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Oh! so now it's correct, after you've gone to google it. Ok. So you know you were wrong but you are too proud to admit it, so now it's the usage that is wrong. You need to go back to google and read up on the phrase again, Mr. I read 500 books. Dunce.

crackhaus:


That you even think a dunce capable of gaslighting every single person on this thread, is a testament to your fear of my capabilities.

Now that we've done this long enough and I have enjoyed watching you struggle to match my intellect rather amusingly, let me school you thoroughly:
Attacking a straw man is the wrong phrase, more importantly wrong usage.

The topic was talking about bad behavior in women in the name of liberation, I highlighted the thought behind that by letting you ignoramuses know that equality/equal standards in bad behavior only negates the true purpose of liberation.
I supported her argument, I did not attack a straw man in her argument...you incredibly dumb fvck.

You sure you want to keep playing a game of wits with me?

What are you? 12?

crackhaus:


That you even think a dunce capable of gaslighting every single person on this thread, is a testament to your fear of my capabilities.


Now that we've done this long enough and I have enjoyed watching you struggle to match my intellect rather amusingly, let me school you thoroughly:
Attacking a straw man is the wrong phrase, more importantly wrong usage.

The topic was talking about bad behavior in women in the name of liberation, I highlighted the thought behind that by letting you ignoramuses know that equality/equal standards in bad behavior only negates the true purpose of liberation.
I supported her argument, I did not attack a straw man in her argument...you incredibly dumb fvck.

You sure you want to keep playing a game of wits with me?

Saying it a million times will not make it so. You are very wrong, you know it, anyone reading this thread knows it, anyone that understands the English language knows it. I understand the shame, you are too far gone to accept you were ignorant. You are not fooling anyone here. So again how is the phrase wrong? Unlike you I am not ashamed to learn. So I would like to know how the phrase is wrong.

crackhaus:


That you even think a dunce capable of gaslighting every single person on this thread, is a testament to your fear of my capabilities.


Now that we've done this long enough and I have enjoyed watching you struggle to match my intellect rather amusingly, let me school you thoroughly:
Attacking a straw man is the wrong phrase, more importantly wrong usage.

The topic was talking about bad behavior in women in the name of liberation, I highlighted the thought behind that by letting you ignoramuses know that equality/equal standards in bad behavior only negates the true purpose of liberation.
I supported her argument, I did not attack a straw man in her argument...you incredibly dumb fvck.

You sure you want to keep playing a game of wits with me?

This is not normal behavior, all this back and forth wouldn't have even happened if he had addressed the topic I raised and not come for my grammar, which he clearly knew nothing about. I really do feel sorry for him because I don't think he has much going for him in real life. I don't know why else he has this pressing need to prove to strangers on the internet on how smart he is, which judging by this thread, proves there is nothing up there. Pathetic.

desvi:
that's what narcissists do best
I told y'all

Lame. Yet... you did not know the phrase "attacking a straw man"?! You make up your own words now? you are delusional. You are trying very hard to gaslight everyone on this thread, to cover up your ignorance. It's NOT working. Dunce.

crackhaus:
So anyone who doesn't get information from the internet, gets it alternatively from their ass.

You really are this dim-witted, aren't you?

Didn't I mention it earlier too that these infants have never read a 500page book in their lives before?

So where did you pull yours from? Your ass? at this point, I actually feel sorry for you. Instead of you to be humble and admit your ignorance, you are digging in and just making more fool of yourself on the internet. We are in the 21st century everybody uses the internet now. Dunce.

crackhaus:
Didn't I mention it earlier that these intellectual toddlers get everything they know from google?

The other one is giving a diagnosis without personal consultation, while this one is telling me to verify English usage from google.

Which polytechnic gave you your OND?
You wrote your project using google references, did you not?

lol WTF?? This is 2019, no excuse for ignorance. Just google the damn thing if you don't know sh!t. I think desvi is right, you are delusional, you know anyone reading this thread can just google and verify that you are wrong, yet you persist. Dunce.

crackhaus:
Pick straws, not attack straws.
Common knowledge, but not to you.

Who taught you English?

Just take correction, and say thank you and you'll feel alright.

lol you just confirmed you are indeed a dunce. You need to quit now before you disgrace your ancestors. Empty barrel.

crackhaus:
You're so comfortable and glorious in your ignorance, it's hilarious.

You pick a straw-man, not attack it...which would be what I did if I was truly deviating from the topic.
But of course, you never know what you're talking about at all.

Your rational post is wasted on someone that is attacking a straw man because he doesn't have the mental capacity to contribute to the current post/topic. He is the only one that is off topic, as someone said he has no substance.

yeyeosoronga:
crackhaus,
You need to be objective. You're trying to compare the successes of men generally to women when women have just been given the opportunity to start achieving things. The men had centuries of a head start and yet you expect women to have caught up with them.
Women haven't done too badly at all considering the various challenges and obstacles before them including the various retrogressive cultures which still exist in majority of countries.
You say it's only the bad things men do women are trying to copy, not true. All they want is to be judged same way as men. If those things were truly bad, why haven't the men in power stopped them? Even in a society like US, women were just allowed to vote in 1920 or so. The first ever vote held in US was in 1789. Only CENTURIES afterwards were their women allowed to vote. Please you too reason am na. They're not doing badly at all catching up with the men.

Oh I didn't know that was an option. I am not Biafran but was told about the war by my parents. However, the generation that witnessed the war is dying. I don't know why Nigeria will refuse to teach its history.

Blue3k:
If they dont there's nothing stopping your state from adding it. The Federal government sets minimum standards not maximum. Just pay the history teachers they'll do it.

Will they teach the Biafran war and slavery??

You actually need to hold your head not shake it, if you can not tell the difference between complimenting some one and telling them to do something. They are not going to rewrite the dictionary to accommodate your ignorance.

bukatyne:
SMH.

When you tell your man that you like his compliments, are you encouraging him to compliment you more?
Will he automatically compliment you more because you like it?

No it does not. You can continue to tell yourself that but the meaning of "I like it" is not going to change.

bukatyne:
If I tell you that I like the way you talk, I am encouraging you to continue talking that way.

Understand?

Go away, no one has time to stroke the ego of a dunce. When you have some sort of knowledge on what this post is about you can come back and quote me.

crackhaus:
Yes, double standards ONLY in negativity when you all ought to be aiming higher to match men in the positive issues.

Well, the sensible women do the latter anyway.
The rest of you would rather talk loudly, fvck around, cheat on your boyfriends/husbands, and basically goof in all directions just to be on the same level with men.
Mud rollers.

I don't see you people fighting to get rid of the double standards that claim men are more capable than women in areas like working on offshore oil rigs or flying fighter jets or running billion-dollar companies.

And she says I lacked comprehension. Mumu!

The money is too small.

lol no don't go inventing your own language. "I like it" to most rational people is "I like it" it does not mean encouragement to do anything. People might like something doesn't mean they want to do it. Humans are capable of handling many emotions and wants.

bukatyne:
Why the need to be polite if she wasn't asked and the person wasn't even there?

I like it is an encouragement to do it.

Yea. I am happy just saw it too. It's funny you are happy, women were not allowed to play football it was not considered lady like.

bukatyne:
Yeah! Our girls qualified.

I feel sorry for the Chile girls especially the one who lost the penalty.

It's an example of two different choices. Pick any other values/choice/behavior and it applies.

bukatyne:
You brought virginity into this discussion and a virgin wife can cheat.

She is not encouraging anything, she doesn't care one way or the other because it's not her skin, she was being polite saying she liked it. In which language does "I like it" mean "do it"

bukatyne:
Hmmmm mm!

There is a difference between overlooking a tattoo and flattering the wearer

The former is letting people be, the latter is encouraging people to do what you wouldn't or consider wrong.

Comprehension and context. Sense: synonyms - awareness, feeling, perception etc. I would hope he would have sense (ability to identify) to make a decision that is best for him. Best is the key word, I don't know what is best for him. The girl that sleeps around might be best for him who knows? There are men that married former prostitutes (best for them) and went on to have a happy marriage. As I said a virgin wife can still be unfaithful.

Yea it might blow your mind but the world is that huge to accommodate the diversity of women without triggering Armageddon. Just do you and leave other women.

bukatyne:
Interesting.

He would have sense to make the best decision for himself aka marry a better girl.

Also interesting you think for every girl who decides to sleep around, ten are willing to wait till their wedding night.

A part of you wish your brother picks from that pool right?

There is nothing wrong with that!!!!! that is the point of all our mentions to you, because you don't like something doesn't mean you shouldn't give others space to enjoy it if they like it. She doesn't have to want one to respect the choice of her friend getting one. it's just simple!

bukatyne:
I wasn't even thinking of sex.

I remember a discussion about tattoos with some friends. One said a guy's tattoo was nice and she liked it. When we told her to tell hubby to get it, she instinctively went 'God forbid, her husband or kids would never have tattoos.'

Like we say in Yoruba: were dun wo, ko she bi lomo.... A mad person's display is sweet/fun to watch however no one wants to have a mad child.

Like the Whites say: Imitation is the best form of flattery.

On another note, I find it funny that women who previously confide in each other about their sexcaspades would use same thing to insult them when all goes south.

crack house said nothing he lacked comprehension, just as you are doing now. we are railing against double standard in society nothing about women wanting be negative or whatever. You are also making an erroneous comparison between a choice without victims and a choice with victims. One is a personal choice the other one is a crime. I have not seen anybody encouraging crime here.

Omoluabi16:
There will always be standards. There will always be rules and acceptable/non-acceptable behaviour. This change and civilization we go on about is just excuse to lose our self control. Like crack house said, why the negatives and not the positives?
If a woman acts slutty and is being slut-shamed why does she seek acceptance or do the 'don't judge me' thing when the right thing to do is to stop being slutty! Same way Criminal yahoo boys are seeking justification. How many Nigerians defended Mr Naira Marley? Isn't bobrisky celebrated?
Perilous times.

All these hypothetical questions mean nothing. My brother is a grown man, I would hope he would have sense to make decisions that are best for him. This world is huuuggee! for every woman that sleeps around there are 10 more that want to wait till their wedding night. We are not going to force women to be what they are not because you don't want to 'taint' the pool when my brother is about to get married. A former prostitute can be a faithful wife while a woman that was a virgin on her wedding night can be an unfaithful wife.

bukatyne:
What if your brother becomes interested in such a girl who after marriage still can't keep it in her pants and infect him with HIV or staph?

bukatyne:
Social Media.

Prior to now, everyone was crazy in their space. Reference Sodom&Gomorrah, Noah's time etc.

The Bible even talked about homosexuality and wild/sin parties.

SM made everyone crazy in public.

With training and prayers, all will be well.

yes she is!! But she is a sly one.

KanwuliaExtra:
Yeah, sometimes.
Other times, no.

I pointed out one of your threads that was deleted. I saw it and NEVER bothered to click on it. Even when others were appealing to you that it was offensive, you still stuck to your guns. Till it was finally deleted.

This thread is another one on a less offensive note.

Let me tell you about you and “some” of YOUR THREADS.

In a nutshell, you are a closet mysoginist.

E.O.D!

exactly!!!! every generation complains about the next generation. We had the roaring 20s, the free love of the 60s, we had the hippie movement. When I was young my mom used to complain about my short skirts, then, when you look at her old pics from the 60s she wore shorter length clothes. These Instagram kids of today will get old, become conservative and start writing articles like this for the oncoming generation. Let kids be.

desvi:
you people need to do some reading seriously, alternatively watch some historical movies
people have since times immemorial been complaining about immorality and have been discussing ethical questions
it's nothing new
these the-world-is-going-down and society-will-implode have never come into being
people have committed terrible atrocities but not because people were expressing their séxuality freely, rather because they were suppressing it

lol your daughter will be fine. Every generation says this about the new generation. The restraint, modesty and morality you speak of, was never what all women wanted it was forced upon women. The 'sorry' state is women now breaking free of that mold. I'd rather a society represent all women rather than some to uphold a false 'moral' society image.

Ishilove:
I completely agree with you. I look at the world today and feel fear coursing through my heart at the thought that i will have to raise my children in a society where restraint, modesty amd morality are on the verge of extinction. I also seriously wonder what happened. How did we come to this sorry state?

If my daughter is a grown adult, she is now independent, I no longer control her life. If that's what she says she wants to do, I will be sorely disappointed but at the end of the day she is grown and she makes her own choices and she will also be responsible for the consequences. It still doesn't affect you though.

ThothHermes:
It does. Why not answer the rest of my questions

You are still missing the point no one is encouraging people to do anything. You have to understand that people are different, my morals are not your morals, what you and the writer are doing is imposing your own morals on others. I wouldn't bash a woman that is sleeping around even though that is not my MO because 1. It is not my business 2. She can do whatever she wants, that is not encouraging. Previously set morals was set by men, women now no longer want any part of that and just want to live their lives. However, you are free to still uphold those values and morals no one is stopping you don't just expect other women to join you.

bukatyne:
While I agree with you that some people still hold the moral values dear, a lot have been immoral and what we would cringe at previously is now accepted or ignored.

In addition to break down of morals in Nigeria, you have the hypocrisy: we encourage people to do things we wouldn't ourselves.

hahaha another woman sleeping around does not affect you in any way. You just want to force your values on people. Mind your business.

ThothHermes:
Dead wrong. The consequences are far reaching. Economic, social, we can even argue spiritual. Everyone is affected eventually.

A thesis could be written on this.

That is why slut-shaming is a thing. It's not society. It's a mechanism we have evolved to protect ourselves.
Even those women who want the right to sleep around do not want their daughters to sleep around.
Yep. It's innate.

Would you want your daughter to sleep around in the name of not being shackled by culture Would you like to see her in a porn.n flick??
What if what she wants is to have sex in front of the camera?
That's your answer right there.

lol complete with rosary too.