MrDebonair: Ignorant statement. Putin cannot end the world. Fact. Just because your Putin is desperate and suicidal doesn't mean the whole world will watch him do as he likes. He should use his nuclear weapons let's see how it goes. There is no place for another Hitler. This is 21st century. Stop being myopic.
Dude Hitler did not have a nuclear weapon. If he did history would have been rewritten. Putin on the other hand has nuclear options. To make matters worse he has developed hypersonic missiles which could easily be nuclear tipped. Ukraine is the idiot here allowing the west to push them into a conflict with a nuclear power. And they are using media propaganda to demonize Putin and legitimize their foolish tactics against Putin.
mauchiz: When I saw Putin going to fight Ukraine I started crying, but I prayed and asked God to disgrace him in Ukraine and slay his soldiers like that of Sennacherib, it has started happening. In life don't oppress the poor, when God starts to judge you, it might not be easy, his cup is filled, so many people were crying for Ukraine, and prayed for them. Is God that made us pray for them, because He wants to disgrace Putin, is God that gave Ukraine favour.
Disgrace who? Praying without knowledge. Only a fool answers a matter without hearing it first (Proverbs 18:13). Have you heard of Russia's rationale to enter a military conflict with Ukraine? You probably don't know why but you are already praying for him to be disgraced. Didn't God in your bible start a lot of wars? Didn't God sanction the war against Amalek that wiped out children, women and even livestock? You just heard war and boooom your sentimental bullshit started to flow ceaselessly. Why don't you question God's decision to wipe out Amalek from human history in a single war (1 Samuel 15: 2-3)? But you can pray against Putin's decision to enter a war. Did you ask God if He is in support of Putin's decision to invade? No. You just went to God blabbing away. Zeal without knowledge (Romans 10:2)
NGpatriot: The West is now directly confronting Putin, theiur fighter jets are going to be in the air, no more airspace dominance for PUtin, his helicopters and jets are about to get shot down..
This is when your agidi backfired, when you bite more than you can chew..
Yea...when we introduce nuclear options then you will know that EU's response was irresponsible. This irresponsible approach is the reason Libya is in shambles today. Instead of pushing for Ukrainian's neutrality they are arming Ukraine to fight Russia (not Belarus, not any of the other Baltic states, na Russia ohhh). The same Russia that detonated the Tsar Bomba as a statement to the world...that is the country EU is pushing Ukraine to fight. Such stupidity. Well at least they are about to have negotiations. Let's see if Ukraine's leaders will accept a foreign policy of neutrality or choose full scale nuclear war.
It was called for. If Cameroun became ISIS compliant and ISIS is poised to attack Nigeria from the North and take over the country would you advise your government to sit down watch while the country is overrun? This is what we are advising Russia to do. Can US accept for Russia to plant its latest hypersonic zircon missiles in Cuba as part of a military deal with Cuba? Isn't Cuba a sovereign state? Yet Russia attempted to do this some years ago but US threatened fire and brimstone and the world almost fell into a nuclear war. Now US is doing this exact same thing to Russia using Ukraine by attempting to draw Ukraine into NATO.
I hate war but the US left Russia no choice. Russia did not do this under Trump because Trump wasn't busy meddling in the affairs of other nations and he wasn't going to push Ukraine into a NATO alliance. Trump respected other leaders and other leaders respected him.
Igbofam2: You don't have sense. Even though you used the word "alliances" you brain did not help you reveal the fact that alliances are for more strength and impact because there is strength in numbers
Yea. Four ants formed an alliance. Whereas the world is full of anteaters. I think it is clear who the idiot is here. Instead of addressing the challenges at home first and building capacity to join more powerful international players we are joining forces with countries swimming in their own quagmire as well. Thanks to idiots like you, Nigeria is never short of foolish ideas.
jmoore: Because na only Putin get nuke. Una just dey hype that dude.
Why hasn't the west fired a single shot? Den leave Ukraine make Russia dey lamba dem free of charge. Ukrainian leaders have been played. They foolishly allowed the west push them into a conflict with a deadly neighbor. Putin is justified in this attack. You cannot threaten me with death and destruction and expect me to wait till it happens.
See madness. These are countries still battling with internal economic crisis they haven't thoroughly dealt with now they are forming alliances do what exactly?To share backwardness and crisis equally? Dumb leaders. I nor blame una. Election year is around the corner and stupid Nigerians are about to collect money to vote in another nincompoop.
Story. Germany and a lot of EU countries buy Russian oil and would rather do so than fall on their knees before OPEC and beg. The US that could have been bailed them out has had its energy independence totally destroyed by their rubber stamp Joe Biden. Any attempt to sanction Russia will boomerang wonderfully. Foolish leaders. You know you don't like Russia, yet you are a major trading partner with the same Russia. When Donald Trump raised alarm about this foolish behavior you all dismissed him as having zero foreign policy experience. Idiots. Sit down, relax, grab a pack of popcorn and watch China make a move on Taiwan. Ukraine shot itself in the foot the day they placed their reliance entirely on the U.S and gave up their nuclear weapons.
redrose88: Good morning Nairaland members, I hope we have all had a nice week and are looking forward to the weekend.
I brought this issue here hoping for workable suggestions after seeing how you have helped other people with their various problems.
Apologies for the long post but I really need your help.
As far as I can remember my mother has always had some kind of issue with me, I don’t know, it’s like she hates me or something. Constant screaming, embarrassment, reporting me to my dad or her siblings since I was small. I usually chalked it up to traditional African upbringing or that she was tired or stressed from work but after visiting family back home (I grew up abroad) and them also coming to stay here I can say there is a difference between traditional/strict parenting and actual abusive behaviour.
Children are the centre of every Nigerian mother’s life and even if they have some tough love techniques or discipline that may look harsh to me as an oyibo they always show their love in other ways that you can observe.
Like making sure the child always looks neat, teaching them things they need to know especially female children like cooking, washing. At least you can always tell that the love is there even if its not all kissing or “I love you” and all that.
A small example: I would always end up at school with my hair messy and tattered, I wasn’t allowed to style it in the salon even though she always make sure her own hair looked good. If I asked to get a nice childrens style at a salon she would report that I’m trying to be like all these Jamaicans, Akata and so on. But when I visited Nigeria I never once saw any little girl whose hair wasn’t done nicely, even if they were living in the slums. And again, other Nigerian/Ghanaian children in the same school never looked the way I did so how is this an Africa vs. Akata issue?
It may sound silly now but it’s just a small example of her neglectful and nasty attitude that does not relate to being from Africa or being a good Christian or whatever.
If I wanted to ask her something she would snap at me and start being hostile, after a simple mistake she would tell me that I’m like my father’s side, and she placed a curse on me that my younger siblings would grow up to surpass me. Is this from African culture?
If I’m cooking she’s nagging everywhere, why am I doing it like this, why am I slicing it like that, why am I taking so long, why am I this and that. That I should stop blocking the kitchen and allow other people to use it. But when I ask what the correct way to do it is, she won’t tell me; she would prefer to mock me in front of everybody. Knowing how important cooking is for women in our culture why chase your daughter away from the kitchen?
What bothers me the most is that she is always very nice and kind to other people’s children (cousins, classmates, neighbours) and just normal with my siblings but the complete opposite when it comes to me. If she were just a mean person who was horrible to everybody, it would be much easier to handle but she’s not! All this seems to be reserved for me and me only.
As I grew older and started university I thought she was mellowing a little bit because she would draw me closer and have conversations but I noticed that most times her “niceness” was actually just manipulation to get me to do what she wanted, using me to dump her problems with my dad or to stop me becoming more independent. Any sign of independence and the insults start flying again, this is from somebody who always narrates how children start boarding school in Africa when they are 11 years old and university at 16 years old and don’t need to keep staying near their parents all the time.
I tried talking to her about the way she behaves but it always ended badly with her getting offended, telling me I’m being disrespectful and so on.
Actually after reading similar threads on Twitter/Nairaland I realised that the majority of elder African people would feel insulted if their child tried to broach such an issue with them, so I decided to abandon that method and I actually quite regret it.
And I also regret answering her back and getting into arguments with her because it only dragged me down to a lower standard and messed up my temperament without solving anything. As well as providing a poor example to my siblings and giving her more ammunition against me to report me with. I don’t like myself whenever I’m near her at all.
Eventually when I realised she was never going to change and seeing the impact it was having on my life and behaviour I just dropped all contact with her and avoided her completely. I do feel much better and I wish I had done this sooner but I think it harms me in the long-term.
For example when I get married she will have to be an integral part of the arrangements and beyond but I really don’t want anything to do with her, I don’t miss her at all and I can’t stand her. I can’t imagine her coming to visit or doing omugwo or anything like that. Can you imagine doing all that with somebody who even drags the kitchen with you??
There are countless times where I went against my own wishes and obeyed her trying to be a respectful daughter only for her to turn around and blame me when it went wrong and I strongly suspect that my future marriage will follow the same pattern if I don’t keep her away from it. But this approach only obtains in Western society where you can get married without anybodys input and not in Nigeria where you need your family to back you in everything.
I dont stay in the family home anymore but I don’t know what to do because avoiding her essentially means avoiding my whole family. I can’t isolate any contact with them without her being involved in it somehow. At the same time I can’t imagine being stuck in her bondage again.
What do I do please?
A foul spirit is aiming to turn you against your mother. Your mother isn't a bad person but the entity she is yielding to unknowingly could be aiming to turn you into her enemy. You will be blessed soon, become rich and powerful and the forces of darkness cannot prevent that from happening but they can make sure you hate your mother and never reach out to her in her time of need. Do not listen to your mother's hateful words and don't let her hatred towards you make you abandon her. Instead keep praying for GOD to free her from the spirit of hatred and bitterness and grant her peace. When GOD blesses you, don't forget your mother. Don't let her bad behavior make you abandon her the enemy could use this as a legal ground against you. May the LORD grant you resounding success in this battle. Amen.
A young man identified as Jeffrey Zhang has advised job seekers to always negotiate salaries themselves with their prospective employers as he celebrated getting a job paying him $250k (N120 million).
In a LinkedIn post, the Ivy League school graduate, precisely Cornell University, New York revealed that he actually finished the bottom of his class with a CGPA of 2.9.
He however didn't allow that to make him feel inferior and confidently negotiated his pay with his now employer Oracle where he'd be working as a graduate product manager. Jeffrey sounded a note of warning to people never to accept the first salary offer given to them.
1.0 CGPA in an Ivy league university will get you a fat job where a 5.0 CGPA in Nigerian Day Care Universities may not bail you out of the hands of unemployment.
Tafa Balewa was 56 when Kaduna Nzeogwu Obasanjo's friend a 29 years old Military youth and his killer squad killed the then Old men to take over Nigeria
The excuse youth of Obasanjo 27, Gowon 30, Murtala 29, Babangida 22, Abacha 22, Abdulsalam 22, Ojuckwu 31 ,generation gave was that they were better than Awolowo 59, Tafa Balewa 56, Azikwe 61, Akintola 58, Sarduna. 60,
The youth of Obasanjo's era brought, Destruction of Agricultural based florishing economy, they destroyed education, caused civil war, devalued Naira by 1000% , increased Poverty , unemployment and mortality rate, stole blindly, borrowed and threw us in debt without any infrastructure, destroyed power sector and sold it, privatised every of Nigerian asset
Saraki was 39 when he became Governor, Orji Uzor Kalu 39, Yahaya Bello was 40, Dino melaye was 37 when he joined National Assembly, Anyim Pius Anyim 39, Ekweremadu 41, Ahmed Lawan 41... What did they all achieve as a youth
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Dude I like your comments. You respond quite intelligently. What has sincerity, accountability, efficiency, effectiveness, foresight and a host of other characteristics of great minds got to do with age? How old was this same Obasanjo when ruled Nigeria between 1999 and 2007? How old was Umaru Musa Yar'Adua, the man he brought to cover up his mess, when he foisted him on Nigerians? Now his arch rivals; Tinubu and Atiku are taking over the center stage in the next political battle and here he is jabbering about old politicians clearing the political scene.
That is Invasion of Ukraine territory without any fight
When Trump moved to recognise Jerusalem as Isreal capital against International agreement and UNGA Consensus they hailed him
US also supported Kuwait to break away from Iraq, they recognised Taiwan and Hong Kong's leadership to spite China
Now Putin is doing the exact same thing to Ukraine and America is issuing useless sanctions
17% of Ukrainians are ethnic Russians who want to exit Ukraine
I personally want to see if Europe especially Germany Europe's biggest economy would boycott Nord Stream one and Nord Stream two, after coming out of covid 19 pandemic lockdown economy
Nonpartisan1: Airlines like Green Africa and United Airlines, shouldn't join them to raise their fares, unless they dont have an idea on how to run a profiable business. Even with their cheap rates, they almost fly empty planes from east to Lagos, if they follow suit now, i give them maximum of 1 year to fold up.
Errrrrr are you the CEO of the firm? Or a majority shareholder? Or the chairman? Or their chief economist? When Glo entered the telecoms sphere with per second billing did it make sense to you then?
IgweOfNnewi: Most people normally compare and contrast good character with VIRGINITY. unfortunately they don't know that the EVIDENCE OF GOOD CHARACTER IS VIRGINITY , the most attractive bad character today is fornication, falling into fornication is like picking stone on the ground without stress, where is the good character when you lack self-control, self-discipline and purity? What is your own good character when your legs are parted for a price, having sex for money makes you a prostitute, having sex before marriage lowers your value for marriage, it destroy your marriage potentials.
Ma guy don't mind them. They are quick to say virginity is useless just to justify their olosho operations. They will tell you about ladies who are virgins but have bad character, do this or do that! As far as I am concerned a virgin with anger issues is different from olosho with anger issues. A virgin with bad character is far better than olosho with bad character. A virgin that talks too much is by far better than olosho that talks too much. A lazy virgin is 1 billion times better than a lazy olosho...if you want to marry olosho be my guest. We are here for you when olosho gives you STD or another man's child. Not that one time virgins cannot get spoilt but a virgin that gets into marriage as a virgin less likely to mess up the home compared to olosho!
SultanOfPuna: The joy i get when i see churches filled with old people i stead of youths is a sweet joy.
My father and mothers generation took church matter too serious. Im glad i broke that tradition by not going to church. They called me devil for not following them
i dont blame them, i love them even tho they are ignorant. I still love them.
But what made me happy is that my siblings are following my path and have shunned christianity. Same with many youths today
Religion blocked their common sense They stopped going to church Now they are free minded and think more creatively. Adeboye and co in 20 years. Nobody will attend all those pentecostal scam centers.
Im sooo happy, to realise that this new generation are wayyy smarter than our fathers generation
You foolishly assumed that everyone in church is a christian and anyone who doesn't go to church is not a christian!
Liyastitches: From my point of view, it is because they are gullible most of the time,they tend to trust easily and overlook the hand writing on the wall.
It's also a test from God to know if your 'good heart' can stand the test of time, because good attitude attract both good and bad, but never give up doing good, if those you are doing good to does not deserve it.
A heart is good if it is wise. A foolish heart is a trash can. People get into bad relationships because of a deadly mix of ignorance, greed and lust. I was once a fool like that until I learned and removed lust as a criterion for choosing a lady...as soon as I did that my Queen walked into my life and I could recognize her almost immediately.
I have been dating a girl for the past 5 years she has every thing I want in a lady but she’s too dependent since I have been dating her I buy from latest iPhones to sanitary pads , data , house rent , I even sent her to a fashion school which I spent millions on her, when she was at the fashion school.
Ever since she has resumed her school I told her won’t she be doing something in school like handling her friends and clients wears like sowing and selling quality materials I promise to open website , create mobile app , register her company , open cooperate account for her she’s yet to believe she can start making money her self .
During the conversation she told me how do I expect her to cope with class I was like woman I only allowed you to school because you should be able to stand out at-least you are not working for any one even when we get married she insists until she finish her school honestly I was pissed and decided not to give her any penny again until she fix her self..
Because I am a business man I have businesses running I believe my partner should also be doing something for her self not depending on me most time I don’t feel comfortable spending a dime on her again..
I need advice..
Dude you are a man indeed but that your woman is not measuring up to your standard at all. You are basically her battery and she is acting all entitled. I don't want to be reason for anyone's pain but if you were my brother I'd advice you ditch her immediately. She is clearly not a helper rather she is a leech and leeches kill instalmentally.
AntiChristian: Isaiah 7:14 Therefore the Lord himself will give you a sign: The virgin will conceive and give birth to a son, and will call him Immanuel.
Jesus spent 33 years on Earth but not one person ever called him Immanuel.
There must have been another virgin birth Prophet Isaiah was talking about!
Every time anyone acknowledges Jesus to be LORD or Son of GOD (which implies calling Jesus GOD) they are actually declaring that GOD is with them (Immanuel). In Matthew 8: 2 a leper referred to Jesus as LORD. In Matthew 8: 6 Jarius referred to Jesus as LORD. In Matthew 8: 8 the roman centurion referred to Jesus as LORD. In Matthew 12: 8 Jesus declares himself the LORD of the Sabbath thereby equating Himself with GOD. Jesus declares that disciples are right when they refer to Him as LORD and Master (John 13: 13). Jesus told His disciples to keep His commandments (John 14: 21). Who else can give law if not the lawgiver? Matthew 16: 16 Peter referred to Jesus as the Christ, the Son of the living GOD. To declare Jesus is the Son of GOD is to declare that Jesus is GOD (John 10: 30) and they Jews recognized this and it was for this purpose they wanted to kill Him (John 10: 33).
What if that boyfriend/girlfriend is your husband/wife and in your ignorance and greed you are keeping him/her as a sex mate or financier and not a husband/wife? Many have lost their spouses this way and ended up with the stranger that turned their every breaking day into a living hell.
Romans 5:12 Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:
God created a perfect world but Adam who was the head of the physical creation disobeyed God and brought sin into the creation, everything on earth is under a curse, hence the hardship abnormalities both medically and in otherwise, this world is literally dying, there is chaos,bitterness,pain, sickness, poverty, and every other malady.
But thank God he provided a means of redemption, Jesus christ the lamb of God that taketh away the sins of the world. Jesus Christ is the solution to sin he literally became sin (by taking on our sin) so we can become the righteousness of God. the creation itself would be set free from its bondage when the sons of God (the redeemed are manifest) but however the future of this universe is complete annihilation by God.
However, God has a plan of creating a complete new heaven and earth with new human beings in them, this new creation is free from sin and as a result free from the woes of this creation and this my friend is what we the saints look forward to.
Dear friend to be part of this new creation all you have to do is to repent, (have a change of heart towards God by embracing his way) and faith towards Jesus christ.
A little addition to your post will make it more complete, in my opinion though. God created man, gave him dominion over the earth (Genesis 1: 27-28). Man obeyed the devil, who possessed a serpent, and he lost that dominion to Satan (Luke 4: 6-7). Jesus came to the earth to pay the price of sins by sacrificing Himself (thereby providing man with a means to escape damnation) and Jesus arose from the dead to receive all power in heaven and in earth thereby receiving dominion from Satan (Matthew 28: 18). Now Jesus has returned that dominion to anyone who believes and accepts his sacrifice, is baptized in all three baptisms and is joined with the God-head as it was in the beginning (John 3: 16, Mark 16: 15-19, John 17:21). Today only a few appear to live in the dominion given to them by Christ and it is mostly due to ignorance and unbelief but the full cycle will be restored when the millennial reign of the LORD Jesus starts. In that era the kingdoms of the world will become the kingdoms of our LORD Jesus Christ (Revelations 11:15).
Fiscus105: Guys if your wife saved you from embarrassment of landlord by committing adultery with him and later remorseful and apologized, can you still accept her apology ?
Will you because of the offence sent her parking?
Send her packing bawo. No na. She paid the rent with her body so she should be entitled to live in that apartment ALL BY HERSELF. Na to find my square root sharply before she finds another reason to sleep with my friends, enemy, siblings, uncles, nephews or lecturer!
Omicronvaccine: Disc jockey and billionaire's daughter, Florence Otedola, also known as DJ Cuppy, has said that she may be single but she is a great mother, IGBERETV reports.
DJ Cuppy who celebrated her dogs on their first birthday on 17th February 2022, said that her pets can prove that she is a good mother.
Anyone with the amount of money you have can take care of anything from a rat to an elephant...will you still be a "great mother" if you were stripped of every privilege you have?
UGLYSALT: Okay Our Daughter is 4 Months Now !!! ..... This Woman no wan Go !!!
Abi na 20k Pocket Money i dey Give her every Month for my House !!!
Please you Guys should tell me what to do !!!
She Came for OMUGWO oooooo .... Before you wake up in the morning , This woman don already.... ON DSTV Dey watch African Magic Showcase , With a Bottle For Cool Drink !!!
She No Wan Go Again !!!
I Don tell her Daughter and wetin my wife tell me is ..... "IF SHE GO NOW ..... HOW WILL I BE BATHING OUR BABY" ..... I Don tell her that I Can Bath Our Baby .... She is insisting that she must stay !!!
Here is WHERE The Problem dey ooooo , Read below.
Una know say .... them talk say if woman born , All her curves will come out .... I Think say na Joke oooo
As my wife Born Last 4 Months .... Chaiaa ... come see soft body and Curves ....
But do you know that her Mother Told her Not to Give me Kpekusss Untill Our Baby is 6 To 8 Months !!! .... SINCE THIS WOMAN Born . I NEVER NACK HER oooooooo , and she dey flaunt all those Curves for my Face !!!
Her Mother Can Give Advice for Africa , This woman will come to my room , KNOCK and ask me to come to the LIVING ROOM !!! She will start Giving all those village advice !!! weah dey vex me ..... Make i no dey keep friends , Make i dey drink 1 beer in a week , That i chop too much suya , That i should be going to Morning Mass (Church everyday) .
Biko am Tired , what should i do !!!
You be boy boy. You are half a man. Foreigner come your territory come dey dictate law give you. It's either she goes back to her husband's house or she moves out with her daughter. Na another person dey dictate as you go take sleep with your wife. Mehn den don knack you something ohh. Consult the nearest deliverance minister.
Armed robbers dey kill. Police dey kill. Boko haram dey kill. Army dey kill. Road dey kill. Tout dey kill. Cult folks dey kill. Bandits dey kill. Kidnappers dey kill. Politicians dey kill...now boyfriends and girlfriends dey kill. Nigeria is now a killing field. Both animate and inanimate entities dey kill anyhow...Federal Republic of Killgeria. Who do us like this?
Made619: It states that if a 'Congo' has been 'shined' once (C1), it can always be shined again (C∞), provided it was shined properly (P) the previous times and the experience was remarkable.
ie; C1 • P = C∞.
Please share your experience as well to affirm this law and it's efficacy.
More like:
F(t) = (1 + æ)F(t-1) where 0 < æ < 1
This Okafor's equation of motion can be rewritten as:
F(t) = F(0)*(1 + æ)^t
And it suggests that if the Congo is shined at any initial period '0', at an intensity of 'æ' then the Congo can be shined at any time 't' by a factor of (1 + æ)^t and in the event that the gbola under consideration exceeds 8 inches the intensity parameter changes in behavior to:
æ > 1
And this means the congo can be shined at any time infinitely!
So ladies, CLOSE YOUR LEGS, before the Okafor's law of congo dynamics renders you unmarriageable.
He rough handled me on my first visit to his house, claims to want a serious relationship. Can he really be serious about being serious or he is just a play boy?
So I met this guy about two weeks ago close to my street. He calls but I hardly pick. Eventually, I picked and he asked if he could pick me after work and we hangout. I accepted. He picked me up after work last week Friday. He was quite interesting and funny, he talked freely like he had known me for years but he was really so touchy, I had barely spent 5 minutes in the car and he was already touching my shoulder and even when we were inside the bar, he tried tickling me, at a point, he put his hands close to my waist, I removed it. We both discussed if we had someone we are currently seeing, I am not seeing anyone which is the truth, he said there is an Ex but they just have sex and she has her own relationship. When he was dropping me off, he asked for a close hug, I hugged him and he wanted to pull me closer and kiss. I broke free and got down. He said I am not nice.
Well, we met again on Monday, I took just water intentionally. This time I minded the distance between us. He wanted to see again on Tuesday, I declined. Then at work yesterday, he asked to see after closing. I told him he can come briefly to my work and we can talk a bit in the car and part ways. He said he would like to host me at his house instead, I declined.
Anyway, he came, I got in and he started driving and saying, I will know his house today and besides his phone battery his low. My mood changed immediately and he tried to guilt trip me and said okay should we stop on the road and get a place to charge his phone. I then told him to continue driving to his house. He stopped on the way and got snacks. We got into his house. It was nice and neat.
Then we were watching a movie, he sat down and placed my leg on his, I was cool with this. Then he made moves to kiss and I declined and pulled away. All of a sudden, he started breathing fast, hugged me so tight and kissed me despite I kept pulling away and didn't kiss back. I am weak when it comes to my Bosom, then he got there and gave me the roughest and painful squeezing I have ever experienced. I haven't been with any man in about 7 months now, I am single and It's hard for me to do a little thing as even kissing randomly. So he got me there when he got to my bosom but it took only just few seconds to snap out. He continued panting and begging for me to reciprocate, he is so hard and hasn't felt this way in a while.
I told him I don't want this, he went in frustrated, stamping his feet, I tot he had agreed, only for him to come back naked and saying okay, he has heard no sex and "I don't want to force you", so he asked for a dry hump and wanted me to turn my back. I didn't. He still kept breathing hard, like he wont survive the next minute. Then he started begging for a Mouth Action. I declined and told him I wasn't up for that. I tried pulling, away and getting angry. He became even more aggressive, removed the hands I used to protect my chest and forced his way into my bra. It was a struggle and then back to begging till I made it clear in a thunder voice for him to stop and take me home.
Then he agreed, wore his cloths and kept complaining that I don't know what I have caused and he wont be himself. We left his house and he tried stopping at a Pharmacist and said he needs to get ibuprofen, then he didn't stop again and just continued driving.
This morning, he is apologizing and repeating the things he said when we got to his house that he wants something serious with me and he wants us to start something and want it to work out. He asked to come see me at work today but I declined. With this red flags, is there a possibility that he is truly serious like he said? Or he is just doing the usual lies to get the cookie and go away. He has a nice ride and nice house, I suspect he may have girls around him. My concern isn't all these, I just want to be with a serious man who is in for commitment and not just sex.
He rough handled me on my first visit to his house, can he be sincere about wanting to be serious?
You hang out with him. He offered to hug you and you agreed. He asked to take you to his house and you agreed...you eventually got to his house and you are struggling with the randy idiot. Why do some ladies just like putting themselves in harms way? Sometimes it's like ladies just shut down their reasoning seasonally.
Foreign Affairs › Re: EU Decides To Provide Weapons Worth €500 Million To Ukraine by efficiencie(m): 9:26am On Feb 28, 2022
