₦airaland Forum

ceaser:
Having multiple s3xual partners or even protected or unprotected s3x with random girls is the height of it. You may have been getting away with hundreds of escapades but one slip is all you need and the whole life can come careening down.

Do you realise that there are many STIs that you can contract even with the use of your so called protection? Oral herpes, genital herpes and condylomata acuminata (genital or oral warts) are just a few of those.

For males, usually some of these STIs are not hidden and can be noticed by the man himself or even by his s3xual partner but a female can harbour genital warts or genital herpes in her vag1nal mucosa where it is completely hidden from the outside. And you that is careless will assume she is a clean woman only to dive in and have your whole oran creampied with Human Papilloma Virus or Herpes virus respectively.

And you end up with a gory sight like below in the case of warts. Mind you, condoms may not protect you against what is in that picture. And you also risk having that in your mouth or on your lips if you engage in oral 53x with someone who has it.

That man there is married. He travelled from home to Abuja and according to his narration had a one night with one of his long lost female friends (they saw each other last years ago). Two months later he came running with this. Now he admits his marriage is threatened because he has been avoiding his wife's s3xual advances and denying her same.

The lesions are treatable though, but the virus is uncurable, so the growths will keep recurring and he also risks infecting his wife with same.

if he gives his wife the genital warts, he puts her at risk of cervical cancer.

Miracleuzoma45:
Don't go and marry, be fucking around,

would yo want your sister to marry him?

TheGidRedpiller:
Well to the main topic, you all know that i won't state a societal problem without suggesting a suiting solution.
I love to fvvck biittches up and help them understand that they aren't shiit, so if i were in that guy's shoes and when i got into the resturant i met two hoes instead of one, i would either place out my right middle finger and walk out the door or to get more fun, i would sit with them, exchange greetings with her friend and even get more casual with her friend that she(the main girl) begins to feel i'm distracted by her friend thereby making the main girl look more useless in the situation. Thats not my kill point.

I wait for the waiter to come for the bills and then i just pay for my orders and leave the building, the big mistake the two biittches would make is to order for the most expensive things on the menu thinking the expenses would be on me. They would have to adopt a plate washing career
I don't take nonsense!

BE A NO NONSENSE MAN!

TRP IS GOLDEN!!!

we all know that these red pill men are either losers or downlow niggas

KAHBOOM:
Mr man will u sharap there

Did America and other foreign country that legalized it turn to a den of criminals and junkies?

Legalize it joor and Nigeria will turn to a den of happy,wise pipu with no worries.

america is crumbling

yemex04:
I can tell you categorically that my NYSC period was one of the most memorable times of my life! Trust me on this bro. It obviously set for me the foundation for a highly progressive future.. I met people of influence both among the corps members & within the community.. I am doing well right now Nysc launched me into greatness..

But like I said, You can make NYSC period whatever it is you want it for you, as for me, I chose to make the best use of that time, impacting the community and also got myself opened up to new discoveries!! NYSC provided the platform for me to discover new things about myself.. Honestly those that wasted that time won't understand.

well it may have benefitted you, but you are the exception, not the rule.

NYSC should be scrapped

yemex04:
The period for NYSC is what one makes of it, is to individuals that have participated in it.Some people wasted the whole one year while made the best of that time..I belong to the latter.

To the retrospectives,please go for NYSC and the best use of that time,It is highly fulfilling.

No it isn't.

It's sheer exploitation and the brain washing starts from orientation camp.

Lazynigerian1:
Good, I suggest you run for office so that you can implement the changes to our economy needed to improve things for everyone

Good evening. Earlier on you abused me and insulted me. While I am not that offended, even then what you did was wrong and rude .

I wish you well.

while everyone is entitled to their opinion. Foolish sentences must be called out for the BS that they are.

Lazynigerian1:
Good, then don;t complain if your relation in the village falls sick and there is no doctor, or the child in the village cannot get good education because there aren't enough teachers

Besides, I have spent a large part of my working life working in the rural areas, so what's the grumbling about.

Life isn't always about what you want.

first @ Lazynigerian1 NONE of my relatives are in the village. They are all in cities where there is access to infrastructure.

Second, life is about what I want. I am the narrator, the main character and the star of my ongoing story. I have worked hard to get what i want.
So if a village wants good teachers and doctors, they should do all in their power and get them. Not wait for someone else's child whose parent has put in the effort into make a life for that child.

The only thing i gained from NYSC, was a near death experience in my line of duty, which severely affected my health to this day, a mental breakdown, i nearly lost passion for my chosen course and career which I am still struggling with. Last but not least, loss of hope and patriotism for this country called Nigeria.

NYSC deserves to burn.
If i want to serve. Let me do it willingly. I willingly volunteered my services (without pay) as a medical officer in yabaleft for 3 months before NYSC. That is a phase of my life I will never regret.

But after NYSC, I will never volunteer for anything in this country again.
Pay me bitch!?

Lazynigerian1:
You will prosper in life



Your children will bless you as well as your grandchildren. And you will have all your needs met instantly.




Yes, you have a right to think that....but the problem is, who is going to supply people like teachers, doctors and nurses to the rural areas.

Your abusing me does not solve that problem.

they should be paid well for their services like everyone else.

Not forcing people to go to serve in a backwards village.

NextBuhari:
Establish Mega Farms in each state where Corps members will be posted to during the service year.

will you farm there?

Lazynigerian1:
That's the problem...we don't have enough experienced medics.(I work in healthcare, remember?)..and most of our few experienced medics prefer to work in the urban areas...not rural areas.

And NYSC is not the reason why we have high unempolyment...the fact that we import biscuits that we can make at home instead of making them and exporting them is why we have high unemployment...in addition to the fact that most people prefer to be importers rather than exporters of manufactured goods.

uncle, go and be a medic and serve in a rural village.

We no want.

CBN will be better off creating a digital tissue paper because it will be more valuable than any digital currency they can come up with.

SAFE abortion should be legalized.

Age of consent for marriage should be increased to 16.
Every woman must complete secondary school before marriage.
Right to bear arms to defend home and farmland
Mental health laws like calling suicide a crime and arresting people for attempted suicide should be updated

Employers should be able to be sued and prosecuted for non payment of employees for more than 2 months.

blinking001:
Imagine a mother abandoning her own children. Women are very terrible people.

this is a foolish statement.

What of the father that abandoned his children,? Is he not a terrible human being?!

AntiAPC2023:
how pandemic take affect supply of hiv drugs?

lockdown affected supply of raw material, no raw material, no manufacturing. No manufacturing, no drugs

bepositive11:
It is a disability though. During this pandemic, those with HIV are at a higher risk for example. Not to mention, the side effects of the medicines. It's better to take precautions and avoid it in the first place.

Right now there is shortage of some HIV medication due to the pandemic.

Babies born to HIV+ mothers can't have their medication.

It is well

Lordapson23:
“I don’t roll with broke guys”
“If u no get 12pro max or u drive a cheap car, don’t enter my dm”
“Broke guys be making me wanna puke”
“I love ballers”

Not like you can hustle to afford luxuries yourself, you feel entitled cause u got some blood dripping hole in ur body.. Kontinew shotigbo.. Wetin go tell u go soon tell u..

Just this morning I lost a first cousin.. Ya’ll wanna know how? I’ll tell u.. Her so called lover used her... yeah u guessed right - For rituals.. Same nigga she’s been living with since last December.. Now this one don carry HIV ..

This time around play nur dey.. If u like keep jumpin upandan..

you sound bitter.

Go for counseling and lick tom tom for your troubles

bizhop01:
I think compulsory skill acquisition/ entrepreneurship for fresh graduates will make nigeria a better place, in the next ten years.

eith irrelevant skills

Quality20:
Dont know wht to type, but how I wish it could be made more useful . I realise many youths find it as fun n an exploration galore. I also think it can help curb depression n suicidal tendencies

NYSC was the cause of my depression and mental breakdown.

Tge scheme should be flushed down the toilet

iampeterben:
Dominican singer, Nfasis, got married in a T-shirt and ripped jean shorts and this has made him go viral.

Not only was he so casually dressed for his big day, he also wore a straight face in all the photos.

On the other hand, his wife, Diana Vargas de Garcia, was fully dressed in a wedding gown with a veil and flowers.

Their daughters, who served as bridesmaids, were also dressed to the nines.

Diana shared a video of her husband's wedding entrance and added in the caption: "At least you should have worn a tie."

Nfasis and his wife have been together for years and they have two daughters. They are expecting a third child and Nfasis said on Facebook that it'll be another girl.

Below are photos from his wedding and reactions from Facebook users who had a problem with his outfit and straight face.

Source:
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2021/5/dominican-singer-goes-viral-as-he-weds-in-t-shirt-and-ripped-jeans-while-keeping-a-straight-face-photos-2.html

obviously nigga was coerced into the so called union.

Irresponsible men everywhere

zeenaman:
I would like to hear from experienced couples here. 19th of this month made it two months since I've been married, yet my wife has not conceived. I'm getting a bit worried. We have intercourse all through her ovulation, though we plan on seeing the doctor this week.

Could you render advice as well as share your experience here? How long did it take you or your wife to conceive after marriage?

one should get worried a year after marriage with regular sex at least thrice weekly on alternate days. If the woman is above 35, make that six months instead of a year.

Not every couple concieves immediately

BLOODYSPERM:
You are thinking from a gynocentric Egalitarianistic-Equalism frame of mind working with these secularism dogma as your dominant ideology, sure western societies that don't have Culture have shifted from poliltcal conservativism to radical liberalism

We can see the results
1) Moral decadence via hook up culture
2) Decline in marriages and child birth
3)High rate of Divorce at 50% rate and women initiating about 75% of the divorce
4) 40% of children are born out of wedlock and In black American communities it's 60%

These all lead to the destruction of family values and units and children from single motherhood households tend to be criminals, drug addicts, strippers, illiterate, commit suicide,etc


At least our elders have kept family values intact and there is no incentive to divorce because our laws are still Patriachal

if you ask me, the elders should have kept our economy and future intact

Arsenate:
Oh boy this girl abi na woman you are just too dumb with your usual dumb takes. How da fuuuckxkk did you get through med school, ffs. The standards are that low these days or what?

Petty men with malice like you deserve periods every month

Akinola100:
Would you be happy if someone doesn't greet your parents.
That is disrespectful

see my parents are not entitled to greeting from anyone they didn't train. Nor will they take panadol on the matter. They have better things to do.

Mustiboy:
Exactly.

I spoke with a mother some time last year, and what she said shocked me. She said she wouldn't mind her kids doing internet fraud as long as it brings them money. She said, after all, they are only helping Nigeria to collect back the wealth our colonial masters stole from us. Such disgusting mentality.


I wonder what parents teach their kids these days, no morals whatsoever. Have you noticed how kids just walk by you these days and don't greet? I personally don't mind that as the greetings don't feed me; however, it makes me reminisce the times when we greeted every elderly person we came by, not minding if we encountered as many as 20 before getting to our destinations. We never got tired of greeting. Up till now, I'll greet you as long as you're older.


All in all, I still feel the sitting room is the right place parents can leverage to instill manners into their kids. Let siblibgs bond together and spread love. I've seen brothers and sisters who hate each other's guts, and I believe it's their parents who failed to help them bond.

why should kids greet the elders that bleeped up this country?

Curious345:
it's pure an holy .. Fromm my holy groin.

Like i said ,you or child can bear my name .

So it's not like child is a b*stars.. he she got a dad.

I wanna travel all around the south to get at least 4,000 women pregnant yearly.

For free.

Just cater for my transport fare, medical check up. That's all.


Are you in ?

No.

Seed from community prick is worthless and better off aborted.

Curious345:
I don't have any oo..

I have offered myself to single ladies on many occasions . To help them with a child via the intercourse route.
I also told them their kids can bear my name if they so like .

Seeing smart cute matured single ladies ,who are fertile but without kids hurt me alot .

And as an avid southerner ,my hope is that 20yra from now the population of the south will exceed the north.

I am willing to plant 10,000 kids in the south ,voluntarily and cash free.

Ladies Interested should only cover my transport fare and medical check-up

depart from me satan.

You filthy seed shall not touch our womb.

Amen

profilemessages:
i toasted a girl somewhere

she said she dates MEN not boys


i said whao


the moment you appraoch a nigerian lady

the kind of attitude or bs she serves you will tell you the spec of men BROWSING her WEBSITE

you sound bitter

And just proved that you're a boy

You have to take accountability op.

You knew ger faults, why didn't you cut her off since.

Why did you have unprotected sex.

Two of you are equally silly.

Being young is not an excuse to be stupid

MiztaPepperoni:
Make I see how many people fit answer this question. Shey many of una dey like form English speaking and I too know.

Oya answer.

This is called lexical ambiguity.

olisasegun:
A FRIEND WROTE;

I am writing to you in order to make someone understand that it's good to appreciate our partners despite their flaws.

I am 32 years old. My ex hubby & I dated for six years. We where best of friends, I waited until he completed college and started work, my family and his family then met, we got married and had a son. (7 years old now).
My husband was short tempered at times, but our problems started when I wanted to make him feel he couldn't control me.

Every time we argued, I would pack my bags, go to my family and explain. My sisters would phone my husband and shout at him. If he was controlling me I would always dare him that if he wished, he could divorce me.

I never wanted divorce, I just had pride and I never wanted to look like a loose woman in his eyes. One day I pushed him so hard that for the first time he beat me and locked me outside. I went to my family, my family took him to the police, every time I looked like I was being abused! But to be honest, I used to abuse my husband emotionally. He was arrested and detained. I was asked by his family to withdraw the case, I felt that what I was doing was wrong.

My husband was never a violent man, he did what he did because I pushed him to the wall of which he openly knelt down and apologized. I withdrew the charge, and we reconciled. After three months, I packed my bags after a small issue, and he remained alone. After two days I received a call that he was in the hospital, my family told me that I shouldn't go there because it would look like I was begging him, and my sisters believed he was feigning the illness.

All this time, people felt sorry for me like I was the one being abused. He spent a week in the hospital, after he came out, I just received a divorce summon. I wanted to say no to divorce, but because I felt this pride, I wanted him to change his mind and beg me. I called him and said he would get the divorce because I lived like I was in hell.

When we went to court, I wanted to make him pay, so I told the court that I needed his properties to be shared. To my surprise he openly told the court that whatever he and I acquired together should be given to me, all he wanted was divorce.

We were divorced in 2009 July.
Now, this Saturday (today) my husband is marrying, whilst l am here wasted! My family members are gossiping about me, I depend on what my ex gives to my son for survival. I know I wasted my
marriage. I am here telling all wives that they should be careful how they get advise.

Don't be cheated, don't entertain family interference in your marriage my dear reader. Even my young sisters are much more respected than me. Those who encouraged me to get divorced are always teasing and
bad mouthing me. Please ladies be vigilant in your marriage

Thought it wise to share my story to save your marriage.
There is no benefit in pride for nothing.

#SOMETIMES IT'S NOT THE MAN'S FAULT AT ALL,IT'S YOUR PRIDE,AND THE PEOPLE YOU ALLOW TO ADVISE YOU. I read this story and felt the need to share it

why are you reliant on what your ex gives you? Can't you start a business? Go back to school, look for work.

Your ex remarrying and you not doing so is not a bad thing abeg. Stop listening to gossipmongers and focus on your life

That you are divorced doesn't mean happiness should elude you.

That's the part I do not understand.

Sis, divorce is a phase of life. Take responsibility for your actions and make something of your life.

You have accepted your mistakes, your crying stage should be over by now. Move on instead of focusing on what you lost.

Look on the bright side, you have some opportunities that married people don't, you can make decisions without anyone questioning you.

No one is asking you where you went to late at night.

You are not waking up at 5am to cook food that you don't want for more than 2 people.

If you know how many nigerians would be happier divorced than married. Don't listen to talk and mind the business that pays you.