I'm particularly concerned why the focus is so much on tithing. The unwarranted focus is why eyebrows are being raised. Mention it, but dont dwell on it, as it is not a prerequisite for heaven. Jesus said it Himself.

But you overflog it, thus leading to questions, afterall, you said if they tithe, there will be Mal. 3:10. What if they aren't interested? Let it go. But No! You must force it down their throats.

I'm an advocate of giving to the church, but not in the form of tithes.

OP, before you try anything, pls go and do a semen test, or generally, go see a doctor. Poor sexual health can cause low libido. Tackle the real cause and not temporary solutions

I knew this guy personally. Pure Ajegunle guy, with lots of hustle and calmness. Rest on Thompson.

I hope the OP sees this. Try this OP. Give a reason why you will have to stop extending your hands of love financially, and take note of their reaction.

Usually, they will drag your name in the mud, as though you've never been of help before.

Let's see if they'd be any different and become independent after the episode.

donstan18:
You got a lady pregnant, you married her.
Next thing, you connected with another lady while playing chess.
What next? You've started discussing orgasms with her after you both went to see a movie.
Now a short black lady has been chasing her in her dreams



TBH, Never in my life have I seen a BOY as so confused, wayward, deceitful, irresponsible and promiscuous as this OP.


Thanks.

Thank you. I have nothing more to add. The "wife" has zero blame!

pappy2000:
I am i40 ears old and i have heard enough people telling me to go n marry now i am not finding any fulfillment in this union, she is asking for multiple things at a time and i cant go in the life of crime. I have pleaded with her for a better tomorrow what can i really do.. i AM THINKING OF DIVORCE AFTER THE WEDDING.

I've read through your story and several addenda. Let me tell you the truth as a married fellow. She hasn't done anything out of the ordinary. Women want security, their wedding has always been a dream. So, anything that deviates from it gets them worried.

The solution for most women is to secure themselves financially. This will stop them from going crazy by spouse's dwindling fortune. That's the way to go. Your wife MUST create or improve on her income

You made some mistakes by not securing yourself financially before getting her pregnant. If she wasn't pregnant, the timeline for the wedding could've been extended etc.

Continue assuring her things will get better. If you divorce for this minor issue, do you think you won't encounter more later in the marriage or with another woman?

I dont feel any sorts. In fact, I'm glad within me, someone else fancies my wife. Sometimes I ask her the calibre of person hitting on her.

Even pregnant women get wooed. No big deal, as long as you trust your spouse, and you have no reason for doubts.

DTC2:

All this Yahoo guys lacks common sense

The code should be:

1. Make cool money
2. Stay cool, quiet and on a low key

They can't do this, cos the only reason they do all they do is to brag, and for as long as they keep having the audience, they won't stop. It's simple! For them, what's money, if it cant be flaunted?

This is where traditional leaders should come in. If they can't resolve this, then their position is useless, and should be disbanded.

The OP hasn't given enough info. Expect distorted responses.

No one is jealous of Otedola, Dangote, Mayweather etc, because we know what they do. Infact, they are an inspiration to many, even if they have some skeletons too. They're only human.

But here is someone who no one has an idea of his source of income (same as Churchill), yet you say people are hating. They are hating for the right reasons, not jealousy.

I'm glad some of us still has some level of humanity in us.

There's nothing to get excited of in his life. But as long as he keeps putting his leaps on social media, people will judge. If he doesn't want people to judge, then he should keep your Rolls Royce to himself!

This interview by Freeze and the way hes gloating over it, puts his Freethesheeple movement into question.

This is why I always advise women to always get themselves busy before marriage, especially when the man is conservative.

Also, this should've been one of the subjects of discussion with your potential hubby.

Look women! The society doesn't favour you per say, especially your decisions after marriage. This is why you must have salient discussions, and not be in a haste.

I see women not being able to fulfill potentials, just because they're married. OP, your destiny is in your hands and know you're someone's child, whose investment must not go down the drain.

If you can't defend and support her, please leave her alone!

I understand your plight on the long run, but you must be willing to do the above to sustain your family.

He has been like this even before his friend came living with you, so, it wasn't triggered only by the presence of his friend. He only does this whenever theres a third party around.

I also had this tendency, cos somehow i think it comes naturally in some men ( I, inclusive). However, as soon as my wife pointed out her displeasure with it, I consciously stopped immediately. Why?

I didn't stop because it was convenient for me. I stopped, to make my wife happy and I felt it was the right thing to do at the time. Now, it's part of me.

Your husband needs to understand, his actions doesn't prove anything, especially towards someone he claims to love. Until this is done, I see no changes.

Ridiculing one's wife is ridiculing ones family, cos smart individuals know how well to interpret the awkward scenarios.

I dont know who needs to see this, but i know this behaviour isn't peculiar to your husband alone. And those in this same shoes need to change.

I'm not a huge rap fan, but having read through the lyrics, Yes! they are catchy and seemed like facts, but the responses to the "facts" are already in the waiting.

First, artistes not living up to expectations after leaving CC can NEVER be M.I.'s fault. I can only help you get a job, but it your duty to ensure you keep it and get promoted, as an adult. Even after leaving, M.I. still reached out to have them back, apologising in "Brother". Besides Jesse Jagz, Jeremiah Gyang, Ice Prince and Brymo were NOT upcoming artistes when they left!. So, whatever their lot is afterwards, is their problem. Except of course, there are intricate details, we are not aware of.


Secondly, in bringing people up, some will survive, some will crash. Its just life, and that's the way it is. Besides, the genre of music they are into, isn't very attractive.

Ice Prince et al, should've risen on the platform given thereof.

In summary, the facts aren't facts after all.

This is fake!!! NOUN has no such affiliation. Apply at your own risk!

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vickydevoka:

If he tries dat de man is finished. According to my mum pray dat ur wife shouldn't be de bread winner

Your mum is/was wrong! It all depends on the characters in marriage.

Number one, as a Christian, I dislike the way you keep calling your call to ministry, a business. Two, why must your wife join you in ministry, when you were the only one called? Three, on the brighter side, the school can be an appendage of the ministry. Churches do it all the time. Irrespective of whether you're the G.O. or not, as long as it doesn't carry the name of the church.

You guys should reach a compromise, help her and she helps you. It shouldn't be that difficult. After all you are yet to be transferred.

However, the difficulty I sense here is the man not wanting the woman to "own the business", and I feel the woman is smart and correct enough not to succumb to his pressure.

We sometimes forget women have dreams too and want to thrive. Women can indeed be smarter than some men. So, instead of antagonism, why not support their dreams.

Why is it so difficult for you to understand that your wife is not interested in your "business"?

kirajustice:
POLITICSNIGERIA.COM

They were received at a temporary camp opened for their profiling. The government has made available to each of them N40, 000.00 recharge card to enable them to communicate with their family members.

In appreciation of the gestures, the returnees rose in euphoria to sing the national anthem.

I thought the post read, the government provided N40,000. Why are people saying the government didnt do anything?

Nice gesture from the Airpeace management. Strategy or no strategy. Individuals who could've done same, did nothing, despite the "opportunity".

With the tenacity of Blackface's claim on this song, I strongly believe 2face indeed stole the song, but blackface doesn't have the legal backing to prosecute the case.

That said, Blackface should let it slide, since he cant prove it in a law court.

I observed something tho, Did 2face also steal the beat?

Honestly, i find this agitation for Buhari's certificate rather demeaning to the caliber of Reno. Adeleke's certificate was questioned in the courts. If there are concerns about anybody's qualifications, the best way is for the court to determine the status, else this clamour can be termed political.

I'm not pro-APC or Buharist.

If there's anything i love about the APC is their focus on individuals, not party alliances. You run foul of the party's guidelines, you face the gun yourself. This was evident also in Oyo and Kano. No cover-ups for undeserving members. Other parties need to take a cue from this.

I expected same treatment to the current governor of Delta and Bayelsa states, who were returned almost unopposed. Voters must say NO to undeserving people, while parties take the lead.

We will get there surely.

I see no impending crisis. Amosun would rather be buried politically without APC.

lexy2014:


Agbaje can't do much. He might b well known but he can't muster enough votes to push APC out. There's a guy that defected from PDP cos agbaje still has ambition, Gbadamosi. D guy is sound with very practical & pragmatic ideas & plans. This is a guy that can change d face of Lagos but just like every other thing in Nigeria, many still prefer to keep recycling d old guard. Like someone said, we deserve d leaders we have. Its d unfortunate reality

True, i almost forgot this sound guy. I remember him from the debate. What party is he?

PDP needs to get their acts right and kick this man out of Lagos.

Agbaje isn't a bad candidate to get the job done.

This is the honest truth!

Was there no violence during the 2015 elections?

Despite my hatred for the PDP, i'm very very happy Ajimobi lost out. He's just an insolent governor. Never again!!!

Abiola Ajimobi is one of the most useless governors I've ever seen in the South west. I think Oyo just don't have the luck of getting proper leaders.

This is not an APC/PDP matter.

Click the link, he actually won 7 out of 10 LGAs released. There are more LGAs.

They keep screaming hunger in the land. There's no hunger in my own land. I want what's best for Nigeria, not for me personally. Selfish people only want PDP for personal gains and ethnic bias.

For me and my family, Nigeria comes first, not ethnicity or personal gain.

Remember I didn't support any party in my post. I just hate the PDP. That's all.

Anyone noticed even Benue people didn't vote PDP, despite the propaganda?

One thing I know for sure is, those that fully understands what's going on with neutrality will never vote PDP.