₦airaland Forum

richarts: My confusion is this. Is it wrong for your boss (two) to ask u to help them with food?... How can u stop such a thing from repeating itself?... & why would a boss do such a thing?.

victorian: Hell, NO!

Angelahoney: Its a pity a lot of men suffer inferiority complex. I grew up in a wealthy home, I studied in UK, I have a business with a monthly turnover running into tens of millions.
My husband is struggling with a peanut salary job. I asked him to resign and work for me so that the money I pay doesn't leave the family. But he refused.
I'm very beautiful with a child and not up to 30. Some people say its because I'm richer. May be. In fact I bought him a brand new car but he prefers to drive the Tokunboh jalopy.

I would not want to mention his tribe so that the thread does not deviate. That's my side.

Angelahoney: No I'm not. I'm as logical as you. Fact is many men think they're the only ones who can reason. They see women are emotional beings. But I expected my husband to ask me why I decided to use cat fish to cook egusi soup instead of goat meat.

ileobatojo: I don't understand, he had made specific request about what he wanted you to buy and what he wanted to eat and you agreed, then you just switched things up without letting him know. It's not like it would have been any extra work for you to put the catfish in the pepper soup and the goat meat in the egusi. If you wanted to eat something different, you could have separated a portion of the food for yourself and made what you want. I wonder if examining your heart for the real reason why you decided to change the food won't lead you to the reason he is talking divorce.

Ishilove: Bakassi is a nigerian territory... historically and linguistically! The territory was ceded to cameroun in 2002 because of mad ambition of OBJ who wanted 3rd term in office and traded off the territory to court the support of international community. This is against the background protests from bakaasi ppl and nigerians in general because of strategic importance of the oil rich peninsula to the country. Now that new facts hv emerged the FG shud pursue the case with all vehemence. We shudnt be humiliated by a banana republic like cameroun. In the meantime the place shud be militarised to ward off molestation from their gendarmes. Kudos to FG for rising to the occasion.

obowunmi: Nigeria is the country of religious bigots and pretenders --- where people worship the devil religiously in their bedroom closet but go to church every sundays and never miss prayer sessions or bible study.

sharacter: Well I wasn't gonna publicize this but i had to . There is dis girl my friend is dating, let's call her Mabel. My guy and I structured some random double date sometime last month and his partner was the delectable Mabel, she's endowed in d right places and she wouldn't have to work too hard to seduce an harmless blad which was exactly wat happened. It was late in the night, my friend could not take Her to his family pad, so he begged that I let her stay in my place overnite and I said yes. Fast forward to 3 hours later, two drunk adults, pretence of watching californication and well we tangoed,mbut she practically asked for it and it would have been a slight on my manliness to decline. She left the next morning and I promptly told my guy what happened. A week later dis chic was back for another dose ( need I mention my talent in such thing). Now I have no issue with free Ponmo, am just taken aback that this girl seems to have no issue doing my friend and I simultaneously as long as she thinks he doesn't know. It got to a head one day, I was with my friend, she called him, they did lovey dovey and the next sec she called my line and was gon act with me too. My friend has asked that we continue messing with her, am just thinking if this is not one of those things that come back to bite you in the future. What do you think NLanders.

ikechukz: I'm not trying to brag cos i'm not the cutest guy in the world.One thing i noticed was that everywhere i go,girls like to get close to me.In class the pretty girls want to seat beside me all the time and sometimes they even secure a seat for me before i get to class but one funny thing is that i don't even care about any of them.I just see them as ordinary people cos i'm not the womanizing kind of guy.I'm a quiet guy and don't really like having female friends cos my girlfriend is okay for me.
I don't know if anyone have any similar experience and one thing is that it didn't start today.It started from my primary school days.