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ComputipsTechDe:
I once witness this such thing where the lady refuse to leave. In the end it resulted to serious fight with serious injuries before the lady left... Good luck.

Please could you elaborate?

As someone above mentioned, you may think you're helping but you're just implicating yourself. That woman has the option to leave but she opts to stay, don't be surprised if both of them antagonise you if you attempt to 'defend' her from that man.

https://www.nairaland.com/7263645/wild-wicked-worrisome-ways-women

Uptheante:
This post is excellent
In addition, I believe that every woman has a soft spot for her son, brother, dad, uncle & other close male relatives.
Her herd mentality in attacking a man deemed offensive by her fellow women doesn't come to play if the man is her son, dad, brother etc.
In this scenario, she will rather defend such a man against her fellow women no matter what.
So, women's herd mentality have limits.

Yeah there are limits but even with close male relatives she may still instinctively stand with the herd in certain circumstances.

One might not agree with "All women are like that" but one should understand that a hive mind cannot work with individuals of (radically) different or opposing ways of thinking. A hive mind can only work with individuals of very similar or identical ways of reasoning. Independently, they're weak but together as a hive (or herd) they can attack with numbers and defend their own (even when doing so is deemed illogical).

Below is a 62 second video giving an example of the hive mind. Notice how the women projected themselves onto the offended female, became offended themselves and then "herded up".


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ph8ZXK57k7s

But probably the biggest difference between the herd mentality/hive mind of women from animals in the wild, is that the chaotic nature of human females inhibits them from achieving the productive harmony like that of bees for example.

"Women understand women and they hate each other."

Their symbiotic "harmony" solely comes from banding together to conquer or attack men. Shortly after achieving this, they'll return to their default states of innuendo, gossip and possibly envy/unhealthy competition with one another.

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If one were to ask what women would bring to a relationship besides sex, one would hear 'love and support'.

Well, it's already established that women love opportunistically, so what about support?

"When a man is supported by his wife, there is sure to be anger, arrogance, and humiliation."
- (Sirach) Ecclesiasticus 25:22

"A woman can never be in a relationship that doesn't benefit her" so if she's not being provided for then she's not benefitting, and if she's not benefitting then she has no use for him, hence the contempt she'll have for him.
A man can provide for his woman for years without much of a beep, but should the dynamics switch, perhaps due to an unfortunate financial situation, disrespect and disdain is not far behind even if she retains the position of breadwinner temporarily.

"When a woman earns more money than her man, she turns it into a knife to stab his ego."

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In the beginning, Genesis, everything took a left turn with Eve, the progenitor of chaos/disorder. Okay maybe it's just a coincidence, so let's forward to the end, Revelations, there will be a dragon with 7 heads and 10 horns whose goal is to destroy nations, but wait! What's that on the dragon? A woman adorned in pearls with scarlet and purple fabrics? What's her deal? Of course, her goal is specifically to destroy men: kings. Figures..

The Bible is littered with instances of female nature when said nature is not being suppressed, be it the vindictiveness and false accusations of Potiphar's wife (Zuleikha), woman's almost uncanny ability to weaken man's mind and masculinity the longer she's with him (King Solomon with his wives), shit tests and treachery (Delilah with Samson), rebellious/stubbornness (Eve/Lot's wife), preference for shamelessness & amorality over virtue, honor & integrity (Jezebel [in her last moment she literally belonged to the street] ) or several verses from Proverbs. One does not need to be a christian to see the message.

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Heck, here's a few more:

For long-term relationships, men seek women for love; women seek men for benefits/survival.

Men can thrive in solitude; women fear loneliness.

Men are attracted to the ideal of purely peaceful and loving women; women are attracted to toxic/narcissistic and unloving men (Now one might be wondering.. "if one wants women why not give them what they want and be toxic?" Well, you see "You cannot sacrifice character for joyfulness without ultimately destroying happiness" - Book of Pook)

Men are likely to get emotionally detached after sex; women are likely to get emotionally attached after sex.

Men often require peace of mind to function properly; women require drama (because of this, if their man isn't a source of drama they themselves will become the source of drama. Drama must be present to avoid "boredom" )

Men do not need the attention of women to optimally function*; women need the attention of men to do so
("It has been said that if a female goes seventy-two (72) hours without any attention that she will become suicidal; that is how vital and important (male) attention is to females; attention is their lifeline." -Rosemund P. Cherubin)
*This might be an exception for codependent men.

Men are raised to be selfless and sacrificant (for the betterment of society); women are raised to be solipsistic and self-serving (for the betterment of others, lol)

Because of this polarity of men and women, there really isn't any common ground for both.
A lifelong union between two individuals with little to no common ground.. sounds like a nest for peace of mind and tranquillity. What could possibly go wrong?

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To get started we need to see how men and women are not just different but polar opposites, so here are a few examples of the polarity between men and women:

Men are order; women are chaos.

Men must grow to have value; women don't need to grow to have value (wonder why they hate men who have standards..)

To upset a man tell him a lie; to upset a woman tell her the truth.

Men marry hoping she'll stay the same; women marry hoping she'll change him.

Men bottle up their problems/emotions so women don't use it against them; women offload their problems/emotions to men to relieve themselves.

Men are overt; women are covert (Side Note: often will one see/hear a statement that conflates female nature with human nature. One should probably ask themselves.. if one had to choose between an overt affliction often seen from a mile away and covert affliction mostly seen when the damage is [being] done, which would one prefer to deal with?)

Men tend to attack physically (unlikely against women); women tend to attack verbally/emotionally (against men with reckless abandon).

Men aim to conquer worlds; women aim to conquer men.

A man's test in life is women; a woman's test in life is material things.

Man wants what he doesn't have; woman wants what she can't have (Eve - apple).

Men put their happiness after women; women put their happiness before men.

Men love women unconditionally; women "love" men opportunistically.

Men have strong sympathy and pity for women; women hardly have sympathy or pity for men.

It's very likely for a man to stand by a woman who has done good for him in the past (https://www.nairaland.com/7166252/wahala-chaos-female-nature#113575657); it's very unlikely for a woman to stand by a man who has done good for her in the past
("Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.
Even though a woman has accrued past benefits from her relationship with a man, this is no guarantee of her continuing the relationship with him." [Translation: What have you done for me lately?]
- Robert Briffault, Briffault's Law)

Hmm..

Huh...

Sha, tis well

MadarasBlade:
If you had died, she would have still followed her husband home.

Be careful next time.

Nothing concerns you, if they want to kill themselves, then so be it.

It has been deeply instilled in most men to put chivalry above their own wellbeing.

I remember a post I read where a girl ran up to a guy she knew at a campus atm and said that some other dude hit her, baba went to beat up the dude only to later find out that the girl told him a one-sided incomplete story (she even left as the guy was busy beating the dude), he let the dude run away then some bystander informed him of the full story that the girl was in the wrong and that guy ran to go and gather his cult boys. The dude he beat came back with some boys and inquiring about the guy. Na so baba begin dey live like fugitive till he graduated and left the school.

Peaceyw:
We should be very careful with women, and we should try as much as possible not to help them. And even if we help them, it should be strangers so as not to put ourselves into trouble. With what I experienced yesterday, I can never believe anything a woman says except if it will save my life. Women are nasty.

You could share your experience for others to learn.

Demigod22:
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When I broke up with her, she begged, cried, send her friends, coursemates, even her elder sister, she reported me to a lecturer. When she realized that I won't change my mind, she wanted to fight me one night, I pushed her away, she reported to her father that one cult guy beat her, her father contacted police and school security, her uncle brought vigilante, her crush brought school man o war and some cult guys. School was a living hell for me and unbearable. She laid rape allegation on me, reported me in the church, everything was just going the wrong way for me. IF I CAN'T HAVE YOU NO GIRL WILL is her last message to me.

Op, from experience, sit that girl down and talk sense into her, take charge of that relationship, she is checking your phone and suspecting you, how far do you suspect or check her phone? If she doesn't listen, for the sake of peace of mind and your life, flee from such unhealthy and toxic relationship.

Every relationship should be built on trust, respect and love, if she can't trust nor respect you then the relationship ain't worth it.

Anything that cost you your peace of mind is too expensive.

Did she get tired and give up? Because these individuals would much rather lay in wait than give up.

I just thought within my self that I wasn't gonna be used for suya by irresponsible and degenerates whose lives and future had been harzaded and wrecked. Heck these guys were gone past redemption. I doubt their mothers would weep over their dead bodies. I'm pretty sure their mothers had laid curses on them, regretted not aborting them. Their fathers drunk and useless, old beggars. Probably dead.

Comrade, so you get mouth like this?

Ade4dayo70:
"A candidate for this exam should have at least six months of hands-on experience administering Azure, along with a strong understanding of core Azure services, Azure workloads, security, and governance. In addition, this role should have experience using PowerShell, Azure CLI, Azure portal, and Azure Resource Manager templates."

I see. Thank you, I really appreciate.

Ade4dayo70:
Morning chief. Well, those aforementioned tools are needed for a successful cloud computing career.

If you don't mind me asking, how long did it take to get from start to cert. ?

Hmm

Ade4dayo70:
Greetings chief,

I recently finished a course in Microsoft Azure (AZ 104) with certification.

Kindly help me with an internship at any tech company in Lagos.

Boss good evening. Please what's the roadmap you used to finish the course, like did you learn python and linux?

sanity12:
Yea, Applied for Petrol attendant den and I got d job

Now a Cloud Computing Engineer
Life is in Stages

All will be well in Jesus Name

Good evening sir.

I saw your comment and it caught my eye as I'm currently studying to become a cloud engineer though I'm having some issues. Do you mind if I pick your brain a little?

Ballzproblemm:
then ignore them now! nawao is not that hard in fact it will sweet me if I see say person body they pepper am because of me that means you are leaving rent free in their head ,mind your business, ignore go about your business enter house. great necessary people finish

@ Op:
https://www.nairaland.com/7166252/wahala-chaos-female-nature

Evolutionlove

Hmm