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bukatyne:
What else were you giving her apart from money?

I can offer a lot dear. It's just that the fame and little money you ladies have beclouds your senses. You ladies are selfish and only enters into relationships for selfish reasons.
What more will want in a relationship than care, trust, good sense of humor and a good sex... most of you ladies are even boring in communication and expect the man to do everything

When we say women can't handle money and fame the feminists will come for us.. My uncles from experience told me to deal with ladies below my class if I want to enjoy my Relationship. Once a woman has gotten what you can give her for herself or from someone else, she'll have no reason to remain in the relationship. Forget about love they claim to show. I experienced this with a lady back in Enugu because we earn the same thing in the contract job.. it's because of these bullshits that men run away from successful ladies. After they'll claim Nigerian men are egocentric. Nonsense

she don collect schlong come get belle.. Abeg make she enjoy her relationship.. Too much bottlenecks for beauty pageant title..

Enugu and Ebonyi states are really setting the pace in the east... If you haven't been to the east for a long time, you'll be amazed at the level of development and urbanization. The only problem in the east is inadequate federal presence and federal infrastructures. the East is really doing well.. Lagos is nothing but an overrated slum.. The north is nothing but Nigerian Somalia.. Settle in the east for a peaceful life

Restructuring of this country is becoming inevitable by the day. a lot of killings are carried out daily at various quarters mainly in the north. If the north refuses restructuring, killings will continue in there land and the Igbos will be moving higher. when the northern elders deny there wards right to education and civilization mainly because they want to be used as tools for there political gains against the south, this is the result..

Ayodele70:
Controversial Lagos club owner, Pretty Mike, who stepped out to a wedding over the weekend, with dwarfs bearing calabash of fire, has listed things he learnt late in life.

Read as he posted on Instagram below...

"1. Everyone is chasing the money, but we are made to believe money doesn’t matter.

2. If you want to shine like a diamond, you’ve got to get cut like a diamond.

3. Your appearance makes a difference.

4. The word “forever” is overrated – no one is happy or unhappy forever.

5. Being kind to everyone won’t get you anything great in life.

6. Hard times are mostly a blessing in disguise.

7. Somewhere between hello and goodbye, we have learned to live our lives.

8. Being busy doesn’t mean that you are doing anything great.

9. You cannot please everyone.

10. There will always be someone better than you.

11. Your obsession with finding happiness is what prevents its attainment.

12. Your talent means nothing without consistent effort and practice.

13. Enjoy the journey because the journey is all there is.

14. So much can happen in a day.

15. Happiness is a choice.

16. Staying worried is a waste of energy.

17. Most people are capable of far greater things than they realise.

18. There’s no one else like you.

19. There’s nothing wrong with simple.

20. Today is a celebration. Live everyday like it's the last and treat everyone like it's their last day too.

21. Everyone exist for few reasons and we must seek these reasons because they are our little contributions to a better world tomorrow........ .
___ #DolceAndGabbana #D&Gdrip CuttingTagsForFun #HusbandMaterial #ExpectTheUnExpected ��"

http://www.amagitesblog.com/2019/04/pretty-mike-lists-21-things-he-learnt-too-late-in-life.html

Good points though.. I really learnt things.
I'd like to add to this

1) People must have a reason to love and cherish you.

2) The world doesn't care about your opinion..

The north will go on self destruct.. We tell them to join in the restructuring move but there longer throat for oil won't let them.. In few years time the north will become Nigeria's Iraq.. As far as my East is cool, there problems are non of our business..

please stop crying foul because there's a guy out there you broke his for the married man because you think he has money to get you comfort. Life is like a merry go round. Women will always play victim when the odd is against them.. Our men and women are all the same.. cheaters. Let her not try anything funny on another woman's husband. Nonsense

Rosskii:
SE and bungalows. Na wa.

Have you been to the east before? stop saying trash

Let the people of zamfara enjoy the next level they voted for... The people of the north think they're doing the 5 percenters, they don't know they're doing themselves

Woman go and arrange the 200million and settle baba's boys so they can release your brother.. Next level from May 29 will be interesting I tell you.. We the ipobs will sit back and watch .

Enugu state is really doing well starting from well connected and clean roads to beautiful estates scattering everywhere and functional public utilities. Quiet and secure state with less crime.. I lived there for a whole year and I can proudly say that though I'm from Imo and lives in Aba, I'll like to reside in Enugu and establish there. Enugu is indeed in the hands of God

All I see is desperation here.. Divorce process is still in progress and you're here looking for love. you think it's easy.. Our single girls haven't even found true love talk more of a married woman with kids. As if that's not enough, you pointed and emphasized on financial status of the imaginary lover you want. Madam relax, complete the divorce process first, work and take care of your kids.. There's no genuine love out there.

DaySpringer:
Don't let these guys and girls up there deceive you poster.

Girls will always defend one of their own. But they will be the first to pretend they don't do things like this.

You are there thinking that you guys are friends and there is nothing she is keeping from you but she is there denying calls in your presence. Why should she have the married man's number? Know who he is and hasn't blocked him yet when she is supposed to be serious with you?
Those Numbskulls up there supporting the girl don't think deep.


I want you to keep something in mind Poster. Girls never tell you everything.
Read that bolded part again.

Your fiancee did not tell you everything about what happened with that married man.
You might even be surprised that she has slept with more married men than that before.

Girls are masters of confessing parts of the full story and making it look like a full confession. They will say that small part with so much reluctance that you will be convinced when they finally say it, that it is the fulll story. But believe you me, it is not.

She might even still have something to do with that married man right now. If the past is the past, why is the past calling her in the present when she is with her future? Why is the past making her reluctant to come clean with someone she wants in her future?

I know you Love her.
But you have to carefully consider everything I have said above and ask yourself whether you are ready to deal with the very high likelihood and possibility that they are true. You can't trust her anymore and you should not go into a marriage with someone you cannot trust before you end up raising another man's child for 20 years.

If you ever take her back, put her under serious surveillance until you are satisfied that she is truly clean.

Don't let someone play soccer on your head.

you are right.. Both sexes cannot tell you everything in relationships.. they only say what the other partner wants to hear.. People should understand this fact. It reduces heartbreak and expectations

when we tell people Nigeria cannot work, they label us ipob terrorists and even the oppressed join our enemies to thwart our freedom effort.. nothing will change until people begin to reason that oil and water can never mix.. shalom

Is he mocking or advising them? being in a toxic relationship can be traumatic.. that's why I left my ex some years back. but ladies own could be worse than us

No matter what gandollar does, he will surely be disgraced out of office.. the people of Kano and there voice will prevail at the end

Nigerian government has no case against kanu and ipob. but let them keep disgracing themselves while we watch by the corner.. You can't fight someone who is wiser and more intelligent than you. One thing is to get power, another thing is is to use it with wisdom. Buhari and co don't have the later

women and insecurities are like apc and lies... If her husband falls for these little things, it means she got no man in the first place.. she only has a manwhore at home.. as for the innocent lady, please block the man from facebook and have your peace before they accuse you of snatching someone's husband

Everyday is for the thief. one day is for their victims

Emeka Ihedioha.. In Imo state, the will of the people always prevail if they are out for you

that serves them right... wicked entities

number 2 & 3. back then in the university, I met this girl I loved. I tried my best to make her my girl including helping her in academics by teaching her the courses she didn't understand because we were in the same level then(year 1) I was naive in love issues then. She didn't send me but was taking advantage of my academic help to give me hope. I broke up with her in year 2 first semester but didn't stop thinking about her and having feelings for her. then I tried to reunite with her in my year 3. It was then she told me that I'm nothing to her more than just a friend. that she can't date me. I really felt bad because I had other girls who were giving me greenlight but I snubbed them for her sake.. Since that day till my end of academic program in the school, I stopped loving and became a player. that was when I started having girls to bang. That is when I realised that our girls love people who lie to them. Honest people find it difficult to have good relationships. Players always enjoy relationships.. Well, those days are gone sha.
I've passed that stage

Unless you won't bring another girl in.

yes. back then in my year 2, there is this girl who works in salon I met. She wanted a relationship with me but I turned her down because i don't love her.. she was desperate that she started bringing and forgeting her clothing in my one room apartment I rented newly then. hmm, I immediately stopped her before it goes outta hand. she wanted to have sex with me that day but I declined. some girls sha

yes. back then in my year 2, there is this girl who works in salon I met. She wanted a relationship with me but I turned her down because i don't love her.. she was desperate that she started bringing and forgeting her clothing in my one room apartment I rented newly then. hmm, I immediately stopped her before it goes outta hand. she wanted to have sex with me that day but I declined.

I've been rejected twice back then as an undergraduate. I moved on though it really hurt me but I never allowed the feeling interfere with my academics. I did well. Today I'm even the one dodging relationships as greenlight comes here and there because I'm now a better person. Don't bother much about your present relationships especially with the opposite sex but bother more about your present status or class and how to progress in life... the more you move ahead, the better people you meet. infact girls I meet today are far better and beautiful than those students back then. Whenever you're rejected, just tell yourself better days are ahead

To me, it's because of the ladies' mindset about marriage. they want men with money while the men with money want successful, independent ladies or ladies from well to do families... Selfishness is also part of it. Civilization and what people watch in movies and lies about relationships they read on the internet play it's role. Relationships are more of business nowadays unlike in the old where people build relationships and grow in it. Everybody want to reap from where they did not sow

When I make it, I won't have time for broke girls.... mtcheeew. neither will I be in their circus

Maybe he's feeling insecure because you changed location.. You can move on because the feelings are not much there again...... It happened to me sometime ago when I left school and also left that city. My girlfriend called and called and called but I've already lost interest because both of us aren't financially stable to be transiting ourselves to see........ Most times, outta sight is outta mind

societal pressure, poverty and greed I must say are the cause. Most of those ladies chasing the uncle have guys who love and want them. But because those guys are not as rich as the new found uncle, they are sidelined... Greed are the major cause of most women chasing rich guys, not loneliness.