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dadexcel:
....much as this guy sounds smart and all ...I totally disagree with his approach and manner of disengagement. If he truely loves thus lady and gave dated her sincerely for three years because he "loves" her , then he ought to her loved her enough to patently wait till she adapts to some if not all of these his "miss perfect " woman expectations.

While he rants about the inadequacies of the so called girl friend , we did not here of his faults and imperfections which the lady obviously had to put up with for the same period probably because she loved him enough to wait for him to be better.

The truth is marriage is not for kids ...no human being is perfect and trust me you can never get all you want from a partner ....thus guy right here am sorry to say dud not sound very mature....the lady deserves better ...deserves a man that truely and sincerely loves her ...not one that will be attracted to her beauty and walk away after three years of exploiting that beauty...he has moved on to another fresh girl...and would still move on to the next because no one had it all ...patience and true live is key ....

i agree. There is more to life than intelligence

At the beginning of this chat, i was like, the babe is insecure. But then as the chat went on, i thought she was an airhead. But the way the guy said it tho.

If i was the girl i would leave him. She has to leave him with her dignity intact

But the truth is that many youths of today are like the girl, scalar quantities without vision

As for the guy. I seriously hope he has what it takes to date and marry an intelligent woman cos she will challenge him every step of the way, especially if he messes up

Case closed. NEXT

Mokason28:
Having a child is not cheap I agreee ...do you think anyone plans to be held in the hospital for 7months , Nigeria is not easy at all and things could turn around at anytime for anyone

Most times for better most times for worse... you don’t know her story... if you can’t help because of the innocent baby, keep your trap shut

lol.

Most of the sobs stories you are looking for often ignore the fact that the couple looked for instant gratification and refused to plan ahead.

But then you sound like you don't plan ahead too if you believe this sob story

Mokason28:
I wonder who gave you a phone?
What do you mean by live within your means?
Do you think anyone anticipates for Caesarean section before it is carried out on you?

You are a foooool because you don’t know if what she has was just money for normal delivery which doesn’t cost much
And health and other reasons made doctors go for C/S you are happy talking nansense because it’s not your sister or family member?
Stupid kid

uncle, he is not wrong. One must learn to plan, and have contingency plans. Having a child is not cheap. She and her husband took things for granted

Xoly:
[color=#000000]That is what guys use to say, but time will reveal your weaknesses... You may not understand me until you meet a woman that you can't resist
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please let them die alone first na. They think it's easy!!

People that talk like this are the ones in real pain

UndauntedYOCA:
Not going to church won't yield much either, so what's the point! The most important thing is to work on yourself, from the posts and comments on Nairaland, it's apparent some of these men think poorly of ladies due to money, I'd rather make my own money and be a nun, not get married be a lesbian than have a man speak to me or treat me like thrash. Some of these folks who make these degrading posts and comments don't even have anything good going on in their lives, it's just audio power they have. If you have that high libido that you can't do without it then find a way to deal with your horniness, if you must have sex with a guy, let it not be at the expense of your integrity. Learn the act of ghosting!
Once a guy/man starts behaving somehow I simply ghost him no matter what! Who is he to act like he's God in my life? I don't have energy for nonsense, this life is short and no insane person will make it a living hell for me.

Amen! Amen! Amen!!

Amatarasha:
so who is it?

No idea. Tbh, we should not be concerned

Fvcknigga:
Bland keep legs closed Nd lose me it's simple

Don't let the door hit you on your way out

Amatarasha:
this your thread don pepper me drfunmisticglow I know u are behind it ? Don't even deny it

I'm denying it.

Cos I'm not the one.

mosdii:
Intelligence missing
Enumeration, explanation and elaboration absent
Message unpassed because it is incomprehensible due to lack of basic knowledge, intelligence, sensibility and sensitivity.

This thread has proved the popular dictum that Nigerian girls have fish brains.

Tufiakwa...spits

Why does she need to elaborate? That ubunja and co had to dumb it down for you guys to understand (which most of them still don't) doesn't mean that she have to do the same. She has communicated in code and we understand.

Tigerstripes:
The goal is to attract wealthy men. This is not for broke boys attraction.


Close your legs

Don’t be too easy

Don’t be cheap

Don’t lose your bargaining chip

Think about how hard it was to grow those boobs

Remember how it hurt when it was still growing

How can you let a man freely suck it

Remember how painful your monthly flow is

Yes, it helps keep your vagina soft and fleshy

It’s why menopausal women have dry vaginas

Keep your legs closed

And control any man you want

But that doesn’t mean you should be a boring virgin
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please keep posting and ignore the noise. You type true wisdom. Just be consistent

Tigerstripes:
It’s better when you let a man choose you than you choose him

That way you can be in control

Why?

Because you are his fantasy!

He is smitten by you

If you choose a man, probably because he is handsome, he will control you

The best you can do is attract him, let him make the move

How do you attract a wealthy man?

Coming soon

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true

Originalsly:
You sent her to see a doctor...... aren't most doctors male? Or is it for problems down there you thought the doctor will inspect her eyes or ears? If not why didn't you tell her to request a female doctor? Just accept that you messed up instead of all this. If she saw the doctor yesterday... and he saw everything down there... do you really he beliege he can today rememher what she looks like down there? Just pray she doesn't feel a bump in her breasts tonight.

it is almost 50:50, but most OnG doctors are male.

Karleb:
...turning the table.

I'd prefer a female doctor check my dick cause I'm not comfortable with a male doctor doing it.

How many woman is comfortable with a female doctor checking their husband's dick?

there's no issue there na!

My famous Sunday fried rice, fresh from pot.

Trust me, it is more delicious than it looks.

For my mother and sisters to risk waking me up from sleep after night duty just so that i can prepare this rice.

Feast your eyes on this humble plate

Zzor:
This is so funny

But it's true.

Zzor:
we have outstanding female medical practitioners everywhere,will arrange for that,I can't be comfortable with that,never.kai,neverrrrrrrrr

There are more male gynaecologists than female ones. The reason is not far fetched.

Take me for example. After spending one year in the O&G department delivering and operating women, getting bitten, slapped, had my clothes torn, got exposed to HIV, being insulted by some mothers, being called names, the things i saw and experienced. I am sick and tired of seeing vagina. I no do again. I am traumatized.
I'm even beginning to think that motherhood is not worth the stress. There's a number of my female friends who share similar views. O&G is too bloody, time consuming and messy. Too much drama.

But i doubt men will ever get tired of seeing vagina. Diseased or not.

Deathisfree:
My wife is seeing some infection sign so I told her to go to the hospital alone because I am not around.
The doctor insist in checking her Private part and she showed him. Now I am wondering if that is necessary or am I over reacting. Please I need advice so I know what to do
Thanks

was there a chaperone present? There's usually either a female nurse, doctor or Medical student present to prevent storied that touch and ?false accusations of rape and secual molestation?

phatek:
ok u want reap wia u did nt sow?tueh

are you a plot of farmland or a human being?

Sixfeetbelle:
What is your problem?

I'm talking about men's loyalty and you go off talking about women's loyalty.

And you still haven't given me a satisfactory answer. Why aren't ladies who suffered with you enjoying your wealth with you? Surely since men have more loyalty than women.

They do? The selfish beings?

No kee me with laughter abeg

bobokeshington:
A WOMAN WHO CANNOT STAND BY HER MAN WHEN HE HAS NOTHING WOULD DEFINITELY BE SHOWN THE EXIT DOOR WHEN HE HAS EVERYTHING

loyalty is not your birthright. You earn it. Stop acting like it is your entitlement.

sisisioge:
She raised the bar of the kind of girl you really take fancy to...until you match or exceed that bar on another girl...you will keep remembering her...Pele.

why did she leave him tho? Who initiated the breakup? What was his/her behaviors during the relationships?

@ alexgman. You need closure. See a psychologist/ therapist to deal. Stalking us unhealthy.

We never know what we have until we lose it

sholatech:
painful one.
Marriage is truly for better for worse. Divorce should be last option. but a great conaideration for those physically abused like yours .

many African tribes support temporary seperation first in this instance, even if just for one week. Get away with the kids to your parents house & if he wants to see u or the kids, let him come with his family members to apologise and promise to turn a new leaf.

Thunder fire you because of your wickedness

Op. Oldtimer06 Better run because he will kill you and hide the body one day.

Or report him to his superiors since he is paramilitary. They should take action against him.

But let me hear his side first. After you have left the house with the kids

Vulcanheph:
To any woman that listens to this thrash, Shiloh will be your portion.....meanwhile as someone above me stated if i have a son that behaves like ozo , i'll disown him.

your type is the one that dies alone and destitute because everyone abandons him.

CheGuevara101:
Of all the problems facing Nigeria currently, it's someone's Skin bleaching that's your problem?.


This Op na Original Mumu.

it's a big problem o. Doctors, surgeons and dermatologists dey hear am.

Lost a patient last year whose skin was so damaged that it refused to heal after C/S and her wounds kept breaking down and getting infected.

hafsatadebisi:
Please, how can one restore a skin that has been damaged as a result of excessive use of bleaching creams?

1. Depends on the damage
2. Takes a lot of time.
3. The best way is to go darker.

Can't remember. So long ago.

PeaceIlya:
ACRIMONY

For those that have watched the movie,

Who was in the wrong side?
Who is to blame?
And who destroy everything between them?

If you have not watched it, try download and watch.
Very interesting movie but with bad ending.

I really learnt a lot, what did you learn in the Movie.

Let's share our views and learn from each other.

Never invest financially in and struggle with a broke dude telling you that he has a dream, if it is not reciprocal. It will end in premium tears