₦airaland Forum

CodeTemplar:
I rather favour a salary system negotiated at employment and a yearly profit based commission.

At the point of negotiation is great but as a government policy prescription backed by law, terrible! One key does not open all doors.

Embell:
Lol. I hope you know economy in this context means a country. Not that the concept of free market does not exist. No economy rely on it to achieve goals because market forces can not meet macroeconomic goals without intervention. In reality forces of demand and supply do not pan out like in theory; equilibrium do not last like you think. This is simple economics. I'd advise you study macroeconomic deeply and pick up a text that delve into policies, that might help you understand better. I rest my case.

No dude. You should snap out of that Kenyesian thinking it's obsolete. No one reads macroeconomics nowadays the way you think they do. No policy analyst uses:
Y = C + I + G + X - M
as the sole basis for macroeconomic policy design. For example look at how C is determined. Gone are the days of Permanent income hypothesis, absolute income hypothesis and relative income hypothesis all these are obsolete and economists now model consumption using an inter temporal utility function and a dynamic budget constrain function both of which require micro assumptions! Here, look at this.
(https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www3.nd.edu/~esims1/consumption_notes.pdf&ved=2ahUKEwilgqu25ezxAhUR0uAKHREABlMQFjAWegQIGBAC&usg=AOvVaw0kM_LjWWapK5wPrdB3Z8Er). Saying the government must intervene constantly is patently wrong. I doubt anyone can defend such a proposition in theory or practice without running into serious design flaws. The government's job is to provide an enabling environment, a functioning criminal justice system, protect property rights, reduce government size, install communication/transportation infrastructure, build product quality assurance institutions and some of the other conditions (not all) stated in the Washington consensus. The government has no business meddling with the price mechanism unless in the case of market failures: common pool problem, free rider issues and the generation of externalities!

Embell:
We are talking about macroeconomics here (I'm glad you rightly mentioned aggregate demand in your comment). You cannot rely on market forces to achieve goals of macroeconomics. Go back to your literatures, free market does not exist in any economy. It's a way of explaining something economics concepts. Government must constantly intervene through policies.

Your macroeconomics is dead if it has no micro foundations. Any economist worth his salt should know this. Dynamic stochastic general equilibrium models used to make macroeconomic forecasts are macro models that are based on microeconomic assumptions. Are you also conversant with representative agent models? If yes, then you should no that the era of Keynesian models without micro foundations is long gone. Again I say to you that you are wrong to say government must CONSTANLTY intervene in the economy. It is so wrong that even in China, led by a communist party, they know it is wrong. The government only intervenes when it is needed and not CONSTANTLY. I even provided you with instances where government intervention is needed. You should study recent literature to confirm this.

Embell:
Free market does not exist in reality(simple economics). You can not leave price of goods and commodities to market forces. Governments have to constantly intervene with right policy instruments.

Only approximations of market structures exist. There are hardly any pure forms of market structures but there are economies that lean mostly towards the free market and other that lean mostly to the command economy. That said, it is utterly wrong for you to say you cannot leave the price of commodities to the market forces because so far, in both theory and practice, the market forces are the most efficient means of allocating resources. The government's intervention is only required when markets fail as an equilibrating mechanism, e.g when the aggregate demand isn't changing fast enough to correct imbalances or when common pool problems or externalities are generated...hence it is also wrong in both theory and policy circles to say the government must constantly intervene in the economy. The government is a good regulator but very terrible allocating/coordinating mechanism! For example look at Biden. He gave unemployment benefits that were much higher than what employers could pay to make people return to work. This policy aims at boosting welfare and making employers raise wages but the fools did not realise that not all businesses are like Amazon that can simply raise wages to entice people to return to work. Many of the affected businesses are small businesses and they cannot afford to raise wages. The spillover effect of this dumb policy would be the reduction in aggregate supply, inflationary trends, reallocation of resources from the real to financial sector and the overall decline in welfare. Showing that the purpose of the Biden policy will ultimately be defeated.

I was struggling and I told her things about my past and my life that will made other ladies turn and run but she stayed, endured, fended off all advances from all super rich guys, defended me before her parents...and I met her intact! She's my wifey now!

WriterX:
Having served in a church in probably all fields, Technical, Cleaning, Instruments, Choir, Ushery and a lot , I was wondering about the opinion that apart from a pastor if it is right to pay church workers, what does the bible say about it and what are your own personal opinions about this?

I do think it is not a bad idea at all, as much as church work is more of a responsibility than a job, it is still a job in some sense, i just think, perhaps some sort of financial support would be beneficial especially in large churches.

what are your opinions?

If we do not expect church leaders to take tithes, offering or any donations from church members then anyone working in the church should do so for free...and vice versa!

Righteousness2:
Condolences to the Family of the dead is a normal thing.

Whether Papa Adeboye says this or Not is does not Matter.

Whatever anyone says does not Matter!
We as Humans, can only Deceive ourselves! We cannot Deceive GOD ALMIGHTY.

What Matters is not What Humans know about us.
What Matters is What GOD Knows about us..

But let me say this,
Those who are Spiritual both Good and bad may know this. I don't care what anyone says, This is What I Know,
There were Deep Spiritual Encounters and Battles in the Spiritual realm , which resulted in the death of the Prophet. He was taken away in the Spiritual realm about 48- 60 hrs before he was declared dead in the Physical. Except he repented before he Physically died, then it is unfortunate.

Spiritual battles between who and who? How did the spiritual battle lead to his death? He was taken where? He was taken by who? Under whose authority did "takers" take him? How did you arrive at the 48-60hrs number? If you knew so much about his passing how come you did not know whether he repented or not before he died physically? Until you provide satisfactory answers to these questions and your testimony is corroborated before the LORD and His judges, you are a practitioner of falsehood and the curse of Deuteronomy 19:16-19 shall come upon you such that the disgrace you sought for another man shall befall you.

Officialgarri:
This is no time to talk about the shortcomings or rather, incompetency of the Ministry of Labour.

I glanced through the recent version of Nigeria Labour law —Labour Act 2004, and I can agree it's a shallow draft that didn't know of its importance.

If I were to be bias, I would compare the Labour Act 2004 to the "Animal farm" laws that was tweaked to suit the farm leaders —Napoleon and the other pigs.

Without much ado, to avoid Under payment, I'm of the opinion that Employee's wages (instead being set by capitalist employers) — should be determined by the company's annual income and the Nigerian Labour body should follow up strictly on its compliance.
It is however left to the Employer's discretion to raise the wages higher than the set minimum wage.

...then instead of recruiting people employers will basically go capital intensive and deploy the use of automation to displace labor...when that happens you will be back to square one, capitalists get richer and employees remain unemployed in their sapa republic! The free market is best mechanism for price/wage determination unless you want to live and die as an employee. Any attempt to fix prices/wages (as obtainable in a command economy) will ultimately hurt the very same people you claim to protect!

Wawelexy:
The way i see this universe, i don't think its coming to an end soon. But people like righteousness2 would make u have a second thought.

The Bible doesn't even say the earth or the universe will end soon...according to the scriptures, the earth and the universe still have at least a millennium to go!

@Sergioaguero I can guess that the real reason she is howling and bawling is because the best has gotten her pregnant already and she wants to pass the child over to the unsuspecting groom.

Jerryherd:
That's not white house but capitol... Not like Kanu followers know any better

Yea but you did not deny that there was no way those so called republican protesters could have had access to that building without some shady support from demoncrats looking for every opportunity to demonize a leader that did well...I am sure you are one those licking the butt of Biden and BLM (Black looters matter)!

Jerryherd:
One right here is looting and smiling at you

The same looters that were granted access to the white house by white house security? CNN has formatted your brain you nor know!

WiszyFraud:
Lmao..
These people too MUMU.

The have redefined MUMU I tell you...their MUMU na mystery.

KnownUnknown:
Really? Some of you have imbibed white racism so much you sound like them.

The whites “abhor you with passion” but you ignore the fact that they do the same things. Do you stereotype whites when they display stolen goods in museums, or when they riot in America and throw faeces on the walls of congress over an election loss of wannabe fascist.

Do you stereotype them when some act like bloodthirsty animals over a soccer game?

Do you stereotype them when some of them kill indiscriminately?

Or do you just stereotype black people through the lens of white racists?

Theft is evil irrespective of how and when it was done. Displaying stolen art is as evil as looting the stores of people who have taken loans to start businesses. It is just dumb attempting to match evil for evil. We should only match evil with justice. Many of those in SA who had their malls looted were blacks just as many of the businesses that were torched, looted and destroyed in Portland, Minnesota etc during the BLM (Black Looters Matter) riots were owned by fellow blacks...If you have a heart at all you should see the video below and tell me it is okay what South Africans did to their own brothers and sisters. If the South Africans looted only White businesses it would be easy to claim that these looters are angry want revenge for years of mistreatment but when blacks destroy blacks what will you call that? How will you explain that? Do you realize how many black South Africans will commit suicide because of the huge unpaid loans they have taken to finance their businesses? The South African black woman in the video (jump to: 0.40) who said "it's over, it's over...I owe banks money..." will likely plummet into the very depression that will open the door to suicide and there are many people in her shoes right now because of the sheer stupidity of the blacks in South Africa.

These black fools claim they are protesting Jacob Zuma's arrest and best way to show their grievance is to loot and burn down the means of livelihoods of their very own brothers and sisters, blacks like them. Isn't that madness? These fools are portraying blacks as sub-humans with animal instincts and we want to Whites to see us humans like them. Now they have looted the malls, plunged many into unemployment, plunged business owners into unpaid debts, increased the amount of bad debts that banks created, depleted aggregate demand and they will soon wonder why they have no food to eat, no one to buy their wares and no one to support their cause. Ofcourse they will foolishly turn to the government but unfortunately their president is also black.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tMpy9QA53JY

Tyranny:
They went into stores to get food to stay alive. LOOTING isn't the right word! I call it SURVIVAL!

Really? If this was the definition of survival I doubt you will be alive to type the crap your just typed...what happened to getting some education, learning a trade, doing menial jobs, delaying gratification, pursuing a life of purpose and contributing to shaping the society positively? You lots keep reinforcing the stereotypes that whites have about blacks and you wonder why they abhor you with a passion...

daddytime:
Oh, okay.

Maybe we'd need to wait for the holy spirit to come and interpret this statement properly to us the carnal minds.

My inference from the above would be " I love Jesus, but he's not my friend, or I love Oyedepo, but he's not my friend".

To understand the English sef na war...

How do you hate what/who you love or love what/who you hate?

GOD bless you. You have divine sense. I have been inspired and ministered to by Daddy Oyedepo but this statement he is making, as far as I am concerned, is not from GOD or of GOD but of man...how can a person be loved by you and that person will not be your friend? And he will share the same heaven with the same minister? If the minister in question is a minister of darkness, his job is too bring such a person to the light but if his light is not bright enough to bring such a person to the light he should simply state that...instead of declaring that he loves all ministers but not all ministers are his friend...our church leaders are leading the sheep of Christ astray with their common sense doctrines. The bride of Christ are those that are not bound by the walls of attrition of any denomination...they are those who follow the example of Christ as revealed through his servants, through the scriptures, through supernatural revelation and through reflection. Instead of uniting they keep fanning the flames of division and on their watch the blood of innocents are being spilled daily. Boko haram, iswap, kidnappers, ritualists, robbers, bandits, unknown gun men and the tyrannical governments are having a field day but the sons of light are fighting themselves...so sad!

...while I revere him greatly I would like to ask if he would be happy sharing heaven with ministers who are not his friends? If his mansion were next to the mansion of someone who isn't his friend would he ask for his mansion to be relocated? How can you love a minister that is not your friend? If his love is described by the love Jesus expected of all his children, if his love is as the love of Christ, he would never have said he loves all ministers but not all ministers are your friend...the saddest tragedy of the church in Nigeria is the hatred the brethren have for themselves!

24brains:
No woman, no cry. A girl that barely said yes to me yesterday is demanding 60k from me for wardrobe allowance.

Giving her the money is not the issue. but i fear a relationship built on such ground will collapse in no time.

What happens when hair and feeding allowances enters? i sometime wonder if having a girlfriend is worth it because almost all of them have multiple boyfriends whom they cash out from. i see no difference between them and olosho. petronizing olosho gives much rest of mind than a girl who is yet to be your wife.

Nairalanders, how do you people cope with girlfriends palava in this present state of Nigeria?

Guy run like a mad man ohhh...na the spirit of Chidinma dey try test run your destiny ohhh. Run ohh!

When we say men should not marry olosho den no go hear. Stay away from strange women, den no go hear. Now you marry refurbished olosho, she offered her somolu market to area boy, area boy vandalize her market thoroughly, she carry her market give you, you like the good boy that you are strolled through her market like a passerby and now you have raised another man's child...Sorry sir.

enthronedbyGod1:
John chapter 3
By their fruits you shall know them.
As many as are led by the Spirit of God are the sons of God.

Is this what you will tell a novice who has zero understanding of these complex concepts. "By their fruits you shall know them" is a parable and not a definition. You said "As many as are led...are the sons of God" but what does it mean to be led? Who or what is the Spirit of God? How can one get to know the so called Spirit of God? What does it mean to be led by the Spirit of God? How does being the son of God translate to being born again? How does being led by the Spirit of God translate to being born again?

Your answer basically led to more questions. Answer the question in a manner that clearly shows what it means to be born again.

enthronedbyGod1:
I'll end this thread by saying the last thing the Holy Spirit told me.

He said , a lot people that watched the funeral of TB Joshua will be possessed by suicidal spirits and spirits of depression.
There will be a rise in depression among those who watched that burial ceremony.
This is why every Christian should have the Holy Spirit leading them , cos there are a lot of mysteries you can't know except it's revealed to you by Christ's Spirit.

There's a way that seems right unto a man but the end thereof is death and destruction.

One more question. Did you test this so called "Holy Spirit"? For we know that "...satan himself is transformed into an angel of light" (2 Cor 11:14). So If you did test the spirit speaking with you and sharing the information you shared with us, tell us how you tested the spirit speaking with you and what the consequence of testing the spirit was.

enthronedbyGod1:
I'll end this thread by saying the last thing the Holy Spirit told me.

He said , a lot people that watched the funeral of TB Joshua will be possessed by suicidal spirits and spirits of depression.
There will be a rise in depression among those who watched that burial ceremony.
This is why every Christian should have the Holy Spirit leading them , cos there are a lot of mysteries you can't know except it's revealed to you by Christ's Spirit.

There's a way that seems right unto a man but the end thereof is death and destruction.

Did you bother to ask the "Holy Spirit" you were conversing with WHY those who watched the burial of TB Joshua would be possessed by suicidal spirits and spirits of depression? If you did, then share it here. If you did not then you might have to return to the "Holy Spirit" and ask that question, WHY, because the answer you get is what we can investigate in the scriptures or by revelation to ascertain the veracity of your claims which right now has no basis. Many observed the burial of great ministers of GOD (Ayo Babalola, Benson Idahosa, Kenneth Hagin, etc) and there were no accounts of suicides or depression cases directly attributed to observing their burial...so unless you are indirectly speaking about the salvation of TB Joshua or you are speaking about the harms of observing the burial of anyone, whatever it is you are saying you need to explain why observing the burial of TB Joshua will lead to cases of suicides or depression.

Over to you!

enthronedbyGod1:
The plan of the occult is working very well and their script is being played out perfectly. Be careful so you don't become a scape goat?
Why did you go into ministry?
Were you actually called or you called yourself, or your pocket called you or fame called you ?
Do you have a personal relationship with Christ or your version of being born again is because your pastor says you are born again?
Verily verily I say unto you , except a man be born of water and of Spirit , he can't enter God's kingdom.

God bless

There's still time to amend your ways as long as you still breathe.

Make hay while the sun shines.
Now is the accepted time, behold now is the day of salvation.

Oga, pastor, what does it mean to be born again? How do you identify a person that is born again?

Gerrard59:
I am yet to find the developed country where men are not the drivers of economic prosperity either by founding more companies than women thereby creating jobs, heading institutions responsible for economic development or being at the table where the bucks stops. Again, men create the society, women integrate into it. It is the system men have built that women join not the other way round. It is akin to hypergamy - the women aspire/desire to date/marry men who are doing better than they (women) are - they integrate into that system the men have built.

Are women things or humans? If women are humans that play a significant role in shaping the behaviour of men then it would be utterly wrong to assert that men are solely responsible for economic boom or doom...even in biblical times, women played major roles in shaping the behavior of men, their husbands or their lovers. Eve, Sarah, Manoah's wife, Deborah, Jezebel, Solomon's wives, Huldah, Esther, Athaliah, Jael, Rebecca, Jochebed, Mary (mother of Jesus), Mary Magdalene, Potiphar's wife, Pontus Pilate's wife, etc...I could go and on the produce the names of women who in the patriarchal times of the bible went on to shape the decisions of men for good or for evil! This is why I refuse to agree with the proposition that men are the sole drivers of economic doom or boom which is neither supported by a critical review of history or by commonsense!

Nigeria is a highly dysfunctional country and men not women since amalgamation have headed positions pivotal to the country's state of affairs. It is not a hasty generalisation as it is a fact. That you have pockets of responsible fathers raising functional children (who later flee to societies which were built by the vast vast majority of men) does not change it . Again, throughout histories, men were at the forefront for change in their countries leading to economic prosperity and functional states. On the other hand, Nigerian men have not done same and are at fault for failing to create such a society for their women.

Add a qualification to your statement to make it more generalizable. If you had said all of Nigeria's political leaders, who happen to be male, are failures, that would have made sense but saying that all Nigerian men are failures is wrong, indefensible, uneducated and sensational! The mere fact that we have Nigerians all over the world solving global problems disproves the generalization you propose.

abeniagbon:
She use to work before I got married to her, but later the stress of her job makes her develop some medical issues that makes me to stop her from the work to face something else... I told her to learn some handy work, which she agreed but later she kept on saying people are talking about her and all of a sudden she stop going, now I introduce her to some other business that can fetch her money like work at work job, she wants me to start the while she take over after it success but that actually not my problem. The problem I have I that once she have money in her bank account and her small phone that can transfer above 1m, she become charity organization that doesnt care if she need saving. I know of many time I have save her from this flip funds transfer people. Sometime , she will dash out money with fake stories, when people come to her for help, she doesn't say NO. My fear is that giving her money will just vanish like a vapour. I'm thinking maybe I should call on her family to report her, and also she will think am report her and all sort of a thing jare... Like one time I have about $30 dollar in my binance wallet around last year I just abandon it. Later this year the money was about $150 this year without doing any job. Which I sold.i guess that what is called business.

Not she want me to sell the bus while I give her the money. My fear once again is within qwinkle of an eyes the money will vanish with a reasonable account

You need to take over the financial reigns of your home as a man. Talk with her and let her know that: (1) all money in the house belongs to both of you, (2) while you have the veto power to sometimes, though not often, spend without necessarily getting her consent she must at all times seeks your consent before any spending decision is made, (3) create a joint account where ALL funds go into, (4) every day have a meeting with your wife concerning finance, business, ROI, profits from business and investment ideas, (5) pray with your wife, (6) pray for your wife and lastly (7) you will never kill the desire of your wife to help people, instead dedicate a sustainable fixed amount of money per month for her to meet the charity needs of others. Goodspeed!

Gerrard59:
https://www.nairaland.com/6640379/enugu-young-girls-offer-bodies

Sequel to the above thread, it shows the severity of poverty in Nigeria which cuts across all geopolitical zones (Nigeria is not the world’s poverty capital for nothing). However, for Nigerian women to indulge in prostitution as a means to eat/survive, it tells us one thing – Nigerian men have failed their women.


All over the developed world, it is the men not women who made those societies what they are. Whether South Korea, Malaysia, Uruguay, Singapore, Canada etc., the men made them work. Meanwhile, Nigeria – most populous Black Country globally – has her women selling their bodies for basic items such as what to eat and where to sleep. I would not delve into this malaise as a racial one as I do not know how it is for black women in Kenya, Angola, Brazil or the US but the quality of life women enjoy depend on the level of sophistication their men have built their societies into. This is something Nigerian men have failed at and specifically, those above 40 years. These men failed, woefully, to create a society that is functioning, orderly, prosperous, safe and enjoyable for their women. Even for societies that are adjudged as not gender friendly for women (South Korea, UAE and Japan), their women live way more prosperous lives than their Nigerian counterparts.


We have many Nigerian women trading their bodies in Italy, the UAE and parts of Europe but we don’t have similar or even half the proportion of European ladies doing same in Nigeria. How many Italian women have you see in Allen Avenue or any red-light district in Nigeria? How many South Korean women have you seen selling their bodies in Nigeria? How many Singaporean ladies have you seen/read travel to Nigeria to “hustle”? I am an ardent reader of Singaporean news and not once have I read that Singaporean ladies sell their bodies to pay school fees, to eat or get a job but these things are rampant in Nigeria because unlike Singapore where the likes of Lee Kuan Yew and Co built a prosperous society for them to thrive, Nigerian men of same generation ruined the country. Worse still, their successors exacerbated these issues through wanton corruption and rife ethnic bigotry compared to Lee’s successors who doubled down on his achievements by diversifying Singapore’s economy thereby generating more jobs for their citizens. Same in Japan where women constitute a larger proportion of luxury goods’ consumers because their men have created a prosperous place for them to be able to afford those products. Women of the world's poverty capital can only dream of being major consumers of luxury goods.

Some half-truths and hasty generalizations here. In the countries you quoted prostitution still occur. Prostitution is not the result of poverty alone. China, UK, Japan, US, Australia and South Korea record some of the highest revenue from pornography and by extension prostitution (source: https://www.familysafe.com/pornography-statistics/). Yet these countries are advanced and according to you this must have been wrought by the men in those societies. Would you also conclude that the men in those societies are responsible for the prevalence of pornography and prostitution in those countries? Another half truth is the conclusion that men alone are the drivers of economic prosperity or doom. Well if this is true the wives of such men, for most of them are married, should also be rewarded or blamed for their role in economic success or their complacency or complicity in economic doom as the case may be. While I agree that a lot of our male leaders have failed us but this does not lead to the conclusion that all men are failures - that is a hasty generalization - because though a few male political leaders have failed there are responsible fathers that have provide for their children and raise them to become successful and influential.

We should reflect deeply before rushing to post stuff!

IyaTola:
How To Save Your Husband From Next Chidinma.

A brief telephone conversation with a housewife and her hubby's side chick.

*Madam:* Hello Angela, please, leave my husband alone.

*Angela:* Hello Madam, sorry I will, but kindly permit me to collect the money he promised me so as to enable me open a saloon.

*Madam:* Money? How much is the money my husband promised you?

*Angela:* (afraid.) Erm... erm... it is 250k ma.

*Madam:* Just 250k? Alright, send me your account details.

_Alert wole gbam!_
*Angela:* (surprised.) Wow... madam, you sent 450k instead of 250k.

*Madam:* Yes 250k for the saloon, and 200k for defining your purpose of sleeping with my husband. Don't worry, I was once in your shoes. Please, just leave my husband alone.

*Angela:* Thanks and God bless you Ma. But Madam, I have confidential issues to discuss with you Ma.

*Madam:* Yes, go on...

*Angela:* (coughs.) Madam, your husband told me that each time you return from work, you just take your bath and go to bed without preparing his meal. You don't as well have romantic discussion with him except you want something important to collect from him.

*Madam:* (surprised.) He told you that?

*Angela:* Yes madam. Well ma, let me tell you how I handle him on bed, so that he won't think of going out to look for young girls like us as I have already quit my relationship with your husband.

*Madam:* (anxious.) Ok, go on.

*Angela:* Madam, cook soups and vegetables over the weekend. Store in the freezer. Make food and serve with the warmed soup from the freezer. Also, sometimes, once it is 6pm and you are not yet home due to the nature of your work, try to call him and ask him what he will eat even if you won't be home on time to prepare it. Are you with me Ma?

*Madam:* Yes, I am with you.

*Angela:* On your way home, visit a good restaurant and get delicious food, then see how best you can get home before him. Dish the food, and since he is not the kitchen type, he won't know if you bought it. Even if he eventually knows, he will appreciate the fact that you care about him.

*Madam:* Hmnn... Go on.

*Angela:* Then, make sure you wear catapult or g-string pant and a transparent night gown. Lay carelessly in the sitting room as he is eating. Ma, ensure you are wearing his favorite colour pant. He likes white and pink.

*Madam:* (crazy.) What? _Mo gbe!_

*Angela:* Don't be surprised madam. I am not through with what I am saying or should I stop here?

*Madam:* No, no, please go on.

*Angela:* Then as soon as he stands from the dinning, ask him how he spent his day, and prophesy to him that tomorrow will be better and that great things will surely come his way.

Always be positive in your conversation. He told me you always spend such moment either in gossiping about others with him, pressing phone or reminding him of family challenges when you know what he need is rest or words of encouragement after a stressful day.

*Madam:* (sobs.) Jesus! _Aye mi temi bami!_ So he told you this too?

*Angela:* Yes, he did. Madam, I am not through. See, after that scene, ensure he takes his bath, and if possible give him body spray and prepare the bed for him to sleep. Don't ask him for sex as you always do according to him.

*Madam:* (flabbergasted.) This is serious!

*Angela:* Very serious Madam. As you make your way to join him on bed, ensure you remove your pant, and sleep close to him with your night gown. Also ensure you use body spray too. Because he complains too much about you not smelling nice.

You can use good body spray. Check the supermarkets for your choice. Concentrate on your armpits too. Madam, after 10 minutes, stylishly look at his manhood. I bet you, the idiot will be protesting. But because he is tired, his strength won't be there to take the first step.

*Madam:* (shakes her head as tears drop from her eyes.) Angela, how old are you?

*Angela:* I am 23 years old Ma.

*Madam:* I have to tell you this, my younger brother deserves a wife material like you. Please, I will transfer another 100k to you. I have a younger brother who is single and rich and I promise not to tell him about your escapade with my husband. I will give your number to him. You are a very nice girl because you just restored my home.

After few days, the husband creditted Angela N250k, and in return he got this text message; _"Sir, thanks for this kind gesture. But I think this money is no longer needed. Your children deserve the best. Starving them while you give me this huge amount is unacceptable and God won't forgive us. Have you consider the joy or smile you will put on your wife's face if you give her this money? Please send me your account details. I don't need the money."_

The man replied; _"Your message is touching, never mind, keep the money and move on with your life."_

Naked Facts:

Many of you, yes you married women today, are responsible for all what you are passing through in your marriages. Women now compete with their husbands at home instead of remaining loyal and submissive. Be a royal queen, mother, and wife.

My advise to our married women is that, it is better to approach your hubby's side chick(s) just like the woman did in the above play, then try to know those areas you aren't doing well which the side chick applied. Apply the tricks too to win your man's heart.

When I say side chick, I am not referring to those night stand girls that he pays after sex. I mean that very particular lady that takes his time more, and make him feel at home each time they are together. She is the only opponent you have. If you are not careful, she will take over your home without using charm.
That's part of feminine psychology.
As the saying goes, beauty will do you good by taking you to paradise, but only good attitude will keep you there, or sustain your stay.

May God give us wisdom and intelligence.

Let me also add this; a beautiful face without intelligence is like a cosmetic of foolishness! Women, use your natural brains and whatever you have to protect your marriage.

HOW TO WIN YOUR HUSBAND’S HEART

1. Discover his favourite pet name and call him by that.

2. Allow him exercise his authority as the head of the family.

3. Do not challenge him when he is hurt.

4. Be silent when he is angry. You can go back to him in his sober moment with apology and explain why you behaved the way that annoyed him.

5. Be quick to say “I am sorry dear”. Whenever you offend him, insist on his forgiveness and kiss him when he does.

6. Speak good of him before his friends and siblings.

7. Honour his mother and opinions.

8. Insist that he buys gift for his parents and be sure that he will do same for your parents.

9. Surprise him with his favourite dish, especially when he has no enough money at hand

10. Do not allow the maids to serve him food when you are at home, because you may lose him to them. And don't allow outsiders to clean your matrimonial room. Its risky.

11. Give him warm reception with an embrace when he returns. Collect his luggage and help unclothe him.

12. Smile when you look at him and give him occasional perks when you are out socially.

13. Praise him before your children.

14. Wash his back while he is in the tub or shower.

15. Put love note in his lunch or purse.

16. Phone and tell him that you miss him.

17. Dial his number and on hearing “hello” just tell him, “I love you.”

18. If he is a public figure or politician, gently wake him at the early hours of the morning and romance him to the point of demand. He will not be enticed by any other woman that day.

19. Tell him how lucky you are to have him as your husband. Respect him and heed to those attitudes he dislikes.

20. Give him a hug for no reason.

21. Appreciate God for the Adam of your life. Implement this law that every morning your family will wake up and pray. It brings unity.

22. Value your husband because you may not have the second chance to love him. Pray to God to protect him.

23. If you practice all these, your husband will be afraid to cheat on you; even if he does, his mind will not be at rest.

Kindly share it to others for knowledge sake. Save a marriage and save every man from Chidinma.

Kindly share to many places, let it reach many women.
Save a marriage please.

You can do all of this and more and your husband will still cheat with an ugly fool...cheating is a sin and like all sins is a disease of the soul. No amount of external motivations can prevent a sinner from sinning because it is his or her nature to sin. Only Jesus can help such a soul. Nothing else.

Liposure:
Here's proof. [Revelation 22:16]

There is no proof for a logically incoherent proposition. "The Bright and Morning Star" is a title. Jesus referred to Himself as the "Son of man" (Matthew 10:23) and yet Ezekiel was also referred to as the "Son of man" (Ezekiel 2:1). Does this make Jesus Christ Ezekiel? Very faulty reasoning. These are titles that people/entities who have attained/surpassed great thresholds of spiritual stature in Christ share with Jesus Christ by the grace of Christ Himself. You could easily have inferred this but your desire to antagonize the Christian faith will drive you into supporting an incoherent proposition.

Liposure:
becos lucifer was from God and God was lucifer

Imagine the nonsense you just typed. Your say God was lucifer and you say lucifer was from God so by implication God was from God...do you now perceive how dumb your post was?

DonBenny77:
What assistance?
Are you that hungry?
Bags of rice camera eye service assistance is what you are overhyping
Go and sleep joor
How many idp camps did he visit in Nigeria

How many cups of rice have you and your ancestors given any poor person? Oya tok!

saphiere:
I mean he was no there through thick and thin.
You took in, gave birth and train the child alone. He runs away like most men do once their wives give birth.
Now the child is about to get married and he comes to perform the marriage rites as a father.

Is it proper?

Really? Like most men do? By most I can guess you mean above 80%, abi? If that is true then you must allow good men marry at least 10 wives ohh so that you can benefit from some marital goodness because if you do not then you must be ready to submit yourself as a living sacrifice to a runaway husband ooh!

Brawlscartel:
I have a friend who took postinor 2 twice a week...

Her period was to happen 1st July this is 4th July no period yet..

But she is having signs of period.
Cramping, acne..

Note: no sign of pregnancy

What's the problem

When you turn a drug to salad what do you expect...you better see a doctor and get examined!