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I don't know if it was, I couldn't get that from the video. She said she was raped twice and she told her parents, her brother wanted to kill him and church people interfered. The pastor came to beg her parents. Sorry, why ask if the rape was forceful?

Penisinpenisout:
Was it forceful rape? I haven't watched the video yet.

Do all human beings behave alike? That's a very simple thing that every rational human being knows. Even siblings in the same family do no act alike. Humans vary in their response to threats or events. If you are going to base the reaction of hundreds of thousands of diverse rape victims with varying backgrounds on the actions of ONE nine year old, yea your thread does not make sense and it also lacks logic.

GraGra247:
My thread doesn't make sense with reference to a 9 year old and your defense for a fully matured knowledgeable 17 year old makes any sense.

Common sense is dead. Logic has been banished. I speak to you no more on this matter.

Enjoy your day

Sorry your thread doesn't make sense you are using your brave 9 year old bless her heart as a standard on how victims of rape should react. When you know human beings don't react to situations the same way. Your 9 year old is an outlier not the norm.

GraGra247:
I just opened another thread that answers your question

https://www.nairaland.com/5272110/sister-9-yrs-old-promptly#79779245

My 9 years old sister reported an attempted rape the very next day. I've also witnessed many underaged girls report rape and alarm was raised.

There is no acceptable excuse for a 17 year old not to report rape when a 9 year old can report it the very next day.

Well it's easier to prove your car was stolen than a rape occurred and people are more inclined to believe you and actually feel sorry for you. Most times a rape victim in Nigeria doesn't have such luxuries. A crime where a man can just say the sex was consensual, her words against his, she is accused of lying trying to bring a man down and she is shamed and ridiculed. It's less traumatizing for a rape victim to just keep quiet, put the event behind her and try as much as possible to move on with her life.

ubunja:
if someone steal my car today why would I wait 10 years to report it??

You should also read my comment, I said the environment in Nigeria is NOT conducive for rape victims to boldly come out. Often times it's hard to prove rape, when the guy can just say it was consensual. Usually her word against his, when she does she is NOT BELIEVED, she is ridiculed and stigmatized. Sometimes even parents of the victim will tell her to keep quiet so as not to destroy her reputation. So tell me how a young girl can be brave enough to report a rape in Nigeria, when she will be shamed? Look at NL when a recent rape story is reported, check out the comments.

Go ask the women in your life you would be surprised at how many sexual improprieties that they have brushed off while growing up.

GraGra247:
Pls read again what I wrote. Its in simple English. If a lady within the age of accountability is raped, she should report it at once. She has no business keeping it till 10 years or 20 years after.

It sends the wrong message... especially to people that still have working brains.

So you without a brain to use, thinks it makes sense for there to be much energy on a minuscule event rather than an event that occurs often. I would have told you to use you brain but alas! you don't have one.

Businessman1986:
Miniscule"" means some INNOCENTS were punished for a crime not committed. Use your brain.

yea, she wholly deserves every sentence!! she ruins it for honest and hardworking Nigerians.

So based on what happened today with people saying a married woman with kids that has everything to lose is lying. Tell me why/how do you think rape victims will be brave enough to come out and report their rapists? No be Naija we dey again, where every woman above the age of 12 is lying on a man to be bring him down.

GraGra247:
As stupid as the Op sounds, I agree with him to a certain degree.

If you are raped within the age of which the victim has sound knowledge of what rape actually is and refuse to expose or report it within one year of the ordeal, please the fellow should carry his/her cross and stop disturbing everyone.

16 years and above is certainly an age where victims have sound knowledge of what rape implies.

You old man without sense if you know what's good for you, you SHUT UP!!

DamonSalvatore:
young lady... IF YOU KNOW WHAT IS GOOD FOR YOU... SHUT UP!!!

NO, you shut up!!! you are the dumb human being that thinks all rape victims have gone through an abortion. How daft is that? statistically, you should know that is not even possible. After you people will say women have fish brain, when common logic you men can not even apply.

DamonSalvatore:
SHUT UP

You are a very foolish human being. So all rape victims have gone through abortion abi? Ode.

olsome:
Please you that killed young children, cried in secret and begged God to forgive you; now, must you kill someone that raped a person ten years ago? Please do we still go to church? Even people who lost family members in crisis have moved on; but why can't people forgive old time rape....You call it trauma? Pls rape is evil and forgivable. If you can't judge someone now, don't judge him ten years later...

How can only God know the truth? When there were two of God's creation there when it happened.

FAMILYJA:
Any sane Nigerian should stay neutral as far as the whole drama is concerned. Only God knows the truth. So do not support or stand against.

Or because she is a woman so she knows how most women in Nigeria stay silent on sexual impropriety so as not to cause 'trouble'. Ask all the women in your life if they have ever had any sexual impropriety. It's more common than you think. I wish you can live like a Nigerian woman for one minute. While some women lie on men about being raped, the percentage is so minuscule compared to real rape victims.

IamD18:
She's a lady. So I don't expect her to be logical and sensible in cases like this.

bukatyne is this you?!!!

That's true, I probably shouldn't.

Dshocker:
I don't think you should have generalized all Nigerian men as same!

lol I didn't mean working with their husbands literally. I meant have a job/career independent of their husband and their husbands are still supportive of them.

Ijawwomaninoyo:
You said working with their supporting husbands.
WORKING WITH not WORKING OUTSIDE. You can only work WITH a man who has his own business.
I know them personally, and the men said so. That they can't allow men to be tossing their wives around.
I know one that even beats when the woman comes late and asked her to stop the work. He will be shouting at the top of his voice and smelling her for semen.
You and I know a lot of women face harassment at their places of work, a lot of married women cooperate to save their jobs and other personal reasons.

AntiBrutus:
That was a question though

When is your mother expiring?
Or has she expired?

AntiBrutus:
When your mama go expire
Abi she done expire and your papa dey chop expired food? O ma se o

Perfect!!! Our society really did a number on our men. Why deprive yourself of a second income? If you can't trust your wife to earn an income without fvucking, maybe you shouldn't marry her.

ogbonti:
Not allowing your wife to work is a symptom of lack of exposure. If I were a lady, I won't marry a man who has lived all his life in Nigeria. He must be based abroad (west) or at least lived there before relocating back to Nigeria. Not just 2 weeks visit to the west and start posting pictures on instagram. I mean "lived there"

No man who lived/living in the west will deny a woman certain rights, one of such is "right to work because the bills will cure you of your ego"

This is absolutely NOT true. Where did you pull your facts from? There are MANY beautiful wives still working with very supportive husbands. Why even marry someone you can't trust?

Ijawwomaninoyo:
Most men with beautiful wives don't always allow them to work so as not to be mingling with men because they know what they do women t their places of work.

Probably not true, he is a narcissist he probably put the story out there to taunt his recent ex who is now pregnant for another dude. Since he never gave the ex the ring she longed for.

Yeah you wish I would avoid you so you wouldn't get disgraced and exposed as you were on this thread, sorry no such luck. You make it easy though because you are a dunce. Always know your stuff before you come for people. Dunce.

crackhaus:


Coming from the pea-brained nitwit who got in on a comment that was directed at me just to get in on the action, this is quite ironic - or have you begun developing short memory too?
We wouldn't be doing all this if you had just read & pass. But now you're crying too, just like your friend...

If you want to avoid being psychologically manipulated, the next time you see my moniker on a thread, you will think twice before quoting me or making any remark towards me on another comment, you idle twerp with multiple handles & personalities.

WTF? Those are the ravings of a mad man, you are beginning to lose it and sound rabid. If you like quote in Klingon, you are still a dingbat. It was fun watching you unravel. All this wouldn't have happened if you had just admitted you were ignorant, next time know your sh!t before you come for someone. Dunce.

crackhaus:


Now you're crying..quoting the same comment multiple times to type different things all because your mind is haywire and desperately went, "oh no that isn't enough to hurt him, let me add this next one"

You're just letting me and all who care know that I have your nerves morbidly exposed, your life's blood dripping down your eyes, your every emotion & reaction under my control and manipulations.
You are my puppet and you will move in any direction I damn well please.

You even said I'm blowing up your mentions, when you're the one who just gave me three in response to one of mine. Same thing you did last night.. Ain't you just a Monkey...
I own you little girl.

Indeed as Julius Caesar proclaimed, "Veni, Vidi, Vici"

Don't worry, try using Google to get the interpretation of that. It's the ONLY way a half-literate like you ever gets to learn & glory in anything new, even if it's false information.

I see you are still in denial, you are certifiable.

Are you not a burnt charcoal by your Nigerian mother?

LearnITsmash:
Take a good look at these beautiful kids, if na Nigerian women born them they will look like burnt charcoal, oyibo ladies bae pass jor

At least she has intellect, what do you have in your bird brain? Let's see who is a non-google intellectual - He makes a dumb contribution to a thread and gets called out by people on the thread. Since he has nothing to contribute to the thread because he has dust in his brain, he proceeds to erroneously attack someone's grammar.

He gets called out on his error, he goes to GOOGLE to check the meaning of the phrase he never heard of but he refuses to admit he is wrong and move on like a sane human. So, he persists like a maniac with something to prove to strangers on the internet, thereby digging himself into a hole. He looks for a lifeline by stalking monikers, taking swings at people and missing wildly.

When all that did not work, suddenly he is a zen master who recommends peace and the rest of us are insane. This non-google intellect committed an unforced error because he is arrogant and a dunce. You are a very poor representation of a non-google intellectual, nobody wants any part of that. You need to take your L and go sit in a corner and stop disgracing yourself on the internet.

crackhaus:
Another Google intellectual.
I think there's no difference between you and the under-achiever you're mouthing for.

You little girls ought to stick to talking about boyfriends, clothes, sex, hair, and make-up.
If you have to use google to confirm what you think you know, then you're already dead in the water.

Says the person frothing at the mouth and blowing up my mentions like a maniac and stalking profiles, ALL not to admit that he made a mistake. lol now it's tedious when you have nothing else to say. Dunce.

crackhaus:
You need peace.

How can you be arguing for the correctness of 'attack a straw man' so violently when all you have to back yourself up is Google?

This is becoming tedious.
Not to mention that now you think I'm stalking you

Finally! you admit you are dumb, only wish you came to this realization sooner instead of taking all of us on this thread on a wild goose chase. At least I am 'violently' arguing a valid and rational point, while you were violently trying to cover up your ignorance, only you further exposed yourself as a total dingbat. Run along now, little man and sin no more.

crackhaus:
You need peace.

How can you be arguing for the correctness of 'attack a straw man' so violently when all you have to back yourself up is Google?

This is becoming tedious.
Not to mention that now you think I'm stalking you

WTF? lol you are really childish. So in your mind this is all a game and you see yourself as a slayer. ok. lol. Anyways, still waiting. Dunce.

crackhaus:
Doitforyou, you're up next at the stake.

Come tell us a story about how you arrived here on NL this month as a first time user.

Lame. Don't run away from the reason we are having this back and forth. What is "picking up a straw"? I am not going anywhere until you tell me what that phrase means. I will be waiting patiently for you to finally address what you have been running away from. So you can stalk me all you want, I will be here. Dunce.

crackhaus:
Doitforyou, you're up next at the stake.

Come tell us a story about how you arrived here on NL this month as a first time user.

Of course you would think so, after all the only life you have is this one on Nairaland, where you are the king slayer. Why are you even stalking me? You are not going to find the meaning of "picking up a straw" there. So, since you no longer have the mental capacity to continue, you went to stalk my profile to get 'dirt' so you no longer have to think with your non existent brain. When you are done with all these lame and childish comebacks, still waiting for you to school me. Dunce.

crackhaus:
Desvi - registered June 9th, 2019
Doitforyou - registered June 5th, 2019



These are even cowards I've been bantering with the entire time.

You girls are definitely using alternates to practice a subtle form of intellectual workout while keeping your main handles safe from the disgrace of coming at your betters and failing.

Reveal yourselves, you insidious farts from Hades.

Yes, I earn less than 50k. Now that we have that out of the way, can we go back to you telling me the meaning of "picking up a straw"? I am interested in that one. Dunce.

crackhaus:
Says the invalid with a pay less than 50k monthly.
You must be joking.