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Romance › Re: What's Happening To Me Guy's? by efficiencie(m): 2:01pm On Sep 18, 2022
OMOJOHN001:
There is this babe that we've been together for past three years now(DATING) I took her as my serious babe Anyway.

Since few months now, I have been having problem with my body system because of this babe, My heart beat so fast to an extent I start feeling like my BP is above normal level.

We don't stay in the same City presently, but she comes to visit me on regular bases.
My fear is that I am Beginning to OVER LOVE this babe, Any thought of her makes me weak and Make my heartbeat to rise. Infact its worse to an extent that I feel unhappy anytime I just have a thought of she breaking my heart or betraying me.

Guy's please this babe was the one running and dying for me before in term of Love, But seems I am now into competition with her.

I'm SACRED she might have Charmed me, My instinct does not use to lie, Infact I can't explain my situation, How do I overcome this issue. I don't want to LOVE her to this extent, I don't want to have my heart troubled again, It feels like I'm dying already sef.

Again things I read hear on Nairaland has contributed into my situation, I can't just breathe normal, Unless I use all my strength.

Maybe I will break up with her sef, I am tired of this situation

Please help me with a solution.
No solution bro. You have entered into the bond already. Pray it doesn't consume you.
Romance › Re: Stop Investing Your Life Into These Women" Solomon Buchi Advices Men by efficiencie(m): 1:57pm On Sep 18, 2022
50picker:
Stop investing your life into these women" Solomon Buchi advices men
The mouth of a strange woman is a deep pit and the abhorred of the LORD fallen therein. Stop chasing strange women. Stop jumping from skirt to skirt and expecting that retribution will not locate you. Stop turning young girls into intimacy gadgets and expecting that your punishment will not locate you. Stop patronizing whores. Stop thinking you can do whatever you like with your body...what you sow is what you reap. If you reaped a destructive wife it is because you have sowed destruction in the life of others.
Romance › Re: Is She Fvcking Another Dick Right Now??? by efficiencie(m): 1:51pm On Sep 18, 2022
Matix222:
My girlfriend is supposed to visit me today as is also a very special day to me( my birthday) she said she will be coming in the morning and won’t go to church since then I have called her up to 17 times no response including texts is she probably fvcking another guy now so couldn’t respond? I need advise
God is less valuable to you than your mumu girlfriend!
Christianity Etc › Re: So Here's A Question For Christians And Muslims by efficiencie(m): 1:35pm On Sep 18, 2022
Davidtalo1:
What do you think motivates people most about religion?
Do you think it's the fear of hell
Or the desire to enter heaven?
As for me the experiences I have had and the testimonies of others are the motivation I need to believe and know God.
Christianity Etc › Re: Do You Go To Church Without Having An Offering? by efficiencie(m): 1:31pm On Sep 18, 2022
Promicah:
What will you do when you don't have an offering to offer before the Lord.

Do you stay at home and follow the service online or you go to church without anything in your hand?
A broken and contrite heart is all the offering God desires (Psalm 51:16-17).
Christianity Etc › Re: Live Well by efficiencie(m): 1:25pm On Sep 18, 2022
Gadalo1990:
Let me teach u zomtin if u can oben ya mind 2 lean, badon my fone, my keybad iz bad.
I zaid i dont believe in him BUT IF I AM WONG AND HE DOEZ EXIZT I then go on 2 exblain y I hate him. I made mention of them n i wont tybe dem again
You did not explicitly state this and even in your response you are still inconsistent.

You cannot say you don't believe God exists and then go ahead to say you hate Him if He exists. It's either you believe God exists or you don't. If you hate God then accept that God exists but if you claim you don't believe God exists then you cannot hate God. This isn't a shrodingher's cat scenario. It is binary.
Christianity Etc › Re: Do Muslims Believe That Jesus Was The Messiah (messiah Means ANNOINTED ONE) by efficiencie(m): 1:14pm On Sep 18, 2022
Sixfiguresmart:
Surah 4:157 and for boasting, “We killed the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, the messenger of Allah.” But they neither killed nor crucified him—it was only made to appear so. Even those who argue for this ˹crucifixion˺ are in doubt. They have no knowledge whatsoever—only making assumptions. They certainly did not kill him.

If he was the MESSIAH of all the prophets, why do we need Mohammed? Why is Mohammed who is not an anointed supersede Jesus?
Why was mohammed not anointed?

Some Muslims believe that Ilyas (Elijah) is still alive and attends Hajj every year. Some Muslims also believe that Ilyas will return at the end times.
I wonder what Messiah means to the Muslims.
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Do You Choose Your Current Church Denomination..? by efficiencie(m): 1:12pm On Sep 18, 2022
bigpicture001:
....i am a Pentecostal church goer... Catholics like to call us protestant...

i chose Pentecostal church because they study the bible more and are more liberarl in thier style of christianity...that is in consonant with modern realities

what about you
I am not a denomination goer rather I am a member of God's church, the bride of Christ. I refuse to be blackmailed by those who are quick to accuse others of church prostitution. All are mine (1 Corithians 3:22).
Christianity Etc › Re: Live Well by efficiencie(m): 1:00pm On Sep 18, 2022
Gadalo1990:
I dont believe he exizt and if he doez, I dont think he iz az wize and kind az they make him ub to be. God iz not all loving. He Juz wantz to be loved and zeved by humanz. I am looking to inceaze in wizdom az a young man and i think believing in God iz foolizhnezz.
Your topic says you are beginning to hate God and then next you say you don't believe [God] exists and then you say you want to increase in wisdom. Inconsistency par excellence. First to believe God does not exist is to accept that you are indifferent to God. If you say you hate God then you are have agreed that God exists because you cannot hate what does not exist. So oga switch your hatred to indifference so that your new found path can make sense. Next, believing or not believing God has nothing to do with growing in wisdom. If you want to grow in wisdom study books, study different endeavors and exercise your mind. Christians know that it is the fear of God, not mere belief, that is the beginning of wisdom. Believing is easy. Knowing is hard. So know.
Education › Re: Pls Solve This Quantitative Reasoning Book 4 Exercise 2a by efficiencie(m): 11:38am On Sep 18, 2022
sayoddy:
Pls scholars, help me (though, it was given to my son but I'm the one cracking brain �) solve this with explanation . It must be submitted on Monday
Let the numbers on either side of the blender be:

x, y, z

in that order. The rule for calculating the missing values is:

x - 2y + z = 1

With this rule you can calculate the missing values given any two values. It applies to either side of the blender.
Romance › Re: Why Is Marriage Not Taken Serious Nowadays by efficiencie(m): 10:38am On Sep 18, 2022
Robertgreene1:
Interesting....
Bros no vex o...But how u made so little sense with so much confidence should be taught in schools under the title..."confidence is the key"...
Honestly...
Oh no I am not angry at all. I recognize you are too stupid to understand a line in what I typed. I didn't type it for misfits like you. You cannot learn by reflection rather you will learn by stripes because the back of fools like you is reserved for stripes.
Christianity Etc › Re: Honest Question To The Christians by efficiencie(m): 10:29am On Sep 18, 2022
Tamaratonye1:
Dump marbles into a slightly tilted empty box and they cover the bottom in a very ordered pattern. The examples of order from chaos are infinite.
Someone does the dumping. Intelligence. Someone provides an empty box. Intelligence. Someone tilts the box at a well defined angle. Intelligence. Someone designed the patterned bottom. Intelligence. Your response reeks of intelligence yet in some oddly convoluted manner you believe your response implies that order comes from chaos without the intervention of intelligent agents.
Family › Re: Why Do Women With A High-status Career Have Problems With Their Marriage by efficiencie(m): 11:48pm On Sep 17, 2022
pabostt:
The potential threat the career of a woman can cause to her marriage especially if her husband isn’t as successful as she is has always been a point of discussion. Moreover, some single men are even afraid to marry a woman who is successful in their chosen career than them. Some believe that the norm is husbands “should” hold higher job status relative to their wives. When this norm is violated, and wives hold the higher status job, negative consequences can follow: Women are more likely to be targets of husbands’ aggression, and the risk for divorce increases.

Question
is it a crime for a woman to succeed in her chosen field or earn more?

Source
High status career women or HSC women for short will struggle with getting spouses because they are not easily docile or submissive. I didn't say they are not submissive at all but rather it doesn't come easy to them. African men in general prefer docile women, submissive women. The good African men will empower their wives in a manner consistent with sustaining the home and improving the wellbeing of the family. She will be empowered but yet submissive to her man. The horrible African men want docile women so that they can have a toy to manipulate. A HSC woman on the other hand has already chosen a path that has been cemented by years of success. It is difficult for her to be malleable to the dictates of a traditional husband. Even in Western societies where we claim men are more liberal, this is also an issue. HSC women assume marital equality off the bat, seek rare men with a higher status and see marriage as a business contract and not a commitment to serve. This may explain why HSC women hardly have spouses or successful marriages.
Family › Re: Respect In Marriage by efficiencie(m): 11:36pm On Sep 17, 2022
expansion1:
How should a wife show respect in marriage as husband always complains she is proud but she is trying to stay at her best. She expresses herself before especially with in-laws but now keeps quiet mostly but she is still seen as proud. Also she use to be slim but as added weight and her body language is misinterpreted. However everything she does she is referred to as Proud. Thank you for commenting. Pls give her suggestions. Thank you.
Tell her to focus on her husband and her husband alone. It is her husband she married and if he is a man indeed he will defend her...but if she married an overgrown boy or a sadist then there is no advice that can help her.
Family › Re: Should I Divorce My Cheating Wife by efficiencie(m): 11:28pm On Sep 17, 2022
Afodot0022:
I really appreciate the income advice from you all. Thank you so much, well i appreciate, i will also appreciate more from others expecially married folks and those that might have had same experience so i can learn how you resolved it. This will be well appreciated. To update you guys, she has been begging me since yesterday and i just find it difficult to forgive and if i forgive her i find it difficult to still trust her. Anytime i remember what i read in those screenshot. It kills me emotionally cos i trusted this woman so much that i can vouch for her fidelity not knowing she is not who i thought she was. I told her to stop all communications with the guy and could you all believe my wife lied to me that she has blocked the guy on whatsap only for me to find out that she was lieing. She told me that the guy sent money 140k for her to buy food stuff and send to him to BAHRAIN so they can do business together. I told her i dont what her to have anything to do with him, i told her to send his money back and could you believe that my wife angrily packed all her belongings and left my apartment when i told her this.Though her stuffs still outside but seems she is ready to leave because of this guy. What i can deduce from this is that she is willing to sacrifice her 5 year marriage to the friendship she has with this guy. This is what have noticed recently. Pls what can i do on this issue cos am exhausted already.

Pls mod help me do justice so i can get more inputs.
Dude let her go if you still love your life. Are you sure your children are really yours. You had better go and confirm before calamity get belle.
Family › Re: Should I Divorce My Cheating Wife by efficiencie(m): 11:24pm On Sep 17, 2022
Afodot0022:
Top of the day to you all wherever you are reading this my story. I am just in an emotional situation now that i need a breather and what to do to ease me of this emotional pains am going through.
I got married 5 years ago and have 2 daughters to that. For almost 5 years of marriage, i have not had any reason to suspect my wife of cheating cause she has always prove to be a loyal and trustworthy person to me not until recently that i started noticing some things popping up. Our marriage has not been that rosy and perfect as we do have alots of arguments which i have tried my best to make her happy in my capabilities. I fund the house finances and barely get any tangible financial support from her but that doesn't really bother me so far am still capable of meeting those bills.
It happened when i noticed that my wife started using password on her phone and she react negatively whenever i want to access her phone. Though she doesn't pick up my phone cos its also has password but i can never deny my wife access to my phone whenever she wants to make use of it. Anytime i want to access her phone, she says she cant allow me cos i dont allow her aswell which is not true. I only password my phone cos of security purpose. The last time i used her phone, i noticed she deleted a particular chat with a guy. It was the guy replying chat that made me knew she deleted the conversation and the way the guy was addressing her made me so uncomfortable. He was using my love and all sort of romantic words to my wife, i saw it and confronted her about it that i dont like it but she said he is just a friend that she knew way back before she got married. I noticed the guy just left the country to an arab country and my wife told me that its strictly business of exporting food stuff to him thats between then.
Fortunately, i picked up her phone last night and what i saw was so devastating, i noticed she was still chatting with the guy and also exchanging love words together. My wife told the guy that she loves him and also miss him so much. This was just a little out of their conversation. I was so mad and screenshot those chat and send to my self for evidence cos she can deny anything deniable. I sent those shots to out church pastor, her dad, her mom and also all her siblings to know what their daughter was doing under my roof. Her dad has been apologizing that i should forgive her but seriously am so hurt emotionally right now and just felt like leaving the marriage cos to trust her henceforth will be difficult.
Pls what advice can you give i do and also did i over reacted by sending those screenshot out to her family and pastor. I need to know cos am confused. Pls pardon my english and typo errors.
No. You didn't overreact. What you did was right. If anything happens to her on account of her cheating it would be known to her parents and pastor that you are not responsible for it. If you cheated and she did what you did i would have said the same.

...but don't be in a hurry to dump her, yet! Now that her parents are aware it is time for some heart felt discussion. She has to open up, confess fully and ask for forgiveness. If she is still defensive and would not yield then you can let her go.
Romance › Re: What Attracted You To Your Current Partner? by efficiencie(m): 10:58pm On Sep 17, 2022
Edembasilprutus:
Some beauty, smart, some because he has money, house and car and lots more.


So where do you meet your current partner?
That your King/Queen??
Nothing really! I just felt pressured deeply to make her my wife. I kept staving off the feeling but it got worse and on that fateful day at exactly 7pm I just said bluntly "I want you to be my wife. If you do not accept I will respect your decision and be happy to be friends with you"...and boom relationship started that ended in marriage years later and I have never regretted a second being with her. All the fights, quarrels and great moments we share are all worth it.
Romance › Re: Why Do Girls Like Putting Up With This Character For Goodness's Sake???? Not Fun by efficiencie(m): 10:54pm On Sep 17, 2022
ccjoe:
You invite a girl to come over, she promises you. Because of her, you quickly arrange your house, clean everywhere, wash your toilet clean, lay your bed and spray airfreshner. You even down a bottle of alomo bitters and all sorts of concoction just in case.

The time for her to come is here as you agreed and well you decided to give her about an hour or so maybe she'll show up but she doesn't.

You call her phone to ask her whatsup, she's not picking, some will even switch off their phone.

Pls if you know you wouldn't come, you shouldn't have made the promise. It's nothing but wickedness... huh
Nor vex she gatz go service one client first before e go reach your turn. To sey you package money for am ahead and promise her balance after the show she go run come your house. She go even cook and even tidy your apartment for you. The fact that you had to do all the chores yourself means you are kinda broke and she decided to redirect her commodity to a higher bidder. Nor vex ehn. Take heart.
Romance › Re: Why Is Marriage Not Taken Serious Nowadays by efficiencie(m): 10:50pm On Sep 17, 2022
andyblinks05:
Back then when I was young immediately a guy reaches 30 years his main aim was to find a wife and settle. I know that the financial situation in the country is harsh but that alone is not the main reason why young men lose interest in marriage now.
We were having a discussion with my friends recently, then the discussion took us to marriage issue and he said '' me I don't think I will ever get married I have more things to focus on than to get myself committed to a marriage. He said it jokenly but he was serious.
Most of my friends now don't have serious relationship with Lady's not to even talk of marriage. Now my question is what causes the sudden interest lost in marriage that most young men now don't talk about marriage now , they only prefer babymamas than to get married. This has kept me wondering so please I need more light to this.
1. Why would a man fancy marriage when he can get what married men get without getting married. Many ladies spread their legs at the slightest provocation and would even go a step further to cook, wash, clean and perform other duties even though they are not yet married to the man.

2. There are fewer men these days and a whole lot of boys. It takes a man to build a family. It takes a man to see the purpose of marriage. It takes a man to understand the benefits of responsibility. It takes a man to bridle his desires, emotions and proclivities. It takes a man to seek out and wed a wife...but today there are a lot of overgrown babies masquerading as men.

3. As societies worldwide become more decadent more men and women become so badly deformed psychologically and spiritually that they become marital misfits. So it becomes convenient to get ladies pregnant and raise children into the rotteness that nurtured them in the first place.
Christianity Etc › Re: Honest Question To The Christians by efficiencie(m): 10:18pm On Sep 17, 2022
FemiAjani:
Your post
As far as morality goes, you can thank evolution for that. We are social animals, and our societies benefit when people respect each other's life and property.

This is according to which research? Can you explain how morality evolved? At what point did phytoplanktons down to apes, your earliest ancestors begin to respect each other? On what basis did you ancestors determine what is right and what is wrong and how was it as a result of evolution? Your answer begs more question.



It's inborn -- we are actually programmed to be good,

If we are programmed to be good then there must be a programmer. You may want to say that the programme evolved but that would be you shooting yourself in the foot because that would mean that the programme in humans defining their behavioral patterns is capable of learning. A programme that learns is much more sophisticated than a mere set of instructions that would most certainly necessitate a highly intelligent designer. So you just refuted yourself with this statement.

Evolution is not random, what works gets passed down.
Can you explain how life moved from inanimate to animate? Millions of years after the big bang matter was inanimate. So tell me how intelligence, emotion and life started. Also tell me how conscience evolved and also tell me how people are able to have NDEs and ESPs? And since there is evidence of people being conscious even though they are in coma you have to also explain how consciousness is defined and how it evolved.

it occurs naturally as each type of life evolves to fit in its niche.

Can you define "naturally"? Are you stylishly trying to say "order" showed up from nowhere? If order does not require intelligence then it showed up by random unaided and unguided processes. This is the same as saying a software like Microsoft Office suite was written by a billion monkeys typing away on a coordinated system of a billion computers working for a billion years. Absolutely ridiculous. Order cannot be generated without intelligence.

I don't know where matter, space and time originate, but I am sure we will have a proper answer eventually. Science is working on it. Not everything has to have an immediate answer, it took us many centuries to learn as much as we know now.

There is a lot science still hasn't unravelled. Just recently the JSW telescope is returning images indicating the big bang may be entirely false. The big bang community is fighting to explain the puzzling images they are getting. So your science still has a lot to answer. And guess what "the theory of evolution" is still a theory!
Romance › Re: Why Don't Men Marry Their Baby Mama's by efficiencie(m): 7:43pm On Sep 16, 2022
Wordsfrombimpe:
Why don't men marry their Baby Mama's

Like you mean you will impregnate a lady and not even think about settling down with her

Like really

Men , why do that knowing that she may find it hard to see a genuine partner to marry her

Then as for ladies ,close your legs

Especially with the rate of baby Mama's out there

You need to understand the difference between when a man is serious and when he is not serious

Avoid visiting men

Avoid sleeping around

Infact focus on building your self

So that the right man will come along

It's so painful when I watch many baby Mama's do all of this parenting all by their selves without a partner to be there to support her

Copyright Digital Bimpe The Coach
Why should I pay for the cow when the milk is free. If her legs can open before marriage it can remain open without marriage. Okafor's 5th law. Know this and know peace.
Romance › Re: My Mother In-law Nee Sex From Me by efficiencie(m): 7:36pm On Sep 16, 2022
Trustedapparel:
My mother in-law always complain that I don't give her attention ....fast forward to yesterday my mother in-law add me on wattsap and start sending me sexy pictures of hers....mind u we are all staying together at my family resident...infact Thier is one day that I am dressing this woman just batch in into my room without fear , looking at my penis ...I was so ashame of my self ....I don't want to chase her away ....and I haven't report to my wife this issue... because I don't want to bring separation in-between them .....mind u the said mother in-law is only 42 years.....I don't know were to start from, this thing is killing me inside and giving me sleepless knight,I need advice please no insult
What is killing you inside is that you are not legally allowed to smash your mother-in-law...but deep down you want to wound the woman badly. To sey government legalized adultery na, your first target na your mother-in-law. Abi?
Romance › Re: When A Lady Hardly Wears Bra And Goes Around Bra Less She Doesn't Care What You by efficiencie(m): 7:32pm On Sep 16, 2022
Wordsfrombimpe:
When a lady hardly wears bra and goes around bra less she doesn't care what you think

Secondly I dislike when women call your attention and be like Aunty wear Bra

Na you get the Breast

You have no idea what people go through in their life if you see them braless biko fem

Copyright Digital Bimpe The Coach




You're sexual.

You're soulful.

You're
emotional.

You're spiritual.

You're magic.

You're both of the light and the dark.

You're human.

Don't deny any aspects of who you are.

A healthy soul is a whole soul.


#digitabimpethecoach




My Best Team Goal Couples Is Wode Maya & Trudy Maya they just got married and guess what they are fucking rich with a touch of simplicity

Have never seen a millionaire couples so humble and simple like them

They built their first real estate together


They built their YouTube brands together talking about discovering Africa

They are couples that every young Africans should emulate

With the money they have they decided to do simple wedding

Aside that , they made sure they achieve their goals before they settle

Even though they haven't tick all their goals but they started small and look at them today , landlord's with a touch of humility and simplicity

I celebrate couples who make impact to the world

No be just to marry yeye person

Marry a team player who is all about growth


Copyright Digital Bimpe The Coach
Yes it is your right to dress anyhow you like. You are even permitted to go out topless. It is your right...but it is the right of others to stare. So don't go about screaming sexual harassment when folks stare deep into your soul in search wetin nor lost. As you get right to naked at will so also others get right to stare at will...
Romance › Re: Man Arrested After A Random Girl He Brought Home Passed Out During Sex by efficiencie(m): 7:27pm On Sep 16, 2022
Pandalytics:
Man arrested after a random girl he brought home passed out during sex



Men, stop taking random girls to your house and allowing them spend the night... My neighbor has just been picked up by the police.

This dude is a life of the party kind of guy. He changes girls everyday and always prides himself about it.

I had a conversation with him once where I advised him to calm down but he told me he's young and he deserves to enjoy his life

Few minutes ago, police came around and forced their way into his house and found the girl he came home with last night lifeless.

The story has it that she's one of his numerous girlfriends and this is the first time he's bring her home.

Unfortunately, while they were copulating she had an attack (she's got asthma) but he doesn't know.

He tried everything to get her to normalcy; she eventually calmed down after jerking for minutes and she slept off, or so he thought.

She didn't wake up this morning and her friend whom she was supposed to go out with has been calling her all morning.

She's the one that alerted her family who in turn alerted the police. She has been carried away by ambulance and the boy taken to the station. We don't know if she's good or gone, but we hope she's still around for his sakes.

Please be careful what you do out there.
Make the guy prepare for prison. Since his life is so useless that he decided to dig his grave by changing girls on a per day basis. Make go flex prison small. Inside prison e go born again.
Fashion › Re: Fashion Or Madness (photo) by efficiencie(m): 7:21pm On Sep 16, 2022
And this madness is usually reserved for women...madness on a stupefying level.
Christianity Etc › Re: Under What Conditions Can A Christian Man Marry A Muslim Woman? by efficiencie(m): 7:16pm On Sep 16, 2022
budaatum:
Indeed, out of context of your narrow understanding. If God created "out of tribes", God also created "out of religions".

The two statements below are saying the same thing, that those who read only one book would be narrow-minded and ignorant.
No dude. Stop blabbing abeg. Tribe is one thing, religion is another. Conflating the two is dubious. In a Muslim threat a Muslim shared the following concerning non muslims that are deceased:


Praise be to Allah.

Yes, it is permissible to offer them condolences at times of bereavement, to visit them when they are sick, and to console them when calamity strikes. It was narrated that Anas (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: “There was a Jewish boy who used to serve the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). He fell sick, and the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) came to visit him. He sat at his head and said, ‘Become Muslim.’ (The boy) looked at his father who was with him, and he (the father) said to him, ‘Obey Abu’l-Qaasim ( (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him)).’ So he became Muslim. Then the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) left, saying, ‘Praise be to Allaah who has saved him from the Fire.’”

(Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 1356)

And it was narrated from Anas that a Jew invited the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) to eat barley bread and other food, and he accepted the invitation. (Narrated by Ahmad, 13201, with a saheeh isnaad).

It should be noted that if a Muslim does that, he should do so with the intention of calling them to Islam and softening their hearts towards Islam; he should call them in an appropriate manner and at an appropriate time.

It should also be noted that whilst consoling them he should not pray for forgiveness or mercy or Paradise for their dead, because Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“It is not (proper) for the Prophet and those who believe to ask Allaah’s forgiveness for the Mushrikoon, even though they be of kin”

[al-Tawbah 9:113]


Rather he should pray for them in a way that is appropriate, encourage them to be patient and steadfast, and remind them that this is the way of Allaah with His creation. And Allaah knows best.


Did you read that? Now you are advising a Christian to marry a Muslim when Islam forbids wishing peace on a deceased if that person is non-Muslim. So the muslim wife is forbidden from wishing peace on her Christian husband if he dies. Oga OP get sense oh. Don't let folks here delude you oh.
Christianity Etc › Re: Under What Conditions Can A Christian Man Marry A Muslim Woman? by efficiencie(m): 6:52pm On Sep 16, 2022
budaatum:
If she loves you back, go ask her family for her hand in marriage. The fact you can love a Muslim already shows your Christianity is the enlightened type, and if her family objects, inform them that they would be depriving their grandchildren of the benefit of Allah (and do say Allah and not God), creating diversity so we may learn from one another.
You dey quote out of context. The verse said "...made you peoples and tribes...", it did not say made you "religions"! Don't push that guy or the girl in question to sudden death. His family members may slaughter her if she pushes. You spout all the yada yada you want it doesn't change the rule in islamic societies.
Christianity Etc › Re: Under What Conditions Can A Christian Man Marry A Muslim Woman? by efficiencie(m): 6:49pm On Sep 16, 2022
jeromestarks:
So what do you suggest a Christian guy in love with a muslim girl should do?
Dude I don't understand how your love is consistent with inconsistency. How will you being a Christian be joined to a muslim unless at least one of you is faking their religion. Christianity and Islam are antithetical at their very core. You cannot be a good Christian and be married to a good Muslim. You are courting wahala. When you kids are young and unable to decide which religion to adhere to would you take them church or to the mosque? Would you have them study both the bible and the quran? Would you have them believe that Jesus is LORD and at the same time not GOD? You wan turn your house to Confucius institute abi!?
Christianity Etc › Re: Honest Question To The Christians by efficiencie(m): 3:32pm On Sep 16, 2022
Tamaratonye1:
At your discretion -

You awaken tomorrow to find headlines around the world: Science has definitively proven that no god exists - anywhere in the universe. All the religious leaders concur.

How would your life be different?

Would you lose your job? Would your friends abandon you, or would you abandon friends? In what ways would how you spend your time change? Would your expectations for your future change - for the next day, next week, next month, next year, next decade? Would you suddenly lose talents?

Etc.

Brushing the question aside by claiming such a proof is impossible only ducks the question. Millions of atheists around the world enjoy fulfilling lives without needing a god in it, while many millions cannot envision a life without a god in it. What is it that a god adds that cannot be lived without?
If there is no God then what is the basis of morality? How do you define something good or evil? What makes stealing wrong in every culture? Can you answer that objectively without recourse to God or anything supernatural? If there is no God then what is the origin of order and regularity? If there is no God then all life must be random. Order cannot just bring itself into existence. Order requires intelligence. Just as you can never attribute a book to random events. So what is the origin of order? What is the origin of order in the cosmos and in physical reality? If there is no God where did all of existence come from? Where did matter, space and time originate from? If you say they came from nothing then please define "nothing"?

The last question could easily take you forever to answer in a logically coherent manner. Only a fool assumes there is no God. The real question is "who is God and how can He or She or It be reached?"
Christianity Etc › Re: I Need A Non-prosperity Church. Advice Needed. by efficiencie(m): 3:24pm On Sep 16, 2022
sexiestharam:
Hi Everyone,

Please I need advice on a Pentecostal non-prosperity church in Nigeria. I am tired of hearing about sowing seeds and reaping fruits of money and health because I have the conviction that it is not the true gospel.

Your recommendations will be highly appreciated.

Thank you.
Spend more time in isolation worshipping, praying, interceding and studying the scriptures. The fastest way to grow in the knowledge of Christ.
Christianity Etc › Re: If Heaven And Hell Is Real. What Of The People That Lived Before Christ Came? by efficiencie(m): 3:16pm On Sep 16, 2022
Valoromega:
Where will the people who lived before Christ came go to?
Hell or heaven

Or our ancestors that lived in Africa before Christianity came where will they go?

They said Christ is the only way and these people didn't know Christ. So where did they go?

Did the millions of people who lived before Christ came all go to hell?
All of the souls before the sacrifice Christ that lived right as judged by their conscience (Romans 2:15) or by the law (Romans 2:12) were resurrected immediately the LORD Yeshua said it is finished and died on the cross (Matthew 27:50-53). The rest were damned to be tormented in hell and became disembodied spirits, demons, that roam the earth doing the bidding of their master, satan.
Christianity Etc › Re: Under What Conditions Can A Christian Man Marry A Muslim Woman? by efficiencie(m): 3:04pm On Sep 16, 2022
paradiseVirgin:
When the man fvcks her kpekus and she becomes pregnant with a half-infidel in her womb grin

The Muslim parents of the girl will have no choice than to give her out to a non believer..

That is if they decide not to perform mercy killing on her. grin


Praise be to Allah.

Cc fati2001 cool
A true muslim family will execute that girl for such an act.

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