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Symphine:
Is it possible for someone with 3rd class to get admission into FT MSc computer science.

You will have to go through PGD first. Minimum is 2.2.

He has made valid points, but I'd want his opinion again when he has a child and assumes the role of a responsible parent.

I would expect his fellow Vikings retaliate against Boko Haram, since that's the usual practice, if it were on campus or in the normal neighborhood. Abi is this case different?

Marriage is a lot easier when we respect and ready for it.

Marriage on its own has its own challenges, which can be managed.

Don't add to it through avoidable deficiencies.

When you air an unpopular but verifiable opinion, they call it jealousy or beef. The fact remains that is not an agbada. Call it something else, but that is definitely not an agbada! Be it "Yoruba or Hausa agbada".

If you ask me, I'd say Femi has given the designer a grand opportunity for him to name the design himself.

Driving with an automatic gear is generally easier than the manual gear. You don't need to change gears while on motion unlike the manual transmission. Once the gear is set on "D", which is Drive, it continues in a forward motion. All you need do is steer the steering and step on the brakes if need be.

Y'all have an upper hand having learnt driving using manual transmission. You will see how less tedious it is to drive with an automatic transmission, unlike manual.

When i see at least one youth who still stands for whats right, i feel hope is not completely lost in this generation. Irrespective of your inadequacies, Big up Falz!

To people involved in one form of fraud or another, you can only woo and attract people without value and content like you, not me. Drive the latest car, wear the best clothes, travel all over the world, as long as your source of income is questionable, you are nothing to me. Look, this life we live in, a whole lot can happen in 1 sec and the values you leave when you're gone is more important than what you brag about now. Life is like a wind, it blows...

My best line
/explaining, that be lazy, No excuse you fit give them, No be only una wey be victim of the system/ No, you no be hustler...

No be only you dey suffer bro....

Get original Sniper. Transfer into a spraying bottle and spray everywhere.

Don't waste your time on insecticides. Sniper will do the job perfectly.

Funny how majority could only post comments on her supposed facial looks, but fail to recognize a woman with so much devotion and dedication to ensure her potentials and talents are fully explored.

She is a beautiful woman as far I am concerned. Because she is courageous and determined to make a way for herself despite all odds.

Atleast when she finally becomes successful, everyone can trace her source and success story.

I see most people didn't bother to read the story in detail. Apple, Linux and every other OS are also vulnerable. Not just Android.

"Well, let me tell you the KRACK attack works on all modern protected WiFi networks against WPA1 and WPA2. So, it also makes Android, Linux, Apple, Windows, OpenBSD, MediaTek, Linksys and more vulnerable."

"Steer clear of politics"?, when in fact, the same politics got Intels its huge contracts. Talk about double standards.

The following letter were purportedly addressed to TStv based on possible copyright infringement. Bein and Turner are the first to make their displeasure officially known.

I hope TStv is not dead on arrival.

GoTV responds with: New GOtv Package Alert! On 1 October, GOtv MAX launches with La Liga, FOX, Sony Max and more for only N3,800!

Result of degradation of the family system. Parents of the children should also be arrested or children taken away from them permanently.

Please I have this Toshiba TV with a bad main panel. I need replacement/repaired. Model is attached.

Yes, Richy4, it's an ego and pride issue. Aside that, it would've been fine. PaperLace and Daeylar, I'm sorry, I won't be able to respond further. You guys are right and I'm wrong.

PaperLace:
For your friend's single case, there are 10> cases of women being at the receiving end. What do you suggest for those women? They shouldn't move into their husbands house because men will always be men, right?

Do you people ever see the good marriage experiences of friends and colleagues?

No PaperLace, you are getting it wrong, it's not about who is at the receiving end. In fact, for now, just assume I'm not a male. The marriage is the entity I'm concerned about. They say, where two elephants fight, the grass suffers. In this case, the grasses are the children and marriage itself.

When the chips are down, they both suffer, wife and husband. Back to the example I gave, currently, the wife and husband are living separately, because the husband suddenly rented a new apartment without the opinion of the wife. In this case, they are both suffering, their marriage is suffering and their little child shares in it too.

OP, I would like to ask, why does he want to move to his wife's apartment? Proximity? Some peculiarities? Or he is broke?

Absolutely nothing wrong with inter-tribal marriages, but I must warn that both parties understand each other's cultures first before venturing into it. There have been quite a lot of successes recorded from it, but the female folks (wives) especially tend to suffer for some alien practices by the husband's family sometimes.

Overall, it's a very welcomed practice.

The picture is a false representation of what is obtainable. At least I can speak for myself.

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I would like to learn from "de-misogynised" men/women on this topic. My stance on this is not from a personal point of view, but from what I have seen happen again and again from experience. If you have a different experience, you can share and I can equally learn, but speaking theoretically with grammar-laden terms won't solve anything. I can tell you categorically that as we speak right now, a friend's once loving family is being threatened by this same singular decision. Some of us warned him then, but was equally quick to mention "low self-esteem", "insecurity", "misogyny" and other big big grammar.

My stance is not based on what I read, but what has been experienced by friends and colleagues - Never ends well. But all the same, I would love to learn from the experiences of those whose result went differently.

Don't let love becloud your judgment. Theoretically, there shouldn't be any hassle, after all they are now one, but practically, I have never seen this work ever.

A woman will forever be a woman. I'm not trying to demonise them, no no, far from it, but you don't leave a yam in care of a goat!

Sooner or later, your ego will question all her actions and she will react with her "wonderfully" made mouth.
Don't even make it temporal.

I take it that some us here are either biased, selfish or basically ignorant. Yes! Children are one of the blessings of marriage, but you cannot get your would be spouse pregnant first before marriage just to confirm if she's fertile or not.

I will state some scenarios that negate this common practice among relationships nowadays.

1. Highlighting your quest for children says a lot about how much you value your so-called spouse and marriage.

2. Like others have opined, miscarriage, spontaneous abortion, still births can still occur after pregnancy.

3. Pregnancy is not achieved by the contribution of the egg and a viable womb alone, it also requires a viable sperm and penis.

4. You can both be certified OK by medical practitioners and still not be able to conceive.

5. You can have your children, but not grow old with them. Still ends as barreness.

6. You can have the children and not enjoy them for one day. Havent you heard parents say "it would've been better being barren than have these children"?

7. Virginity or sexual purity does not guarantee conception, neither does serial abortion guarantee barreness.

There are much more scenarios that negate this unpopular practice, but I will stop here.

Bottom line, you can't play God!

People screaming land up and down are not wrong, because that is what economics and their fore fathers taught them irrespective of the situation.

Let me tell you.. If you don't have enough money to at least buy a land and raise to window level immediately, I say you put your money elsewhere. Cos, you don't want to see a full plot reduced to a half plot, or relocated elsewhere, because people with common sense and more money have re-bought your land.

If you run a business that thrives on standard or contracts, get a car first. If you have a family, get a car.

A car is as important as land, if you can afford both, then get both. That's the best advice I can give you. But overall, it all depends on what's more pressing.

Get this out of your mind, getting a car is not of less importance than land. Get that straight first.

Photos of the clocks santanamimi

MrsMurphy:
if I truly understood this before having babies, I would have waited. Having babies turn you into this responsible human being . No more randy or quickie anywhere in the house except in your bedroom or if they are not around, no more really skimpy clothes around the house, you turn into a super role model because you have these little angels looking up to you, no more late nights.
But in all they are and will always be blessings and a source of joy.

The truth MrsMurphy is that you are not alone. Most of my friends (male), after their first child suddenly realise all these. Although the joy of being a father exists, but their decision to now wait unreasonably too long before the next child highlight what the OP is postulating.

For more emphasis, that's a major major red flag. Yes, she might want to inquire about your ability to take care of her daughter, but that route and manner she took is a big issue, as her poke nosing will only get worse

I don't think the OP is saying having children is bad, all she's saying is that Children could sometimes take out the fun in marriage.

Yes I agree with the OP to some extent. Yes! having children divert your income that could've been used for something more fun like vacations, road trips etc. Into school fees, diapers, baby food etc.

As a Randy couple in the house before kids, you could do it anywhere in the house, but with the kids, the bedroom become the only restricted place of having sex, except they are out of course.

Before the kids, you could watch anything on TV without thinking some little child could be exposed unnecessarily to obscene pictures or language.

Before the kids, you could do sooooooooo many things, without being checked by children needs and ideals. That is why, for me, if not for the uncertainty that comes with child bearing and fertility, I would've suggested that couples should wait for at least one year before thinking of conceiving children. This allows for total freedom for exploration sexually, psychologically, mentally in their new found environment called marriage. It helps trash out key issues in marriage, because children causes distraction which makes couples overlook minor issues that could've been trashed early into becoming something major.

OP, the reason older couples suggest that, could be because they realised that once the children start popping in, the next twenty, twenty five or more years of their lives become revolved around the children, while their own needs become less important.

Mind you, the same way the children have a purpose to fulfill is the same way the parents have theirs to fulfill in life. That said, never let having children confine you into being a nanny or school fee provider for the rest of your life.

Poetic, crisp video, hidden thoughts within, translate anyhow it fits you.
Most 2baba's songs can't be listened to with a plain, literal mind.

Every time I listen to even his old jamz, I get new meaning.. .. Inexhaustible!!!

Try to give a general meaning to his songs and you'll get more confused . Personalise it!!

Seen this news before now, but what actually surprised me during the buzz is that more people believed the story unlike if it had come from Nigeria or Africa. We suspected this one less just because it came from the Whites.

Hmmmm.. ..

A whole milk tin for just a cup of tea? That one is not ready for marriage!

O ga o.
Bros, I will ask one question... Are you sure you're still a man? To be sure, you should check your under - A woman married into your family insulted your wife and you kept mute? This is a non-issue as far as i'm concerned!!! When they say children minded men shouldn't get married, you'll take it personal because you wan bleep and get pikin.

Take hold of your home. Meanwhile, I suspect a bad relationship between you and your family, cos in marriage, it's easy to spot couples loved by their individual families. At the wedding and marriage proper, its always very glaring. Now, this suspicion is to both sides, cos i see no reason why your wife's family members can't rally round her, if your family fails to do the needful. Forget about the mum who is abroad, other family members can play her role if she was responsible enough.

Note: If your marriage breaks up, IT IS YOUR FAULT!!!