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Fkj2021:
Good day everyone. I will make this as short as possible.

A friend of mine got married January 2022 and he has been having issues from his wife every single day.

The wife was working but stopped working August 2022. While she was working, the husband paid for every bill at home, all the lady does was to send money to her family and get herself clothes.

Before I forget, the woman added 300k during the marriage ceremony but this has led. To alot of issues because the woman asks for this money every single day.

Back to the story, when the woman stopped her work due to issues that the company had, the husband continued providing for the family including his brother and brother in-law who came to stay with them due to the work they started learning.

Due to the fact that funds were not coming as it should due to the situation of the country, the woman started making comments of the man not been wealthy and this has led to issues of disrespect from the wife.

The man is a jealous type according to him but his wife always have suitors online and offline whom she keeps and always say that incase she break up with the husband.

The husband is a good friend of mine and he asked for my advice. Please what advice do. I give to him?

The marriage is dead on arrival. The man is a fool for accepting to get married to a woman who sees him as an option. That marriage is as good as null and void. He had better snap out of that fornication he is calling marriage, collect the bride price he was scammed of and heal before jumping into the relationship that will push him to the edge. How come more and more men are getting emasculated and more and more women are becoming stupidly daring in their idiocy.

Afodot0022:
Good day nairalanders. Its good to meet the family again and happy new year. I know majority of people here will be familiar with my story base on my previous trends. If you are unaware, you can go to my previous trends to get better perspective. Family, another one don happen again o. You all know i told you that i caught my wife cheating with a guy some times ago. I forgave her and gave her a second chance, but it seems that word that a cheat will always be a cheat is damn true. After all the issues that have happened between myself and i, another issue of unfaithfulness was unraveled today. I noticed my wife was chatting with someone on whatsapp and when i got closer to her, she became uncomfortable and this made me to request for her phone to know whatsup. I noticed there is this guy she was chatting with and in that chat, it was obvious that she deleted the previous conversation she had with the guy. In holding the phone, a chat from this guy entered and reads... PLS MAKE SURE YOU DELETE THIS CHAT O. I DON'T WANT WAHALA. When i saw this chat, i was shocked and also marvelled that what could make the guy send such message to my wife if they have not been have something in common. I acted as if it was my wife that was chatting and start wining the guy to know better. The guy was saying things that look like she has something to do with my wife. One of the chat was that, he knows that he is safe cos he is sure he is always in a safe hand with her. I was angry and furious when i saw all this. I asked her what was going on between the both but you know women, she denied and started crying that there is nothing going on between she and the guy. But my people is it possible for a guy to send such kinda message to a married woman if there is nothing attached. Pls am just tired of this woman called my wife cos i decided to give her a second chance because of my two daughters but it seems she is just ready to use her own hand to destroy her marriage. Even though there is nothing going on with the both, how do i believe her this time with the previous experience have had with her. How will a married woman be so stupid and foolish and never learnt from her mistake. Pls i know you guys will abuse and insult me for accepting her back but honestly i am also regretting aswell and am ready to send her back to her family. I have had enough of all of this. God marriage is not easy atall.

Giy calm down. I for one will never use plate picked from the gutter to serve food for myself even if the food is celestial I nor go chop am but if you get the mind to pick plate from the gutter your brain suppose tell you sey you get yourself to blame if you use that plate chop without washing the plate first...you come carry disease. Dude your wife needs cleansing. You need to drag her head to the church for deliverance and soak her in prayer and fasting for the spirit of whoredoms to leave her alone. If you fail to do so she will keep sleeping around. If you cannot marry a virgin at least do your due diligence to clean up the wife you want to marry before marrying her.

Pojomojo:
MY FATHER'S ADVICE TO ME WHEN I WAS SEARCHING FOR A WIFE...

My son, I will be very raw and sincere with you.
Do not worry about the size of a woman buttock or breast but worry about the size of her heart and brain. Worry about the size of her love and endurance. Because after 5 or 10 years, it will not be about the breast or buttock.


As you can see, your mum now has a flat chest and almost flat buttock but we still live together happily, I still love her and she still love me. Be careful of a woman that loves money. I mean the woman that talks ‘every time’ about her hair, cloths, shoes, bags panties and make-ups. Marriage is not all about these things. Without make-up, cloths, shoes and panties a good marriage will still stand but without love, no marriage can stand. When I got married to your mum, I didn’t have a car or house of my own. I was not even educated. But I had dreams and she appreciate and support me. Any woman that does not support your dream is not worth thinking-a-minute about. There are women that will see your dreams better than you, you are lucky if you find one,

My son, open your ears very well, there is a kind of woman you should avoid, do not make a mistake to marry this kind of woman or you will regret it. I mean a woman that always has bad things to say about everyone. If you see this kind of woman, run away.

One of the worst kind of woman you can marry is the one that complains about everything. If you buy this, she says you should have bought that, if you do this, she said you should have done that. Please stay away!

Most women enjoy talking but the one who talks for two hours and listen for two minutes is a potential ‘bomb’. Be wise

Be very careful of a pretending partner. A
pretending woman is not hard to know. She will always know everything about everything, she will be careful. Just close your eyes and open your heart and you will see!

No woman is perfect. If you see a woman who believes in your dream , who respects you who is committed and who is not all about herself alone then don’t let her go.
But remember, you must not be a wayward man. I have trained you!
If you find a good woman but you are a bad man, you wont have a good marriage!
I won’t pick a wife for you but I have given you
my advice. When you find her, bring her for my blessings.
May you find a woman that will increase you not decrease you in Jesus.

Copied!

To cut the long story short:

virgin & submissive & wise = wife
not (virgin & submissive & wise) = problem

victooman:
l use to be an advocate of no cheating and usually stood against men who leave their beautiful wife at home to cheat with random girls, l feel a man can control himself and stick with one woman if the woman is good, perfect and beautiful.

Now l am in that position now, my girl is both beautiful in and out, the perfect woman l am intending making my wife without any doubt,
we have been together for almost 2yrs now and l still love and cherish her.

Our sex life is great and perfect, but honestly of recent there is just this lustful desire to test another woman, this has nothing to do with love or commitment, but l find myself lusting after girls that are not even half as pretty as my woman, chances keep springing up here and there and l don't want to do it, guilty conscience is already disturbing me.

Please guys who overcame this, is this a normal thing? how did u handle it?

Demons are dancing skelewu on your head...

felixzo1:
sex is over rated, last last na who she born for win , when her biography is written it the person she married and had kids with that will be mentioned, not the number of men she had sex with. Meaning sex only is not an important life event. Raising a family is

Na d pessin wey she born lose because the man allowed a wonderful child come from a gate that has been brutalized, bastardized, demolished and refurbished...and remember those guys wey demolish the hole can and will demolish the hole again and again...so when the biography of that lady is written the ordeal of that hole will be mentioned.

Kobojunkie:
Why irrespective? If Mr. A sits as destiny leech over Mrs. A, then Mr. A is likely to see marriage as an achievement for himself, even though Mrs. A, is likely to not see it the same. So, it does matter how one positions oneself in marriage, right?

In the quote you highlighted you could see that I implied that if both spouses are helpers to each other then marriage could be an achievement to both spouses. You don't have to correct what isn't wrong. It's an exercise in futility.

ZooOga:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T-jqH9nB4Go

BBC Global Disinformation Team


https://www.bbc.com/news/world-africa-63719505

This is why I am on nobody's side. These politicians have enough to do something meaningful as ordinary citizens but they all insist on being president before they can do something meaningful for the country. It is such a shame. The labor of our heroes past are already in vain, if at all we ever had heroes.

[quote author=AnonPoet post=120142038]

"Igbos already have over 30 million votes, don't leave where you're so that we can secure 25% votes for Peter Obi across Nigeria...."

Kanayo O. Kanayo urges Igbo. pic.twitter.com/9RMeEYtEnI

— Ayekooto (@DeeOneAyekooto) January 17, 2023

will give Peter Obi the greatest shocker of his life. The same machinery that provided him with votes in the 2015 election will this time work against him. I still say it again and again. If the obidients are not willing, ready and able to rig the elections on behalf of Peter Obi he will lose confidently.

Kobojunkie:
LOL.... destiny helper indeed!

Are you in turn a destiny helper for the same spouse or a destiny leech — in essence, you suck up all of that person's potential in order to fuel your own destiny—, all the while furiously convincing him or her that by helping you they are in turn helped?

You are responding to a question other than the question asked by the OP. The OP wanted to know if marriage can be considered an achievement or not and I provided a reasons why it can be considered an achievement or not. So irrespective of who Mr A is, whether he is a leech or a benevolent person, the question is can marriage be considered an achievement to Mr. A and my response indicates that it all depends on the spouse and if my conditions were applied mutually to both spouses then it can become an achievement to both spouses. I merely stated what could be considered a truism and your response is basically out of place.

SenseBoy:
Why do men lose interest in their wives after few years in marriage? �.

Share reasons so single ladies can learn.

Because marriage is an institution of light but fallen man is steeped in darkness and sold to sin. The Father has been with the Son from eternity past and they have never lost interest in each other...this was the model of marriage that though the man and his wife are two persons they shall become one and inseparable...but when you throw sin into the mix marriage erodes and eventually dies. You cannot be doing hookup and sustain marriage. You cannot be sleeping with your maids and coworkers and sustain a marriage. You cannot be selfish and seek your interest alone and expect to sustain a marriage. Marriage is of the light and to sustain a marriage both couples must make conscious efforts to mirror the LORD Jesus in all they do because in Jesus is life and that life is the light of men that sustains all things that are of the light, marriage included.

justyhere:
Let's trash this talk once and for all

What do you think?
Is Marriage an achievement?

If your spouse is an idiot your marriage is not an achievement but if your spouse is your destiny helper then your marriage is an achievement. Shikena.

efficiencie:
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This position is open. Interested persons should reach out to the number quoted above.

Fabulozz:
My wife gave birth 2 months ago. She had resumed her duty in the bedroom 3 weeks ago but she doesn't want me to suck her breast saying that I should wait after she stopped exclusively breastfeeding the baby she will be 6 months. I love to suck breast and I can't wait until the baby is 6 months she said I am overeating which I am not.

Tell me if she is exaggerating or am overeating? Would love to hear from married women and men in the house ?

This is what happens when breastfeeding children get married. Dude let her recover fully and let her discharge the duties you foisted on her by getting her pregnant. You are a man for crying out loud and not a toddler. You should be observing her health and take care of her until she is fit and ready to go back to life as usual before she got pregnant.

oakson:
I am in my early thirties. Dark and handsome, average height, witty, sporty, spontaneous, resourceful and lover of good dreams. Based in Lagos, a Christian from the southwest(tribe is not an issue to me),Father of 3 and comfortably doing ok above an average Nigerian. Need a working class or financially stable , educated lady that knows what it means to love and be loved!


N.B.: This is not a recent divorce!

What if she meets all the criteria above but she is also a divorcee like you?

Obavoh:
I swear on my life, since we’ve been married I have never hit this woman. I have never slept with another woman.

I am writing this with tears in my eyes. I love and trust this woman with my soul. I have sacrificed so much in this marriage just to make her happy.

Since day 1 that we met I Always try my best to see her smile but this woman took everything for granted.

When we newly met and I was trying to get her to be my girlfriend, she refused because she was dating another man. I did not give up on her, I kept on doing everything to remain close to this woman to the extent of going to clear her father’s farm just to be on her good side.

One day she came to tell me she was pregnant for her boyfriend and the guy rejected her . She confessed she had done an abortion before and did not want to repeat it.

I decided to marry her and cover her shame because of the love I had for her. Till today, I did not open my mouth to tell anyone about it. I paid her brideprice in full and did all marriage rites.

Some months into the marriage, she lost the pregnancy. I even borrowed money to evacuate the baby from her stomach. I suspected that she drank herbs to try to remove it but I didn’t say anything.

All these years, we have not spoken about it until few days ago she asked me to help her send some money to her father.

I became suspicious because the account number she gave me was strange. I asked her about it and she lied to me it was her cousins account and they want to use the money to buy her father drugs.

I innocently sent the money. I was waiting for her father to call and thank me as usual but a week passed and I didn’t get any message from him.

I asked my wife about it and she said he told her to thank me. That was when I knew something was wrong.

I went through the new phone I bought for her last month and saw this woman chatting with the same man that dumped her with pregnancy.

He was begging her for money and they even planned to meet in her Mum’s village.
She told him she was waiting for me to receive my salary and give her money so she can travel to the place.

I felt like dying.

I showed her the message, I didn’t even wait for her to explain before beating her. I feel very bad for doing that but I couldn’t control myself.

I left the house since yesterday afternoon. I lodged in a hotel in another town. I can’t eat or sleep. I’ve just been crying.

I don’t know how to go about this. I am thinking of my children. I still love my wife. I can’t even open my mouth to tell my people. I don’t know what to do.

Sorry to add to your wound but you deserve this heart break. When we tell you guys to only marry virgins una go dey argue. Now ya eye don clear. Another man is browsing the website you paid bride price for. You are the investor but the other guy escavating your wife's borehole converting it to a canal. Bro. You don't have a marriage. Leave that lady while you can before she kills you, carts away with your property and moves the next victim.

The woman you married is the type spoken of by the wise man:

Proverbs 5: 8-10 Stay away from a bad woman! Don't even go near the door of her house. You will lose your self-respect and end up in debt to some cruel person for the rest of your life. Strangers will get your money and everything else you have worked for. CEV

Run ohh guy. Run.

sdfggege:
https://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2023/01/06/2023-elections-im-in-race-to-end-nigerians-suffering-says-obi/

Werey. You are in a race to end Nigeria's suffering but you must be president first. Only fools believe in the Nigerian political system.

Feemale

Persephone1:
And Virgins won't? Or they will remain virgins forever. Looking for the connection between a hymen and morality

They don't. There is no morality in a damaged and escavated bottomless hole that has swallowed a truckload of souls. Marry a virgin and have peace. Marry a hoe and you will be stuck with a foe.

okunwaye:
Please who else is sick and tired of this every day women bashing madness on nairaland

Who send you. Go and open a thread bashing men na. How is this thread bashing women. Men are saying they dont want left over women and you are here running mouth. Declare your preferences and let others do the same.

JasonScoolari:
That's why it is good to marry a virgin.

Leftovers give alot of headache.

I tell you!

chaseblack:
Can you explain why God didn't ask David to send Bathsheba away?

A sin has been committed and he'll suffer the punishment either he sends her away or not. Why should he send her away if he is going to be punished anyways?

You should do what is right irrespective of whether you will punished for wrongdoing or not. He has to send his concubine away and be loyal to his wife. This was the vow he made before witnesses. A man that does not stand by his word is sub-human.

nwekeugochukwu:
Nollywood actor,Yul Edochie has publicly apologised to his first wife, May Edochie, for marrying his colleague as a second wife, IGBERETV reports.

May became unhappy with Yul over his marriage to his colleague, Judy Austin Muoghalu who has a son with him. May has stated that she can't accept a polygamous relationship.

Yul took to his Instagram handle to beg for her forgiveness.

He wrote;



https://www.instagram.com/p/CmbaDV9Lwri/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Idiot! How will you feel if another man is enjoying May openly? How many times will she apologize before you throw her out of your life. I am not a feminist but I am humane and I know whatever is good for the gander is good for the goose. You have destroyed your marriage mumu. Your father as old and as chauvinistic as he is has on wife. You wey never reach anywhere don get two.

MarketDispatch:
Only PO can make the law stronger...he has nothing to hide or steal

Yeah, because you manufactured his heart and mind and know what he thinks at any point in time...this was how your lot spouted a lot of trash about GEJ being a savior until he rekt Nigeria. No politician can save Nigeria.

ExAngel007:
Lady stumbles upon her boyfriend's wedding photos online same month she had an abortion for him


A lady has been left heartbroken after stumbling upon wedding photos online of he man she thought was her boyfriend, same month she had an abortion for him.

Twitter user, @A_Blackwoman who shared the story, said the lady aborted for the man three times in one year.

She also disclosed that the lady the man dumped allowed him to stay in her house and provided for him when he was out of a job till he got another.


The Twitter user wrote;


https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/12/lady-stumbles-upon-her-boyfriends-wedding-photos-online-same-month-she-had-an-abortion-for-him.html

Everybody is dishing breakfast to everybody. The cycle of revenge never ends.

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Zumbi’s life was one of constant struggle and resistance. He was captured by slave-hunters when he was a teenager, but he managed to escape and make his way to Palmares. Over the years, he rose through the ranks and became one of the most important leaders of the community. He was known for his strategic military tactics and his ability to unite the residents of Palmares behind a common cause.

Despite their best efforts, the Brazilian army was unable to defeat the community of Palmares. They tried several times to invade the community and capture its residents, but they were always repelled by Zumbi and his followers. The Brazilian government eventually offered a reward for Zumbi’s capture, and in 1695 he was betrayed by one of his own followers and killed by the Brazilian army.

Zumbi’s legacy lives on today as a symbol of resistance and freedom. He is celebrated in Brazil as a national hero and his story continues to inspire people who are fighting for their rights and against oppression. The community of Palmares may no longer exist, but Zumbi’s spirit lives on as a reminder of the power of the human will to fight for freedom and justice.

...see more

There will never cease to be traitors among blacks. Most of our leaders are traitors. They sell the country to foreigners and pocket the billions. This evil culture was passed on to the current generation from our ancestors and today kidnapping, ritual killing etc have become the order of the day. Men live with the fear that their wives are sleeping around and they could be fathering another man's children. Women live with the fear that their husbands have families elsewhere. We glorify material wealth, beauty and fame over character. We cannot continue like this and expect Nigeria to be a better place...it will only get worse.

We blame politicians for lack of leadership but some of us abandon our kids to a nanny while partying, frolicking or enjoying the sexual immorality. We blame our leaders for dishonesty yet some of us will tell a lady heaven and earth just to get into her pants and some ladies will say yes to 10 men at the same time. We blame church leaders for not caring about the poor but when a lady asks for help from some of us we ask her to get in bed first. We blame God for evil in Nigeria but we pretend like we are not the very evil we are blaming God for.

Nigeria deserves its woes. During Obasanjo regime people were lamenting about how the pump price of 40 naira per litre was crushing the poor. GEJ got there and the pump price jumped to 120 naira after removing part of the subsidy. GEJ claimed the subsidy funds were used for among other things youth employment through YouWin. Whereas the money was squandered by fellow Nigerians. Today the pump price of fuel is over 200 naira. I can imagine how many poor people have died, committed suicide or went into a life of crime full time to survive and take revenge on a society that is fast sliding into a hellscape.

Nobody holy pass but na we dey do oursef.

Nigerians are the punishment of Nigeria. Until we repent of the evil we commit on a daily basis, we will continue to be the Nemesis of this country.

shortgun:
You are a weak man, women hate weak men.
Them never born any woman well that will enter my house and detect how I'll run my home.
Men like you are the reason we have alot of spoilt girls all over.
Any man that dates any of my exes will be thankful to me for the way I groomed them.

Until you become the man and take charge of your home you will continue to whine n suffer

Oh so you groom ladies. You forget that ladies are not machines. They evolve. As you have used "ego" to groom those ladies they will become a nightmare to the next man. They would have learned your ways and seen how you used and dumped them after smearing them with your chauvinism. The next man they will meet will bear the brunt of all the lessons you have taught them. You are part of the reason ladies are spoilt. If you indeed groomed them why didn't you marry them? Who builds a thing and then rejects it. You are breeding the next generation of animalistic ladies.

Mino1000:
Hi everyone, so I met this beautiful babe June this year and we started dating three months later. We genuinely loved each other and we had a relationship that people envied.

We trusted each other so much that I had access to her google account and all her personal info on my laptop, while she also had mine on her phone to cut the long story short, I have a problem of always getting worried whenever she is not home and I can't reach her for example if she leaves in a bolt and the journey is 30minutes but she is not reachable one hour later I start to worry and call people I feel are at home and even the bolt rider.

On this particular day, she had a meeting with her colleagues which just came into the country, she shared her live location but it was last updated an hour ago, she was not picking her calls and it was 11:45pm mind you she was in Ikeja and lives at lekki so she was still going to Lekki that night in this dangerous December month in Lagos. I called and called but she did not pick then I got so worried and went to her google contacts to get her boss number and called him. He told her I called and that is how trouble started.

She explained that nobody has his number and she is the middle man between him and clients so his number getting into my hands without her permission means his company info is not safe. She said I have destroyed all what she labored to build over the years and blocked me everywhere (phone, whatsapp, snapchat) and left me with only instagram access. I have been begging her since last night when this happened, but she only unblocked me to tell me not to call her again and blocked me back.

I have been trying to explain to her that relationship and marriage is full of challenges so she should not let this one destroy what we had but she has been ignoring me. If I call with a different number she hangs up immediately she hears my voice.

We were already talking about marriage and in fact, I had already started making arrangements for a proposal next year.

I swear I really love this lady with everything that I have and I know for a fact that she loved me too but right now I am confused I am wondering how she was so much in love with me yesterday morning but doesn’t even want to hear my voice today. She went as far as threatening to get me arrested if I come close to her house. I am really confused and need mature advice on what to do to save this relationship because right now I can’t focus on anything. Plus I trust her so I wasn’t calling because I thought she was doing something silly.

Oga snap out of your melancholy and reason. All you did was reach out to someone that can probably confirm that she is okay but she is reacting like you just informed her lover boy the presence of another lover boy. You could easily have been her mother, her father or her siblings calling to find out about how she is doing and I can bet that her reaction will be asymmetric. Dude you just dodged a Brahmos hypersonic missile and here you are rushing to give the missile a hug. Dude snap out of that feeling that is tormenting you and reason. Ditch her fast before you land yourself in a ton of shit. Move on dude.

piecuntie:
HI NAIRALANDERS ;
I am about to seperate from husband who sponsored me in school because I am fed up.

I came from a very poor family. I met my husband when I was 19. He wasn't doing well either, he told me he was an engineer in a public hospital but as time went on I got to know he was a level 3 plumber in the civil service.

Well I was young, naive, hungry and blindly in love. He went to trade school and I encouraged him to go back to school for HND or bsc but he said he was going to sponsor me first. I got pregnant for him in my first year in school when I was 20yrs old, my mom was against it. I got to know he was 13years older than me while pregnant. HE TOLD ME HE WAS 26yrs old.

My mom wanted me to abort it, instead i packed my things and stayed with him.
He abused my mom and I defended him. I gave birth while in school and he continued to support me both financially. We fought during those period, series of red flag but I decided to ignore it as long he wasn't beating me. He abused me emotionally. He knew my family was poor and there was no where i could go.

I finished school and my friends told me not to marry a plumber, I declined and told them he promised to go to school.

I finished school and i was scared of depending on him with my child, we were not doing fine at all.

I had no choice than to date a rich guy who helped me with a good job in the year 2017. HE got to know about the guy and i broke up with him. I apologized and we GOT MARRIED LEGALLY and got pregnant with my second child. We spent only 150k.

All the money i made from my salary, I made sure i supported him, i moved out of the family house in the year 2019, we have been there for 8yrs, he couldnt afford to rent a house, I spent 400k, both of us had no friends, we only had each other. I helped my brother and they did well in business. I asked my husband to go back to school, he was still adamant.

We went to a traditional person and they told him there is a curse on his head that i should bathe and do some sacrifice for him, which i did.

By year 2020 he was doing fine, we didn't even go hungry during the lockdown, I supported him with 2million naira and we did our traditional marriage.

IT was his business patners who were notorious cheat and neglected their wife that did his groom men, They introduced him to an association, i have asked him what is the aim of the association, he cant tell me, it is a secret.

3 months after the wedding, he started cheating and even beat me for the first time on our wedding anniversary becaus of the girl,
When he saw i withdrawed all financia assistant like paying half of the rent and paying one of the kids school fees. he called family members to beg me and we settled and i bought a family car for us to use.

Since then i have been walking on eggs around him, he tells me i should respect his age that we are not mate, he beat me again last 3 months saying i am as proud as my mother and i abused his mother back.

This monday i had to run after bus to go to work because i told im i was looking for mOney, and he said i just call him a thief. I had no money on me i had to call my brother to give me money. He wasnt even bothered. He doesn't call me again, WE DONT GO OUT AGAIN


I don't stress him for expensive outing our wigs or phone.
I bought my phone or trip myself out. He would rather hang out with his friends. He tells his friends and the kids i wear cheap outfits.

My mind is now strong. I don't cry again if he offends me nor complain.

I want to divorce him , sell the car and use it for this UK study route and take my children as dependent without him knowing. I am tired of the marriage already. He is 44 while I am 31. i want to move on with my life.

Sorry for the long write up

When you were a liability he stood by you, endured your shit and paid your way through school but now that he is a liability and you are well of you are stacking the cards against him...go ahead and divorce him. Whatever is making your mouth water outside will be bitter when it gets to your belly. A word, they say, is enough for the wise.

ijustdey:
https://dailytrust.com/elon-musk-disables-twitter-spaces-after-clash-with-journalists/

Excellent...why divulge the personal information of anyone without their permission. That's stupid and unethical. Ban them to oblivion.

HolinessForever:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EtRgRDw7GV4


https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11541111/amp/Russia-readies-second-Yars-nuclear-missile-loading-silo.html

Gengengen...shit's about to hit the AC!

OLAADEGBU:
Political Cartoon Of The Day: Leave No Man Behind

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