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Assetinvestor:That their very shallow mindset is the reason Nigeria can’t ever come out of its mess. Too many people who do not just think but think far in the wrong direction |
Some people here who are advising you to keep the baby know deep down in their hearts, if they were in your shoe, they wouldn’t keep it. I just have some few things to say & a question to ask u based on what you have written up there… 1. What becomes of that girl if in the end, she keeps the baby and u on the other hand goes for someone else later in life and abandon the one that had a child for u? Probably at that time, she must have long dropped out of school and disown by her parents ….. Do u think if she knows both of u might not end up together, she would ever consider keeping the child ? I’m asking this because from the look of things, u really don’t have any idea of the long term effects of any of the options before u… The girl on the other hand doesn’t have up to 2% of what is before her. If she knows, she probably would have aborted it long before telling u she was pregnant so so so time … The truth about life is beyond what they tell u on social media platforms. Let me tell u a short story… My first girlfriend was one of the daughters of a top redeem pastors in Lagos …she was brilliant and got admitted into the University early . She was 19 while I was 26….don’t try to think I got her pregnant �… she was t pregnant. Her immediate elder sister who came for pre-degree in those days got pregnant for a 300L law student who said he doesn’t want any child …not even in the next 8yrs from that time… but this girl was so obsessed with the guy and decided she won’t abort it even if he forsakes her … the guy actually stopped conversing with her and she didn’t care. She decided to not tell her parents about the pregnancy so that by the time they would get to know, it would not be possible for them to consider abortion again….. Of course it was easy for her because she didn’t go home for a long time. To cut the long story short, she later decided to go home after about 4 months…. Immediately the father saw her that she was pregnant, he didn’t even wait for the mum to return. He immediate took her in the car to a hospital in lagos, that was owned by one of his friends, and removed the 4 months old baby….Baba didn’t even bother asking her who, how, when and why it happened… The pastor removed the child straight away…. I was shocked. Till today, I will never forget that incidence… For your situation, consider several things before u decide on what to do…. I wish u the best in whatever u do. |
Afonjakid:What other evidence do u need? Why wasn’t it a mosque? Why not market? Why a church? Have u been I’ve in this country since all these years and do not know how they operate ? |
They should stop using the word, “unknown assailants”. The pattern of cuts inflicted on the victims and the positions match that Fulani jihadist. Compare with the ones in Benue, Kaduna, Jos, et al. |
Jashub:It irritates me more than anything. They think they are wise but they are fooling themselves |
So, it’s only when the victims die that the abductors get death penalty? And the person who pays ransom get 15yrs jail term? What is now the difference between doing good and doing evil in terms of judgement in the sight of this government ? Do they really think at all? Why should a federal government be having soft spot for a group of miscreants who have inflicted series of pain and hardship in the lives of innocent citizens ? Nonsense! |
You guys should prepare. This one is not the main thing; they are planning a bigger one….they only did this to test your reaction and to know your strength and weakness. Their hearts are full of Evil |
Tonycart:Help me ask am o! Which bible says such a person can’t remarry ? I wonder if there are other Bibles we do not have access to… |
Wait. Didn’t u submit your CV with all necessary credentials when you applied for the job? Or how could you have been given an offer without even a notification of result? Just wondering the kind of job that you are referring to. Anyway, employers would usually request that you at least, present a notification of result as a fresh graduate before you could be given an offer… they also need it for documentation purpose, especially during audit exercise. |
Leave those people that just read only one portion of the Bible and start shouting God hates this and that bla bla bla…. as if that is the only thing that God hates. Most people that do not divorce do much more things that God hates and they are there shouting ‘upandan’. If a man or woman has gone to marry another person, the partner is automatically free to remarry because the former had already bridged the edge of sexual default. In the other situation, if an ‘unbelieving wife’ chooses to leave, the husband is also free… I rest my case. Don’t allow any religious fanatics to threaten u with God’s this and that… they aren’t God. |
omolola100:That animal is not usually active during the day because of its vision. It must have been bitten by a snake in its hole…that was why it became weak. On a norm, u can’t set your eyes on that stuff twice before it zooms off. Don’t eat it… |
Northernblood5:Don’t mind those fools ranting Putin Putin Putin… they won’t for once read about modern TNT bombs and their impacts. They really don’t know how TNT bombs work and the scope of their impacts on humans and on the planet. If only they have a glimpse of what they are talking about, they would rather pray it doesn’t happen than support one idiot trying to initiate its use. |
SalisuJasper:. It a common thing with northern states. It was like that in Sokoto about 11 years ago when I served. |
Tough game |
Philipmems:U could also have been able to make all of these points without any insult to the man. Still try to respect people especially when they air their views without insult to anybody. When u see some of these people you insult behind your keyboards in real life, u would bow in respect to them no matter what they say. |
SaiRuiMall:Thank u. Come and collect the certificate from me ooo… u hear ? How old are u by the way ? U really think crucial decisions in life are based only on what you see or hear? Have u ever heard of the saying “” in the multitude of counselors, there is safety” ? |
1forall:No doubt about that. However, writing good English is not a measure of one’s intelligence, it only shows how well u understand the language. After all, pass marks range from 45 to 100. If they ask u to write a one-page discussion on a topic now, I’m sure one would find some grammatical errors there. |
princewarri1985:Seriously? Paid way through PhD obtained from the prestigious Obafemi Awolowo University? A PhD research supervised by two Professors and defended before 7 Professors ? U are really not saying anything sensible here. … I don’t want to say more pls. Read the post and if u couldn’t understand what I wrote up there, simply ignore and keep mute. |
I sincerely thank all of you for your words of advice and encouragement. God bless you richly. A word is truly enough for the wise… |
Please I need your candid advise on this issue. I have never been this confused on what to do. I have been working for some years as an Assistant lecturer in a Private University with a gross pay of 113k per month. I completed my PhD last year and got 3 other offers in Nigeria, the highest was of 177k per month as L2. I had already filled the agreement form to resume there by March 1st, which is just about 4 days from now. Just as I was about moving out my thing yesterday from my current place of work to the new place, I got an offer from another African country to resume 15th of March for a Government Academic job of a monthly salary of 1000 USD which comes with a monthly accommodation allowance of 100 USD and nothing more. I am lost in the pool of consideration & don’t even know which would be the best for me in my career. NB: pls don’t mind my grammar o; my PhD is in Computer Science and not in Linguistics and languages. Thank you in anticipation |
There are too many things that could kill a human being in that OAU. For the 8yrs I spent there, there are some paths I dare not cross, some areas I do not go and some things I do not ever go close to; eg streetlights and flaps placed on top of deep gutters as footpath…. God forbid. RIP young beauty. |
Now I believe this one. Not other audio neutralization in time past. Well done NA |
Realhommie:There are things the op didn’t say…that’s where the truth lies. U are married for two years, no mention of any child in the narrative, and your wife suddenly aborted pregnancy without telling you & your concern is her current behavior and not even that a child was aborted after two years of marriage … what exactly was the marriage for ? Business partners or? The man need to tell us some other truth before one can give meaningful suggestions |
Jack Greenlish is a useless player |
No sophistication in that machine. Looks like an ordinary mini aircraft. They should go get something like F-16 Falcon Fighter Jet before bandits will respect them |
Hope there’s no existing blood covenant with her ex…? Cos the manifestations seem similar. |
[quote author=Odewaleadesoye post=108562359][/quote]I really don’t know the kind of useless leaders we have in this country. How can something as important as international passport be this hard to get? I got a job outside the country since September & haven’t been able to leave because the renewal of my passport has become a bottleneck in it. Getting so annoying on daily basis. And I ask myself a question; is this actually better than the days of King Pharaoh ? |
elasticlala: |
Don’t try it bro, it will not end well. It’s a one chance thing…I made such mistake about 6yrs agoi when I had no one to advice me then and it ended in setback (about 7yrs backward). The painful part is that entering it is easy but going out is very difficult …if at all u survive it. Presently, I avoid such girls more than somebody with covid-19 symptoms. Bro, RUN! Baamisere: |
Nostring:That thing is a bastard! |
There are times in life when what you need is prayer, not advise… |
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