₦airaland Forum

DjAndroid:
The senior pastor is about 33 or 34 years old and not married yet. But about to get married soon. My sister said she is afraid that if she marries the man, she might be suspended as a pastor in the church.

I don't wanT to take sides

You don't want to take sides?
You don't want to take sides between your blood sister and her pastor?
So what is your function as her elder brother?
You, your sister and her pastor need brain transplant

zeusdgrt:
I was up for the comments but got disappointed wen I saw urs,so ma'am let's hear ur advice oOooo

^^ still a comment that is not advice for the kid. All comments posted have to be within the topic na.

zeusdgrt:
Seriously you talking out of the topic.Advice the kid or do not comment if u gat no advice to give

And this your post is all about the topic abi? Why did you post this when your comment is not advice for the kid?
You sef, do not post if it is not advice for the kid.

Jackpal:
There was light and she decided to make use of it. She was using a washing machine. And simultaneously texting.

I see.

I am not in a position to give you tangible advice but I have questions that are kind of off topic.
Any reason why your mum was doing the laundry at 2 a.m? Did you assist her in doing the laundry when you saw her?
I just find it interesting that someone with a grown kid is doing chores past midnight.

tianshie:
Waiting in Miami. Checked this thread multiple times today. DEVGURU abeg no turn person to who no get work because of update.

Lol. Waiting in Texas

DevGuru:
This is just to assure all Nairalanders on this thread that I am still standing. There have been further developments which I can't type now because my phone battery is low. I'll update all you wonderful ladies and gentlemen as soon as I get home. Cheers

NEPA still never bring light come Una side? We dey wait oh

general111:
Op your husband loves you but is only using those gals as sexmate..just keep praying for him Nd DAT he shouldn't infect you with std,because I know abt two women who r dead now due to their husbands infidelity...aids is real.

Those women would have avoided catching STDs by praying abi?

Eketem:
Let the marriage end if that is what would happen. Why do we want to shield this nonsense? Because a woman is involved we are suddenly concerned about home restoration.

These witches would have continued this torture for years if he had not heard this recording.

Let the whole family come let them seperate temporarily let her go and think about her actions

My thoughts exactly. If physical assault was involved the automatic solution is divorce, but since the scars in this case cannot be seen physically, emphasis is on home restoration.

In my opinion, this is worse than physical assault and I would advice anyone to stay as far away from such an individual as possible.

folex:
You are really hilarious @elektra.lol

UndisputedBosom:
Lol The dog na Nightmare "ENHANCER or BOOSTER"

For real, if I see this dog for dream na MFM I dey go straight

Last born reporting!

My mum did not pamper me because she wanted another child and did not expect me to be the last but popsy vehemently refused. However, na me be the apple if my papa eye. Even my mum always tells me "you know you are the only one he listens to in this house". Lol.

forexbinary:
6. When you’re doing the dishes and your mother starts complaining that you’re wasting water.

https://zikoko.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/confused-kat-wiliams.gif

Should I use my saliva?

Hahaha!
Mumsy sabi do this one eh!

veeceesynergy:
We dont hv poor pple in our church, COZA........ Poverty is a mindset, God gave u d abilities and opportunities to be rich, jst discover urself...... d GRACE is on all of us who believe.

Abeg, how many Porsche you get?

Justdulla:
which kind six months...its even meant to be 2 yrs sef so that the baby can develop good mental strength. Ma mama fed me 1yr 4months...ezclusively...she was a house wife though many ladies now use job excuse as reason for weaning early...feed ur infant cowbell or pap and u wud see d result in future.

Exclusive breast milk till 2 years of age?!?!
Abeg, mothers and pediatricians in the house, is this recommended?

tomquest:
If I tell you how long I've been married, and how trim my wife is even after child bearing, and her schedule in her workplace and also her exercise regimen, you would swear that I'm not a Nigerian. Maybe I got some of my values from having lived overseas and seen how extremely busy working class couples, work so hard to stay sweet and sexy. They jog on the streets at any given opportunity. They obtain gym memberships.

The problem with people like you is that you live a life of burden. "Oh the kids!" " "oh the cooking!" "Oh the stress of being a family man or woman" And I ask you, are you the first married man in Nigeria?

Ah ah, so wetin come consain you with other people's wives? I think say you open thread about your own experience sef, I no know say na aproko dey worry you.

If I pass this dog for road, I'll conclude that the winches from my village have finally caught up with me

bebe2:
My dear if u live in an advanced country where c-section is easier to perform and u can afford it pls go for cs.

Dats how most celebrities have their kids.

Vagina birth is crazily painful. And as for weather it changes ur Vagina I will say yes.

But dat don't mean u will be loose or not be able feel ur oga, u might even need extra pressure to get in sometimes if u not probably lubricated.

Bottom line take cs if offered.

How do you know that? Were you there when the said celebrities were giving birth? Did they call you themselves to inform you of their painless CS? I don't understand why someone would make such a serious decision based on what they think celebrities are doing. Why don't you also get buy Ferraris, get sex change plastic surgery, and start doing drugs because celebrities are doing it.

crackhaus:
Agreed, the statement is completely false...I take it back.

If the chance of getting an SS child is 25% for every pregnancy, what is the %chance of getting a non-SS child for the same of each of those pregnancies?

It's 75%.

Jolsnow:
If she was their daughter, will they give up on her?

But she is NOT their daughter! It is difficult to love other people's kids like your own, not to mention stubborn kids with unappreciative parents that are still alive and kicking. It is not like they were the ones that wanted to keep the child, she was forced upon them. They should not be faulted with being unable to love the kid like their own abeg.

OP,

So what do you want us to do now? Should we leave our schools/jobs and go find maid job because we want to marry?

Beey:
When Priscilla Chan met Mark Zuckerberg, he was nothing but a college nerd who had a thing for " hoodies". Now , while the rest of the girls saw a boring bookworm, She saw something out of the ordinary. Michelle Obama met Barack a broke smoking lawyer. But she still saw him as more than a broke black guy with a funny name. The current bred of ladies have a penchant for already-made men.

Mark and Priscilla met when they were undergrad students in HARVARD! Mark was not some poor struggling kid, he was in an ivy league school! I bet Priscilla could have dated anyone in their class and still end up in a super-rich household. Same with Michelle, Barack was a graduate of Columbia and Harvard Law School and had also joined a big name firm when they met. Its not like these 2 men attended community college, they had already made something of themselves (but had not reached the peak of their careers) when they met their wives.

crackhaus:
Also tell your friend to try for another child, there's a very high probability the next won't be SS since the first already carries the genome...

Please edit your post, this statement is completely false. People are telling you but you no wan gree. The chance of getting an SS child from two AS parents is the same with EVERY PREGNANCY i.e 25%, regardless of what genotype the previous children are.

@Hilda90 I honestly understand where you are coming from but permit me to show you how your posts on this matter is all shades of rape culture. You have spent a great deal of effort expressing your pity for what the offender did, You mention that you hate what he did but people should cut him some slack he is only human and that is fine, the problem is when you start addressing the victims. At no point do you show empathy for the victim, not even an 'eya'. Instead, You have spent many paragraphs explaining why they deserved what they got. At some point you say "those girls should just stop, they are adding fuel to fire..", meaning "you were raped but kindly STFU and don't stress your offender any more than he is".
I know you will not accept that there are many things about your posts on this issue that are distasteful, but please next time you address issues concerning sexual assault on a public forum like this one, spend less time blaming the victim and more time sympathizing with them. This will go a long way in encouraging victims to report these crimes and soothe the wounds of people that have been raped in the past. Thank you.

hilda90:
Lmao.Those gals should mercy for him na. In as much as I hate what he did(like who does a girl in the bathroom? so gross,lol) but i think knetz are taking it too far.Some of our oppas go to room salons too,just that they haven't been caught. i dey pity for this guy as if hin be my brother,i wonder what he's going through now.
No one is without sin in this world but we're quick to judge and crucify our fellow human being.
Those girls should just stop.They are adding fuel to fire.After all Yoo chun wouldn't have slept with them if they weren't in that roomsalon flashing their assets for him(heard they're prostitutes).

Excuse me while I butt in on your convo. Your post is exactly what rape culture is about. Humanize the perpetrator by claiming nobody is above mistake and blaming the victim for being at the wrong place and dressing the wrong way. Prostitutes are humans too...SMH. I'll just stop here.

God2man:
Attachment to the hair God had already numbered. The Bible says the hair has been counted.The head is the symbol of your destiny, your brain is very powerful. It is the control room.
Do not allow anybody to tamper with your head which is the symbol of your destiny.

Ah! God has counted the hair, yet you and your wife have the audacity and effrontery to cut the hair which God counted. Oga, you and your wife are in big trouble oh! You have tampered with your destinies and defied God's original plan.
Here is what you should do. Start with 40 days dry fasting and prayer. Afterwards, proceed to let your hair grow free. Never comb it oh! In fact, if 1 strand mistakenly falls off, pick it up and sew it back into your hair.
That way, when Jesus (I assume you believe in him) comes back, you can present back to him all your hair intact.

God bless.

biolaowo:
I swear if my 15 yrs old junior think like you I will beat stupidity out of her.

Beat her na! How is it my concern?

Mtcheww!
Na the girl I even pity sef. Imagine having a husband like your brother and an in-law like you. She better run from your family while she still has the chance.

In today's world? Not so much I guess.
For the parent's personal satisfaction it may be relevant.


On a side note. My mother had two of us. My brother and I. I was a typical teenage girl, mood swings and all. But everybody in my family knows I did not give my parents even 1/4 the trouble and worries my brother gave them. The only reason he is a decent human being today is because he had/has a STRONG MOTHER. Raising either genders could require you to worry a lot and be strong.

MadCow1:
Lol..

Aunty, All he is saying is that when somebody who isn't a customer comes into your business and is willing to leave his property with you for you to work on, its only right that you get some details off of the person.

As Laymen, we don't practice these things, but look at the implications of it..

Exactly, getting details from customers is not something roadside mechanics do. Sure, you can advice that in order to avoid stories that touch all mechanics should adopt this method but y'all are sounding like all the other roadside mechanics do these things and this particular guy did not. He did nothing out of the ordinary.

manmidtexy:
How can a mechanic collect car keys from a stranger or prospective customers that he had never seen before or knows nothing about him or her.

Mr Analyst, how many times should a mechanic see a customer before he can fix their car? 2,3,4 times?