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RomanceRe: Why Do some Ladies Hate Each Other So Much? They Don't Help Themselves. by Farfalla(f): 1:25pm On Dec 07, 2021
Bennysam:
It's a gender thing.
OK.
CelebritiesRe: Toke Makinwa Is Showing COVID-19 Symptoms (Pix) by Farfalla(f): 1:21pm On Dec 07, 2021
Nairaland men are so unhappy.

Simple "get well soon", they won't say. All they do na to pour out their frustrations on a rich woman.

Very bitter set of people!
RomanceRe: Why Do some Ladies Hate Each Other So Much? They Don't Help Themselves. by Farfalla(f): 3:51pm On Dec 06, 2021
God1000:
Lol, you already know the truth, I don't expect you to acknowledge it.
Have I not acknowledged that it's envy? huh
RomanceRe: Why Do some Ladies Hate Each Other So Much? They Don't Help Themselves. by Farfalla(f): 3:02pm On Dec 06, 2021
God1000:
Stop deviating dear, simple answer the question.
Envy.

And it's not a gender thing. It's a human trait, hence my reference to the Malaysian dude.
RomanceRe: Why Do some Ladies Hate Each Other So Much? They Don't Help Themselves. by Farfalla(f): 2:32pm On Dec 06, 2021
@ topic,

Probably for the same reason as the man spotted by CCTV camera in Malaysia putting juju at the door of his friend.
FamilyRe: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Farfalla(f):
Sterope:
In a culture that mandates submission, it is expected he takes care of her family.

CrimeRe: Mother Watches Her Sons Serially Rape 9-year-old Girl In Enugu (photo) by Farfalla(f):
Penguin2:
I can understand a guy raping a full fledged woman with boobs and nyash(for those that like nyash sha), but I have consistently found it difficult to understand why anybody will touch a minor without anything on her to attract a man.

She doesn’t have breast.

She doesn’t have nyash.
Can the act of rape ever really be understood at any level?

It's disturbing that you can remotely imply that a heinous act such as rape can be excused ("understood" like you say) if the female victim is sexually attractive.

Rape is rape. It's a violation of the body and the soul. Nothing will ever justify it. Not even a curvy body in a woman.
HealthRe: Tanzanian Doctor, Nurse Suspended For Having Sex, Moaning & Disturbing Patients by Farfalla(f):
Starzo:
B*tch nobody gives a f*ck bout eastern Africans over here.

How many news from any other parts of Africa do you see hitting front-page?...Even when they rarely do the originators are mostly from the resident countries.
Let me know when you're ready to have a conversation devoid of insults.

Good evening.
CelebritiesRe: Surrogacy: Ini Edo Welcomes First Child - A Daughter by Farfalla(f): 7:41pm On Dec 03, 2021
Congratulations Ini Edo.

May that little girl bring you joy and happiness.
FoodRe: My Brother Brought Home 2 Monkeys This Morning (photos) by Farfalla(f):
flyinnizam:
Hunting is a profession and when we sell the animals we make monkey so we are not stopping anytime soon because forestry officers gave us the go ahead after paying necessary fee but I personally don't hunt nonetheless feel free to express your thoughts. Cheers
Do you make soup out of these mammals?

RomanceRe: Gay Man Cries Uncontrollably While Walking Down The Aisle To Meet His Husband by Farfalla(f): 5:16pm On Dec 03, 2021
NetValueFX:
May God have mercy on you lots with your Igbo Obsession! How on it earth does that sound like Igbo? Who doesn't know the sound of Swahili? Chineke mere unu ebere.
It's not Swahili.
RomanceRe: Gay Man Cries Uncontrollably While Walking Down The Aisle To Meet His Husband by Farfalla(f): 5:14pm On Dec 03, 2021
osuofia2:
DEATH TO ALL GAYS
Kill all the other "sinners" as well. Kill the fornicators, adulterers, politicians stealing from the masses, scammers, hateful tribalists, etc.

Why stop at gays?
RomanceRe: Gay Man Cries Uncontrollably While Walking Down The Aisle To Meet His Husband by Farfalla(f):
Help2020:
E be like say nan Nigeria this nonsense for happen. The people around and the song sound like Igbo. Damm how did we get here?
MyVILLAGEpeople:
grin
Absolute nonsense. Looking like it happened in East or Southern Africa though.
South Africa is the only country in Africa that has legalised same-sex marriage.

Disclaimer: Gays don't bother me though. It's their business how they choose to live their lives.
CrimeRe: Man Accused Of Turning Students To Yams In Ibadan, Set Ablaze (Video, Photo) by Farfalla(f):
Almost 2022 and people are still doing this?

Not one person, just one, was able to point out to the rest that human beings cannot be turned into yams?

And someone will still come and say that it's in Kenya and Tanzania where you get weird stories?
HealthRe: Tanzanian Doctor, Nurse Suspended For Having Sex, Moaning & Disturbing Patients by Farfalla(f): 1:45pm On Dec 03, 2021
Broveens42:
This things happen in nija especially the doctor's call room.
That room eeh grin
Tell them o.

They think it's a vice that occurs only in certain locations.
HealthRe: Tanzanian Doctor, Nurse Suspended For Having Sex, Moaning & Disturbing Patients by Farfalla(f): 1:39pm On Dec 03, 2021
coolebux:
Fucktards everywhere gringrin
These Eastern African countries really need ministry of education
Has that 'Ministry of Education' done anything to save Nigerian citizens from the madness of kidnappers, skull miners and body part traders?
HealthRe: Tanzanian Doctor, Nurse Suspended For Having Sex, Moaning & Disturbing Patients by Farfalla(f):
koolaid87:
Tanzanians and Kenyans are both crazier than Nigerians
No. They're more sane.

It takes more sanity to experience less incidences of kidnappings, beheadings, selling body parts for rituals and killing anything that moves for "soup".
HealthRe: Tanzanian Doctor, Nurse Suspended For Having Sex, Moaning & Disturbing Patients by Farfalla(f):
Jidemoo:
Smh in dismay
Kenya, Tanzania,Uganda and Zimbabwe are Known for this kinda news
No. This kind of stuff happens everywhere, including Nigeria but Nairaland specifically picks these kind of news from the countries you've mentioned for traffic. It's pure business for them.

If a Senegalese couple were to have sex in hospital, Nairaland won't bother publishing the story. Replace 'Senegal' with 'Zimbabwe' and you'll see the same story on Front Page.

Still better than the beheading stories anyway.
CelebritiesRe: I Am A Wealthy Gold Digger — Tonto Dikeh by Farfalla(f):
lonelydora:
Go and marry joor.
You don't know my marital status to be giving me that kind of "advice". Address the question I asked. What does your quote got to do with the topic?
CelebritiesRe: Ruby Ojiakor Hits The Street On Barefoot To Celebrate 1 Million IG Followers by Farfalla(f): 10:10am On Dec 01, 2021
Blackdisciple:
Sure it will be a W.O.M.A.N
The Indian businessman Ratan Tata celebrated when he reached 1 million followers. Ding Dong too celebrated. These are M.E.N. One of them a billionaire sef.

Even rich companies like Etihad Airways celebrated when they attained their 1 million followers. Unless Etihad is a W.O.M.A.N? huh
CelebritiesRe: I Am A Wealthy Gold Digger — Tonto Dikeh by Farfalla(f): 3:07am On Dec 01, 2021
lonelydora:
Tonto Dikeh, the beauty of any woman is her husband.

Churchill and Rosy are enjoying life.

E dey shock you.
What has this got to do with the topic? huh
CelebritiesRe: Ruby Ojiakor Hits The Street On Barefoot To Celebrate 1 Million IG Followers by Farfalla(f):
She dey craze.

I didn't even know her name but I remember her face in one movie laidat where she was a rich corporate woman and a serious church choir member as well, being pursued by a broke dude claiming that the Holy Spirit of God had shown him she's the wife... grin

I remember her lamenting that so because of salvation she must marry a poor man. One of those movies you watch coz you're bored. smiley
CelebritiesRe: Moment Hollywood Star, Gabrielle Union Visited Wizkid Backstage (video) by Farfalla(f): 11:26pm On Nov 29, 2021
NEUSICMEDIA:
Here’s the beautiful moment below ;
Where?
FamilyRe: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by Farfalla(f): 12:13pm On Nov 29, 2021
oweniwe:
My assertion is not from facts, but from personal experience with ladies in their 40s who are not sexually active. Common denominator is yeast and fibroids.

I want to believe you are a lady

Try staying without sex for 6 months and see.

It's not so prevalent in younger women below 30.. But from 30, 35, 40... The effects can drive a woman crazy if she doesn't seek relief or treatment.
This is the biggest fallacy I've heard in 2021.
FamilyRe: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by Farfalla(f): 10:04pm On Nov 28, 2021
oweniwe:
But it helps to prevent them.
Can you back up these claims with scientific facts?
Foreign AffairsRe: Twitter, Facebook To Unmask Online Trolls In Proposed Legislation In Australia by Farfalla(f): 3:48pm On Nov 28, 2021
pocohantas:
One redpiller unmasked himself. He was busy hunting snakes and warthogs in his village, while posting “Nigerian girls are useless”.
grin grin grin

FamilyRe: How My Brother Wife Destroyed Her Home After Husband Travelled Abroad. by Farfalla(f):
oweniwe:
Do you know that women need regular sex to clear yeast and fibroid from their reproductive system Between 3-6 months, yeasts will start building up and then fibroid will follow after about a year. So she should leave all the yeasts and fibroid there for 14 years?
Not true.

Yeast infections and fibroids aren't cleared by having regular sex.
CareerRe: My Former HR Is Disturbing Me by Farfalla(f):
leofab:
there are clauses.
Yes there are, but ideally they don't hinder resignation. The employee is free to resign from a company as long as he/she adheres to the terms and conditions of terminating their contract, which should clearly be stipulated in the employment contract.
RomanceRe: 'I Choose Him'- Woman Battered By Her Fiancé Announces She's Going To Marry Him by Farfalla(f):
UBGGA:
Blaming the men again, are we?

A grown woman choose to stay with her abuser, and it's her father's fault for not supposedly bonding well enough with her?

Stop, just stop.

If she has deep seated daddy issues, perhaps she should tow the good old classic marrying an older man path.
That grown woman you talk of is a product of her upbringing from the time she was a baby (when she's solely the responsibility of her parents) to the time she grows into the adult she is now (when she can make decisions for herself).

I have seen one too many cases to confidently conclude that this sick girl is a classic case of a child who received zero love from home, or she grew up with a present but horrible father. I won't even rule out abusive. This kind of damage almost always results to massive low self-esteem. Works like clockwork.

Ideally you'd imagine that she should pick what's best for her now that she's an adult but one just doesn't flip esteem on and off like a switch. It's engrained in her soul. There is no rational thinking with a girl possessing the esteem of a toilet brush. Yes, she could have searched for an older guy to "replace" her father but she didn't. She wants that gangster love which a 51-year old man can't give. The struggle love, the kind she's experiencing with the beast is the one she's been at home with all her life.

Why do I bring in the fathers? Because the subject is female. I believe healthy esteem is nurtured from birth and how a little girl relates with the male figure that is raising her is likely to determine how the adult her will relate with men.

This kind of eventuality can be nipped in the bud, and yes, that's where a loving, reliable father comes in to mould her mental health. That's all I'm saying. If the subject was a man in an abusive relationship with Jezebel, I wouldn't be talking of fathers.

Disclaimer: Perhaps, against all odds, she comes from a very loving home but got "lost" somewhere along the way and ended up sick in her head. In that case, the father is excused.
RomanceRe: 'I Choose Him'- Woman Battered By Her Fiancé Announces She's Going To Marry Him by Farfalla(f):
When men are told to love their daughters, bond with them and let them know that you're a man they can depend on, some think it's just Western psychology bull.

Now look at this one. Totally sick in the head, it's nauseating. She will not donate common blood to her own mother but will donate both her kidneys to the man for the simple reason that he looked her way.

Parents, please show love to your children. You hear?
CareerRe: My Former HR Is Disturbing Me by Farfalla(f): 5:36pm On Nov 27, 2021
leofab:
How can the company spend their scarce resources training you and next thing is for you to resign without adding any value to the company ?
Resigning a job at whatever stage is everyone's right. He should just pay what he owes the company as per the terms of his contract.
CareerRe: My Former HR Is Disturbing Me by Farfalla(f):
@OP,
Please refer to the terms of your contract. If you're required to pay a month's salary in lieu of notice kindly pay your dues.

I'd also advise you to be as diplomatic and as amicable as possible when dealing with a former employer.

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