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xin5:
4 days ago, I was feeling hot so I decided to chat one big fat yansh girl from a regular hotel...if I was to go there a round was 3k.
but I told her to come I give her 10k for 2 rounds (which is 5k for each)
she agreed.

AFTER SHE CAME, since I have fûcked her before I knew the kinda person she is....the way she treated me in their brothel last 2week was so mean... girl said I can't touch breast for 3k...I shouldn't use my hand to stroke my dick if not I pay for new condom...as if I'm filled with dirt.. but still I called her because of her big booty hoping her attitude will change since its my domain..but I was wrong.

she came, squeezing face... saying I go give her transport...she asked for her money...I brought out 5k and give her....this babe change it for me say it's 10k we talk... that I should pay complete...me said no... that 5k is for first round...I give her the remaining 5k for the second.
we argued till she calm down and we got to business.


i told her to give me Mouth Gig....no Way
i wanted to suck her boobs....no way
i wanted to feel her pusci.....no way
she inserted me condom, warning me not to stroke my dickc....same thing she did while I was in her domain.

i just had to maintain and did that round doggy.... which was enjoyable though... and came..

then I told her I wasn't interested in another round.
she said no...I must do..
i Said I can't... you don't give Mouth Gig...(her customer relations is very poor)
why would I pay complete 10k for something that didn't come with full package.
she said she needed the full money that's why she came.
i said I can't...but I will add 1k to the 5k for her stress..
as for second round I'm not interested.


then she changed it for me
told me she leave the money.
THAT THE EARTH BARE US WITNESS..
I TRIED REASONING WITH HER...
holding her, blocking her way while she was about going out to take her money... 6k...she said no it's not what we agreed.

SHE DECIDED TO GIVE ME THE BL0WJOB, ASKING IF ITS JUST NOT THE TIP..

i knew instantly she won't do it well....she Just want to collect the full money..
i said no need for that it's too late


THEN SHE TOLD ME STRAIGHT TO MY FACE I WILL SEE AND WALKED OUT LEAVING THE 6K I GAVE HER ON THE BED.


THE NEXT DAY I HAD TO TREAT FEVER SINCE ON FRIDAY ENTER SATURDAY....

YESTERDAY SUNDAY..
MY BALLS IS ITCHING ME


THIS MORNING I THINK THERE IS BOIL FORMING IN MY BALLS.

i don't know if it's coincidence or it's her handwork.
least I forget I received a call from a man the next day after the incident...after I said hello...it cut the call..
it just like the person wants to hear my voice.
if it's her jazzman and they've sent something to me I don't know.
But God knows I have intention of paying her and no weapon fashioned against me shall prosper.

Dey have put your destiny ontop altar...dey are about to use it to do barbeque...by the time dey finish with you you go know sey dis life na two e be. Every weapon fashioned against you has already prospered. Dat yansh wey you lash na im be the first weapon and it has prospered. You no come pay for the lashing that is the second and weapon...the remaining weapons na auxiliary! Sorry ehn. Ndo. Only 7 days dry fasting asking Jesus for mercy can save you now.

ogakamwu:
Please kindly advise me if it is okay.

I am a guy of 35 years considering a lady for marriage who is 22 years.

Please is it okay.

You are free to criticize.

I just want to get it right.

If she is in your life to help you and not fleece you of your money then she is good and if you are in her life to love her and take care of her like you will one day give account and not cheat on her at the slightest provocation then you are good to go!

[quote author=wwwkaycom post=116385684]My wife's cousin is a student in a federal government institution, a monotechnic. I've always noted that the guy is naughty. Recently my wife told me the guy is having issues in his school because he approached his supervisor, a single female lecturer for a relationship. The lecturer warned him to perish the thought but this guy persisted.

Now the female lecturer has refused to continue with supervision of his project and wrote to her head of department to assign him to another supervisor. He just started afresh with a new supervisor while his colleagues have defended their projects two weeks ago.

He called my wife this evening to tell her that final results of his colleagues have been uploaded into the institutions portal while his name was placed under "non-graduating".

I have some questions here.

1. Did this guy commit any offense by "toasting" his female lecturer?

2. Is it right for the department to have denied him opportunity to graduate because of this?

3. Can he complain to the authority of the institution about this? What will he say he did to have been denied opportunity to graduate?

4. Has the department committed any offence against this boy as touching his fundamental human rights?

5. Can he seek legal redress?

Thank you all.[/quote]The lecturer's response is appropriate. The idiot of a man should have finished his research first, graduated and then return to the school to ask the lecture out. If word about his advances had gone out many of the other lecturers in the faculty will believe she cannot be objective in the supervision of the mumu guy's project...but why are some men so stupid bayi.

nlfpmod:
https://twitter.com/PeterObi/status/1566527387986182145

These are my views on the economy.

Flutterwave, on its own, was recently valued at US$3 billion. We will create an enabling environment for our startups to thrive. Beyond creating access to easy funding,

We will enforce the legal framework protecting foreign investors and their indigenous partners. This is the only way to improve our business environment and tamper capital flight.

We will stop borrowing for consumption. All loans must be invested in regenerative projects. Inflation is a factor of spending on goods and services outstripping production. Since we have not resolved the minimum wage issue,

We will not use wage and price controls to fight inflation. Rather, we will pursue a contractionary monetary policy. We will mop up excess liquidity by reducing the money supply within an economy.

The truth is that for long market forces have not determined the exchange rate of the Naira. The two tier foreign exchange regime is a fluke. It has to end. Let the exchange rate be determined by the forces of demand and supply. It is that simple.

Government must continue to collaborate with the organized private sector in this regard. Creating the enabling environment for raising employment must start with expanding the SMEs cluster via unfettered access to funding. -PO

This mumu wants to sound smart. Throwing economic jargon up and down without making economic sense. Someone needs to remind this fool that he cannot raise funding for SMEs and start-ups and at the same time pursue contractionary monetary policy. Two, someone needs to remind this fool that inflation in Nigeria is mostly driven by supply side/free market bottlenecks and not just excess liquidity. Supply side problem 1: we are importing petroleum products but we have access to huge oil reserves, is that not madness. Peter Obi isn't smart enough to point this out or he doesn't want to offend his cronies sponsoring the current oil market scam in Nigeria (sell-crude-buy-petroleum products). What happened to building more refineries to make Nigeria energy independent and a net exporter of petroleum products? Energy costs passes through to other commodity costs thereby constituting a major source commodity price inflation. Supply side problem 2: insecurity has killed productivity in Nigeria. Even subsistence farming is being destroyed by criminal gangs. Who will be motivated to invest in a country where you can be kidnapped the next minute? Supply side problem 3: lack of a functioning judicial system. If the justice goes to the highest bidden, investors will run away because justice may be out of reach for them and we know how critical a functioning judicial system is to a functioning market economy. Nigeria is producing way below its capacity and monetary policy contraction is not what is necessary right now.

Anyone that knows his economics knows that wage and price are not malleable targets and hence they are not easily be adjusted due to wage-price rigidities. I wonder why you are even bringing it up. Unless you expect that 90% of your obidient apes are economic illiterates.

Rendering the exchange rate purely flexible before addressing supply side/free market issues in Nigeria is flat out madness. You will plunge the country into a deep crisis and turn your obidient apes against you. Right now Nigeria is heavily dependent on imports and rendering the exchange rate regime flexible will depreciate the exchange rate badly and shoot up the inflation rate. A more sensible approach is to continue managing the exchange rate, address supply side issues, make Nigeria energy self sufficient by building refineries and reforming the institutions necessary for the smooth functioning of our free market. Do these first and Nigeria will become less and less dependent on imports. More green field FDI will substitute brown field FDI and FPI inflows and more industries will become import substituting and with the reduction in import dependence you can render the exchange rate regime flexible.

For goodness sake you don't need a PhD in Economics to know this oga Obidient unless ofcourse you are no different from the other two dunderheads you are contesting against.

Lollittaa:
Na you know.
If he likes let him be wiser than king Solomon, if he's poor, he's not an option.
Poverty conceals genuine character.
That's why you men develop strange taste in different women once you start making money.

Not all men are like your boyfriend. I didnt force you to spread your legs for the fool that pumped you. So if you like be like the lady that the OP talked about and donate your destiny to a fool. There are women getting married to men of purpose and they are happy about their decision.

Lollittaa:
The same you will lambast Regina Daniels of this world for marrying rich men.
She marry money bag, na gold digger
She marry poor man na mumu

The fault of the lady the OP spoke of is not that she married a poor man. She married an idiot. There are poor men who are understanding, reasonable and empathetic. They may be poor now but with their mentality they will evolve into being rich...but you see fools like the one that the lady in question married are the type that render ladies useless. If you must marry, don't marry a fool. Don't say "I am not getting any younger" and get married to an idiot. There are men out there that live a life of purpose. They may be poor but they are on their way to the top and they need help. It is such men that should have supportive wives.

tnerro1:
The ones that have money are settling down, full stop.

...are they remaining in their marriages? Before den use 6 months den don divorce...

Stephen2324:
Why are men loosing interest in settling down?

...because the ratio of olosho to virgin is 100,000:1...the devil is working really hard!

Wearabletech:
Is it really true having sex with many men expands a woman's vagina ?

Casting my mind back to my adolescent years, without a second thought I agreed with my mom who does not mince words while expressing her fears about her sons bringing home an unchaste or loose woman for a wife.

As a woman, to be called ‘’loose’’ back then could mean you are sexually promiscuous, an adulteress or simply a prostitute. Therefore the construct of a ‘’loose vagina’’ was unfairly associated with deviant sexual behaviours in women. It was believed that, the vagina loses its elasticity when stretched too much during sex with multiple sexual partners.

Even though, a married woman having sex regularly with a satyromaniac husband with an obsessive, abnormal, uncontrollable, and insatiable sexual desire may not be viewed in the same light.

Today, there is a noticeable gap in time space continuum, yet not much has changed about the perception of a loose vagina myth. Nevertheless, even if one has an IQ of a door, It’s clear that the construct of a loose vagina is just another psychosexual fairy story crafted to restrain female sexuality and shame sexual behaviours that is deemed culturally inappropriate. Not merely the fact that multiple sexual partners cause the vagina to lose its elasticity.

How could it be? First off, female sexuality is still a mystery till date. Often, women in their sexual prime would begin to feel inadequate especially after a couple of vaginal child births.

Time and again, you’ll hear stories of how cynical husbands and insecure boyfriends complain or wrongly accuse their spouses of infidelity when they feel their woman is becoming loose down there.

Get more..

Olosho na barracks...Virgin na palatial mansion...simple and short!

xin5:
i made it to known to her sharply, instead of to bring her voice down and listen to me, she starts asking me question...say wetin dey smell..say she get boyfriend..her boyfriend for tell her say her toto dey smell.
started saying shebi I get sister
yes I do
but no way I was paying for this shitx.
no wonder how price was low on michat 4k
she collect transport with fake tears for eyes, nor be me cause am.
if you see the yansh it mount well
the breast legit..but as soon as she starting to UnCloth and getting wet from my sucking of the breast..the ODOUR I couldn't take it.

Dude you took the ass, you took the boobs, e com reach the main event you remember odour...ma guy you have taken demons...loads of demons!

virginprincess:
This should better go both ways and not limited to one gender.

Only one gender has a hymen, a biological certificate of vaginal virginity. So this post is about women alone. I will not eat the leftover of another man. God forbid. As I met my wife so will my sons meet their wives and so will my son-in-laws meet my daughters. There is no room of universal donor hoes in my bloodline. No room!

Spider20:
Lol
Am in support of these
I can't take a wide pussy to the altar

westlius:
Pls pardon my grammar. Please men have mercies for your wife's. My colleague husband dont eat frozen foods meaning she cooks every day for him. She closes from work by 5 and get home before 7, she goes to market everyday to cook soup for the husband, I really do feel for her, to the extent the man treating her to resign so she can take care of him (He earns below 50k and she earns much more). She says when a soup/stew/ other meals reaches 24 hours the husband cannot eat them again.
I feel for her seeing her in the morning at work looking stress out

Tell your colleague she foolishly married an ingrate. Your colleague is at fault here. She saw a living manifestation of stupidity and decided to marry him. You ladies will say yes to idiots and start lamenting. The man earns 50k and he is complaining about frozen food. There are men earning much more than that yet for the sake of preserving the life of their wife who is also supporting the family they eat what is available until they are buoyant enough to tell her to stop slaving away at a 9-5 job and focus on a career or support the home from fully. Ladies, stop marrying idiots in a hurry and giving the lame excuse "I am not getting any younger"!

Irupetepete:
I called her this night and she said no problem I can have them... I just need tips on how to cope with them... I know it's not gonna be easy but it is a duty and challenge am ready to face

Well you need to be super careful with kids as a single father. One false accusation is what is needed to put you in a ton of crap. I guess your children are already of schooling age. So enrol them in befitting school and that would keep them busy between 8am and 2pm. After school closes you would have to go pick them and take them to your place of work. Since the business is yours it would be great for the kids to begin to get acquainted with what Daddy does for a living and realities of money making. This means that you have to make your business place a bit comfy for your kids to continue learning (doing homework and learning timeless wisdom from you), play (educational games), eat and sleep before you head home by 6pm. Once at home by 6pm, have your kids freshen up, have a light dinner, say your prayers and go to bed. Rinse and repeat! I will advise you to install cameras in your house for security purposes and to save your head when false accusations come raining down on you. At some point you may decide to take another wife. Don't make the foolish mistake you made with the first. Do not choose a lady based on complexion, your sexual appetite, physique or even dogma. Your wife is meant to be your helper. If she cannot identify the challenges in your life and provide solutions to them she is not your wife rather she is a thorn in the flesh. One good way to know is how well she treats your kids and whether your kids accept her or not. If your kids reject her then reject immediately.

Goodspeed!

Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

Please leave him be. Don't marry him please he is not a financial plan he is someone's son. Let those who can survive on less than 100k and can support him find him and marry to him.

edoman2016:
I have a cousin who is single at 35. We are age mate and very close since childhood. Her last relationship didn't work out cause her boyfriend was a time waster and irresponsible.

Her parents are pressuring and calling her to get married before december. That she is not getting any younger day by day. Because of that, she is so worried and depressed. I don't even know how to advice her so that she won't be desperate. Cause she is my cousin sister.I need opinions from nairalander. NO INSULTS please.

So her last boyfriend dated her since she was 18 ba? Abi you no even sabi the story wey you dey tell. When ladies are young dey tell themselves they can mess around and have fun but when they end up in 30s trap they start looking for serious relationship.

Sorry sir. This is wrong. The standard is the standard. If you put away your spouse (separation or divorce) and marry another, you are a sinner. You do not have to reduce the standard of righteousness to suit the demands of the modern day. The word of the LORD is clear. In the beginning GOD made them male and female and their union was to remain sacrosanct through out life. Your attempt to use semantic panel beating to create difference between divorcement and separation and provide a justification for the defilement of the institution of marriage will only result in more Christians being derailed and greater proportion of divorces. You need to repent of this teaching sir.

Mariam202:
I've called it quits with anything relationship till I'm stable enough.
Doing all I can while waiting for prince charming and if there's none, I live my life like it was meant to be.

You might as well live as you are meant to live because there is no prince charming anywhere...all men have flaws...all. So just embrace singleness with joy.

siofra:
Source: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/the-state-our-unions/202208/the-rise-lonely-single-men%3famp

I wonder if this applies to romantic relationships in Nigeria too because as for me, I'm not settling for any ashy, emotionally immature guy like these redpillers.

With the way ladies are quick to spread legs men will always have ladies for very little. Some ladies will spread their legs for a cup of ice cream. Worse still some ladies will donate their bodies for small grammar wey one mumu boy blow give them. In the West, ladies are provided with laws that allow them weaponize their bodies against men but in Africa there are no such laws so a guy can basically turn a lady into a cum dump, dump her sorry ass in the gutter and move on to the next sexy bimbo. So don't give yourself too much hope with the post you put up there...which may apply in the West but not here in Africa.

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Who can answer this? A blind girl lost her pencil, her ring and her dog. What did she lose first?

Her sight

Jceeee:
Hello everybody,

We are based abroad , my first daughter who will be 22 years old has graduated last year in computer science. She is has been working for 3 years and earning good money , she has her own car brought with her own money . We are so proud of her because she is a good example to her younger ones but she broke our heart when she started dating this congolese guy , he is not even a student like her. He has a bad reputation in the community with a lot of baby mamas he is after her for her money because that's what he has done with his previous baby mamas, she is aware of the situations but she is not ready to listened to me or her father. my husband was shouting at her all the time to leave the guy she has decided to move out of the house and she has changed her number. I don't know how to help her not to fall in his trap because by the time he impregnate her and has stolen enough money from her , he will then dump her and move to the next prey. My husband and I are very devastated how can we help our daughter to get back in the right track??

Charm, bewitchment, encounter with dynamic gbola, naivety or even blackmail could be involved. She needs prayers, dangerous fire prayers and she needs it fast before she gets wasted. The powers of the emptiers and wasters are at work and they need to be countered.

Cheato64:
I got married in 2018, I love my wife so much and I know she loves me too but my wife is too dramatic.

She always claim she trusts me but mehn she doesn't let me out of her sight. I do everything and it's affecting me, we have a son and another is on the way, she has refused to learn how to drive on purpose, I take her everywhere, antenatal, market (hate this one the most), I drop and pick her from work, am forced to go church or other programs which I wouldn't like to go.

She goes through my phone every 3 days most especially at night. She noticed I snore I asked for a separate room, she will never let me, she Insists we sleep with light on.

Sometimes I pray for Nepa to take light. The day I called an ex that works in bank to assist me with transaction due to crowd, she went through my phone saw it, I had to explain out of anger she smashed my phone she does this very often she has smashed hers b4.

I feel like running away for a week but I can't leave my work or our son and she might go to my parents which I wouldn't want.

Pls I need help on how to tackle this wahala

I'm sorry but you are a weakling. You are the wife and your woman is the husband. Yes she is supposed to have access to your phone but you are the main determinant of the policies and rules in your home. If you tell her to learn to drive she is to obey you. She is not meant to smash your phone because she saw correspondence between you and a colleague at work.

One, stop indulging her henceforth. You are spoiling her.

Two, you stand your ground and ask her to obey your rules or risk ending the marriage.

Three, warn her never to smash your phone irrespective of what she discovers on your phone.

Four, if she refuses share these issues with your pastor or clergy person or an elder. If she remains unyielding call for a family meeting. If she remains unyielding send her packing!

Godmother:
For all the married women out there, I would appreciate your viewpoint about Nigerian marriages. Is it like a bondage for women. Once a woman gets married she's expected to change her entire self to please the man.

I believe in being submissive o, but some men can take it to the extreme. My mum and sisters keep telling me there's nothing in marriage and we single girls shouldn't be desperate to rush in. And I saw for a fact that my dad wasn't the best of husbands.

I recently left a relationship where the guy was overbearing. He wanted things done his way ALL THE TIME. I had to think of ways to make him happy always and each time he brought up the subject of marriage I froze. I couldn't imagine spending the rest of my life with him.

You ladies say yes to fools and after experiencing the disaster of sleeping with fools you generalize for all men...you ladies should stop incentivizing stupid men. Look for character and not cheddar. Look for godliness and not gbolaliness. Look for a visionary man and not the one demanding missionary style. Look for a sage and not a cage in human form...there are great men out there but more often than not your desire for reckless gbola, sudden money and oven fresh lies has led most of your end up with fools.

tensazangetsu20:
Tell that to the starving almajiris in the northern part of Nigeria.

Many of which become professors, warlords, businessmen etc...time and chance indeed happens to us all.

Kobojunkie:
1. What are examples of these "things to be done decently and in order in my family" that your wife seems vehemently opposed to?

2. What exactly is this grudge your wife holds against you? You haven't exactly told us anything about what really happened so I am not certain how you intend for us to rationally opine in this matter of yours.

3. You reported your wife, a grown woman, to her folks, didn't you? And you have been granted an even wider audience by her folks to air your grievances against your wife, so why back out now?,

Perhaps you didn't read this:

Now with the attitude still being displayed by her, her dad asked me to come down to the village by next week so the issue will be discussed in their larger family so that my wife would come and explain to them why she is behaving the way she is doing, but not up to three months we had a meeting and now this one billed for next week again.

You can take the horse to the river but can't force it to drink. If her mother was invited to the house to see her behavior first hand and the mother disapproves of her behavior and on top of that she was invited to a family meeting and her attitude still doesn't change then it is best he let's her go so that she can enjoy the freedom she is indirectly fighting for. I support the man not heeding the next meeting and allowing the lady do what she wants with her life.

I would also advise the man to remain single for a while to heal, take stock and restrategize. He married a problem and should evaluate himself to know why he was attracted to problem in the first place.

cowboyvs:
Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.

Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent.

So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids.

So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely.

But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp.

There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them.

So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired.

Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP.

22 year old is dribbling you, a 33 year old man! You are not yet ready for life. You nor see woman again na the woman wey dey tease strangers with toto and squirt na im you wan marry. Wehdon Sa. You go soon collect breakfast on steroids.

florence3035:
Good evening everyone, please come to my rescue, I met this man a year ago and we started dating, He told me he was divorced which was why i agreed to date him, however he talks to this particular woman he claimed he had divorced almost every day. When i confronted him he showed me the divorce certificate but i dont trust him 100%. My question is, is there anyway i can confirm the certificate maybe in court or anyhow possible because i really like this guy and would love to settle down with him. Thanks you all

If you are a Christian and you are running around with a divorcee I would like to say congratulations, you are officially a fool. You nor see man to accept into your life na divorcee. I guess you like him because of his car, his wealth and his looks ba. Na like dis una go enta shalanga and you go come dey lament like egbere...wehdone ehhhn, you go soon collect your own share.

MostSoughtAfte:
Brethren,
This is a desperate and urgent call from the throne of Grace that the brethren in Christ are about to make the greatest error of their lives by selling off their kingly heritage for a mess of pottage called "change". Change into what? Change into what happened to Egypt , Sudan, Lybia, Algeria and Turkey which were once flourishing Christian countries but because the brethren there also sold their souls on the premise of "it does not matter" they became the last set of Christians in those countries! Remember Turkey! It was the beautiful Christian country called Constantinople! Today it is history! The foundation of the planned islamisation of Nigeria was taken in 1989 in Abuja by OIC. Since then they have not looked back! Our Government gave them a contribution of 21 billion dollars then! Wonder then where the funding of boko Haram is coming from? They have painfully now infiltrated one of the biggest denominations in Nigeria and offered one of their best Pastors -a Professor,a Vice presidential Slot! Now a larger community of that denomination now promotes this "change"! They did it in Constantinople ! Remember brethren, that the biggest denomination of Christians in the North - the EYN has been wiped off! All their churches burnt. You may say that it is the North it can't get here! They said the same thing in Sudan, Libya, Algeria and Constantinople! How come the brethren have become so dulled in the Spirit that they no longer are sensitive?
We may be the last Christians in Nigeria if this grave error the brethren is about to commit is not averted! Our Lord Jesus is greatly miffed by our irresponsibility as His Followers! How come we no longer hear Him! The Great shepherd of the Sheep! How come that Christians have forgotten that this country was made ungovernable by these same people and Christians are holding the wrong person responsible? How come? The signs of the eventual Islamization of Nigeria are awash in the 1999 constitution where Islam, Sharia are mentioned more than 100 times.! Not a single mention of Christ or Christianity! You say it does not matter. Now, mark it you cannot amend the constitution without a bitter progrom!
Brethren, the night is here! We must contend for the faith and our heritage which was handed once and for all to us by our maker!
Don't relent, sound this trumpet by forwarding same to all your contacts! We will not be the last Christians in Nigeria! Amen.

Trumpet ko Saxophone ni. So which of the candidates should they vote? They should vote for Atiku that is Fulani or they should vote for Peter Obi that also has a Fulani running mate? Why are you guys so dull. If Peter Obi wins, insurgency will overtake the entire country. Those that lose the election will make Nigeria ungovernable and folks like you will either be a victim, run out of the country or rely on God's cover. If Peter Obi doesn't win it is business as usual. You people should wake up from this mumu slumber. It doesn't matter who you vote for Nigeria is screwed already. We have to rise up. An EndSARS 2.0 is what we need. We need to realize we are all we've got and not politician can save us. We need to start a parallel government where we fix our problems ourselves. If Peter Obi wins, they will weaponized his service chiefs against him, they will weaponized his VP against him, they will weaponize the national assembly against him, they will weaponize organized crime and insurgency against him, they will weaponize the judiciary against him, they will weaponize the international community against him...by the time they finish with him, he will eventually bow to the establishment and do their bidding. You guys should wake up. Atiku will rig the north massively. Atiku will rig the east and south south massively. Tinubu will rig the south west massively and attempt to gain votes from the north. Peter Obi will be left high and dry. Peter Obi does not have who will rig for him and all of you Obidient fools will not rig for him. Even the pastors running their mouth will not rig for Peter Obi. You guys should wake up from this slumber and realize the Nigerian political system is doomed to produce tyrants or "yes-men"! The time has come for us to take our future into our own hands.

(1) You need spiritual cleansing. Go for deliverance. (2) Your wife is proposing to leave you at the point of struggle. Let her leave but never accept her back when you rise again all by yourself. If you accept her again then you are a fool that will plunge into a failure again. (3) Keep quiet and stop sharing your plans and moves with anyone and when I say anyone, I mean anyone, including your relatives, siblings or your so called wife. (4) Change your environment, retract from your friends...it is better to be in isolation and be unpredictable than to be surrounding by friends who may be spies. (5) Have mercy on the poor if you want God to have mercy on you.

Lastborn0074:
Please I need honest suggestions. My wife has had several male platonic friends ever since we met. She became friends with others through me. I trusted her because she's a very sociable person, so I wasn't bothered because I know a lot of ladies that have male friends too. She's been open to me about them.

Recently, something happened. A close female friend of hers (also married) started keeping her at arm's length. My wife didn't know what the problem was until information got to her that this friend of hers was going about telling people that she could no longer be friends with her because she's sleeping around with men indiscriminately.

My wife confronted her with this information, for which she denied. But the informant, who was also invited, insisted that she actually said it. Before this time, my wife would always complain that each time she visits her friend, she would knock on the door but nobody would respond. This happened repeatedly until her tenant told my wife in confidence that his landlady was always around each time she visits.

Recently, I discovered that my wife was actually having amorous relationship with her male friends. I have access to her messeinger and I have seen those amorous chats. She would delete the ones that could implicate her. A male friend of hers even sent her adult videos and she told him to send more, that she was enjoying it. This man went further to send her his masturbation video.

I confronted my wife with these and what people told me, but she denied. After putting much pressure on her, she said she was about to do it, not that she actually did it. I asked her the reason and she said that it was because of the hardship we were facing. Since her business collapsed, it's been very difficult to survive with our four children. I'm the only one fending for the family. Even after confronting her, I discovered that she's still into the act.

Given the above scenario, what should I do? Please I want only healthy comments that will help me make my decision. Thanks.

You cannot privatize a public utility...she is not doing what she is doing because of hardship rather she is doing it because it is a sweet habit she has engaged in for years. When we say you should marry chassis una go begin philosophize...well you are on your way to becoming a philosopher because that is the fate of a man who marries an easy woman!