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imagrg:
I have made up my mind not to kneel down to apologise to a woman whatever the circumstance but instead show remorse by begging her for forgiveness via words of the mouth and by buying her gifts or giving her a good lay if she is either my wife or lover.

Traditionally, the woman is by nature supposed to do the kneeling down not the man for whatever reason. So, if you, as a man, kneel down to apologise or propose to your lover, then, you are the woman in the house!

WHAT DO YOU THINK?

SimSify:
So a couple after some years of marriage and expecting a child, decides to adopt a boy child legitimately, and after some years, lets say 2 or 3years they give birth to their own biological boy child. which of the two boys becomes the/your heir?


A. The adopted child
B. The biological child

With reasons please..

DDDEnterprises:
Well, y'all should continue. "The Unity" will soon arrive and the processes that'll change the course of the world will kick off.

Nobody should bother asking me questions please. Just wait till it happens.

IceDune:
Whether you agree or disagree with stereotypes, they exist, guide and shape the way people think and how they relate with one another.

For example, there is the widespread belief that wives are better at managing family funds than men, it is also believed that women are terrible at apologizing for their mistakes and f--k ups in relationships and marriages.

And then there is the belief that if you sleep with a girl once and you do it properly, she somehow becomes too weak to say no to you from that moment onwards.

I've tried it out twice and it worked out for me. My question is; is Okafor's law really true or was I just lucky twice?

TheGidRedpiller:
SHE IS JUST ANOTHER LAZY BIITTCH! Thats just it whether you like it or not!

Cooking has always and will continue being a feminine responsibility, don't let that nonsense they call
'Feminism' deceive you! Most of these idiotts are just hiding behind feminism to escape most of their responsibilities as women, a good cook is supposed to come with the full package of a wife, if that is missing then my brother YOU HAVE BEEN SCAMMED!

Going out of our way to hustle for the family is not always sweet to do but we do it anyway without excuses, a lazy man is a nuisance in everyway and that is accepted by me. That is exactly how we should follow up women with cooking!

There should be no excuses! Nothing like 'Cooking's just not my thing' SHE IS MADT! Marriage shouldn't be her thing either.
Its funny how these biittches get to choose but we don't! She would never leave a responsible man to marry a lazy guy,So why should we?
MEN SHOULD STOP TAKING RUBBISH!!

Link: http://fumacrom.com/tGBN

TRP IS GOLDEN!!

LamiHandsome:
Hi good afternoon BI,


So I caught my girlfriend cheating sometime last year and we talked about it, she promised never to cheat again, I forgave and moved on. Of course I’ve been unfaithful too, and on top of that she’s calm and virtuous. This is someone who I love and trusted dearly, someone I plan on settling down with. We’re both fresh graduates and we have our growing businesses.


Fast forward to January this year, I found out yet again she’s seeing not only the same guy I caught her with last year, but also confessed she’s been with two other guys.


She further revealed that she was cheating because of money, reiterating on the fact that she didn’t want to keep asking for financial support from me so as not to be a burden. Heaven knows I always do my possible best to support her whenever the need rises. Her family hasn’t been financially stable lately.


This second time, I had to involve her mom. She (her mom) expressed disappointment and disgust. We thereafter talked about it and I’ve forgiven her. We’ve been staying together for a while now to ensure we work things out.



Here’s where the problem lies; despite the fact that I’ve forgiven her, I’m having a hard time healing. I pay attention to every little thing she does now. I’m insecure and sometimes I feel like I may be doing too much, and I feel like I hurt her.

Even though I try as possible not to, I see fault in every little mistake she makes now �. It’s like I see unfaithfulness in her footsteps every time she walks now.

Please guys, what can I do to make this really work. How do I completely heal from this?

Quality20:
first of all, try and know her history and circumstances before making efforts as different circumstances requires different types of action and people. If u are a normal day to day nigger, then know that u can only rescue a Lady pushed into whoring by extreme hardship, not those who willingly entered the trade. I still remember a story a senior elder told me that happened just immediately after the civil war about a ho he rescued from a brothel, he said immediately he saw her he knew that she isn't a regular brothel girl. He interviewed her and found out that she was displaced as a result of d war and had to turn to what she has become for survival. Long and short of it, he relocated her and eventually made her his second wife.
So we can all see that this man knew d kind of lady to be rescued, even in spite of a difference in religion, culture, tribe etc.
So guys pls don't condemn all hoes, some can be rescued n made proper humans. Thank you.

ollins:
I Really don't know what to do anymore as I am so tired and frustrated of begging my wife for sex.
Ok,let me try and explain my plight,I have been married to my wife since 2010 and we have been blessed with two lovely boys.
This whole issue of my wife not wanting sex with me started in December last year 2020 when we were watching a documentary about people loosing weight and I told my wife playfully that she needs to loose weight but I regretted the words immediately I said them as she is sensitive about her weight,before then we had no problem whatsoever .
2 days later ,she told me that I made her angry by suggesting to her that she was fat and that she would never ever forgive me .
I immediately apologized that I was only joking but she said she would never ever forgive me,I went down on my knees to apologise but all to no avail,I then enlisted the help of my brother in law and mother in law to beg her for me,I even asked her best friend whom she is very fond of to beg for me but none of them could change her mind.
She then moved out of my room but we still maintained our marriage and House.
Right now she has vowed never to sleep with me,at a stage I started suspecting if she had someone else as she is always on the phone chatting but I have no proof that she is cheating.
I have tried everything I can to apologise to her all to avail,I am thinking of going to her church now to report to her pastor or something (we don't attend the same church).
The most painful thing in all this is that my wife knows I have high libido for sex and she chose that to punish me.
Please advise me on what to do because I am so confused and I can't believe my wife has refused me sex since December last year till now.
I am tired of masturbating,(a married man o,�)I have cried and all that to her and she told me something last night that chilled me to my bones which I am still trying to understand,she told me she can stay without sex for years if she is not interested, please � women in the House,is that possible?for a Married woman
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BigSarah:
Trust me teenagers already make that decision whether you allow them or not.

BigSarah:
God himself is pro-choice, allow people make theirs.
That's my stance!

livingchrist:
1.John 8:16 And yet if I judge, my judgment is true: for I am not alone, but I and the Father that sent me.

In this verse Jesus said he is not alone but he and his father are together.
Meaning Jesus is not the father.

2. John 14:23
Jesus answered and said unto him, If a man love me, he will keep my words: and my Father will love him, and we will come unto him, and make our abode with him.

Note the words "we" and "our" meaning is a pronoun of more than one person.

3. Psalms 110:1
The LORD said unto my Lord, Sit thou at my right hand, until I make thine enemies thy footstool.

Hebrews 1:13
But to which of the angels said he at any times, Sit on my right hand, until I make thine enemies thy footstool?

Note Jesus is sitting on the right hand of someone else "the father"

Acts 7:55
But he, being full of the Holy Ghost, looked up stedfastly into heaven, and saw the glory of God, and Jesus standing on the right hand of God,

Stephen saw Jesus sitting at God's right hand.

6. Jesus said the father is 'another'
John 5:32
There is another that beareth witness of me; and I know that the witness which he witnesseth of me is true.

7. The father is greater than Jesus

John 14:28
Ye have heard how I said unto you, I go away, and come again unto you. If ye loved me, ye would rejoice, because I said, I go unto the Father: for my Father is greater than I.

8. Jesus derived his authority from God the father.
John 5:27
And hath given him authority to execute judgment also, because he is the Son of man.

John 17:2
As thou hast given him power over all flesh, that he should give eternal life to as many as thou hast given him.

9. At the end of everything Jesus would be made subject unto the father.

1 Corinthians 15:28
And when all things shall be subdued unto him, then shall the Son also himself be subject unto him that put all things under him, that God may be all in all.

Kobojunkie:
Open your eyes then.. Jesus Christ said where 2 or 3 are gathered, a rule much like the law of 2 or 3 witnesses..." by the testimony of 2 or 3 witnesses shall a thing be established...."

Kobojunkie:
Did Jesus Christ say that if you are not gathered, He is not there with you?

Also, the only brotherhood Jesus Christ ever called anyone of us to is to becoming of Sons of God. Every other kind is meaningless where God is concerned.

Voy:
▪ Religion is based on a book. Natural laws are constructs that could be codified in a book. Zero sense.

▪ Spirituality follows the laws of nature. how does the supernatural follow the laws of the natural. Zero sense.

▪ Religion fills you with dreams of glory in heaven. dreams inspire action and actions change the world. So how is this a criticism? Zero sense here. [b]

▪ Spirituality makes you experience glory and heaven here and now. [b] if true everyone on earth would be spiritual, but the very fact that you have to advocate spirituality indicates not everyone is spiritual and not everyone desires to be. Zero sense here

▪ Religion promises heaven or hell after death. Not every religion promises heaven or hell. Why lump all religions into the same mould? Zero sense here.

▪ Spirituality is about finding the Creator from within us during life and death. First you say spirituality is about nature and now you say spirituality is about finding the creator from within us. Completely contradictory. Who is the so called creator? If your response is nature, then who created your creator because we all know that what we know today as nature, space, time and matter, all had a beginning. Zero sense here again.

▪ There is one spirituality but several religions. Yet every religion claims exclusivity...hence there can only be one religion and all others are abstractions from it. Zero sense here again.

▪ Religion has a set of dogmatic rules, manipulative to weak minds. Dogmatic rules? Should rules change? If rules change will they still be rules? Religion is belief in the supernatural and if true it makes your so called spirituality a subset of religion and hence should be tagged "manipulative to weak minds". No sense here as well.

▪ Spirituality invites you to reason about everything, question everything to discover and understand. If spirituality is subject to reason, it will never exist. Reason is preferably applied to constructs accessible in the material world. So you cannot curry your spirituality with reason! No sense here as well.

▪ Religion threatens and scares. doesn't your spirituality have dos and don'ts? If spirituality is subject to rules then those rules can be used as a tool to threaten and scare!

▪ Spirituality gives inner peace and happiness. Why isn't everyone a spiritualist? Did you just discover spiritualism?

▪ Religion speaks of sin and guilt. sin and guilt are realities of mankind and without religion we would still have to deal with them

▪ Spirituality says: ′′ Learn from error ". How do you define "error"? What is the basis for determining what an "error" is? There has to be a moral code to determine what an error is...this moral code makes your spirituality no different from religion. I see no sense in this point of yours.

▪ Religion is human Arrant nonsense.

▪ Spirituality is natural, without human rules. Nature has rules too? Who formed them? If nature had a beginning, its rules have to be formed an entity that must be an included first cause.

▪ Religion is the cause of divisions. Did religion cause the differences in language? Did religion cause the difference is the concentration of skin pigmentation? Did religion cause the differential rates of advancement of civilisations? Your point is senseless here.

▪ Spirituality unites. which societies with strong social cohesion were formed by mere spirituality alone? Any examples? I'm sure you have none. Another load of nonsense.

▪ Religion makes you passive. First you say religion is divisive and now you say it makes one passive...it takes a lot of activity to maintain divisions...passive people will easily dismiss divisions! So what's your point here?

▪ Spirituality transforms you and makes you active. Active in what sense. You can actively be headed in the path of self destruction.

▪ Religion kills to impose its dogmas. Yet many of the great innovations you enjoy today were owed to great religious thinkers. Thomas Bayes (Probability theory), Gregor Mendel (Genetics), Ibn Khaldun, Ibn Musa Al-Khwarizmi (Algebra)...

▪ Spirituality leads to wisdom through knowledge. Sounds like science to me! No sense here as usual.

▪ Religion says ′′ divine Creator ′′ is in heaven. John 14:23 Jesus answered and said unto him, If a man love me, he will keep my words: and my Father will love him, and we will come unto him, and make our abode with him.

▪ Spirituality teaches that ′′ Creator ′′ is in us. Where did you steal this from?

▪ Religion says that ′′ Creator ′′ elected a people called Jewish. This is so dumb! Only the Judaism and Christianity agree to this. Other religions do not agree with this. No sense in this point as well.

▪ Spirituality knows that all peoples are equal.. all peoples are not equal. We are unique.

▪ Religion says the 1st humans are the Jews. No religion says this, not even Judaism or Christianity.

▪ Spirituality knows that the elders of mankind are black Africans. first you say spirituality knows that all peoples are equal and now you say the black Africans are elders signifying some sort of inequality among humans...this is a contradiction thay borders on sheer nonsense!

I come in Peace. Are you still in one piece?

Happy Sunday frm this side…

Yungmil:
Some people dont like going to church but prefers to pray and read the Bible at home.

Does it make them spiritual or they must have to attend church?

iramure:
I came across two ladies who identified themselves with a popular penticoastal church in Nigeria. After series of preaching urging me to accept the white jesus who died for my sake and reject the devil who is responsible for all the evil in this world. I then asked them that why is it hard for the Almighty God to eliminate the devil so that the world can be at peace?. None could provide any convincing answer.
Now why would Alimghty and caring God choose to kill his only begotten son to die for my sake while still allowing the main culprit to roam about killing and causing more pains to humanity. Can someone help me out?

I have a fiancée whom I started dating about two years ago. We work together and we are on the same level, and earn the same salary. Each time we hanged out to just have fun, if we got to a place where prices were too expensive, I would say to her but this things are much cheaper elsewhere.

For example, we went to a place though inside the same premises, one part of the lounge sells bottled water for 250 while the other one sells bottled water for 500, she then suggested that we go to the part where water was sold for 500. Note that it was in the same premises and there was absolutely no difference between the two, it's not like one was VIP area and the other was not. We ended up going to the 500 naira side. All that we ate which of course was double the price, I paid.

Each time we went to the mall, we buy things normally. But there's something about malls which some of you may have noticed, certain things such as pots, plastic rubbers, electronics, and so on are usually unreasonably exorbitant. So I said it would be better for us not to buy things that were too expensive that we could get outside for cheaper prices, but we could buy other things whose prices were reasonable. The next thing she started saying was that I don't have class, it's classy people that buy such things.

So one day we went to a pharmacy in that same mall, because she wanted to get some drugs, the price they called for her was about three times what it was outside, so she said it was better to go outside to buy it. So I just told her that since she has class she should buy it now, the next thing she started insulting me, she gave me the insult of my life. That wasn't the only scenario, there were many other cases like that.

She had started to stay with me after a while. Every thing in the house belongs to me, and I made sure everywhere was conducive for us. Air conditioners every and so on, good house, good compound, surveillance cameras and so on. Initially I was shouldering all responsibilities like food, the car washer who washes the both of our cars, the security man, fuel in the generator, NEPA light, repairs in the house and so on.

Please note that we work in the same place and earn same amount. Sometimes when I was short of cash, since I knew that her own money would still be there, I would borrow from her to buy food stuffs and other miscellaneous, and pay back by next salary.

She contributed just about 10% of expenditures in the house which was majorly just food stuffs. Note that I buy much more foodstuffs 5 times more than what she buys.

That was not just it, the relationship was usually filled with arguments, I can hardly have a conversation with her, she would begin to argue.

I want to ask few questions here:
(1)please is there anyone who doesn't know that Egusi causes pimples for those who are prone to having pimples?
(2) Is there any one who doesn't know that if something is very hot, it is not advisable to put in the fridge?
(3) here anyone who doesn't know that garlic is medicinal?
(4) Is there any one who does not know that it is not advisable to put on a generator when it has been drenched by rain?

But this girl will argue with me, insisting that I must put on the gen when rain has beaten it, because apparently, it is not her property. And the fridge is also not hers which is why she won't care if it gets spoilt. In short there's usually too much argument over what is clear for everyone to see, thereby it is always difficult to have a conversation with her.

I was later transferred out of the state we were, so I decided that because of her, I won't take anything away from the house, I would buy everything I need in the new place I had been posted to. So I bought a bigger TV for the house we both shared and took the smaller one to my new place of posting. I bought my mattress, kitchen utensils, got an apartment, and bought every thing I needed in the new place. So now, I have most things in two pairs, just so she would be comfortable.

Please note that we aren't yet married, and I agreed to not having sex with her because that was she wanted, I respected that. The only thing I know we do was romance.

So I started insisting that it was high time for her to be responsible, that we can't both be working and she won't be buying reasonable amount of food stuff because I noticed that sometimes, she would go out and buy 3 packs of spaghetti, which doesn't make sense to me. She said her dad is the one that buys food stuffs in her house and her mum contributes for petty projects. But I am not her Dad, I have my own mind. Also note that she didn't volunteer to bring any amount for my project oo, because I won't want a woman to contribute 1 naira to the houses I am building. All I said was that she should be contributing reasonable amounts for food stuffs in the house. We hardly stay two weeks without fights, she must look for one insult or the other.

We went for counselling and the pastors said she has to be contributing for expenditures in the house, we agreed on 60% to 40% sharing formula for all expenditures. So me as the man would contribute 60 while she will contribute 40. Please note that rent was not inclusive, as I volunteered to pay for the rent in the house we were and for my apartment in my new place of posting.
Later on, when she began to see the brunt of the responsibilities that I used to bear she started saying we (Me and the Pastors) are forcing her to contribute. But I didn't know these Pastors before, that was my first time of meeting them, she was the one who knew them before me. But simply because they told her the truth, she started saying we are forcing her.

Please I need your honest opinions on this issue.
Thank you.

sylvestersamuel:
Good morning my fellow Nairalanders, I will try to make my story brief and precise.... I have a fiancée whom I am already engaged to. As a matter of fact I have already done all our traditional marriage and rites the only thing left is our white wedding which will be coming up in the next 3 weeks.

Yesterday, my fiancée came to visit me in my house so as to discuss our wedding plans. But before she left, we had a slight misunderstanding and the reason for our misunderstanding was because I allocated 50% of our wedding expenses to her i.e (she would be the one to sew her wedding gown, pay for the catering service amongst others) while I take care of other expenses...

On hearing this, she didn't even utter a word but left with annoyance, since then I have been trying to call her but she hasn't been picking my calls neither have she replied any of my messages....

Please I need your advice, did I do or say anything wrong, because I know how much I spent during our traditional marriage rite and mind you, she earns close to 200k per month.... Insult in form of advice is allowed all I need is just your advice.

bukatyne:
@bold:

Is it okay for a husband to be rude and uncouth to his wife?

Lvuinghrt:
I'm 2 month pregnant and I'm so confused.
I'm thinking of aborting this pregnancy, quit this relationship and get focus with my life.
We didn't know it will happen, because I was on antibiotics drug.
We both love each other. Although, we don't really have a good job. He recently lost the small job he's managing.

We would have gotten married since last year, but we've been waiting to secure a much better job.

The little savings can't get us married immediately before everyone notice.
I've been insisting on abortion, but he wouldn't let me.

I don't want to be a single mother for any reason and I don't want to start my life suffering with a child.

I feel I'm going to loss all my dreams and career and at the same time, I'm scared, I'm about to become a murderer by having an abortion.
I need an advice pls.

RealNakupenda:
What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise

Good morning Ma. I’m so sorry to slide to your inbox like this but I’m confused at the moment. It seems my marriage is over!

We’ve been married for about 5 years now but it’s either we’re not compatible or my husband doesn’t just seem to want to understand me.

We’ve had quarrels like every other regular couple and I’ve tried to adjust and understand him but why does it seem as if I’m the only one working to keep the marriage?

My husband misunderstands me a lot, that I’ve seen from the many quarrels we’ve had. I know that I can be so vocal and be insulting to him when I’m angry but I really don’t mean everything I say, I’m just angry that’s my escape route to voice out hurtful things.


So recently I was trying to make a deal for us and I told him about this only for him to get angry, when I noticed the harsh tune in his voice I told him to forget it, then he started keeping malice with me that evening. He usually loves malice like no man’s business.

The next day I made food and called him to eat so that I could calmly talk things over with him only for him to ignore me, I was so angry and started voicing out toxic words from my mouth, we quarreled a bit and he left. He came back later that day when I was out and our main gate was locked, I called his line severally he didn’t pick up, I even sent text message, no way.

My neighbor later opened for me after persistently knocking. I was so angry when I got into the house because I observed he was avoiding me and I removed the gate key from his bunch of keys and even tried to express my displeasure at him, he continued ignoring me, then I was insulted him that’s when he responded angrily at me and hit me.

I was shocked because this has never happened before and I know that my husband detests hitting a woman. He walked out of the bedroom and I slept off only to wake me up at night and he apologized and things seemed a bit okay but I was still very hurt.

Later in the day he called me asking for the gate key because I think he was stranded outside and I responded to him that he’s feeling stranded outside the way I was yesterday and hope he understands how I felt also it’s not his right to keep that gate key like his prized possession it’s for both of us, I only left it for him out of respect that he’s the husband but if when he’s angry he cannot make a life saving decision then it’s not fair.

I didn’t actually say it like this verbatim but that’s what I meant. So you know this man felt so ‘insulted’ and started threatening to break up our marriage? And that if I was home with him he would have taught me a lesson?

I tried explaining myself better to him through calls because I was on night duty at work only for him to continue raining insults at me. I was so shocked and had to cut off his calls because it seems we were heading no where.

And I’m like why does it feel as if once we have issues this guy forgets trying to resolve them instead he starts painting me out as a bad person?

I’m not 100%perfect but it doesn’t mean I hate him because we have quarrels.

Now from the way he was even talking yesterday I didn’t recognize the man I got married to any longer. He was saying that I didn’t have remorse for responding to him when he confronted me for taking the key so it means I’m trying to drag headship position as man with him because I’ve contributed financially to the home and I’m like that’s false and a big misunderstanding. I

collected the key from him when I was angry for being locked out of the house, he settled with me at night, the next morning I woke up late and hurriedly left for work and was on night duty so it wasn’t like it was intentional to actually punish him but no o! He said because I didn’t apologize or show remorse when he first called me about the key so our marriage is over, he even used threatening words and I’m like isn’t this over board and out of proportion?

Does it mean that every time I have an issue with my husband I’m now evil?

He doesn’t even seem to care that his actions made me angry. Why?

This has been one major issue with our marriage and I’ve talked and talked about this, if I’m offensive to him in any way he should tell me calmly and I’ll apologize but if he tells me with a harsh tune I may end up being defensive. In fact I don’t know what to do anymore. I’m totally fed up!

If he feels that the marriage is over I wish him well. I won’t fight with him neither will I argue because I called him severally last night trying to make peace but he threw it out on my face. I even told him that if truly he was trying to make peace the other night why not still stand on the side of peace and hear me out?

I’m not dragging headship position with you and everything I’ve sacrificed for our home I think of it as building up our home but instead he kept on ranting insults at me and I’m like what really is happening here?

Why does it always seem that if u express myself to this man and tell him the truth he twists it and sees it from his own side and sticks by it. This happens every time.

I’m totally confused!

If he wishes the marriage to break up because he doesn’t want to see from my own side of the story then I don’t know what else to do but if he lifts a finger on me when I get home from work I will have to choice other than to hurt him back and really finalize that the marriage is over.

SOURCE : I’m totally confused!

If he wishes the marriage to break up because he doesn’t want to see from my own side of the story then I don’t know what else to do but if he lifts a finger on me when I get home from work I will have to choice other than to hurt him back and really finalize that the marriage is over.

AdeniyiA:
If God wants to uplift and promote an apprentice He allows the master to misbehave thereby unintentionally advertising the apprentice.

Even TB Joshua was advertised by the so called long time clergy in the vineyard, Jesus Christ was advertised by the scribes, the teachers of the law.

When you think you have sang all the songs and someone just showed up to sing what everybody loves and listens to, and by that relegating your music to the background,albeit momentarily, you feel your relevance waning, then envy creeps in and devil steps in to cause a storm in your soul, then u begin to misbehave

kestolove95:
See bad parents, encouraging immoral acts

sapphiere:
Wonders shall never ever end. You contracted a disease and you said it is wise to pass it to your daughter because you don't want to die alone. You want her to join you in the grave because you two came together. SMH. What I dumb excuse.

Even if you wanted to give her the disease, is there no other ways of transmitting the virus? Must it be through sex?

Dear mothers, keep your girl child far a way from anything male. BE IT HER DAD. The days are evil.

Modified:

A MAN SHOULD BE ALLOWED ACCESS TO HIS DAUGHTERS BUT SHOULDN'T BE LEFT ALONE WITH HIS DAUGHTERS OR ANY OTHER FEMALE SINCE MEN SEXUAL DRIVE CAN'T BE CONTROLLED.

sapphiere:
I'm a voice for women. I'm bringing awareness of the evil committed by men on a daily basis. I'm not saying women don't commit evil. But ours is not this bad. How would a man sleeps with his own blood? How does it make you guys feel?
May I remind you that Jacob's son slept with his father's concubine? Genesis 35:22

tayo60:
I read a confession of a woman on Facebook yesterday and I haven't been myself since then. So many questions keep coming to my mind that how can a human being be this heartless, cruel and wicked.
The woman has a provision store, so a man she called her customer came to buy Nan1, a baby food for his new baby. She said she only gave d man a can of Nan but didn't have time to attend to him because of her numerous customers. Later, after she had attended to her customers, she looked for the man but couldn't see him and had to go search for him in the market. When she saw him, she demanded that why didn't he pay for d Nan he bought and the man told her that he couldn't buy it again from her because she wasn't attending to him ,so he had to go to another place to buy it. The woman said he was lying and started shouting thief thief and called on d market boys who lynched d man and beat him to death. So yesterday morning when she got to her shop, she now saw where she put d Nan cans that there were two there instead of one. That if d man had taken one, it should remain one but d two cans were still there. She asked her attendants to bring the CCTV camera in the shop and it was from it she saw that the man actually left the Nan and left, so one of her sales girls picked d can and returned it to the shelf. Ever since she confirmed that the man didn't steal anything from her shop but was just beaten to death upon his innocence, guilty conscience set in for her and had to post the story to d group for advice on what to do.

capnies:
ONLY A WOMAN THAT MARRIED AS A VIRGIN SHOULD COMPLAIN ABOUT THE HUSBAND CHEATING. IF YOU KNOW YOU DID NOT MARRY A VIRGIN HOLD YOUR PEACE. THE BRIDE PRICE MEN PAY FOR A WOMAN IS SUPPOSED TO BE FOR HER VIRGINITY, MEN DON'T KNOW THEIR RIGHT THAT IS WHY WOMEN ARE SCREAMING CHEATING CHEATING. IF MEN DECIDES TO MARY ONLY VIRGINS THEN THE END TO CHEATING.
THE TRUTH MUST BE TOLD
IF ALL LADIES DECIDES TO BE VIRGINS THEN NO MAN WILL CHEAT EXCEPT WITH A MARRIED WOMAN.