₦airaland Forum

Gaxuvir:
Abortion is evil, don't join him in that plot. Also, approach the issue from the spiritual angle, pray hard for God to change him as it could be spiritual attack on him. God will see you through this difficult time.

The problem with this generation is that we never consider the spiritual angle of things. She not only needs to pray for the man but she needs to insist that he goes for deliverance. He needs urgent help before he destroys himself and everyone surrounding him.

FeliciaOja:
I use all the vex inside me and push the door open.
My room was smelling strong disgusting smell of Indian hemp. I saw this yeye boy snoring with music playing on speaker
I flog him belt as he was sleeping and we argued as I scolded him.
This morning he refuse to talk to me and even reject the fried egg I made

so I've started thinking of sending him out of my house. The trauma I experience last night still vexing me.
Should I punish him by not giving him money for 1 week
or
Should I purse him from my house?

Indian hemp in your house...you are closer to jail than you think. You had better send him packing before he sends you to jail.

Candidlady:



68 - 26
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Married her when she 19

The man was 61 when they got married
(Idont trust my maths)

All this kind of marriage can never work.. the parents of the girl must be something else and the man’s family sef get am for body


But watch how someone will counter this all thanks to ned and Regina’s union

No amount of money or length of dik can make me marry someone who is way older than me
allah ya kiyaye

Dedicating this ftc to all those struggling out there
Keep your hope alive
Drag some Canadian loud

Are you also dragging Canadian Loud?

Jeweltz:
Is any of you looking for a wife? I'm � beautiful, educated, respectful, submissive, Godly, know how to cook.

Only a guy living in Canada please, and must not be on student visa.
Men in Nigeria are Heartbreakers and liars

If you are virgin then yes but if you be olosho den you be tiff. You dey the mumu man wey go carry you enter Canada, you go file divorce, collect the mumu man property, come revert back to olosho tinz.

Templee333:
something did happen anyway, i was labeled a ritualist for that. That's something. By the way i don't know why the Hebrew letters YHWH sounds the same thing like HU (that is if u try to pronounce YHWH without including the vowels that are added to it)

Na bro. YHWH sounds nothing like HU even if it is pronounced without the vowel sounds. HU is monosyllabic but YHWH is clearly not. If something indeed happened to you as a result of singing HU then there must be substance to it and the next step is to investigate where it stands, either in the light or in the darkness, either in peace or in chaos, either in freedom or slavery.

bennybuhari:
https://independent.ng/budget-sanwo-olu-grew-lagos-debt-from-n542b-to-n797b-without-any-development-jandor/

Sanwo-Ole

I will never be poor enough to fail to give to those who labored for me when I could not. My parents and my family will always have a part of my wealth. That is one of the ways through which I honor my parents as commanded by the LORD GOD.

Meektunz:
Been married for over 5 years now and ever since my wife gave birth to my first child, I've been suspecting that it's not my child due to no sense of resemblance.

I finally did a DNA test but unfortunately the result shows that I'm not the father of my first child. No doubt my wife loves me so much and honestly she has done a lot, sacrificed alot for me.

My conscience never allowed me to end the marriage because honestly she is a good wife one could ever ask for though she has her bad sides.

Since the result came out, I never told her or confronted her because I'm very very certain that once I confront her the marriage will end cos alot will happen but everyday once I see the boy and remember, I get so angry but after some time when we are all playing as a family I will forget.

I still do everything a father could do for his son. Honestly it's not easy to forget about everything.

What do you advise me to do guys?

Dude you are going to put yourself in a ton of trouble later. That your wife is now an angel does not mean you should not right the wrongs of the past. You need to let your wife know of what you found and let her know you would like to get this resolved as amicably as possible. She needs to identify the man responsible for the child and you two need to work on having the rightful father take responsibility for the child. In addition you need to make up your mind to inform that child about his status in the home as a step-child (if he remains in your home for the time being). You need to also ensure that you are not doing in this in secret. You need to ensure that the parents of the lady are involved in the process. Once this process is concluded you can continue with your married life and heal. A wound hidden is not a wound healed rather it is a wound that festers.

budaatum:
Excuse me, but "he hit her" is his self confessed fact, while "she's cheating" is what he thinks and wants to believe with no credible evidence!

Not making that distinction says a lot about your reasoning capabilities but I must confess that you are nowhere near the worst here.

The person you quoted was spot on and you have the reasoning of a fish. Just in case you missed the evidence, the op stated that: "Her junior sister told me all the dirty things she has been doing since she has got back to their house, like going to sleep in a guy's house overnight when her dad is on night shift." Use your head next time. Life is hard but being stupid makes life even harder.

Djbond:
I'll summarize this as possible.

No one is perfect, yes I hit her cuz I was suspicious of her cheating. I bought her an Android phone and she started chatting with guys on FB and WhatsApp, talking about location on how to meet. I'm not always around though, I come home once in 2 days and I provide everything enough for she and our 3 daughters need to sustain on a daily. She doesn't work, our first daughter is 4, and our twins girls are 2 years old. So I believe she doesn't need to stress herself but just to take care of the kids.

Fast forward, she left a day after I beat her (I know it's not right but I couldn't hold the anger anymore) and i already apologized afterwards not knowing she had in mind to leave. I came home and couldn't find her and the kids, I called and started begging, my landlady, my friends, all our neighbors in the street called and begged her, she just kept lying that she will come back today, come back tomorrow but we never see her. I cried and cried, almost killed myself, didn't eat for days, just drinking and smoking, got admitted to the hospital, my neighbor called my wife that I'm in the hospital, she didn't care, never came to check on me.

I called her few days after I got discharged that I miss her and asked her why she didn't come to check on me at the hospital. She only gave an excuse that she has started some pos work in their street. She lives in her father's house now with her stepmom. Her junior brothers are the ones taking care of the children. Her junior sister told me all the dirty things she has been doing since she has got back to their house, like going to sleep in a guy's house overnight when her dad is on night shift. I called her dad to explain, but didn't give me the chance to explain. I called her last week Saturday to come see me, and i collected the phone she's using to do runs up and down from her. Now she uses her sister's phone to do those things now.

She called me with her sister's phone on Monday that i should move on when she discovered that I already know all the things she's doing. I have a problem moving on, I always think about her and my children.
I don't have appetite to eat even as I type this, I'm drinking royal circle. I hope this won't lead to my demise as I'm killing myself slowly. I love her. Why are women like this?

Pls nairalanders don't judge me or abuse me for hitting her. No one is perfect and there's no man that will take it if he sees his woman with another man

NB: I regretted hitting her and already apologiized and prayed to God for forgiveness

Sorry bro. You are in love with a hoe. Are you sure those angels are yours? She was itching to hit the streets and you gave her the perfect opportunity. I have said it over and over again you guys should stop attempting to privatize public utilities. It just doesn't work out no matter how hard you try. Dude you should be glad you hit her because it rapidly exposed her agenda. You have to let her go, seek counseling and make up your mind never to accept her back because when she returns (and she will) she will wreck a greater havoc on your soul.

DamnnNiggarr:
My wife says– No family planning, No sex.
for the past four months, my wife has been mounting series of pressures on me concerning family planning and I kept on ignoring her, but these past weeks, she has shown me what shege really looks like.

Up to three weeks, my wife has denied me access to her sacred part, insisting on her "No family planning, No sex" rule, anytime a tried to make love to her.

I've Three(3) beautiful Angels with her and my last child clocked 4 Years old. She said, she's not ready for another child despite our last child who's our only daughter being 4yrs old and my second son is 6, while my eldest child is 10years( that's 4 years gap). she said she's done with giving birth.

I got the shock of my life this night, that she asked me to go and get c*ndoms, if I want to have my way to her sacred part or otherwise we visit the doctor for counseling or do the family planning, reason why I picked up my phone to write this. I'm fed up because I don't subscribe to this idea of family planning or anything related to it, due to it's several after effects.

But it seems like she's winning, but either ways, I would sincerely like to see some opinions from here before going to see the doctor whether to give in to her request or not.

Please assist me for wider audience.

Dude, if she dies now you will remarry the next second. if she is not confident about having another child then leave her be. Use a condom as she has requested and by the time she hits menopause you can lamba raw ad infinitum!

Ken4Christ:
It bothers me a great deal to see lots of baby mamas struggling to raise up their kids alone. And some of them are children of men who are capable but they just let the women alone suffer to raise their children. And when the kids become somebody in the society, they show up to lay claim on them.

I see this as wickedness that will not go unpunished. The Bible condemns it. Some of them even claim to be Pastors. I wonder what they teach their congregation.

This is wickedness. Those who neglect their children under the care of their baby mamas will end up in hell no matter who you are. The scripture says;

Psalms 9:17 The wicked shall be turned into hell, and all the nations that forget God.

And corruption will not allow welfare department to do their jobs. We do not even have strong laws in Nigeria to check this evil. You can try it in some countries. You will end up in jail.

So, stop this wickedness if you are one of them.

...because stupid baby mamas stupidly spread their legs for stupid men and for stupid reasons...now they have children that run a high risk of inheriting stupidity and sustaining stupidity in their bloodline.

CuteMadridista:
do you need to meet someone physically before hating them?

You need to know a person before deciding on whether to hate or like the person. This is why many ladies and guys get into a ton of trouble while dating. You don't know a person, you haven't been with the person for more than a day and then boom you are already in bed with them...classic recipe for destruction... It's bonkers taking a stand on what you don't know. It is not enough to just make vast generalizations and final conclusions based on hearsay parrotted through social media.

No. Whether Judas betrayed the LORD or not, He would have still died on the cross because that was his mission on earth. Jesus came to pay the price for Judas but Judas decided to receive the price for his own soul.

lhordspy:
Putin is just too good for this game.

I know this new law is targetted at those foreigners that are on ground in Russia to facilitate the release of Brittney Yevette Griner.

With this new law, that girl go tey for jail pass prison warder

Someone who is gay still had the effontery and gut to sneaked in cannibis into Russia, when the tension between Russia-US is at its peak. Double wahala .

After ending the 9years jail term for drug smuggling, she will face another charges for influencing sexual disorderliness for sure.

Russia say no to evil western cultures.
In Russia there will be only DAD and MuM .

How can I like this comment 1000 times?

Mayflowa:
This guy needs to be arrested. Your action has just killed 7 people. To thing you know something about what what to this event and keep it from security and the people is a criminal offense. We don't want to harbour any killer on our street. So a proper investigation of the pastor will lead to the arrest of these gangs. I don't care about his secrets! I feel sad listening to him even. He said he cannot be killed but those that were killed served same God as him. It is because none of his family members were killed. He would have been distraught and distressed by now. He still has mouth to brag. You were saved today because you were in a bullet proof car.

You don't know if he is already working with security agencies. You don't know anything about his personal life. It is possible you have never met him in person at all and you may never meet him in person till you pass on...but somehow you have morbid hatred for him. You need help oh you just don't know. You claim his action killed 7 people. Can you defend that statement in court? Put regulator on your mouth before your mouth carry you go where you nor know ohh!

nobetoday:
The church members are hungry and dying and then tomorrow thanks giving offerings for this testimony will buy more armouries for the pastor

Maybe you should carry fact finding mission go him church go interview him members make den tell you wetin den dey find for him church na. That's a more sensible and scientific way of knowing why people attend his church.

First they smear him…now they want to kill him.

DesChyko:
Of all three most popular candidates for 2023, there is only one Nigerians can beat our chests and say with confidence that he will definitely see something like this through. Only one.

Vote wisely.

Dude do you think it is yahoo boys running NNPC? Or do you think it is the likes of MC Oluomo and yoruba touts that are siphoning funds from the NNPC? This shit has been on for a very long time and no one could stop it, not Obasanjo, not GEJ and not Buhari. If these people could not stop it then it is Obi that will stop it. They will just waste him or render his government totally ungovernable to the point that you guys will be beg for him to resign. You folks don't understand Nigerian politics. Only a powerful but benevolent cabal can rule Nigeria successfully. Peter Obi is just one man, that does not have the support of his own people and is not economically powerful enough to be a member of the cabal that call the shots in Nigeria. Plus he cannot do anything meaningful even if we assume that he is a saint and that he means well for Nigeria because he will always have the cabal to contend with.

We have to learn a lesson. We are all we've got. If we, the people, do not rise and form a parallel government as we almost did during the EndSars protests, Nigeria will forever be doomed to be a paradise for the cabal but a hellhole for many.

Esseite:
See how all of them are standing on the sidelines.. if it was a muslim country, black country or less white country, ships and foreign armies would have infiltrated the country..

Bro it has nothing to do with religion or race, it is all about power. No one wants to anger a mad man that is armed with nukes.

LordReed:
I don't begrudge anyone their desire to believe in a Jewish or any other type of deity. What I will stand against though is bad ideas that are borne on belief such as the idea that a deity is required to thrive successfully in this world. That idea is nothing but bunkum. So believe all you want but if you try to spread bunkum I am gonna say no.

...but it is okay to spread your own "bunkum", right? That's unethical. Everyone has the right to promote what they believe to be true and it is up to others either denounce it or accept it. It is bunkum to you that a deity is needed to be "successful" in this world but in your reasoning you failed to realize that success is a very subjective term measured differently by different people over time. There are as many definitions of success as there are people if we were to allow for the nuanced realities of every individual faces over time. Some "successes" may be attributed to a "deity" somewhere while some others may not be. So you may have to rethink your position. However, I will always find it impossible to accept the random, undirected and unguided events led to the creation of all reality. This profoundly stupid idea is believed strongly by some of the smartest minds on the planet and they hold on to it religiously. How on earth will anyone be able to convince me that intelligence, information, order, space and time all resulted out of nothing by sheer accident and yet the people who hold this view find it absolutely appalling that some people believe that a highly intelligent super being was responsible for all reality.

MaxInDHouse:
It's because you lack accurate knowledge of God's word that's why you think the God of the Bible may not have influence on some people. For your information as long as a person wakes up each morning to have one thing or another with his/her fellow human the God of the Bible has influence on you!

Please tell me who amongst mankind is not working seriously to put food on his table?
Or who hasn't lost a loved on in death?
Or who doesn't feel the effects of religious activities around him or her? Genesis 3:19

For the fact that someone is here discussing about God alone is an indisputable evidence that the God of the Bible has influence in what he or she is doing because it costs you time, data and exerting of your brains to be here arguing about God!

People define their perception based on their characteristics. No amount of debate will convince a blind who doesn't know that he is blind that the color of everything that exists is black. It doesn't matter how intelligently you convey your argument such a person will never "see" things the way you do. This is why I respect people's opinion when they are adamant. As for me I have my beliefs based on my experience through life and as far as the belief in the supernatural is concerned everyone's journey is unique to them.

While I agree that the act is bad because it can damage sexual relations in a marriage, we must understand that masturbation has become the substitute for expensive marriages, gold digging prostitutes and ladies looking for poverty/konji alleviation programs.

LordReed:
Abegi leave story. I was facing potential death on the surgeon's table and I didn't once call on your Jewish deity, yet here I am. The vagaries of life are just that, vagaries. Some of the richest billionaires of this world are either atheist or agnostic so your Jewish deity has no influence on who thrives or not. LoLz.

Well you've got a point there and I respect your opinion. Perhaps my Jewish deity has no influence whatsoever in your life and perhaps in your own lens there is no deity anywhere but even you will have to agree at some point that there are areas or aspects of life that have defied some of the best analytical minds. For example neurological researchers suggest that it is possible for you to be conscious even in a coma (https://www.sciencefocus.com/the-human-body/comas-conscious-communicate/) and there is this notion of "being trapped in one's body" which makes anyone question the nature of human existence, evolution and materialistic worldview. Now this is just one aspect of life. For some others they look back at their lives, see how ordered it is even though in their past moments their life seemed subject to un-directed random events. These persons tend to attribute that order in their life to the GOD they serve. Now people who are exposed to these aspects of life and its many questions are also subject to the same doubts as you only that they decided to believe in the possibility that the existence of a GOD somewhere could explain or provide answers to the many questions that they have. So in as much as I do not blame you for taking your stance in a world of uncertainty, I also expect you to understand why some others choose to believe.

Ajay7411:
It's been a little over 4 years since I stopped going to church and my life has been going well as I got a lot of freedom and whatnot. As I'm now irreligious, atheism is slowly creeping in and I don't know what to do.

Slowly becoming an atheist? What are you slowing for? It is that slowly in the title that really interest me. You are either a believer or not, there is nothing like "slowly becoming". And when did going to church become a necessary and/or sufficient sign of belief in the supernatural. People go to church for a lot of reasons - from earning a living to hunting for the next victim. And if leaving the church has granted you a lot of freedom then you need to question your sanity in the first place. How did you wind up in a place called "church" where your life wasn't going well, huh? A lot of people attend cult gatherings but call it a church you know! But if indeed you left a bible believing church, I hope you will be courageous and morally upright enough to stick to your new found love for atheism when you hit a brick wall and all hope seems to be lost! Because na that time people dey like remember GOD the most.

Bruno3000:
You are right. Same with Methuselah dem. They just occupied space, no achievement whatsoever. THEY LACKED THE SPIRITUAL C.V. TO WIN THE HEART OF GOD.

This is not exactly true. That GOD did not declare Himself the GOD of so so and so does not make them spiritual under-achievers. Enoch was a master of the spirit. He wrote prophecies (some of which Moses did not give full accounts of) and He was the first of only two people who have highest honor of being taken by GOD into heaven without tasting the corruption of death. Yes, there is no location in the law and the prophets or even in the gospels, letters or revelations did anyone refer to the GOD of Enoch. When you hear the phrase the GOD of Mr A, it means that GOD has made a covenant with that Mr A and that covenant is one that is revealed for all to know. There are sons of GOD that have covenants with GOD that are hidden and if for instance such a covenant is made with Mr B you will never hear the GOD of Mr. B because even though a covenant exists between GOD and Mr B. the covenant is secret.

but why is sex top priority among muslims... and it seems there are no goodies for the ladies. I can imagine a man having to go round 4 wives plus tens of houris in Jannah. It is either the man does not have the strength to go round every woman thereby leaving the women mostly Hot and sex starved or men have immense strength to pump them all suggesting that such men will spend the most part of the day pumping...muslims have a lot of explaining to do!

Sixfiguresmart:
Volume 5, Book 59, Number 743:
Narrated 'Aisha:
The Prophet died while his armor was mortgaged to a Jew for thirty Sa's of barley (which is 97.2 kilos of barley.)

He ran out of food. He did not sow a seed or plant a tree. He was busy sexing women with the power of 100 men.

His last meal was by a Jewish woman whose husband he murdered. The woman poisoned him. Rather than looking for a physician, he looked for an 18 year old girl to have an all-night sex marathon. This was a 63 year old man. He died on active duty on a missionary position.

Sahih al-Bukhari 5217 Book 67, Hadith 150

That during his fatal ailment, Allah's Messenger (ﷺ), used to ask his wives, "Where shall I stay tomorrow? Where shall I stay tomorrow?" He was looking forward to Aisha's turn. So all his wives allowed him to stay where he wished, and he stayed at `Aisha's house till he died there. `Aisha added: He died on the day of my usual turn at my house. Allah took him unto Him while his head was between my chest and my neck and his saliva was mixed with my saliva.

Dude , if den catch you ...but dude is this shit you just describe real? Is it really true that despite the pain from the poison Mohammed kept on pumping till he died? Mehn this is bad. Really bad. No religion can recover from such a blow.

SanctifiedSista:
Story... Do this first and fulfill all righteousness, u think u are now wiser than ur Saviour who did his own..stop confusing people with your distraction and analysis

So the exegesis of the word of the LORD is story? Lol. I know your type. Corinthian Christian. No need for further replies.

SanctifiedSista:
Analysis minister..may u not miss the blessing of God trying to figure out things dat are higher than ur brain..

Aunty, your LORD said "search the scriptures, for in them you think you have eternal life..." (John 5:39). Don't just swallow what you hear. Go and meditate on the word of the LORD. "It is the glory of GOD to conceal a matter but it is honor of kings to search out a matter" (Proverbs 25:2). If you are indeed a child of GOD, you are a king, second only to the King of kings and if you are a king it is your glory to reveal the secret things that GOD has concealed. Fast, pray and meditate on: Matthew 3:11 before you miss out on the refreshing from the LORD.