I guess flyer designer?

You even elevated him (techmo)...

He seems to be a waiter in one of those local amala joints in ibadan

Geminita1:
For men and women, rape its still 10:1. We know the gender that rapes serially.

Another senseless she-goat talking

Happy989:
I started dating my boyfriend months ago and even before we started dating we've been good friends. He is intelligent, funny, has a great personality and takes good care of me. When he asked me to be his girlfriend I was so happy, because he is such a great guy. My boyfriend is in his final year in the same university that I attend. I'm still in my second year.

There is this guy in my department who is very good looking and also intelligent. He isn't jovial and extroverted like my boyfriend, but he is cool in a very confident and attractive kind of way. We started talking recently and he told me he finds me attractive. I told him that I have a boyfriend and he didn't seem fazed and never talked about the subject of my relationship. He still complimented my body and looks from time to time even though I didn't respond to his compliments in a way that indicated that I was in support of his actions.

During this covid-19 break we began talking more often over the phone and through texts and I always found our conversations interesting. A lot of times we'd talk till midnight. He is very witty and creative with words and I always smile whenever I see his texts or receive his calls.

Few weeks ago we talked about sexual fetishes and I realized we both had similar fetishes. This made him even more interesting because I found myself able to talk about stuff I hadn't talked about with anyone before, not even my boyfriend. This guy is not like anyone I've ever met before. His views on life are very unique and original and his personality is so complex and his sexuality is very intriguing.

The problem now is that I am beginning to develop strong feelings for this guy. When he calls me on the phone I don't wish the call to end. I find myself talking to him for minutes not minding the time. He is beginning to occupy my thoughts a lot and I don't know what to do. I still love my boyfriend but there is something about this guy that just seems to draw me to him.

I don't want to do anything that will break my boyfriend's heart.

You are exhibiting the character that 99.9% of Nigerian ladies exhibit. It's nothing new. Yours is even different (at least it is one guy) although we know you will graduate to 2, then 3 until you get about 6 side d*cks apart from your boyfriend. That is why i always advice my fellow guys to keep multiple girlfriends and not one because ladies of today are never loyal

abike12:
I'm sorry they fed you only pap as a baby and your brain never got a chance to develop. No normal person can type what you just typed up there. Poor thing

At least i was given pap...you fed on the feaces of other kids in the slum where you were birthed! So that makes your head full of sh*t! Now scram!!

Mad man!

Was George Floyd a woman?

ProfDview1:
The school looks like isolation center...

Moreover, can't Igbos afford to contribute money to buy a drone for NAU ni.. This is pathetic


Their product can't offer anytin good to the system..



See what students are doing... Only ass..

While the students in the southwest are doing cultism

STALE!

We are no longer interested.

Many people have started throwing away their face masks already.

COVID-19 in Nigeria is like a youth corper who collected exemption letter and never reported to PPA (Nigeria) and plantoon officers (NCDC) were using him to shine. Now he don collect discharge certificate come go him papa house and you people are still bringing out yeye figures?

Mumu dey worry una!

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abike12:
Your poverty is smelling

Now she is going on clichés

Try another way to annoy me because this one is stale already.

My "poverty" is the wealth of your worthless father who raped you continually as a child to make you think all men are smelly beasts as he is. Divert your frustration to him little girl.

abike12:
Rape apologists aka future rapists will have a field day on nairaland today. With their body odor and smelly mouths, I pity any woman that encounters you people.

Shutup! You Nigerian ladies are horrible set of people! That is how the Pastor of COZA was accused falsely...I WAS ONCE ACCUSED FALSELY...now Peruzzi is being accused falsely! This is one of of thousands of false accusations.

I wonder what it is you people see in accusing men falsely of rape. It seems you ladies get a kick out of it. Nonsense!!

blockgeek69:
It seems every lady is now using this opportunity to hang rape cases on guys that they have been sacretly admiring in the past but somehow he refused to give them the needed attention or even look their way...

If she give you greenlight, you throway face, tomorrow she calls you a rapist just to get back at you... Spits*

Don't mind the horrible female b*stards!!

blowjohn:
Ur a fool. With all the video evidences that abound, how often do u see women start jungle justice?
Who puts the tyre on the victim's neck?
As for the rape did I say all men are rapists or I said that in a society like Nigeria, majority of the rapes perpetrated are by males.
Even back in school guys would plan how they would drug a female and sleep with her.

You are definitely one of these jobless females hiding under male monikers. I ain't got your time cos you ain't worth it

TheEnlightenedO:
Judging by your statement it is very obvious that you and your family have lacked common sense and any sort of sense of value since the days of your great great grand parents...

I am glad and thankful that I can categorically say I have never coerced or forced anyone to have sex with me or physically molested anyone and I pray that no one's child is unfortunate to meet any fellow who does such...

There's other ways, selfhelp and there's sex workers if regular girls aren't forthcoming...

Again, I reinstate that you are a stupid fool and you come from a long line of generational fools and I feel very sorry for your endless list of foolish descendants

Chai!...i really burst your nerve! Go hug a wet transformer!!

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TheEnlightenedO:
This is soooooo wrong! But like every society there's always such psychopaths...

I do have one question however, why didn't she slap him? There's no way she could have endured that for the whole journey, slap the dude, it woumd create enough of a ruckus for the idiot not to do it again or at least warrant a change in seating arrangements.

Women also need to start physically fighting back, when more men see that women physically fight back, it would create enough of a scene to deter them, don't just scream, fight... Also women could buy this mini pocket pepper spray cans or pocket knives.

I have a 5 year old daughter and I am already teaching her that it is inappropriate for ANYONE to come too close or even touch her inappropriately, if you touch her hair, I promise you she would yell and ask why you touching my hair. I intend to teach her how to use pepper spray and a pocket knife.

Dem go do your daughter wetin you do other girls in your youth

Genevieve is quick to condemn all men over rape but is not quick to speak against ANAL SEX which she engaged herself in with a popular politician from the North because of material things! Yeye fish-brained feminist!

blowjohn:
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What do u think would have justified such a brutal act?
Yes they should
Its we men that are quick to do jungle justice.
Its we men that do most of the rape so what the heck r u saying?
Dont talk from ur Anus abeg.
Nonsense human

You are the one who is a nonsense human being because not all men are rapists and not all rapists are men. BOYS AND MEN DO GET RAPED TOO AND WOMEN INVOLVE THEMSELVES IN JUNGLE JUSTICE! Stop talking like a brainless dolt!

Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,

I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.

After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.

My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.

Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .

Thoughts??

I hope you are not trying to blackmail this guy because fro the psychology of this write-up, it seems to me that you are more concerned about his "stinginess" and may be using his "no vision" life to cover up.

Because the modern day Nigerian lady does not mind if her man is a no vision-no focus man but as long as he spends on her frivolously, they are okay with it.

I stand to be corrected though

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Naija246:
the biggest mistake in my opinion is to even consider marriage

Guys should know that you will enjoy your life far better when you are single than when married.
Being single affords you the luxury of:
-developing new skills
-saving a chunk of what you earn
-it affords you the opportunity to travel more.
-you will age slower(due to less stress)
Etc
The benefits of single life for a man far outweighs the pros of being married.
We men are doing Women a HUGE!! favor by marrying them.

guys, don't let any lady sell you the idea that marriage benefits you.. it's a scam!!
Marriage benefits Women not men!!
Hoard your ring!!

May God bless you with long life and anything you have ever desired in life for this comment! So APT!!

Divine89:
Then at 14 I went to school and lied to my teacher that my uncle was abusing me.

but my uncle had sworn because I made him lost his children for 1yr 9 months that I will never found happiness in my life and I will never enjoy the fruit of my labour which it is true as I am typing this

I once said and keep on saying it that 98% of the claims ladies and women make about them being sexually abused as children or teens is nothing but LIES TO GAIN SYMPATHY AND SEEK FOR UNDUE ATTENTION!

I was once accused by my late mother's caregiver of raping her because i refused to fall to her acts of seduction on me.

I went outside under the full glare of the moon stark naked and cursed her.

Months later, her 3 year old daughter was fatally abused by a boy of 16 and was admitted in the hospital for severe complications from VVF a year later, her 9 year old son died of a strange ailment and now, i heard she is on ARVs as a result of being positive for HIV.

Guys, if any daughter of Eve accuses you of anything you didn't do, curse her naked. That stuff is potent!

They will endure it at home silently but come on social media to like Rant Hq and Nairaland to vent.

Anyway, to answer your question, women love men who hurt them and hurt men who love them.

If you check well now, na her type go dey pamper the man and will spend her last card to celebrate his birthday. Women are the most confused creatures on earth.

Shugavee:
stop cheating, made u write this rubbish?? I pity the woman u involved with , but u see ,, u are not God n if there is only 2 good men in the world one is mine!

If we check now, your man dey even nack your sister behind your back.We know your type! Awon noise-making gang

SCAM VIRUS!

MelaninSkinGirl:
Very cruel man. You will have daughters one day, we need solutions rather than men thinking this is a woman only problem. Society is made up of men and women and both parties should be emotionally, physically and mentally sound for society to thrive and not just survive.

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Then why were you sounding as if men are the demons while women are the victims?

MelaninSkinGirl:
I am sure ladies you can all relate with this, many women all believe that all men are nice but in fact they are shy, sly and slick. Women get carried away and get loved up and think love is true but these men walk all over women

Many women do not look before they leap and end up in deep water. So ladies, guard your heart, play hard to get or you will regret the day you were born when he leaves you for another woman/man because "Good men are like finding a needle in a haystack".

So you think that "playing hard to get will make a man not walk over you?"

Seems you are in kindergarten!

All these pointers you made here are where men fall victim and not the women.

Ladies are approached by over 10 men in a day so they sit back and pick those who can foot their bills without caring whether the guy in question cares about their feelings. Then when another lady with the same mindset who is more endowed comes along and the man feels he has had his fill with you and decides to kick you one corner, you run to social media and cry blue murder like you are doing now.

You ladies deserve the kind of men who treat you like that since you all deliberately go for them over material stuff and ignore the "good guys" who honestly love and care for you.

So please nurse your wounds jejely as a result of the wrong choices you made and leave men out of it.

Thank you!

Blossomfirst:
Woman power! We rule

A woman assaults a man and this is what you have to say? So "Woman power" to you is when a woman hits a man? Shame on you!

virginboy1:
Cultists I fit understand.. But wetin Prostitutes do you?

Prostitutes are filthy! They ply their trade with so much bile and venom like it is the fault of men that they are trading their bodies. They deserve the hottest part of hell!

Iyajelili:
But you are still the one that will call us cheap with low self-esteem.

I for one values a woman who walks up to me to tell me how she feels about me. The oes i call cheap are those lazy ones who go half naked on social media like Badoo or stand by the roadside using their bodies to feed!

Paul8000:
I have apologized to her on my knees all to no avail.

This is where your problem lies! You are behaving like a "Sissy-man".

Man Up and show her you are in charge.

If she doesn't co-operate, divorce her a*se...

if she refuses divorce, "put her to sleep"!

So they actually removed the body from the coffin?

...see how shallow the grave is.

I won't pass Gudu cemetery again

adechi:
Abba kyari didn't just die yesterday.
He has died long before yesterday....

If this virus is what killed him, and the research shows that we need to distance ourselves in anywhere ,no handshake , no close contact....

But this late fellow according to this report here state s here that he was with buhari,osinbajo and the rest,
Now was there any social distance at the time Abba was with all this people ?

And have they all been isolated ,quarantine , or whatever you call it ?

Pls my fellow Nlanders let's see to this

Nigerians will not ponder over this points you raised because THEY ARE ALL GULLIBLE!

Blackfire:
Is that all...


Igbos and chest beating.

At least we have a solid reason to chest beat unlike you with your outdated toyish archaic Autonov1