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expert1:
This suggestion is ideal and very reasonable too.

I think once it is burnt, you don't need to stress in burying it again. you can flush the burnt elements.

That's a better arrangement sef...in this fetish world of ours you don't want anyone having access to your baby's placenta!

thebosstrevor1:
Tribe and religion play a role in marital happiness but also we can not ignore the fact that within the same ethnic group couple do have problems

A major contradiction is lurking in your post...If tribe and religion play a role in marital happiness how come couples of the same ethnicity and religion have problems - actually a ton of problems? We are supposed to see a lot of cases where couples of the same tribe and religion remain together in happiness but you and I both know that is not the case. Marriage is a covenant between a man and woman that are a match for each other. The matching criteria here is where the complexity lies because humans are complex beings and I believe only someone with an understanding of the complexity of mankind can suitable decide the matching criteria and that person in my opinion is GOD...marry your match as provided by GOD and commit to abiding by the covenant of marriage and your marriage will be a journey of ecstasy!

thebosstrevor1:
Most people like to support inter ethnic marriages between different tribes in Nigeria because they want to be seen as woke and cultured or because they afraid of being call tribalist, racists and bigot.

The truth is inter ethnic marriages bring more trouble for families than intra marriages.

Some yoruba women will say i love igbo men while some igbo men will say i love yoruba women, some yoruba and igbo men will say i love hausa and fulani women but nobody will tell you the stress and pain of getting into these marriages.

Have you encountered cultural shock like different types of demands and settlements just because you want to marry someone from a particular tribe or when you have to change religion just to be accepted to marry this person.

After, the marriages and child birth, what languages to speak at home, problem of whether to speak in English or the father or mother tongue.

How about identity crises, problem of where are you from, is your identity igbo, yoruba, hausa or fulani, question of who am i? Should you follow the father or mother side.

Politically and culturally, you are not accepted by both your mother and father side, when you try to contest in your father side, they will say you are not too igbo, yoruba or hausa to contest, on your mother side, they will disown you because you bear a different surname from the people.

Lets imagine your father dies today, we all know that some uncle and aunties will come to claim properties and then send the woman and her children back to square one just because she is not of the same tribe or ethnic group.

Inter marriages is sweet on paper for diversity and unity pass mark but very dangerous and stressful for those in it in real life.

Yorubas kills yoruba. During the ife-modakeke crisis ife husbands killed their wives that are modakeke and vice versa. Tribe has nothing to do with marital happiness...Marital happiness is anchored on agreement, openness, sacrifice and sincerity!

expert1:
Hello Nairalanders and Guests.

I am just curious to know what to do with the placenta after birth, and I am sure many young men as first timers feels the same if handed the placenta after his wife delivers a child.

Especially to young guys that are just raising a family. I know that culture varies but in Yoruba tribe for example, placenta are meant to be buried. Buried where? On your land or you have to encroach another man's land to bury that?

As a father or grandfather kindly share your experience on how to dispense placenta after delivery.

Many thanks.

Take it, burn it to ashes, issue some commands to the ashes and bury it in a location no one knows...

...because the hearts of human beings are desperately wicked...

22marvelous:
Two weeks ago via a radio station I was listening to this evening, a man got to know that his twin sons that he loves so much and is ready to go extreme miles for,for the past 5 years,he has literally and practically been training another man's kids,he has left his home and has gone to his parents house,his parents ve told him to abandon the innocent kids,but he is devastated and emotionally drained and traumatized,school is about resuming, should he still go ahead paying for the school fees of another man's kids,he is planning for a divorce.
No insults pls,just ur suggestions pls

Request the wife to seek out the true father of the children and inform him that he secret affair is now public knowledge. The true father should be sued if he refuses to take responsibility for the children and contribute to their welfare. The man should evaluate his now dead marriage and ask where he got it wrong. He needs to reflect about what in the unfaithful wife attracted him and what reason was responsible for the paternity fraud...whatever does not kill you makes you stronger. If he has made up his mind to leave the marriage he should cut-off all ties with the said lady, spend sometime healing and decide when it is right to move on. If he has the heart to forgive the lady, he should be sure the lady is not on a mission to destroy him, if she is truly repentant he should ask that she reveals every hidden secret about her that he is unaware of, he should require that their vows be re-made and he should pick-up the bits and pieces of his marriage!

Marriage is not for the faint at heart...it is more of then than not the fusion of two beasts waiting to be exposed!

...this is what happens when you have a fool-in-chief as a president...

Gospelpreacher1:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nut4FlxB90E

https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/politics/15979722/uk-shuts-kabul-airport-gates/amp/

Yea they are sacrificial lambs the West under the leadership of Biden have to donate to the Taliban for 2 decades of disturbing the peace of the peaceful Islam.

HolinessForever:
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9932305/The-Taliban-enjoy-killing-Gay-man-trapped-Afghanistan-says-Taliban-hunting-us.html

Oh yes they will...be ready for a peaceful execution. You will likely be taken to the top of a peaceful building and hurled down peacefully from the top in the most peaceful manner. As soon as you hit the ground peacefully, you will pass on the other side with a lot of peace. You gotta love the religion of peace.

KillingIsFun:
https://edition.cnn.com/2021/08/17/asia/afghanistan-women-taliban-intl-hnk-dst/index.html

They beat the poor woman peacefully and she died even more peacefully...all thanks to the peaceful religion of Islam. The peace that Islam brings is too peaceful to be comprehended.

Las las una go digest the humble pie and jejely pay the ransom...which kain "height of death". The "height of death" was for bandits to break into a defense facility, abduct high ranking officers, kill some of them and detain others...and instead of owning up to your ineptitude and sheer lack of preparedness you are here saying paying ransom is the "height of death"! You will still pay the ransom secretly and inform us that you did not pay ransom. Who are you deceiving? The family of the victim that will pay the money, the bandits that will be dancing shoki shoki very soon as the cash lands or the Nigerian people who really don't give a f***!?

GRACEGLORY:
Too bad of that woman. She must have been living in torments. Well, at least now she’s free from self torment.

On the contrary,
It’s not DNA that determines who’s your child and who’s not. It’s fatherhood based on acknowledgment.

What the crap! Acknowledgment by choice and not acknowledgment by deception...

lexy2014:
really? isnt it d same trump who instigated d US withdrawal by making a deal that gave all concessions to d taliban?

Ode shut up. Biden rolled back Trump's policies why didnt he roll this one back entirely? Trump's exit plan was well planned and he had warned the Taliban in the deal that any attempt on the life of an American will lead to a restart of the war and he will visit the Taliban with the full might of the US army...but look at your personal LORD and savior, Biden, he pulled out the military entirely before pulling out civilians. The fool left weapons behind for the Taliban despite intel reaching him from DOD and CIA...now the Taliban has airforce bases fully equipped by the US...

it takes a special kind of stupid to support Biden on his policy on Afghanistan!

Where are the fools who praise Biden as their personal LORD and savior...this is on Biden. US soldiers have not died due to armed conflict in Afghanistan in the past 18 months before this debacle...but all thanks to the Mumu-in-Chief, US soldiers are now boxed into a kill zone and the Taliban/Al Qaeda can now have fun doing target practice with weapons handed over to them by the US Retard-in-Chief...and some idiots have the sheer nerve to defend this indefensible megaton of crap!

@Dailyparrot you and your folks should not have pressured your elder brother into marriage. He was irresponsible from the start. He was as old as 36 yet he is a burden to his younger ones...you all did that lady, his wife, a huge disfavor. If you and your folks did not force marriage on your elder brother the poor lady would have escaped disaster...your brother needs deliverance. Demons are playing ludo with his destiny...he needs deliverance of the first born (if he is the first born)! If he undergoes that deliverance he will see where he has fallen and pick himself up!

OPTOSUN:
In the case of AS wanted to marry AS. Does genotype has effect on such marriage since it's confirmed to be God's will?
Don't forget there is possibility they give birth to SS
.
Tell us the one you've witness
***
Your opinion is welcomed

Those who know their God do exploits...if God commands it, the grace to action it will not be lacking...but that is if God really commands it. Today a man sees a lady with catastrophic ass and boobs and boom oga will declare he has heard vision from the LORD concerning the lady...

It is appointed unto man to die once and after that judgment!

pelusi:
Since my Partner started her recent job, everything concerning our sexual and material life has reduced drastically. By 5am she has started preparing and left house at most 6am and back to house between 9pm to 10pm because of traffic and once she entered house and managed and took her bath and eat,the next thing is to the bed and slept off so tired and exhausted. The next thing is waking up and start preparing for work again. No more time for discussion let alone to make love as she don't even know when I am touching her or initiating sex let alone to respond to it. I will wake her up over and over and roll her here and there to initiate action, ...for where, no response.She don't even feel sex again unless before she started the job,it was always a good fun. Infact this time around things has fallen apart

The work entails Monday to Saturday. Even on Sunday she hardly go to church service as she will still be on the bed till even those that went to service came back and before you know it,preparation in readiness for work for the new week(Monday) has started

No more time for love making and discussing important matter as couple thereby making "konji" to be disturbing me signalling a temptation to start looking for outside.

What should I do. Should I stop her the work.Please advise.

Lack of synchronisation...How does your wife satisfy herself? What is the financial model in your home? Do the both of you have a single purse? Or are both of you working for your individual money? What vision do the both of you have for your home? Do you see a future where both of you create wealth that can lead to early retirement for you and wife? Do both of you pursue career for the pleasure of it? Do you and/or wife value career above marriage and family? Why did you to get married in the first place? If there was a reason for marriage is the reason still valid today?

You are already contemplating going out...perhaps that is what your wife is already doing and you are also being tempted into falling into the same cesspit...reevaluate your marriage, ask the right questions and take the right decisions!

Alatise lo mo atise ara e!

zoedew:
Doctrine of last seen things.
By the way, Proverbs 6:32-33

“But whoso committeth adultery with a woman lacketh understanding:
he that doeth it destroyeth his own soul.
A wound and dishonour shall he get;
and his reproach shall not be wiped away.”
That is the way of the world. When a man is found in the sin of adultery with its attendant consequences the world refers to it as “ cheating” and “a moral question” just because we do not want to acknowledge and obey God. Amazing that Attaga family did not openly condemn his conduct so his children can avoid his negative legacy going forward.

It doesn't have to be openly...that they didn't advertise the sins of Ataga doesn't mean the children were not taught about the lessons of avoiding illicit sexual affairs!

All thanks to the retard-in-chief that pulled out the military before pulling out civilians...

Iknowhow:
I am just wondering. Because nothing is trending or being discussed about this. What is the government doing to evacuate them if there are

Evacuate wetin? For where US dey struggle to evacuate US citizens na Buhari you wan come depend on to evacuate Nigerians...if there are Nigerians in Afghanistan they should just accept Afghan citizenship and stay put...their lives mean nothing to Buhari!

cmecproblem:
Bring Pfizer. Many people like me are waiting for Pfizer vaccine. The regular AstraZeneca vaccine in Africa is not recognised by Western world.

Even the Pfizer vaccine will not protect you from the Delta variant of COVID. Dr Fauci of NIH stated this clearly and the Delta variant is in Nigeria. So whether you like it or not we are back to square one. Neither the vaccines or cloth/surgical masks can protect you from COVID.

But as for me and my household, I trust in the name of the LORD GOD, Jesus Christ and we are protected.

iyimide:
He is not forcing u, hes just saying u should sit at home.

If he is forcing the unvaccinated to stay at home hasn't he breached the unvaccinated's right to free movement? It is illegal to force anyone to take a vaccine or drug they may not trust. It is their bodies. If you want the vaccine take it and face the consequences and if you do not want to take the vaccine don't take it and face the consequences...those who take the vaccine should have no reason to fear since the believe the vaccine will protect them and those who decide not to take the vaccine can decide to wear masks or go maskless and face the consequences. It is wrong to force people to take a vaccine by restricting their movement. Very wrong. Only a despot, an autocrat or a tyrant will do that!

DenreleDave:
Why are so called Christian marriages always ending in parting ways?
The church always talk ń preach about divorce than Muslim does, yet most divorces comes from Christian homes......

Dating now last more than marriage itself....

Who is getting it wrong? Where did it go wrong?

Why are Christians marriage always the most affected?

Look at Christian nations in North America ń Europe, divorce rate is far too much...


Guys I need your contributions..




Cc: lalasticlala seun mynd44

Because it is one thing to say you are a christian and it is another thing to actually be a christian...Christians that have attained stature in Christ will hear Christ's voice and will trust His lead. This will ultimately lead to making the right marital choice. Christians that have been renewed from within and have a relationship with God will bear fruits unto righteousness. Fruits of joy, peace, love, endurance, patience, faithfulness, meekness and goodness are necessary to sustain a marriage and only Christians that bear such fruits can have an enduring marriage! Shikena.

TonyeBarcanista:
By TonyeBarcanista



Earlier today, a group of frustrated and bitter feminists took to Facebook to spoil the mindset of our lovely Nigeria ladies, wives and wives-to-be with a campaign of #WifeNotCook. 

The aim of the said campaign is not to "liberate" our mothers, wives and sisters from any form of oppression, but it is to plant bitterness in the heart and minds of our ladies so as to cause a crack and break in marriages and relationships to achieve breakup of families.

These women with bitter, evil and frustrated souls are never happy seeing ladies that are young enough to be their daughters, sisters and nieces in happy marriages and relationships simply because most of them, due to their bitter and evil hearts are perpetually unable to find a true soulmate.

Enough is enough, these so called bitter feminists must be called to order by the women folks that means well for the society and those with fear of God.

I want to state for the sake of emphasis that the concept of feminism is NOT to create social disorder in the society, it is actually an agitation to treat the female folks in dignified manner as equal partner in the human establishment. The concept of feminism, which I strongly support is about respect to the women folk, including wives, sisters, daughters and mothers. Feminism is not aimed at causing societal, family and social disorder.

Traditionally, the Almighty in His Supreme wisdom made the man the tiller of the ground(bread winner) and the woman as the helper/co-partner to the man. It is a fact that women of virtue as defined in the Book of Proverbs 10 are those that take good care of their home while their husbands go out to "till the ground".

So there is nothing amiss if a woman help prepare food for her husband and her children, there is also nothing wrong for a husband to assist the wife in the home front or make provision for that, and not place unnecessary burden on her. In fact, this is what sane and responsible men do.

Let me also warn those promoting #HusbandNotATM that the primary responsibility of any man is to take care of his family. In fact, the Holy Bible called those that fail to do so as being irresponsible and worse than infidel.

Finally, I wish to admonish our married sisters not to allow any strange woman or group of women to sow seed of discord in their home. To our sisters in courtship (including my lady), I admonished you all to seek and heed to advice that will build and not destroy your future homes. To the single and other young ladies, please don't allow anyone or group to condition your minds with their frustration so as to have you in their position at older age.

As for the frustrated and embittered feminists, I implore you, in your own interest
to turn a new leaf and desist from this path that will only compound your frustration.


May God Bless Us All And Bless Nigeria
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My wife is not equal to me. I am her head and she is my helper. I am to love her and she is to submit to me...you cannot be a feminist and align with scriptures.

See wetin Biden mumuciouness cause na...to sey the idiot calm down leave the troops and withdraw his people carefully he plunge the country into chaos with mumu policy.
Another 9-11 event is loading!

500 transactions automatically turns you into a billionaire...high time we established a Federal University of Banditry Technology!!!

Biglittlelois:
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So in all the news circulating everywhere, you didn't see where the U.S specifically said their soldiers, allies, spies will be evacuated, you also didn't see pictures of people/refugees on the plane, was it only soldiers you saw there? Apart from being dumb, stupid, and uncouth, why do you also lack common sense and sanity? Pray for it to be restored even if it's a liitle.

You got so dumb it has led to deafness and blindness...US evacuated its spies and allies but they left over 11000 US citizens in Aghanistan at the admission of the press secretary. Mumu if Bidumb evacuated all US citizens would anyone be complaining. Afghans are clinging to the wheel of planes, falling off planes and you call that an evacuation. Taliban is going from house to house dragging the Afghans who helped the US out of their homes and torturing them and you are here spouting trash. You have to be incredible dumb to see the sense in pulling out troops first before pulling out civilians. After receiving intelligence about the likely fall of Afghanistan your idiotic mentor Bidumb still went ahead to pull out military presence, endanger the lives of its citizens and abandon those who worked for them...now US allies in Asia and Europe are thinking twice. Just so you know how Biden is perceived by other leaders follow the links and educate yourself before your brain hits its expiry date.

https://www.reuters.com/world/uk/pm-johnson-says-britain-will-do-all-it-can-prevent-afghan-crisis-2021-08-18/

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.newsy.com/amp/stories/world-leaders-criticize-president-biden-over-withdrawal/

https://www.google.com/amp/s/nypost.com/2021/08/20/taiwan-israel-japan-will-get-the-message-behind-bidens-neglect-of-us-allies-in-afghanistan/amp/

ibuildstuff:
Why are u so pain.
Why not organize your army and go fight for Afghanistan since you love them so much.

Besides when trump signed the evacuation deal with Taliban and remove almost all US soldiers leaving only 2500 we didn't see u crying.
I understand that u are hurt with Trump defeat but you have to move on.
Sorry

Trump stupidity is vastly wiser than the greatest wisdom of Biden, your personal lord and savior. Trump offered to leave behind 2500 soldiers behind in Afghanistan but Biden pull them all out of Afghanistan...only to return them back after Taliban took over the country in a matter of days. The Taliban know Trump and they know he is crazy. They know that the strike against Qassem Solemani and Al Baghdadi was a tip of the iceberg and that if they test his resolve he will not hesitate to send the remaining 75000 Taliban militants to Al Jannah so that they can have their perpetual virgins...but a moronic and imbecilic Biden did not only put the lives of fellow American citizens at risk he also put his allies in a very precarious spot. Buhari, as dumb as we think he is, cannot make such a stupid blunder!

RodgersAkpafu:
You are just blabbing
Biden is not Trump who authorised the release of thousands of dangerous men as taliban fighters

Oh no check again...it was Obama that authorized the release of the Taliban fighters from Guatanamo bay...here, educate yourself, follow the link: https://www.hindustantimes.com/world-news/how-khairullah-khairkhwa-released-from-guantanamo-bay-planned-taliban-s-return-101629182398683.html

The dumbocrats started the Afghanistan mess and ensured that it snowballed into a crisis of international proportions...they take stupidity to incredible heights and I am appalled that people who should know better side with them!

RodgersAkpafu:
You trumptards dont reason

Biden own intelligence agencies misled him
Saying that the Afghan army can hold out for a couple of months (Which I bet they did deliberately to spite em)
If they did hold
This mess wont be on the table

When you invest billions training an "army"
You expect them to hold the ground
Their refusal to hold the ground is what has led to this desperate frenzy to pack out

As dumb as they come...dumbocrats! Biden appointed his own secretary of defense and his critical race theorist general Milley all pander to Biden's much loved idiotic ideology. How did his very own family give him misleading Intel and they haven't been fired by now? Oh I forgot fools love to have fools around them...and they have a lot of fools cheering them on. A whole secretary of defense in control of the greatest intelligence assets in the world does not know the true capacity of a third world country's army? And oh to add some seasoning to your sheer display of mumuciousness, Biden reported that it was highly unlikely that the Taliban could take over the country at all. According to Biden, your personal LORD and savior, the Afghans had a 300,000 strong army with enough air-power to vanquish a 75,000 Taliban army. Yet intelligence reaching Biden indicated that the country could be overrun in months, as you have admitted. Now tell me how Biden's report aligns with the intelligence he received. If Biden had worked with the faulty intelligence he got from secretary Austin and Gen. Milley he would have still retained troops on ground to enable the evacuation of US citizens...but alas due to idiocracy practiced by dumbocrats like you and Biden it was fine to pull out the army first, allow the Taliban overrun the country and take control of US assets, risk the lives of tens of thousands of Afghan allies, send the military back in a last minute attempt to airlift civilians and go on a holiday at camp David...chai saying Biden is dumb is an insult on all the dumb people out there...a new English word should be set aside to explain the manic idiocy displayed by Biden and his praise singers like you!

Biglittlelois:
You are in pains, get well soon

So because they've not had any loss in the last 18 months means we should overlook those that died

The U.S was 100% right to evacuate their military first since the afghan civilians were aiding and abetting the Talibans, why didn't they think twice before letting them take over easily? They want 100% Islamic rule, now they got it, if they can't pity themselves, no one should pity them, they should fight their own war.

Wow. I didn't know you contracted Bidumb's illness... so it was 100% right for Bidumb to evacuate its military first before evacuating the civilians? So Afghans were aiding and abetting the terrorists and with this happening your personal lord and savior, Bidumb, could not see the need to evacuate the American civilians and alerting his western allies of his move first before evacuating the American military!?

It is so sad that there is no vaccine for stupidity!