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The thing that everyone has to admit is this. Raising a child is not easy!!!

So as adults, we have to decide for ourselves.

Do i want to be a single mother?(widow, rape, special needs, mental illness,and maybe incest excluded?

Do i want to be a single father? (Wodower, special needs, abandonment by partner, mental illness and maybe incest excluded)

Your answer will serve as a guide to how you conduct yourself with the opposite sex.

If you give consent toward unprotected sex, then you are giving consent towards pregnancy and parenthood.

What single parents need right now is our support. Not being judgmental. We need elders, and those who have gone on this path to offer guidance to many who struggle.

Society is taking a lot of insult for the degenerates many raised poorly.

ubunja:
what is to be invested in someone?

Time, money, emotions and so on.

It varies per individual basis

ubunja:
giving a woman a baby is one of the easiest way to get her invested in you and chasing you. Plus a woman you have a baby with will not deal too roughly with you.

Everything we do is calculated for self preservation.

Baby that can be aborted, or dumped in a pit latrine once it is born.

So getting a a girl pregnant just to invest in you because you are not up to standard is now the way forward? That's what a swindler does.

Besides, only feminine men want to be chased.

If you are worth investing in, you wont need to put her in the family way. Go and make yourself worth investing in.

Fiestafetta:
Honestly I now know reason why some people are single and remained till eternity. It is not a by force to marry from that tribe or village, if Igbo people are too costly for him abeg he should check Yoruba or Hausa, nothing to drag on this. At least some people that married from such village or tribe are still happy, this is family things and not need to see them as potential enemies. A friend of mine collect his list from his prospective Yoruba in law, in the list they put a car or equivalent in naira but as a serious and gentle man, he went to meet the family but surprisingly they told him that it is not by force if he can't afford it. So guys should show maturity at times... If he can marry a Yoruba lady free of charge please he shouldn't look back and save us all these unnecessary drama abeg.... Hausas are even more cheaper, I heard they will only flog him and that's all.....

lol

What do I Know? I am Yoruba. I cannot be bothered.

Ayofaks:
This depends on the kind of ingredients you'll be using, things are quite expensive now. Budget 100,000, this will cover buying plastic containers for your products, branding(logo and all) and the ingredients you'll be using.

thanks

2babymamas:
Get knowledge first. If you have good knowledge about the business, you will know where you can start.

i have some knowledge concerning making the products, attended some online courses on branding,.

But sales is what I am not too sure o.

It is well

Good afternoon everyone,

Fashionistas, business people, skincare people, i need your assistance.

I would like to start a skincare business before the end of the year. I would like to focus on just face products using ingredients from nature. I am not focused on whitening but having a healthy glowing skin, no matter your complexion and gender.

I have done some training in a school late last year, but i would like to ask these questions.

Like how much capital on average does it cost to launch a skincare business with 4-5 products?

What steps do I need to take?

My products are in testing phase right now. I would really appreciate the kind comments and suggestions.

pheelhip:
Not all banks deduct these charges you listed out here
moreover it depends on the type of account you opened with these Banks

please could you explain further?

GboyegaD:
Yes I will. If you read my other posts, you would see it clearly as he needs to know what the problem is. That said, she has her grudge and have a right to it.

At this time, there's not much time and so as not to add issues to the compounding issues, it is best he pays for the service than bring friends or family that could be disrespected/ or his wife being disrespected.

While it isn't a big deal, truth is what money can solve shouldn't cause too much problems. Hopefully, post this incidence they would be able to talk and clear whatever the grudge is and this should also be able to appease the wife.

If she was 5 months pregnant during the last one, that means she has a small child who is like a year and 4 months, who is learning to walk all over the place.

This is dangerous.

Amatarasha:
Excuse me don't insult my intelligence ok, how did u know my husband based in that artic place eh!

Funmisticqueen is a doctor ( though quack)

So u are her

what intelligence?

Amatarasha:
Are you Funmisticqueen?
Y are u humans so troublesome eh Y?

no, i am DrFunmisticGlow, why do people mistake me for funnmisticqueen

Amatarasha:
He is a footballer he is doing fine ,like number 10,

Y are u hiding in d shadows cos of men, me æmarthårashis is truely d only goddess here, am not afraid of Jehovah talkless of men here , but u are so scared of men here

Pls n pls my husband is not a horseband

so your horseband has a pot belly like number 10

Amatarasha:
Can a dick be 12 inches in length ? Yes am a lesbian by nature BUT WE HAVE TO discuss it #sugarcandystick..( AM SO DRUNK GWAD )
Me RELIGION IS LESBIANISM u must know
Me soul is so drunk right now ,maybe to drown my spiritual pains

how is your siberia horseband

She's a nursing mother.

Juliearth:
Blessed are you amongst other men to know your wife's true colours. Marry a woman that can support you through thick and thin... Is she handicapped? What is stopping her from setting up a small business to support you? That you didn't have the best childhood experience doesn't mean you should be a dunce and a fool for love.

You have a child with her, you can cater for that child's wellbeing, but that doesn't necessarily mean marrying the mother of that child, especially since she has shown traits that you cannot cope with. Work out an arrangement with her to go back to her parents' house. Your mother can cater for your daughter for the time being...



You also need to work on your cheerful giving spirit. You are not God, stop playing God in people's lives by trying to help them. Learn to hear from God before helping and you should also know that there is a factor called "the rainy day". If your savings culture was topnotch, you may not have resorted to taking loans to pay rent and other things... People take loans for investments and not to sort liabilities. There is a video by pastor Smart Adeyemi. Its on giving. I would implore you to look for that video and pay heed to the content.

banku:
You may think you are making sense, but your false grandeur of entitlement will lead you to regret.

You think those that worked and send themselves to medical schools abroad and come home are stupid?

By the time you realize that no matter what you achieve abroad, you are still half-human and no amount of money can redeem you, you will become sober.

Melancholy abroad for your type is a disease.

Na you sabi!


If you like stay in this shithole.

mascot345:
Please , advice needed . I feel so tempted to buy this Mercedes Benz. My monthly salary is just 350k. I have negotiated with the seller ,,, He gave me #3.5million. I am just a contract staff.

My company can decide to sack me anyday, anytime. We are always afraid. Or they might decide not renew our contracts.

Every staff is always afraid of losing his job or contract renewal. And every staff is always saving for rainy day.

A car is a depreciating asset. Use the money to invest

ahiboilandgas:
After 20 years of migration to oyinbo country and finding no fullfillment dont come and be forming suprise when northern doctors are heading most federal govt health agency from Nhis to cmd,to minister ......

stop sewing diarrhoea here biko!!

ahiboilandgas:
so the teacher that taught your sorry ask biochemistry,chemistry,maths in your level 1,2,3, where all doctors
..

isnt the topic of discussion tetiary education?

ahiboilandgas:
how about the salary of teachers that train the doctos and sojas on frontline a new phd holder taking ur biochemistry is paid 130k while a soja is paid 70 k ...

the teachers that train the doctors are doctors, so?!

alphajba12:
This is just the beginning

why did you lift this from the Facebook group. We have to be careful t what we post on social media to The masses

hashtagged:
You are back
60% of women here are educated and don't get bashed, you get bashed because you are just s tupid

who are you?

Being an educated woman with an opinion. You will be tagged a feminist

Durentt:
I am 22 years old, living with my parents and have been battling with homosexual urges for as long as I can remember and also looking for what to get rid of my sex drive. My parents know my fight also.

I began 3 months ago after reading online that injecting toxic substances in the testicles will kill them and surgically process would be required to remove them.

I injected alcohol with a syringe through my scrotum and directly into the balls, I did this few times a week (every other day, giving intervals so the pain from the previously injected testicles could heal) I can't remember the number of times I did this but no results.

I continued torturing my testicles, putting rubberband around them for 24 hours, lighting matches on them and yelling "better dead than a faģgot" etc. Still no results and more pains, sore, small rashes coming on scrotum (sorry). And this happens after masturbating and the guilt comes over me.

One morning around 7h30 I woke up, went to the toilet to urinate and then I brought out my syringe -- got some petrol from the reserve and injected into the right testicle with a sharp discharge.

Boom, immediate pain (not the worst, but it was persistent). I tried to keep calm but couldn't -- I ran to my father to confess what I had done.

Immediately he took me to the family pharmacist and he was like "I have never seen something like this before" and I'm like "you're not in my shoes to know my frustration". The pharmacy gave me pain relief and injected me to fall asleep.

2 weeks of hell, the next morning my right testicles was swollen to the size of an orange (I only injected the right one because the pain was too much to continue to the left).

The pharmacy told me I was lucky to have injected only little quantity -- with risks of cancer, complications etc. if I tried it again.

To cut the story short -- after two weeks the swelling reduced with pus coming out on its own and all that. I'm alive and wouldnt dare play with my testicles again.

I'm not a practicing homosexual -- I don't know what the future holds for me but I exert self control and self love every day while hoping for the best.

LESSON TO BE LEARNT: DON'T KILL YOURSELF BECAUSE YOU ARE HOMOSEXUAL.

you need to see a mental health practitioner. It can help. It's deeper than controlling homosexual urges.

drmuchin:
WHAT A BIG SHAME!

what's shameful about it, it's the truth

[quote author=xxolisexx post=93239696]its true, saw the flames from falomo,

BREAKING: A branch of Access Bank at Adetokunbo Ademola Street, Victoria Island, Lagos, is on fire. pic.twitter.com/95psolLz0X

— Pulse Nigeria (@PulseNigeria247) August 26, 2020

is well

frog12:
they are frustrated because they are still THINKING like DUCKS. that's why they RAN away to begin with.

when THEY COME BACK, they should go into PRIVATE PRACTICE. AVOID anything government! GOVERNMENT doesn't change immediately. GOVERNMENT bureaucracy will frustrate you!

My God you are ignorant.

To hell with this. I'm done explaining.

drmuchin:
bros i dey this table, can totally relate. naija don cast wallahi

residency is a waste of time in this country.

martineverest:
expect senate to review the law of medical college subsidies to meet what's attainable in other countries like ghana

are they ready to meet the standard of education required to do that then?

Have top equipment and basic amenities?

Yankee101:
Nigerian federal institutions do not charge tuition

they do.

And miacallenous fees from department staff for one thing or the other. It is more than just school fees