₦airaland Forum

DonroxyII:
You are Sharp Mouthed like Shovel

Polygamy is Our Culture not Monogamy also We don't Practice LGBTQ here unlike the Civilisations that Brought Monogamy to Us ....

For the Idol(I'm also Against that) But Ooni is the Custodian of Yoruba Religion, Culture and Civilisations and the Foremost Paramount Emperor of Yoruba Race, Yoruba Religion Worships deities and invoke on deities to invoke on Eledumare(God of the Universes) on their Behalf ... I don't Fault them, the Religion Civilisations is just yet to be Advanced But it ain't Bad to me ...

Christians also Passed through Jesus Teachings to get to God

While Muslims Passed through Mohammed Philosophies to get to God

The Only Problem is Worshipping those dieties which is not necessary But Some Muslims and Christians also Worship Mohammed and Jesus Respectively instead of God/Eledumare....


Naomi did nothing wrong as a Yoruba Daughter .... Life is a Lesson.... Everyone will learn theirs even in Evangelism so if Naomi couldn't deal She had better left.

She has absolutely nothing to regret for not being able to handle Polygamy!

Na people wey fit handle am stays and they have nothing to regret too ....

Ur trash don't need reply.

Meanwhile, try to conclude on a balance and unbiased when u are give judgement, thats how world can experience peace ok

superCleanworks:
And you have reasoned well. once a person does not see things from your own eyes then he/she is not reasoning well? is that a sign of good reasoning?

did you see that the man has a history of assault and violence or you just chose to skip that?
where in the world did you see that THE WHOLE COMMUNITY knows? or are you making excuses to validate the crime?
with such history of violence and aggression, do you think your wife would tell you of such a huge amount if you are a terrible husband ? na so.
What would you do if you find out your wife has 50 million in her bank? Beat her? Kill her?
Like I said before, I pray I will be too busy and rich to listen to gossip from someone who goes about sniffing my wife's finance and coming to tell me. If you like, sit down and wait for such a gossip to come and meet you and discuss your wife matter. Your coffee.

Are u a billionaire now? Will every husband be billionaire? Even If u re a billionaire, it's very essential for you to know the source of that kind of money in ur wife account. Pls stop saying nonsense.

Is it right for husband to assault wife ? Capital NO

But it's extremely necessary to know the source of such huge amount of money.

You are her husband for Christ sake!
I guess even if ur wife decide to sleep where she wants for a year, u will be busy to know knowledge of whereabouts of ur wife.

Did u ever imagine the money can be illegal? Coming from her concubine, infact, it may put your wife and even you the husband into problem?

Please endeavor to think like rational husband please .

Dididrumz:
Did you read the part that said they've had other fights in the past?

Maybe she already knew her husband was a useless man and letting him know about the money might out her in debt because the useless man go won use parts of d money for personal stuffs with a promise to pay it back which she knows he will not.

It's just my own angle of seeing it though.

U see, a good woman who already knew her husband behavior and she not ready to divorce, there are certain things she herself will not near, she would have known her husband toxic character.

Nothing stop her not to have such kind of huge money in her custody if she knew she couldn't disclose it having known the kind of husband she has.



The fight they had been having in the past who knows if the wife is major cause of it.

Zonefree:

Na see finish dey cause all these nonsense.

Before you send someone's wife money for building project, it's expected you let the husband be aware of the transaction. She's a married woman for krissake!

The energies reserved for bedroom matters are now used in building your project and you deem it fit not to let me know ko nice na

That woman has her own too, you are under someone for Christ sake.


Why will marriage won't have k-leg? When women want to marry and still want be leaving life of single woman.

DonroxyII:
She would be grateful she left no many Women Can handle the intricacies of Polygamy.

Polygamy is sweet to the extent of Mental Capabilities and Capacities of the Husband and Abilities to Administer Equities and Equalities!

No be Joke!

At bolded, that's why I said she will learn in hard way. Naomi, a regional envagelist cum gospel singer at age 25 went down to marry a potential poligamist and idol worshiper.


...... infact, woman can turn to slave/goat if they meet famous and rich guy......

kay29000:
I don't support this, but I can say the theory is true. I have two girlfriends right now... They both know each other, so it is not like I'm hiding one from the other. Yeah, it is a complicated situation, but they're both okay with it... And I must say, the first one calm down after I got the second girl. This theory is really true, but as I said, I don't support anyone having two wives sha, but I get why some men marry two wives.

One of disadvantages

I know a first class oba 2nd wife, that my friend's brother was sleeping with back then. There are high chances that ibo/ebira/ or others tribe will become OONI in future, for u to be king doesn't make u a super man on bed and doesn't resist ur wives not to go out when u are not satisfied them maximally in other rooms

Better, Naomi will learn in harder way.

If ur story is not any way caused by stimulants substances in ur body.

I think you should concerned of you, going public on every issues bothering ur life/marriage than any other factors.

Marriage is sacred thing that it's supposed to be dealt with privately.

Savedday:
She is using format. When billing start, u will confirm they are all the same.

9ja girls don't love and dey will never love.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace

Check and re-assess urself, if all ladies you have met or meeting behaving in same way, which means,you are the one who has problems.

general111:
It means she doesnt love you..
If a girl lovea you, she will want to eat your money.

If a lady loves you deeply, she would be buying lovely things for you.(tho not disputing not to spend money for his girl o)

Boxer, Perfume,Singlet etc.

My then girlfriend but now my wife,had/has been buying them ever since we are dating til now, and using her hard earned money to buy it.

VictorUSA:
Can you imagine?



Since I met my lovely gf she's never, for once, demanded for money or anything material from me. It makes me wonder when other guys complain about Nigerian girls' entitlement mentality. Is my gf different? She is not half-caste; her parents are all Nigerians; was she born in planet Mars?



Victor Jalingo

There are few (about 20%) who doesn't have entitlement mentality, such ladies, *all things being equal* you will enjoy marriage with them.

......but for majority, if you ask her to come ur place , money will drop from you, if you go to her place to visit, only you will spend again. ....and that's why majority of them are not into serious relationships. They make the relationship toxic, not because of bad manners o, but entitlement mentality

brunobaba:
I have been married for 8 years,every woman has their issues,patience and perseverance will work if one really loves his/her partner,even when we fight,we still eat from the same plate and sleep on the same bed.

I bilived you read all my comment and not just part A

Fulani will restructure naija


Anyway,maga will fall sha.

brunobaba:
I agree with you that even the ones sleeping on the same bed cheat,my assertion was based on the comment that as soon as he became a weekend husband,things started feeling better.

If u have married and more so if u married a nagging woman you will understand

PlanktonX:
Oga, don't be deceive. The devil is very cunning. That is not marriage. But the togetherness of the people to fulfill selfish desire.

In ur dictionary.

People like you(3rd party) are majority while marriages are collapsing on daily basis. What you want in ur life/marriage/career you will want others to like it at all cost.

My advice for you, learn how to leave and let leave

gorgeousnogo:
Where is this one from?

Ur village.

Again to rest dey ur hand ooo. And if u are rest cos of what guys posted about women, well, God will give you rest.

brunobaba:
One of them is cheating,you can take that to the bank.

And for the couples that are sleeping on same bed for years,....how many of them can you swear that, one of them not cheating?

Emergingnation3:
Ndigbo want Biafra, not presidency...

Let your Fulani government conduct referendum as requested, to enable us choice btw Nigeria and Biafra,

95% of Ndigbo wil votel for Biafra , against Nigeria and her presidency...

Obiurchins should better stop "noisemaking" here and there Biko.

gorgeousnogo:
Every day, woman this, woman that, abeg allow women to rest nah

To rest dey ur hand ooooooooooo.

Emergingnation3:
Eating your imaginery water beans will never stop him from being release, and imminent Biafra actualization, Which will lead your region that can't survive without Nigeria into Oblivion...

Chronic unity Begging stunts !

They say women don't know what they want, I think it will be proper if they say IGBO doesn't know what they want.

U want peter obi as president yet you want Biafra.
.you guys still need to wait a little bit longer.

oneMalik:
The same YORUBA Igbos hate so much ! talking trash about us all the time .

Hmm ! Ok .

I respect Yoruba Tribe a lot . if am gonna come back to this world am still gonna come from the most humble Tribe in the world .

That's why Yoruba is the biggest rope still pulling Nigeria together and Igbo characters biggest reason they are outcast in their own father land.


If it was Igbo man that left chair for Yoruba candidates now......hell would have let loose.

Danisaint112:
What's the difference between meeting her in a mall, hospital or bank etc and engaging her in a conversation.

I know a man who met a lady in a bank without the lady even realising he was staring at her, after they finished their task he said at that point he knew it was his wife.

He quitely followed her, wooed her and collected and number. The rest was history. They are happily married now. And he is even a Nairalander but can't really remember his name now.

Now tell me the difference between doing that and stoping a girl on the road if you mean well.
Note: The lady didn't even realize he was in the bank.

I don't chase women. As a matter of fact I have never done it in my life. But I don't see anything wrong with it unless for those that chase like dogs and for sex.

But if I sit from afar (maybe by the roadside) and observe this beautiful woman has a beautiful character that resonates with mine I won't sit back and watch that good thing pass me by.

What sensible people would do would be join her in the walk, tell her how you admire her character and not her butt or boobs and that you like to get her contact to know her better (be a gentle responsible man).

If you play you card well she will be smiling while giving you her number. And if she does, you thank her and let her know you will get back to her. Simple.

I don't see anything wrong in it.
Honestly it's just "understanding." And only your act would give her and people around you the impression of whether or not you are a nymphomaniac.

Not everyone must marry people they know for long or their friend.

Hope you know the meaning of coincidence?.

Coincidence can make you ask women out anywhere.

....but for u to just stop a woman on road and start asking her out for relationship, ....it says you are he-goat..... infact, any lady agreed on that, ....watch out for her, either she is covertly/overtly olosho, or she is desperate for relationship.

Danisaint112:
If it's about wooing them as in asking for sex, then that's bad but I see no wrong in stopping a lady and demanding for her just to get to her better.

Many married married couple today met that way and are living happily.

Nature of the holy books never stated you must meet a woman In a circle else she won't be responsible or it would end up making you look like a humanizer.

Holy books didn't say that, but a cultured man will not just walk into random ladies and ask for relationship, it's odd, only tout/women hunter do that.
........... coincidence is supposed to link two of you together before it leads to relationship/ marriage and not just .......hey u girl.

Prettygirl200:
Sister what are you saying? There's nothing wrong with that.

Any guy/man that just stops you on the road, asking for relationship, just know you are dealing with skirts hunter, though, it's left for you if you ready to date/marry community husband o.

But in future, do not generalise every man with community man you married as a result of your carelessness.

In ur own way abi?


Some marriages last mainly because they sleep in different room.


I av seen a couple who were always fighting then, wen they were under the same room, after some time, hubby rented room outside and normally come home every weekend, ever since they start leaving in separate places, their marriage experiencing sweetness.

Allison012:
Why give telecommunication company road to construct.?


When did MTN turned into a construction company?

Read it again before you crictised again and again.


Meanwhile,let me educate you if u reread and still not understand.


MTN will construct the road with their own money. (The tax they supposed to pay in future, not tax that has been incurred o).

MTN will now give the contract to construction company to do.

Federal government will now supervise it and make sure it worth the amount in TAX they gave it for MTN.


(This type of policy is the best for country that corrupt like Nigeria, .......if MTN pay money in future, what give u assurance it won't end in private pockets?

If it's federal government that wants to award it directly, bottleneck and bribery, down the line, will reduce quality of the project far more than, if its MTN that do it directly.

3. Where is the money currently for govt to award it itself, conserdering financial mess we found ourselves and yet people are suffering on secondly basis on the road.)

Democracy goes with huge amount of money being wasted here and there.


This guys now will go home with different sizes of brown envelopes , courtesy of state government

Olori is an adult and free to vote and be voted for like every other candidates, u don't need going public to endorse or disown, not even traditional rulers that expected to remain neutral.

In a saner society Tinubu and Atiku would have disgraced if they attempt to contest for election nothing even all economy and security indices not favouring masses

But our own banana republic........we go for bad people to lead in the jungle.

Mrkindness:
Why not government confiscate it and turn it into national asset. Black man is a disaster to himself. This belong to Asari Dokubo and Tinubu join business

Government don't behave like that ok.

Embarrassed? Instead for you to be tanking God you didn't cross border as a result of that.


If it happens at home and nobody was there to rescue, did you ever imagine what the outcome could be?

Is only a full time olosho will fall for this gimick.

Guy that u didn't know from Adam will just enter ur number and asking for hangout, even for her to chat with u to that extent surprises me.

So many girls will keep on asking u where and how u got their number and if you can convince, s
Thhe would not continue any chat with you.

This ur girl loyalty is just 50/50