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EggovinMma:
God bless you, your parents really train you well.God bless your mother more and more.


Truth is, there are many rapists a d potential rapists here on NL.Those who spent so much time defending rapists here have actually molested or try to molest a woman/women before.

Brugo:
Let me state it clearly for the benefit of those who (like you) cannot make inferences from a few paragraphs; I don't support rape.

If you actually believe this emotional outburst of yours is logical then I have no business with you. Now go back and read my initial comments with my disclaimer in mind.

Brugo:
Girl dresses scantily to visit a guy who is sexually active. They get cuddly and start kissing and touching then she says no when he makes further moves to take off her clothes. Not all guys have the will to stop when the process has been initiated.

Ladies if you don't want to get raped, stop setting yourselves up. Don't get to the point of heavy petting then pull away. You may be dealing with a guy who has little control when aroused. You can't put hot coal on your lap and hope it won't burn you.

Brugo:
Lol. I will ignore your feeble attempt at goading me. You were begging the question. I only showed you how "simple" your argument was. Why do you bother with clothes? Why the need for any sense of propriety?

Cause and effect applies in the context which I discussed earlier. Forèplay like the term implies is the precursor to a more intimate experience. Why would you dress like a stripper and initiate or engage in heavy petting and stop halfway then claim you were raped afterwards? Had you not expressed consent already?

My dear you had it coming and you must share in the blame. Note the word "share".

Beremx:
Someone said he's not Igbo and he's been attacked. Can you blame Sunday Oliseh for denying being Igbo?


I am yet to see any Igbo speaking Deltan admitting they are Igbos.

safarigirl:
sorry, I grew up with men so forgive me if my posts have mannish tendencies, like gutter language once in a while.

If you detect anger in my post, you're reading my post wrong. Using curse words does not always translate to anger. And please, i'm not fighting or trying to defend women. A lot of people mistake my posts for such, I would sooner defend men.

safarigirl:
lol....stop feeling like you started something.

I started writing this thread in the afternoon, but couldn't fi ish it due to otherr engagements. Just posted it this evening, but it's been on my mind for a long time. The Malia Obama mumu thread triggered me to write it.

The daftness of Naija men should be legendary. Last year, a thread of Malia surfaced in a crop top and she was slammed, today that dude brought her as a 'role model' to Naija girls for 'simplicity and modesty'....just cuz she was wearing a dress you can't pass through my school gate in.

Btw, dunno how naija girls are the hoes when yankeee babes start kpanshing at 14 and have gullies for va+ginas before 20

jojotemitopaz:
read your recent history properly....read on the history of the crusaders and the roles of the pope in some european nations...bros violence was key.

Reiyvinn:
Self-deceit. Killing exists in both books (even more in the Bible!). The only diff is the followers of one are gradually accepting modernized civilization while the other won't just let go off their stone-agedness. I no mention names oh!

Sleekyshuga:
Hmmmm... This Biafra thing, I so hate..
Dunno when we Igbos will learn..

Phewwwwww... God punish anyone that tunes to the FM around me .

barcanista:
The story get K-leg

nickibarb:
Please help me. I'm drowning.

First, don't panic. Look up, look around for a strong branch to hold on to. Don't let it go lest u drown. Use it as ur anchor. God? A friend? A counsellor? A pastor?

I am feeling very depressed right now.

I am so heartbroken, I don't know what to do. I feel like I gave my marriage my all, I followed all the rules of a good wife, I read books, i don't know what I could have done differently.

Your problem now is that u feel stuck. Step out of ur rut. You are smart. You have options. 1001 of them. Think about this. Let the freedom of knowing this wash over u this minute.

I wanted to die to get away from my life, but now I didn't die, i'm happy he came home in time to rescue me.

You are stronger than u think u are. Reach deeper into u NOW.

This man has made me CRAZY.

Nobody can make u crazy without your permission. Quit the victim talk. Take back your power. Run things hence. Have a showdown talk with your husband. Let him know how much u hurt. Then draw boundaries in your marriage. Let him know which lines are no-go areas and be strong enough to mete out consequences when he steps out of agreed lines.

I feel like God has allowed a trial too great for me to handle to come my way. I feel like he over-rated my strength. I am just 27. Isn't it too soon for me to face this kind of life challenge?

Life challenges are life lessons. If u pass this test, u will be promoted and happy. If u fail it, misery may dine with u.

And yes. Pray. The word works.

SAMBARRY:
you too check yourself alagbere!




Let me even ask why is it so hard to keep it inside your pants. Is that tail so difficult to be controlled?



God gave us a brain for a reason. If she can't use it to bad. Is it news that if you live an opportunity you'll be taken advantage of especially when he don see say you meek

SAMBARRY:
Ahen as I was saying you said you want to commit suicide
there're many ways to die but let me give you theffastest one. Lock all the windows and doors in the middle of the night let's say like 2am so that it won't be easy for anyone to come to your aid then when your husband is asleep pour fuel all over the floor then set the house ablaze. When you and your husband die you people can continue your relationship in hell. He no go see anybody to cheat with
next

pazienza:
Often times people give so many interpretations to Ojukwu actions and his ultimate desire to establish a new country for the Eastern region and possibly a new one for the Midwest, while absorbing Anioma into Biafra, for that was the ultimate goal.

Often time, these interpretations are made through a bias prism and innate Igbophobia from Nigerians.

On that note, I find Nyerere's non bias, humanist and pan African take on Biafra so
refreshing and interesting.

Gboliwe:
Ben Bruce has been in the news too often recently. Can someone please ask him to shut up!

Talk less and act more, that should be his/their motto. I hate noisemakers. Even though I used to crush on him as a very small girl, he shouldn't make me start skipping any news with his name in it.

babyosisi:
They look like two different stories
I won't discountenance the other until he denies it
The above is from harvard uni
His tribal rants were probably not reported because they saw it at stupid and not newsworthy

Daninya11:
His positioning can make up for that deficit... Lolxxxxx

Daninya11:
Real Madrid are looking for a Defensive Holding Midfielder in the mould of Makalele..
Carlos Ancelloti sees Mikel as a player who can fit in..
Even if it were a rumour , it shows that Mikel is a fantastic player for Real Madrid to even show interest in Mikel.
Carlos Ancelloti no be Keshi oo. He absolutely knows what he wants and if Mikel fits into his plan, what else? He signs him in..
For those saying that he will be benched, please can you see the future?? Every players had his qualities, if Mikel has the qualities that Carlos Ancelloti is looking for, he will get to play..
We all know that Mourinho is sentimental, he can bench a player for no just cause..
I greatly believe in the potential of John Obi Mikel. He had always been a fantastic player, I believe Carlos Ancelloti will use him to his Optimum..

Mynd44:
On page 102, there is a charge of N0.24 on each litre of DPK going into the private pockets of someone or some people.

teeowl:
It pisses me off when Igbos look at the Biafran campaign with pride!

* Look guys, [size=14pt]Ojukwu was a bloody bastard![/size]

* His singular actions lead to death of over 1 million Igbo civilians.

* He killed his own high ranking soldiers because they were Negotiating a deal with the British to surrender to Nigeria - because they wanted to prevent the incoming civilian deaths that they for-saw.

* Innocent Igbo men and women that were NOT in support of the war died.

* Biafran soldiers that were NOT previously in the Nigerian Army suffered for the rest of their lives... amputated arms and legs and all.

* [size=14pt]Ojukwu ran like a coward to Ivory Coast[/size]... why did the brave "Igbo" leader NOT fight and die with his soldiers like King Leonidas of Sparta?

* A lot of Igbo civilians wanted a diplomatic solution to the tension that was happening after the first ever coup (the Igbo Majors coup) in Nigeria.

* I remember an Igbo man (during my IT) who told me that his father (he was NEVER in support of the war - he had too much to lose) was a palm kernel farmer and exporter and lost ALL his money that he buried in their palm kernel farm, simply because the currency was changed and during the war they could not go and change the money in a bank outside the Eastern region.

* If you objectively look at the origin of the problem and Ojukwu's action, you would know that Biafra was a mistake and Ojukwu's ambition and stupidity caused the death of Innocent Igbo babies, children, women and men that had no say in whether they wanted war or not

* Did Ojukwu consult with the whole Eastern region and Igbo nation before he decided to secede and declare war? NO NO NO... the bastard (Ojukwu) did not... it was not all the Igbo's and South easterners that were in support of the war!

* Igbos, please stop hailing/praising the Biafra war or Ojukwu... PLEASE!

* Some mother fvckers would be shouting war as if war is a beautiful thing.... have you seen your friend or brother die in front of you because of a knife wound? Multiply the pain by a million times, then you get the feeling of what war can do to you!

* Do you know what it feels like to see your own baby die in your presence? Answer me... f00lish Ojukwu and Biafra worshipers! Thousands of Igbo mothers saw their babies and children die in their very presence!

handsomenairala:
Pls, I want you to clarify a point here before the whole thread turn to tribal war.

Why is it that Igbos always deal with Issues from what was done to them as people but not what they Igbos have done to others? Life is all about Igbos bro.

If Igbos could address this, half of Igbos problem with others is half solved my friend.

I m yet to see an Igbo man that is interested in what happened prior to Pogrom in the North.

I am yet to see an Igbo man who is interested in how Northern, western and middle belt leaders were callously killed and maimed.

I m yet to see an Igbo man to address why Aguiyi Ironsi singlehandedly destroyed our well maintained regional system of government.

I m yet to see an Igbo man to address why Igbo formed political alliance with the Northern Oligarchy twice and at the detriment of southern part of the country.

My friend, if someone has done one of these to Igbo people, what would have been your view today?

Ymodulus:
Sir am sorry to say but you are the biased one here. You should see I stated clearly , my issue with the article. The oba's action have come and go and without doubt he has cleared the air. That aside.

But for a lady coming to spew lies about how her people were murthered for a wrong reason of which will all know ain't true is condemnable. And as such I believe to the bottom of my heart I am not biased but have treated this issue the right way