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silento:
Hahah waiting ...

Modified :
The only purpose of a woman is to be used by a man , read your bible well and see women are not even included at original creation plan ,

In fact in the bible it states that God saw that adam was lonely (Conjized) and he made him to sleep and took his lib and made him a companion ( cum sack)

So if you like educate or no educate other mumu females , men are the superior and original plan ,

In programming world above incident is called patch

And without original software the patch update is rubbish

Keep forming boss lady ,

MY dear nothing sweet pass been dicked by a guy with 7+ inches magic wand by 4 am

And only way to get that is to acknowledged that men are the original software
While you are just a patch update

In this era

Pornhub with original Vaseline
Is more sweeter than have sex with all this girls with sink holes in name of puna


Respect and be submissive to all men and the universal might bless you with a Dick that can work for 30minutes at the speed rate of 50km/h without no engine failure

Or you can keep deceiving yourself with intimacy gadget and fingering

incel

Chii59:
To think I thought you were an enlightened mind.
Maybe the women in your family or social life are dull. I am not dull, neither is Pocohantas, cococandy, Zzor, Dominique and a hot of sharp minds I've met on this platform.
What's worse than an alpha male? A closet chauvinist.

Amen!!!

Preach!!

nexta007:
Bloda, read d post well sir. Squeeze and get the juice b4 before saying what u think. And the insulting isn't necessary. If you don't like the comments, kindly say so politely. God bless you still. Truth is, things get bad or don't bless us when used in used in the unintended way...

i didn't insult anyone. I think I forgot to add question marks or so.

Amatarasha:
yes I am

You know what?!

I'm not one for tearing others down. I'm trying to launch a business and achieve my goals.

I agree that women should be emancipated from religion.

If you want a female miseducation

Please dont repeat what you did with missghosted.

Make sure it is relatable and easily understandable

I'll be cheering you on.

Amatarasha:
Funmisticqueen or drfunmisticglow what ever u are called Keep off saboteur

Objectives:
*Creating goddesses among men
*Creating a women's world ( Zero men)
*Quashing the culture DEFIECIENCY

And so on .....

COMING SOON

Cc budaatum( girls power) , husbandsnatcha ( mama) , rekhina , khia / khiaa ,save women from religion

Goddesses among men?! [center][/center][center][/center]

Odoogu:
okay.
dies this seem like it may be very difficult for "many hospitals" to achieve right?

your honest professional opinion.

very difficult!!
most hospitals don't have any of the personnel he listed or those equipment.

Many nigerians cannot afford those services.

The native doctor that did 'first aid' and removed the bullet probably made the bleeding worse.

May the victim rest in peace

Openbusiness:
why will hospitals reject an emergency patient?

because they don't have the facilities to handle a gunshot victim

nexta007:
Did the Creator of all things designed us that way? Isn't the only known and recorded barren woman in scripture became thus because she was cursed? It's an aberration to go against our default settings. She was created to reproduce. Our generation is in deep Trouble with such kind of mindset.

So hannah in the Bible was cursed. Deborah who didn't bear children were cursed.

All these fanatics turning scripture around. Mtcheeew

ReluctantAdult:
No point having children if you don't want and can't raise them. Except maybe you are super irresponsible and don't give a sh1t about your children.

Today I saw a woman with a child who has some form of neurological birth deformity...like trisomies kinda...and it got me emotional like, she wouldn't have hoped for a deformed kid. I mean the work it takes to raise a normal kid is enormous not to talk of a mentally and physically deformed kid?!!...even with all the money in the world, you're fvcked psychologically.

Damn! Kids aren't even in my plans. No way man, no way

I tell you. That's what some people on this thread dont get. It is better to be honest nwith yourself than invite trouble.

baralatie:
you are coming back to what and where I am saying about children.
if you are judging people who have children that they do not deserve to bear and have children.
you have revealed your maternal instincts and love for children without batting an eyelid.
this inbuilt instinct is there for every woman that came out of a woman that passed through a mother's womb.

so where is this motherly instincts when children are dumped in pit latrines, and beaten to death for stealing meat by women?


Don't make this about me. I am just saying don't judge others who don't or choose not to have kids

lightangel65i:
How do you feel when you see a bachelor at 60?. If you have no children do you see people coming to your face to say you are an idi0t? If no your mind is making things up or the women are just self conscious cause the reason they don't want children is cause they can't have children(olosho wombs)

Get out

WaterPurifier:
We've been on since early this year. Things have been going smoothly too. The distance is kind of a little barrier because of the physical presence.

But we love each other dearly.

You know women na, they love physical presence alot.

Please those that got married through long distance relationship thing.

Kindly share your experience on how you scale through this wonderful journey... because it's not a child's play I tell you.


Any tips please?


Lalasticlala abeg help your boy push this case to front page

it's rough i tell you. But keeping a long distance relationship means you have to put in the effort to communicate online or through phone. You have to tell yourself that just talk to and see her/him everyday(not those 'have you eaten' discussions o!!, Real talk). Presently in one and It can be tough if you are not the communicative type or haven't been in one before like me. FYI, Not every woman is big on physical presence. Some just need to know that you are alive and functional and wouldn't disturb you too much. But bae was dedicated and made sure I spoke to him everyday, even though I didn't like it at first.

You can spice things up with games that can be done on the phone. HOT SEAT where you tell the other person you want to put them on the hot seat and they must answer every question truthfully. Both of you can be in the hot seat at once.

Another one is I BET MY DAY WAS WILDER/LAZIER THAN YOURS, where you tell each other how crazy or lazy your fay was and you both decide the winner.

Then if you guys have known each other carnally, I'm sure cyber $ex can keep the romance going.

Send prayers and poems. It doesn't matter if they are terrible.

Hold a book club two of you read a book within a week and discuss it.

Send gifts to them. Buy online andPay for shipping. This is a big one and works everytime.

If you start to notice body language, like she is not listening or is feeling sleepy, end the call quickly and politely. If she is seemingly distant, trash it out and find out why then based on your feedback, adjust.


Wish you luck!!

baralatie:
you did not stage T reasons for her decisions!

but for the other one her trauma is from her upbringing(she herself has not gotten over the word disfunctional).Reasearch has it that children from disfunctional homes are drug addicts ,into crime etc but here we are she made it however she has robbed herself of one precious thing a child.She should have compared herself with Mrs Okonjo Iweala and her set.
Women who nothing wrong with them should not allow devil lie to them about been childless because God forbid if they go for x-ray and the results shows they are wombless or they are barren.
Hian!
Their excuses of work,career and gbo gbo ti gba will leave this Earth to Pluto and leave them to face better war!

Upon the mistake of eve_she gave birth

Sarah as she old reach_ she gave birth


Holy Mary as she holy pass all the women for this world_she gave birth.


my advice find a man and knack am well,well_ you too give birth

this is silly, not everyone with a damaged womb choose not to bear kids. its like saying all nuns have damaged wombs and all priests are impotent. not all people think children are precious if not there wont be child labor,child trafficking and child abuse. many nigerians don't deserve to have children.

lightangel65i:
How do you feel when you see a bachelor at 60?. If you have no children do you see people coming to your face to say you are an idi0t? If no your mind is making things up or the women are just self conscious cause the reason they don't want children is cause they can't have children(olosho wombs)

this is an unenlightened and close minded comment. so you are saying that every bachelor at 60 is impotent?

i have seen bachelors at 60, and I choose not to talk at them or judge when I have not been in his shoes.His life decisions are not my business and are not yours either

lilkech:
Someone not knowing how to raise a kid wouldn’t stop that person from actually wanting one in the first place.

Then you begin to wonder why there are so many degenerates today.

luscioustrish:
Many Nigerians still have a long way to go when it comes to not judging others for their decisions and actually minding their own business.

Gbam!!

BigSarah:
Old age full of regrets? ,What’s that about?

i tire o. The happiest people i see around are those without children

Saintmary:
It's all ok, I mean, whether you chose to avoid parenthood or circumstances forced it on you, it's all good.
Now, it's also ok for people to second guess your situation, because at the end of the day, if you stick to your choice, then you have made the right choice for yourself, however, if you change your mind, then they just saved you from an old age full of regrets!

i don't buy into the ideology of using children as a pension plan or as backup caretaker. It's a bad investment, especially with the way the country is. The money used to train a child can be used to plan throughly for retirement.

lilkech:
TAAA!

Check that woman out very well, you’d find out that she either ignorantly flushed her womb While younger or she had a first birth via C-S and is scared of having another.

Even a career can’t subdue a females urge to breastfeed her young.

there's no such thing. Not everyone has that motherhood instinct.

I've delivered many children into this world and a lot of mothers have no idea what to do with the child once they see it. Postpartum depression is real

lilkech:
Wonders shall never end

So women actually ‘choose’ to be childless these days?

When no be reverend sister wey wan go convent??

Yes

But it is not our place to judge

I simply made a decision to stop using others as my yardstick and to follow my pace.

I have had peace of mind since

I have been noticing this trend for a while. I don't have a lot of examples to quote from but i have a few.

The first was at a get-together with some good female friends and we were talking. We talked about work, businesses, exams, then relationships and marriage. Then one of my friends, let's call her T says that's she is taking a break from relationships, because she has suddenly realized that she doesn't want children. And she proceeded to list reasons why. There was silence for a while. Then another of my friends let's call her H then says something that ticks me off. 'You probably feel like that now, but you will change your mind once you're older'. Another friend G chimes in and says that T only feels that way because she just finished paediatrics posting and it can be traumatising, that she'll get over it.

I reply and say that there's nothing wrong with a woman choosing to remain childless. This leads to an argument, but we settle it sha.

The other one was an older lady who came to my office for a consultation after diagnosing and giving drugs as she was my last patient. We got talking and I asked her if she was lonely being alone. She says that yes it is at times, but when she sees most of her married friends being in one form of misery or the other, she feels that she doesn't regret it. She said she couldn't sustain long term relationships due to her dysfunctional upbringing. I then ask her about adopting and she says she doesn't want children, she cannot stand them. She then tells me that not everyone is supposed to be a parent and i agree.

She then tells me that i am the first person who she talked to about this issue and didn't try to judge her, try to convince her to change her mind, dissmiss her or shame her

This got me thinking that some people, especially women due to choice or circumstances have no children. But nigerians in general seem to ostracize them.


This is a recurring theme that I keep seeing. One would think that men are the ones who judge, but no, women do it the most.


So my question is this, why do people feel uncomfortable with the fact that some people cannot or choose not to have children?

It doesn't make sense.

Please share your views on this topic. No bashing please. Happy Sunday.

Na wa o!!

drake99:
What makes you think so? She doesn't have a husband, or is it because she's a born again

righteousness89 op want to defile your wife o

flyingpig:
Are the corpers not licensed by NMA?

NMA doesn't license doctors.

ogododo:
https://punchng.com/replace-striking-doctors-with-corps-members-fg-tells-hospitals/

thunder fire the health minister.

Youth service that is a waste of time. Mtcheeew!!

If you are a doctor, better get out of the country instead of doing the bloody youth service.

pocohantas:
Please stop bothering your fine head with what silly Nigerian girls do. Last I checked, Nigerian men are the most desired men in the world. Foreign girls love, date and marry them for who they are. Nigerian men are being rushed from Ghana to Somalia, Afghanistan and the whole world.

If I was a BROKE Nigerian man with such premium options, I wouldn’t be creating thread upandan like you guys do. I will simply marry a foreign woman.

gbas gbos

DXNNigeria:
Hi guys, I will try and make the story short.

I had unprotected sex with my girlfriend on 18th of July, She told me on the 27th of August that she went for pregnancy test and she is 2 weeks pregnant.

Just kind of confused as to the disparity in the dates. The result should be 5 weeks plus (Almost 6 weeks) and not 2 weeks.

Please, to the health workers, how accurate can pregnancy test be? No problem if the pregnancy is mine but wont want to take responsibility for what is not mine.

when was her last menstrual period? Please let her go and get a scan done

Amatarasha:
I did dat already but likes of funmisticqueen( drfunmisticglow) sabotaged it out of hate 4 me

please don't quote me. Thanks. I am not funministicqueen

Amatarasha:
I did dat already but likes of funmisticqueen( drfunmisticglow) sabotaged it out of hate 4 me

please don't quote me. Thanks. Ibam no funministicqueen

After God, fear men!!

Lynkings:
Industrial mixer

How much is thiis?