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paxonel:
thanks!

You know, we Africans and our culture and traditions we often make this mistake over and over again. We want to hear and see that things do happen mysteriously but if you take time to investigate you will notice that nothing in this life happens mysteriously.

Everything that has ever happened and will still happen can all be explained

Why do Africans still see white people as God today?
Because, in their society everything are explainable.

A man dies then do an autopsy, investigate and find out how he dies. If there is any foul play fish out the perpetrators.

But in Africa they will say na witch kill am mysteriously, they become afraid and throw the corpse to one side, not willing to do anything about it.

You are a paradox. Intelligent and naive at the same time.

donlittle25:
Them no go beat us lick our blood join in Jesus name. Amen

That was sick man!!! Choi!

Where is Ersan and his Wilder again? Told you'all. The awkward loud mouth is very beatable.

Singing 'When breeze blow fowl nyash go open...'

OP, this is a tough one. Go see a good therapist. Here are possibilities to this.

You are probably soul-tied to your first love. So there is no room for another. This can be deprogrammed and the possibility of you opening up to loving and allowing your husband to love you can be explored.

There are perception problems, negative beliefs and thinking errors that make you act the way you do and discount all his good and exaggerate the bad. This can be rewired.

Lastly, if all these fail then divorce can and should be explored to free each other from this trauma.

If you want to explore this further you can PM me. Best wishes.

ThePianoGuy:
you chill up. Why will someone punish her husband with sex for three years

What will Jesus do? Heal her or give her the solutions to what ails her she is looking for or get off her thread. Can't you hear her silent screams that she needs help? Bloody Pharisees!

healthserve:
She herself placed mental blocks to not love him no matter ehat he does. Thiugh the power to be able to love him is within her. Amongst many other things I'm picking in my own inner truth discerning systems. To avoid wasting my precious counsel is ehy i called her whom she was and told her the right thing to do, to elt the man go. Maturity many times isn't using plenting words thats why i settled fro two this morning

" Witch " and " Divorce ". I hope you get my drift now


She's a useless human being. This one is past redemption. Her soul is dry bitter and narcissistic. Only the Holyspirit can help these kinds. Theraphy and cuddling her with niceties won't. If she came to me for theraphy with this, she's in trouble.


So sometimes i could be detailed other times I'll be abrupt, blunt and instant. As the Holyspirit leads me

Holy Spirit leading you to curse a woman, who feels helpless and hopeless in the face of a problem she is seeking solutions for, and meanly label her with such acerbic words? Chairman check again. Demonic spirits will be more like it.

Thought about this yesterday.

They cheated, that's the bottomline. If they didn't they would not have been able to assemble the type of stars they did and intimidate other teams like they did back then.

If it's true that they really cheated, then this is poetic justice.

youngestgrad:
Guys superb thread you got here, I just started following the NBA religiously in 2019, I took me sometime to understand all the in game rules, player draft, trade and so on, though playing Nba2k11 helps.......sad about my team's position- the Golden State warriors and my brother from another mother Steph curry.

Welcome here bro.

birdman:
Celtics bball is holding Tatum back right now - I think a coaching change is in order to maximize him and Jaylen's potential. They can carry way more offensive load than we are seeing them do on average.

Hmmm, that will be some beastly duo...

Roland17:
Tatum wants all the smoke!!! His star status isn’t a fluke, he is here to stay...
#RIP24

His movement and balance is a joy to watch. Like watching a beautiful dancer move.

steady986:
You people disrespect Westbrook too much in this group.

Guy, watch that video again. He is a very good player, loyal and gives his all with intensity but...

If OKC wins this game it's game over in the series. Final seconds, game is tied and twice you have a chance to win or tie the game and twice Westbrook is given the responsibility and he bricks. Meanwhile you have a cold blooded assassin, the second best player in the league in the person of KD in your team.

To me that's hogwash.

OKC should have been KD's team and Westbrook his 2nd. It should have been made clear. Management got it wrong.

SmooshCHN:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=33Rs8Swa984



Aliondo.. How far? Did you watch this game live?
And the playoff series with OKC up 3-1 that season?
2016 was a crazy year.

Why Westbrook will be the 4th quarter final seconds go-to player for a team that has KD on it beats me. KD stomached a lot of shit in OKC. What disrespect! Nonsense.

Steph baba! Respect!

steady986:
I didn't see the game, but I'm believing that that Mook-PG-Kawhi partnership is bullocks unless Mook comes of the bench. I mean, bringing Morris into the starting lineup pushes PG into the SG position, making him to take (and miss) even more three pointers. They need to sort themselves out...the later the better for us.

Are we not judging these things too soon? There's time to fix the pieces for any serious playoff contender.

Time will tell.

Ozu sibe isi enyi ka nwanne ana.

When a corpse starts smelling the friend that sticks closer than a brother will take his leave.

Find a way to make peace with your family no matter what.

When wisdom is uttered to the wise she quickly wizens up but when the same is spoken to ofeke, the fool, she dives head first into the thick forest.

Wizzz1:
those boys were skillful, confident and smart. Against Columbia we could not play well because our opponents were like giants. The boys instinctly stopped all form of air balls. If those Columbians were not over aged then I beg to differ, our boys were not over aged too. Bone tests were carried out on these players to confirm their age, do you know better than an MRI machine? Abi na you born them?

Smh. I agree with you.

Blatant, callous and shameless cheats.

#Nonsense

Wizzz1:
Such a waste of talent. Names like Isa, Oseni, Azeez, Rabiu and Haruna will never be forgotten by those who watched the 2007 tournament. Too bad they never lived to their full potentials. Those guys are gods compared to our current u17 teams.

Which full potential? When overaged men at their peak are bullying little boys and winning trophies and MVPs it's called wickedness and shortsightedness and should be utterly condemned and never celebrated, period.

SmooshCHN:
Kobe

https://www.instagram.com/p/B8EMNhdhR-m/?igshid=3x0vz2cvy424

This is so endearing. What passion! What family man!

RIP my man

"The media always tried to put us against Kobe but what they don't know was we were doing our best to be respected by Kobe, and be on his level" - Lebron to D. Wade.

Days of sober reflection...

Mamba out and out!

#Respect

Was watching Kobe on CNN Sports last week being interviewed about the racism in Italian football (spent early childhood there) and I was just hailing him black mamba! bahd guy! as he dissected the issues. Little did I know that his days were numbered.

Sad day indeed. I've been hissing and shaking my head intermittently all through today.

RIP great one!

Damn! Kobe just like that? Black Mamba!!! Shit!!

Oh my God!

Rest in Peace mentor!

You had a big impact in my life.

Loved this bro. Made me smile. Nice one.

There may be another perspective to this story. Why would you open multiple fake accounts on Facebook?Why don't you want people to see you on Facebook but like to monitor others? What are you hiding from or running away from all these years? What is the nature of your businesses online and offline? Who are you?

Maybe the reason your wife ran away is deeper than she's letting on? What she says and what she feels may be two different things. Maybe it's a huge trust issue or maybe she doesn't know nor understand you, the guy she married, because of some of your antecedents.

This Facebook chyking story may not be the full story but just be a tip of the iceberg that triggers her to plot her escape.

Nothing personal bro. May be wrong. Just playing devil's advocate and trying to make sense out of this conundrum.

tck2000:
Heavenly Father Thank you for making Nigeria natural disaster free!

Pally, our own natural disasters are humans: politicians, a dysfunctional populace and human resource, cultists, armed robbers, militants, terrorists, pen robbers, drug addicts, yahoo yahoo, yahoo plus, etc.

The result is the same(disastrous) and they are all natural, aren't they?

A305:
If she was truly a prophetess and couldn't foresaw her own betrayal or murder by one of her own. Then, it self contradictory who she really is and what she does for a living.

Only God is all-knowing, every prophet knows only in part.

"For we know in part and we prophesy in part"- 1 Cor 13:9

sassysure:
They are not people shy at all so they can mingle and the best strategists out there so how to make money isn't in the equation.
Former governor of anambra state, Mr Peter obi as an introvert and he is a billionnaire. Dangote is one, some silent billionaires , Bill gate, Prince Charles, Mark, Warren Buffett name them.
They all have one common feature, they talk when the occasion requires it or mingle with the public but they rather love to be left alone to live in their world. Fancy cars, fashions etc, nothing to gossip about them actually.


Some people here are mixing being an introvert and social anxiety disorder together. From what I have read so far, majority have social anxiety disorder and they don't know it.

While it is true that they may have social anxiety disorder, it is also true that they are introverts. Introversion is a spectrum and many kinds of people with differing characteristics are on it. Introverts are predisposed to having mental issues because they internalize their environment or experiences and if those are too negative or traumatic for too long, especially in their childhood or adolescence, they habituate the negative energy.

Depending on the type of family you have, confessing directly might lead to letting all hell loose and a series of events that can prove disastrous. It's not all families that can handle this madness. Like I said in my previous post, unless you are sure your family can handle this, go the indirect route at first - try anonymous tips to the fiance at first and see how things pan out, if it works and the fiance's mind changes towards her, then you can confess. At least they are back together.

Alternatively, go to a church or NGO you respect and that can beg on your behalf or protect you and rehabilitate you if your family proves too difficult. Let them take up this issue for you. Let them beg and negotiate a soft landing for you. You do not have what it takes to handle the fallout of this.

My hunch is that going directly is a bad idea.

Meliian:
So because she got impregnated at a younger age now her life is completely useless? If the said bf had money, you all wouldn't be talking like this. Is the guy the first man to drink, smoke or impregnate outside of marriage? The fact that he's penniless doesn't mean he's entirely useless. What about the part where he acknowledges the child? Doesn't that count for something?

Can't you see the said guy is broken? How will you unbreak him?

Impregnates a teenager, no source of livelihood, drinks and smokes, hangs out with lowlifes, beats up his girl's elder sister for insulting him and arranges street men to threaten the life of her fiance, still unrepentant after she lost her job and has become a mental case.

You've got the characterization of this guy wrong. This is not a good loving but poor guy who impregnated a naive young girl.This is a broken, dysfunctional dangerous but poor guy who is in love with a naive young girl he impregnated.

How can you possibly be positive that something good will come out of this?

To the OP, I know you are naive and have a simple mind so I will not be too harsh on you. Your sister is not perfect and may have made some mistakes with her words and the pain she inflicted on you after you got pregnant, but she loved you and wanted better for you than that boy. She could see that your end will not be good if you continued dating that boy.

My point is your guy is broken and unless heaven intervenes he will break you into smithereens with the passage of time because he can only give you what he has.

"People show you who they are, believe them" - Maya Angelou

Save your sister or she may become a severe mental case or commit suicide. Do what many have advised you to do here. Do it anonymously at first. Save her whatever it takes you.

Dump that boyfriend. He will ruin you. Tell him to sort his life out and change his ways first if he wants to be a part of your life going forward.

My 2 cents

midnighter:
They dont come around easy, but then they are not irreplaceable either.

Personally, I dont understand how a totally fictitious story from a group of strangers could seriously convince your own fiance to dump you. Thats too easy unless OP left out some crucial details.

Anyway she can as well confess but I think the timing is important. Sometimes people just spill everything out to make themselves feel better not minding the consequences or how it will effect the other person.

His life was being threatened by agberos and cultists. Who needs all that danger and complications?

GreetMe:
Dude I know what am saying...use the internet, Iran is like three times the size of Afghanistan, the mountains in the West alone cripples that of Afghanistan

In terms of sheer size of the mountainous region I give it to Iran but in terms of diffculty and sheer ruggedity of the entire geography, Afghanistan is it.

Having said that, like the Talibans,Iran will be difficult to finish off based on the lay, difficulty and sheer extent of their geography.

GreetMe:
Iran is far more mountainous and rugged bro...

Wrong. Check their geography bro.