Career › Should I Go Or Should I Stay ? by elasticlala(op): 11:14am On Feb 25, 2022 |
Please I need your candid advise on this issue. I have never been this confused on what to do. I have been working for some years as an Assistant lecturer in a Private University with a gross pay of 113k per month. I completed my PhD last year and got 3 other offers in Nigeria, the highest was of 177k per month as L2. I had already filled the agreement form to resume there by March 1st, which is just about 4 days from now. Just as I was about moving out my thing yesterday from my current place of work to the new place, I got an offer from another African country to resume 15th of March for a Government Academic job of a monthly salary of 1000 USD which comes with a monthly accommodation allowance of 100 USD and nothing more.
I am lost in the pool of consideration & don’t even know which would be the best for me in my career.
NB: pls don’t mind my grammar o; my PhD is in Computer Science and not in Linguistics and languages.
Thank you in anticipation |
Education › Re: Heritage Ajibola: OAU Student Dies After Falling Into Septic Tank In Her Hostel by elasticlala: 6:46am On Feb 10, 2022 |
There are too many things that could kill a human being in that OAU. For the 8yrs I spent there, there are some paths I dare not cross, some areas I do not go and some things I do not ever go close to; eg streetlights and flaps placed on top of deep gutters as footpath…. God forbid.
RIP young beauty. |
Politics › Re: Troops Neutralized Insurgents, Recovered Weapons And A Vehicle In Borno (Photos) by elasticlala: 10:13am On Jan 31, 2022 |
Now I believe this one. Not other audio neutralization in time past. Well done NA |
Family › Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by elasticlala: 10:12am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Realhommie: You Should have known that the pregnancy she aborted without telling you most likely wasn't yours, else no reasonable wife will tow that part.
Secondly, from your narrative, obviously she doesn't have respect for you. Also an aggressive partner is a no no.
I'll suggest you send her away for sometime, to see if she'll realize and then have a Change of attitude towards you and your marriage. You guys need to be separated for the time being.
Finally, it seems you're too calm or should i use the word docile. That's why she's preying on you. You would need to be firm and decisive if you want control over your marriage.
Best wishes. There are things the op didn’t say…that’s where the truth lies. U are married for two years, no mention of any child in the narrative, and your wife suddenly aborted pregnancy without telling you & your concern is her current behavior and not even that a child was aborted after two years of marriage … what exactly was the marriage for ? Business partners or? The man need to tell us some other truth before one can give meaningful suggestions |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester City Vs Chelsea 1 - 0 On 15th January 2022 by elasticlala: 2:19pm On Jan 15, 2022 |
Jack Greenlish is a useless player |
Politics › Re: Malami: FG To Deploy Tucano Jets Against Terrorists, Bandits by elasticlala: 11:00am On Jan 04, 2022 |
No sophistication in that machine. Looks like an ordinary mini aircraft. They should go get something like F-16 Falcon Fighter Jet before bandits will respect them |
Family › Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by elasticlala: 9:52am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Hope there’s no existing blood covenant with her ex…? Cos the manifestations seem similar. |
Travel › Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Obtain A Nigerian Passport? (Photos) by elasticlala: 7:52am On Dec 17, 2021 |
[quote author=Odewaleadesoye post=108562359][/quote]I really don’t know the kind of useless leaders we have in this country. How can something as important as international passport be this hard to get? I got a job outside the country since September & haven’t been able to leave because the renewal of my passport has become a bottleneck in it. Getting so annoying on daily basis. And I ask myself a question; is this actually better than the days of King Pharaoh ? |
Romance › Re: My Fiancee Uses Foul Language & Curses Me When She Is Angry by elasticlala: 8:56pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
elasticlala: Don’t try it bro, it will not end well. It’s a one chance thing…I made such mistake about 6yrs ago when I had no one to advice me then and it ended in setback (about 7yrs backward). The painful part is that entering it is easy but going out is very difficult …if at all u survive it. Presently, I avoid such girls more than somebody with covid-19 symptoms. Bro, RUN! |
Romance › Re: My Fiancee Uses Foul Language & Curses Me When She Is Angry by elasticlala: 8:54pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Don’t try it bro, it will not end well. It’s a one chance thing…I made such mistake about 6yrs agoi when I had no one to advice me then and it ended in setback (about 7yrs backward). The painful part is that entering it is easy but going out is very difficult …if at all u survive it. Presently, I avoid such girls more than somebody with covid-19 symptoms. Bro, RUN! Baamisere: Help Me! I'm Fed Up
I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years now and she has been a good woman through and through. I've met her parents and we're discussing on the next step. She has been supportive, responsible and caring despite our tribal difference.
However, the problem I'm having with her is that when she's angry she tends to use foul languages and curses on me which I don't like. She end up apologizing after the ranting but I'm tired of going over this. Please how can I deal with this attitude of hers?
I need honest contributions to this thread. |
Politics › Re: Bandits Shoot Pregnant Pharmacist Dead For Being Sluggish by elasticlala: 8:56am On Oct 25, 2021 |
Nostring: I wish I fit squeeze life out of this idiot right now That thing is a bastard! |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: 70k Operation Executive Job In Edu-training Or 140k Store Manager Hotel Job. by elasticlala: 4:49am On Oct 10, 2021 |
There are times in life when what you need is prayer, not advise… |
Family › Re: Effective Ways Of Connecting With Your Kids After Divorce Or Separation by elasticlala: 5:27pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
sammirano:
. Divorce is not registered in the book of God. Therefore, any advice or whatever for divorced couple is nonsensical. It says for better for worse, so if you feel for one reason or the other your marriage can't work, it would have been better to not be married at all. Divorced couple are annoying (I'm being nice here), and it show incapacitation (holistically) of involved persons. I will never trust a divorcee with anything. How old are u? Are u married? Have u taken time to look at various conditions that surround recent divorce cases? Example; what else should a man do, if before u return from work, the wife packed and ran away that she’s no longer interested in the marriage for no reason & she went ahead to get pregnant for another man and fill for divorce ? Don’t always be quick to judge what u do not have in-depth knowledge of. Most couples that divorce did not plan for it or happy doing it, but it’s the best solution in most cases |
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Aston Villa Vs Chelsea (2 - 1) On 23rd May 2021 by elasticlala: 6:04pm On May 23, 2021 |
N2B2: I'm not a Chelsea fan, bro. I was just asking a question lol. Oh! Ok. No mind me, i thought u were a Chelsea fan  |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Aston Villa Vs Chelsea (2 - 1) On 23rd May 2021 by elasticlala: 5:46pm On May 23, 2021 |
N2B2: Can someone answer this...
If Chelsea wins Man City in the UCL final, will they automatically qualify for next season's UCL despite coming 5th? Guadiola is sending a message to you through Everton.....pls listen carefully....no consolation song after then |
Phones › Re: Which Android Phone Camera Can Be Compared To Iphone Camera by elasticlala: 6:20am On May 02, 2021 |
People just like competition for every thing in life. The guy asked a simple question. He simply asked for an android phone whose camera is comparable to that of iPhones..... He never said iPhone had the best camera. |
Family › Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by elasticlala: 9:32pm On May 01, 2021 |
No need to advise you. From your story, anything you do against your wife doesn't work....invariably, the relocation plan won't work....even Gambia go reject u except for both of u |
Career › Re: The Problems With Learning A Handwork. by elasticlala: 5:50pm On Apr 29, 2021 |
So many competitors |
Crime › Re: Owolabi Oludipe 'Somori' Shot Dead In Ogun (Photo) by elasticlala: 1:43pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
I personally don't believe this story. The thing get K-leg |
Politics › Re: Buhari Asks Police To Shoot Sunday Igboho, Followers On Sight - Peoples Gazette by elasticlala: 9:42am On Jan 24, 2021 |
His statement has provided the answer everyone has been asking since last year: *who ordered the Lekki shooting?* |
Education › Re: Anambra Schools To Resume 1st February, 2021- Governor Obiano by elasticlala: 1:07pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
But the end if this month, u will still use same mouth to postpone it like covid 19 lockdown |
Travel › Re: 1,236 Nigerians Die In Road Accidents In Q3 2020 - NBS by elasticlala: 2:18pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
Despite the high number of deaths recorded from road accident, govt didn't deem it fit to do anything about the bad roads, it is the covid 19 that has killed less than "200" people In Nigeria that they will b shouting about & closing down everywhere for.... |
Education › Re: BREAKING: FG Postpones Jan. 18, 2021 School Resumption Indefinitely by elasticlala: 7:14am On Jan 12, 2021 |
Characteristics of useless leaders in a failed nation. Why on earth should *Malams* be piloting issues relating to education. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester United Vs Manchester City (0 - 2) - Live by elasticlala: 10:31pm On Jan 06, 2021 |
Where is the guy that wants to burn his MSC certificate? I don help u buy petrol  |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester City Vs Newcastle (2 - 0) On 26th December 2020 by elasticlala: 8:35am On Dec 27, 2020 |
uunwanaobong3: Even if he is trying to phase then out, that doesn't explain combination failure of gundogan and rodri..... Gundogan is als an old player....
And with all honesty, you cannot win trophy with this current mancity team, talk more of winning champions league.
This season is already wasted....... Let just say that mancity can not win any trophy this season.... I am not happy . My brother, I'm just as sad as you are on this matter of m.city |
Politics › Re: SERAP Asks Buhari To Stop NIN Registration, Withdraw Threat To Block SIM Cards by elasticlala: 12:51pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
dimexy247: Honestly, this administration lack vision. I don't understand the cries about NIN and integrating phone numbers with it?
What's the importance of BVN?
What about those that has registered since forever and don't even have the number used to register anymore?
What about folks that are no more in the country?
What's the essence really?
Who advises that foolish impersonator?
Anything to maltreat, victimize and punish the citizens seems to be the mission of this failed government.
Misplaced priorities everywhere. I think it is tied to the social medial bill thing.... It is a misplaced priority. |
Crime › Re: Lady And Her Boyfriend Shot Dead In Ebonyi By Suspected Cultists (Graphic) by elasticlala: 8:35pm On Dec 02, 2020 |
What kind of weapon did they use for such wicked act ...  |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester City Vs Burnley (5 - 0) On 28th November 2020 by elasticlala: 5:30pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Op, update it, ,5:0 My prediction don clock. That will b the final score |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester City Vs Burnley (5 - 0) On 28th November 2020 by elasticlala: 4:29pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
The covenant city made this year with Burnley is 5:0 at home in every game. FT will be 5:0 |
Crime › Re: Court Sentences Two To Death By Hanging For Robbery In Ekiti by elasticlala: 6:00pm On Nov 25, 2020 |
Judybash93: Did they commit murder because this seems to be a bit harsh... What do u expect when an unarmed & educated robber is judging a case of armed robbery? |
Nairaland General › Re: Six Die In Fatal Accident In Anambra - Pictures by elasticlala: 6:33pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
I think something very strange is happening in the east. May the Lord have mercy. |