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SenecaTheYonger:
No.

If the kid calls me papa, he’s mine.

...until the real father shows up...

gambojimeta:
I don't know what is it with Trump and women of easy virtue. He would have been a love-vendor if not that he had a rich father.

Same as his current wife Melania. Former escort and model.

Yea many of the ladies men marry today are literal hoes. So should we also ask what is with most men and women of easy virtue.

WriterNig:






[b][url=https://www.cnbc.com/2022/03/22/porn-star-stormy-daniels-loses-appeal-of-trump-case.html]CNBC || RSB Network

Na the same Avenatti CNN, NBC, MSNBC etc dey worship like their personal LORD and saviors. Idiots. They did everything to ruin Trump's reputation and get him out of office and now they are enjoying Biden and Harris.

KaluwisxPRO:
Russia should be fast in Invading Japan. I wan check something. You think Japan is a weak country like Nigeria and Ukraine that can be taken for a ride.

The balls on the Japanese is why they sanctioned Russia even though they know they have a treaty together.

Balls? In the game of war discretion is always the better part of valor. Japan would rather turn it's back on Russia than turn it's back on the West. The West has the balls of Japan on a short leash. So Japan has to accept that it has taken sides already and should be ready for the consequences. In the event of a world war they, Japan, should expect hypersonic missiles from China hitting their land in no time. These countries are so dumb. They have powerful enemies next door and depending on support from frenemies far away!

MangekyoAlt:
https://edition.cnn.com/2022/03/21/asia/russia-halts-japan-war-peace-talks-intl-hnk/index.html

See idiot. You sanction a country yet you want to negotiate with it. Why is it that countries with ties to the west have very stupid leaders.

ArchiLimited:
Before you come to abuse the doctor, kindly follow the red Cross or UN to any active war front and spend just one day there and witness real life horrors of war, see women, children and the defenceless dropping dead all around you, then by the time you return, let's hear what you will have to say about the aggressors in that war.

Dude no one in his or her right mind will abuse the doctor. This is war. This is why it should be avoided at all costs. This is why even the best warriors make war the last resort. This is war and in war all is fair. Forget about the Geneva conventions they are all hogwash. In war there is no pity, no sentiment, no commonsense, no fairness...there is just bloodshed. Let the doctor do as he please with his prisoners of war. He is free. Because whether he does it or not it won't stop the free flow of cruise and hypersonic missiles into Ukraine. Zelensky could have prevented the war when he could but his alliance with the US blinded him to the reality of geopolitical affairs.

War is a virus, it will run its course until the concerned parties are either tired or defeated.

finishmatter:
Marriage is a horrible affliction on men.

Think twice before taking a step

Marriage is a sweet affliction. It is sweet because you know sweet t*t* is involved, companionship is involved, support is involved and accelerated progress is involved. It is an affliction because marriage compels you to abandon your life of carelessness, irresponsibility, foolishness, selfcenteredness and licentious behavior. Dude find a wife, a real wife not a hoe, not a withdrawal slip, not a parasite, not a witch, not a control freak, not an ogbanje, not a chameleon and most definitely not a feminist, and you will have peace.

Amza07:
I was part of NPOWER 2017 set that's batch B enroll in under Nteach before our program terminated

Since then I used the savings I had to buy a fairly used daylong machine.

So after the program I used that to feed the family 3 months back we both discussed about how we will be able to upgrade or our lives Abit to earn more cash to sustain the family
so we both agreed to sell the bike then borrowed money and buy Keke napep.
Since npower stop paying I was not really enable to borrow from the bank but before I sold my bike.

Her friend promised to borrow us 200k so that at least we can get fairly used Keke for 320 since the new one is costly but after selling my bike her friend refused to assist us saying that the money she could have borrow us was used for another purpose.

Although I was a bit disappointed but didn't complain now my wife feels guilty because my life totally changed my things spoiled and I could afford the Keke since our plan didn't work out and the money on saved from the bike I sold wasn't enough anymore to get me another bike.

How do I get her to stop blaming herself? I believe God has reasons for such thing happening to me. How do I feed them till I buy one?

Major problem is family and friends see her as a woman that brought me down but I clearly understood that her intention was to support but it failed so I myself consider it as a blessing from God.

Dude don't mind those here commenting like they have lived this life several times. Some of them have not seen any harsh situation. You married right. Thank God for that. You made a mistake and yes, even the best of us, make mistakes as well but as long as you and your wife are in agreement there is nothing you cannot achieve.

First you two need to pray together often and comfort each other often. Tough times don't last forever. As at 2015 my life was in shambles but my wife stood by me and today things are much better. So please pray together and comfort each other things will get better.

Two, you and wife should think of a business that you two can work on with the money from the bike you sold. In the words of one of my great teachers, Prophet TB Joshua, "big things don't start big". This is very true. Many of the billionaires we see today started very small. And you can do the same. Look at your area where you live, you will find something you can start selling. It could be vegetables, it could recharge cards. It could confectionaries. Just look at your area and find the opportunities that abound.

Three don't listen to the devil. It is in tough times like this that they devil will start whispering evil ideas to you. You and your wife should resolve never to do something wrong just to get money or favors. Don't use charms, it will backfire. Don't trade sex for favors or money it will destroy your marriage. Don't do fraud you will pay back one way or the other. Don't do shady deals and avoid bad friends who give you evil advise or try to exploit you or your wife because of your current condition.

Paraphrasing TB Joshua again, bad times come to build us in character and after we have learned and grown the bad times give way for the good times and good character we have learned will help us preserve and sustain the good times.

Remember two is better than you for they will have a better reward for their labor. Jah bless.

RaymondEasyLife:
If you could choose a Super Power for yourself,which one would you choose?

Shape shifting
Super strength
Super speed
Mind control
Teleportation

Anyone who chooses "mind control" is a narcissist. Anyone who chooses shape shifting is likely insecure. Anyone who chooses super strength is a weakling.
Anyone who chooses super speed has been seeing to much sci fi movies.
Anyone who chooses teleportation must be long to be an escape artist...and that's me.

Nuellavanz96:
When a Nigerian man wants 50:50, he wants 50:50 in only bills. And if you as a woman agree to such, then you are a phool dear.

Let me explain the real 50:50.

1. Bills: 50:50
2. Cooking: 50:50
3. Childcare: 50:50 - when the baby is tender, you stay up this night and he stays up the following night. Yes, just pump breast milk and he will feed the baby.
When it's time for school runs, you take them, and he brings them back, or vice versa. Or you both hire nanny and split the nanny bills 50:50.

4. Domestic chores: split cleaning, laundry, market errands, etc 50:50. Or you hire a housekeeper and split the housekeeper's salary 50:50.

5. Pregnancy: all the money you lose as a result of pregnancy and childbirth, split into 2 and ask him to pay 50%.
For instance, if I was earning $6,000 per month and I got pregnant, and as a result my earnings drop to $3,000, here is the formular:
The cost of pregnancy on your earning is $6,000 - $3,000 = $3,000.
$3,000 divided by 2 = $1,500
He will pay you $1,500 per month.

I know pregnancy and childbirth takes a toll on your body. You can check out prices of cosmetic surgeries and ask him to pay half the total. Afterall, the children that "spoilt" the body belong to BOTH OF YOU. So, he will pay half to fix the body.
Or
You both look for a WILLING surrogate, then pay the surrogate 50:50.

If you look after the kids while he hangs out with the boys this weekend, the following weekend is your turn. He will look after the kids while you hang out with the girls.
Or
You can check if any of the kids' grandparents is willing to look after them for free or for a fee.
Or
You hire nanny and split the nanny bills 50:50.

6. If he draws a prenuptial agreement to secure his assets, make sure you include clauses to secure your own assets too. Don't be silly!

7. If you are doing 50:50, you must contribute 50:50 to any asset you acquire together and include BOTH FULL NAMES.

Alternatively, let him use his money to buy his assets in his name while you use your money to buy your asset in your name.

8. Kids will answer BOTH your names. That's still 50:50.

Dear ladies,
If a man suggests 50:50 to you, lay these terms down for him.

He can't share his own Traditional role with you 50:50 and refuse to share your own Traditional roles with you 50:50. That's bullshitt!

Women need to stop acting naive. It doesn't make you a good woman to allow yourself to be fooled.

PROVISION is the EASIEST thing to do.
If you ask me to choose between pregnancy, childbirth, and primary home keeper VERSUS breadwinner/provider, I'll choose breadwinner/provider. It's much more easier.

The women of my generation seem to be making as much or more money than their male counterparts.
Check out Facebook, Instagram and Twitter. More than 70% of the successful businesses there are being run by women.
Women of my generation are buying houses, lands, cars and even building for their parents.

If money is all you have to offer as a man, you are close to USE_LESSS.

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I do NOT think 50:50 can work in marriage. Someone will get shortchanged, and it's almost always the woman.

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Do I like the 50:50 arrangement in marriage? ABSOLUTELY NO!

This is disgustingly stupid. First they ask for 50:50 and now they see that they cannot stand the heat they are saying ohh no more 50:50. As far as I am concerned, if a lady will not submit then she should not be married. She can remain single all her life it's her choice. Any respectful and loving man who marries a lady that won't submit is a comprehensive fool. If a man will not provide, protect, lead, sacrifice and take responsibility for his wife and children he should not be married. He should remain single all his life and any lady who marries or allows such a man sleep with her is a certified idiot. If we chose right we would rid our world of emasculated men and saucy women but because good men fund the stupidity of low life bitches and good women spread their legs for emasculated imbeciles who call themselves men we continue to have a deluge of bitches and imbeciles everywhere!

Carolcitycartel:
This is my traditional wedding list...to fulfill for my bride to be mine....This is Americandad...I deactivated my profile for certain reasons. Iv fulfilled the knocking on the door list

Lalasticlala front page pls

Mehn prepare for war from this family ohh...na your cross. Na you see wife so jejely carry your cross. Ensure that before you carry this cross the woman you want to marry is worth it because if she is not then you would have carried this cross for nothing...you don do free alabaru work be dat.

Cardealer2021:
The truth is that with Nigeria current economy 50k(less than a $100) can't sustain a family of four, make the husband reason am
*She will buy food stuff
*Transport
*Snacks for the kids and miscellaneous on her own side.
Let the man make it like 70k at least.

Even me single guy with no responsibility spend more than that a week sometimes not to talk of family of 4

Reason wetin. You for sey make d man go kill himself na. Did you read the post? The man foots all other bills and buy food for the home outside the 50k. That woman is an ingrate and if she is not careful a side chick that has not seen 30k per month will snatch her man easily. She had better snap out of that childish mentality and start being a wife. Wives support their husbands and not constitute a threat to his wellbeing. She is lucky!

BluntNigerian:
FROM MY INBOX.



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Please He Needs Advice.

Stop sending her money. Instead of sending her money make all the purchases that is needed for the house and please keep the receipts. Let her use her own money to address her own needs. An ungrateful wife deserves nothing but chastisement.

WibusJaga:


I hate Dictatorship. How can one man be ruling a country of millions for over 20years & possibly for a lifetime. Anyone who challenges him is dealt with. More like in a jungle where the most vicious rules.
Imagine if Abacha was still alive ruling Nigeria up till now.

When Abacha was in power Nigeria presented better outcomes than the useless demonstration of craziness that we are practicing in the name of democracy. As bad as we say Babangida is we still use the roads he constructed during his regime and your useless democratic leaders have done next to nothing after making billions of dollars from crude oil revenue. You may call Russia a dictatorship but that country presents better outcomes than the useless democracies in Africa. Dictatorships are not the problem, dictators are the problem. If the dictator leads right and fights for the interest of his people the country will be much much better.

Desusi:
Naira landers, kindly advise me on what to do.

l am over 60 years old, a widower. By the grace of God, l was blessed with three children of which two are graduates with good grades from reputable universities here in Nigeria, one is still undergraduate before the departure of my late wife some years back.

As a retired man with meager money, I decided to manage a little business which barely gives me much money. One of these my children, a professional, though not teacher, is currently residing with me doing teaching job in different places as part time, pending when he would get a much better job.

We are living in my personal house. l would single handedly pay electricity bills, lawnman, etc. My son would not want to help in any way, not even with pure water of #10 claiming that he is with his father.

Efforts to convince him to assist me is not yielding positive result, instead he would pick quarrels with me. His senior sister has married, while the junior brother is still in the school as dependant, what sort of counseling do you think he needs to change.

I am afraid even if this boy owns shop rite in future, he would not help either.

Report him to the police for trespassing on your property. Let him swim with the sharks of life.

In a war perceived as just, many Americans excuse soldiers who commit war crimes, Stanford scholar finds

Almost half of Americans are willing to allow a war crime – a massacre of innocent women and children – go unpunished when they believe the act was committed by soldiers fighting for a just cause.

Source: Stanford study

Ogbuide17:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/03/russia-ukraine-crisis-russia-may-take-sanctionary-measures-against-nigeria/

I can guess that Putin is aware that the stance of Nigeria is borne out of fear and not diplomacy per se. What is Nigeria in the scheme of international affairs? Nigeria is just another economic slave serving the interests of any powerful nation willing to feed the ever hungry mouths of its corrupt politicians even if it means enslaving the entire country. In Nigeria, GOD is the nuclear weapon of the people. If GOD abandons us totally we might as well just commit suicide nationally because we would be utterly hopeless!

ManirBK:
https://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-india-60711653

Ahhh mistake bawo? We are still on the NATO-Russia escalation you are firing high speed missile by mistake? Omo na so wan drunkard go initiate nuclear strike plunge the whole world into nuclear winter. Governments are the problems of every nations.

Aonkuuse:
https://www.facebook.com/100069123281551/posts/269106428736798/

All it takes is one super cop and these drugs will flow with ease...the louder you loud the loudest you start louding.

TheGidRedpiller:
Look for godliness and i promise, you will get a fake woman.

It depends on how you define godly. Tying turban on your head is not necessarily godly. Going to church is not necessarily godly. Even in the Bible times of Paul one church goer slept with his very own mom. Godliness is in the character. A woman that humbles herself to learn, to submit, to serve, to nurture, to foresee, to pray, to invest, to preserve, to protect and above all, to love is the godly woman. By their fruits we shall know them...you cannot be displaying olosho fruits and form godliness.

nickyj19:
Hello Guys,
A relationship would not go well or even last long if one
person does not overlook the excesses of the other and
that is where acting like an idiot comes in.
You have to overlook some of the things you see and also
things you hear for the relationship to keep going.
the fact that two captains can not control a ship. It is
either one person is smart and the other behaves like an
idiot (is able to overlook certain things) or there will not be
long lasting peace in the relationship.
For your relationship to survive this long, definitely one of
you is the “Idiot” who is keeping the relationship breathing
by forgiving, overlooking the hiccups and that’s okay.
The million dollar question is


Who Is The Idiot In Your Relationship??


Lets hear from you all

It's amazing that you consider forbearance to be idiocy. Well humans being humans we usually hate anyone who overlooks our excesses. We use them. We push them. We exhaust them and eventually dump them...if you are an idiot find an idiot like you as a spouse. No one will be a threat to the other. And if you are witty, find a witty person like you...both of you will counter each other until one learns to lead and the other submits.

LoveEtRomance12:
Please don’t judge me. I did something wrong, but I want to make things right. I just don’t want to loose my man in the process. About 4 months ago, I met someone through my friend. It was a fun hangout and we hooked up after all. Ade is into exports, a well to do guy and he was also looking for some fun.
After our first meeting, he invited me over to his house for a night over. During my stay, I noticed he kept alot of hard currency around. He also gave me 500 dollars. I do not know what moved me, but I took some dollars from his wardrobe. I picked up pick pocket habits from a young age, you would never catch me but I have not done so in many years until now.


The next day, Ade called me and asked if I took money from his house when I came over. I pretended to be angry and shouted at him. Told him off. Telling him that I can return the 500 dollars he gave me if he thinks I am that cheap to steal from him. Ade apologized and the conversation ended that way.
Like two weeks later, he started chatting me again, asking for us to hang out. He also kept apologizing for suspecting me. That he had to sack his house boy cos he is the only one that cleans his room. I felt horrible that someone else was sacked for my fault.
Truly, because of that, I did not want to have anything to do with Ade anymore. But the more I played hard to get, the harder he tried. On valentine’s day, he surprised me with so many gifts. My friends called me a fool for not wanting to date him. They even threatened to take him if I do not want him.

So since Valentine, we have been dating and it’s looking like it’s getting very serious. Ade spends alot on me. He spoils me every time. He already is talking about meeting my family. He told me he had fallen in love with me on the first of this month. Now, I think I love him as well but my conscience is pricking me so bad for stealing from him the first time I spent the night in his apartment.
Continue Reading...
https://renrow.com/true-life-story-i-lied-to-my-boyfriend-long-time-ago-but-its-still-eating-me-up-should-i-confess/

Confess to him, return the money, apologise to him and let him decide. If he ditches you let him be but if he forgives you remain a good girl and sin no more.

MadamVanessa:



I know men are not better they're worst when it comes to cheating,but lately it seems our women is taking the lead in cheating.

Must we copy men negative behavior, what happens to the positive behavior of men. Is this how we will do to outshined men in this world in which most of you lots believe it will happen when we know quite well such time won't come

Yes ohh. You must copy. It's all in the spirit of feminism. Whatever a man can do a woman can do much much better. So if a man is scum, like you ladies usually say, then women must be "scummest"! Women are overtaking men in every stupid thing these days.

A good guy does not get what he deserves from a bad woman because bad women are drawn to bad men...so instead of becoming a bad man to get the most in a bad woman search for a good woman. Stop looking at yansh and bwest with thick pointy tits. Look for character. Look for virtue. Look for loyalty. Look for attitude. Look for godliness...and you will have peace of mind.

Mariangeles:
Hitler shall not arise the second time.

Sleep there. A second hitler is coming and this time his murderous desire is not to claim the lives of a few jews but to claim the lives of billions who oppose him. You had better prepare. Putin is not another Hitler. Go to Auschwitz and see for yourself what a Hitler can do. Putin is fighting for territorial integrity and the West have done the same severally without anyone calling them Hitler.

Just calm down ehn. The real Hitler is coming.

Why now? Is this year the first and only year that we have celebrated women's day? Have other pageants been conducted in prisons before now on women's day? How does conducting pageants for persons being investigated for heinous crimes like murder speak well of the Nigerian criminal justice system? There are ladies in the slums doing their best to rise despite the tough conditions. Why aren't they celebrated?

Who swear for Nigeria like this?

iwaeda:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/03/why-nigeria-cant-meet-opecs-1-8mb-d-oil-production-quota-%e2%80%95-fg/

Story! Just tell us the truth. You are slowing production to bid up the price and benefit from the Russia-Ukraine war. Shikena. US is now is a fix all thanks to Biden's green new deal and high energy demand, so OPEC purposely underproduces so that they can, as a cartel, bid up the price and make billions upon billions of dollars. No wonder Tinubu wants to die as a president!

The US's sanctions is just dumb. US's crude oil imports from Russia is less than 10% but EU's demand is much higher. It is hypocrisy forcing EU to cut Russian oil demand realizing that these EU countries do not have an alternative for now. Biden wants to use his pseudo moral sanction to enforce economic sanctions from EU. Idiots. When Trump warned EU of dependence on Russian oil they laughed at him. Now they are whining like idiots.

Imagine Biden presiding over a country with enough oil to be a net exporter but instead is pandering to green new deal socialists and now seeking to get oil from Saudi and Iran. The same Iran whose general, Qassem Soleimani, was slaughtered by a US drone strike. Biden and Harris are about the most idiotic pair in the history of politicians.

Putin has created a list of unfriendly countries whose creditors will be paid in roubles (by Russian based debtors) and not the international reserve currency as a counter sanction. Are these the prelude to the next world war? May God help us.

Source: here

Dreamhighnow:
Na u design the hidden weapon. Nonsesnse

Dude for goodness sake have sense. This is the Tsar Bomba created by the Soviets and tested in 1961. If they could test something this destructive in 1961 imagine what Russia could have created today.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BBNhYOmEgy0

CoronaVirusPro:
Hello! Google is your friend!

The US has oil beneath its landmass. Seems you have not heard of Texas and Alaska before

Biden will not draw from its reserves because of his woke energy policies. Biden cancelled the keystone xl pipeline project that could have saved it from the mess and he did just to please the woke mob in favor of their rubbish green new deal. Biden cannot turn back now because if he does he will be pronounced the greatest presidential fool of all times. So he has to start mumuing around by heading to Venezuela (a Russian ally) in search of oil supply. Elections have consequences. When you vote in a buffoon into power you have blood on your hands.