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Simplep:
True

Thats why I'm always dodging yoruba guys now...ibo or no husband

Yoruba men are more romantic but Igbo men are more caring

Some women use this no sex before marriage to hide there romantic flaws so when he eventually marries her, he'll start observing some unpleasant romantic attitudes of her...

I'll advise the op to talk to her about it but it's unfortunate she has roped you with children which makes it more difficult to leave her... this her situation might be that she was sexually molested in her childhood which made her hate sex... She might be hiding something from you. Any adult whose system is functioning well will like sex... She can also be assisted medically if need be

Be strong dear... many people are battling with depression but we don't know until it becomes suicidal... A little love, a little encouragement, a little smile can bring the desired healing of the mind. Let's do our best and be our brother's and sister's keeper... let's not be harsh to people we meet.. not everyone have the mind and courage to withstand dejection. .. I wish those who are around her can do the needful... Big thanks to the good people out there

Igboamaka
the Japan of Africa
They just can't stop us

Mine is 5.
2 ashi
2 normal girls
1 aunty.
started bleeping from final year.. I bleeped 4 girls out of the 5 in final year

I've learnt the following

1. a poor man is a lonely man

2. the most vulnerable people are those who talk and reveal too much

3. almost all love you might get from people are conditional..

4. God exists

5. What might favour you may not favour another person

6. the few who are interested in your success(be it a relative or outsiders) are the only genuine people you can ever have in your life, ..cherish them

freedom and deceit

most ladies pretend a lot and can do anything to get married and after you marry them, they bring out their real self.. when I look at most of my married uncles, marriage begins to scare me. Worse of it is when you go into marriage without money, hmm. that woman go frustrate your life and will make your own children disrespect and hate you.. Fake love everywhere... if I can get a white lady, provided she'll settle with me in Nigeria, I don't mind trying.

Na wa o.

her mates in the western world are thinking of how they can make the most of their talents, she's here looking for a big god whom she can be a parasite to for the rest of her life, and if we bash women some crazy feminist wannabes would start spewing trash

nho4:
Sorry to say young man but obviously you are a fool....same thing goes to any young man out there undergoing emotional trauma all in the name of keeping a girlfriend.

To hell with ladies and those dating them.
Why must you subject yourself to such emotional agony just because of a mere lady you are senior to with almost 6 years and you are here crying like a sissy.

I will never encourage my worse enemy to go into what you guys call girlfriend relationship that turns men into puppets.

Dating is a way of placing yourself under emotional slavery. Your Heart and mind keep bleeding at all time and before you realizes what is going on you will start battling with one health issue or the other all because of nothing.

Look at the rate at which our men are dying and the cause is directly and indirectly due to the fact that they want to please women and that is why women have taken advantage of us.
Women should be the one begging us to date them and not the other way round.

I once dated a lady who thought she was doing me a favour for dating me...the moment I realised it, I simply placed her where she belonged by severing myself from her.... When she realized it, she was now the one forcing herself on me and she was trying to get me back but it was too late for her because my mind was already made up to be single and happy....that was the best decision I ever made in my life and I never regretted it till this moment.



Men have become almost nothing in the hands of women and yet vast majority of our young men are thronging in the wrong direction all in the name of love that doesn't exist.

Believe it or not" Love doesn't exist between girlfriend and boyfriend.

Real love only exists between mother and child...

I bet you the number one reason our young men, including you allow yourselves to be traumatized emotionally is simply because of sex.

You don't need to have a girlfriend before you can have sex with ladies.

Instead of killing yourself emotionally dump that girl and be free, because you were born free...don't allow anybody to put you in bondage all because of sex you can get easily.

I don't do relationships or dates and I am the happiest person all because I am free emotionally.... I sleep like a baby without having to worry if my partner is cheating on me because I have no fucking girlfriend.

Each time sexual urge comes in, I simply walk down to the nearest ASHAWO JOINT in my vicinity to ease off the urge with just N1000, and I am relaxed. I am in control of my happiness and not any fucking lady.

I am in control of females around me because they can't control me with their pussies and they have regard for me....because I don't own them a dime.

If you don't belittle yourself as a man all because of sex, women will respect you...but is unfortunate that most of our young men have reduced themselves to power zero in the hands of ladies just because of sex.

All I can tell you is that you own the key to your happiness...

my brother you said it all. Infact na wisdom dey rush you

try to satisfy those bottomless pits and die of cardiac arrest... you want to kill somebody's son because you want to be satisfied... onye ara

The truth of the matter is that her behavior might be as a result of the following

1)age

2)youthful exuberance

3)inborn character

1 and 2 factors can be altered and managed... number 3 is a no no. Op it's for you to find out which category your girl belongs. There are a lot of things we learn as we grow older and experience new things. Don't end the relationship but rather Stand your ground on issues and teach her things. Be the man in everything and also allow her to express her feelings... With time it'll get better bro

Sharing is highly needed in relationships
research says there are more women than men
if ladies don't share with there fellow ladies, their will surplus

both gender masturbate almost on a similar level.. but the men masturbate slightly higher than women...

but honestly, it has reduced the rate of transmission of STIs as most people resort to selfservicing. relationships are becoming more expensive for the male folks nowadays

this can only happen where human lives are valued
for naija here, na policemen go even give you the HIV

hmnmm

One thing I like about this girl is her sincerity on relationship affairs.
She can even make a better wife if a real man knocks on her door.
Some hypocrites whose bash her are no better

don't be surprised that this association will start getting endorsement deals and other things... Immorality and stupid things sells in this country

NwaAmaikpe:



I stand with her.
There's no need for her to get tested.

What she doesn't know won't kill her.

She's suffering from what my herbalist calls "mere gawa".
It's inevitable and irrevocable, she should just keep feeding the hunger of her bottomless pit.

welcome back bro... we. missed you

beautiful people. My best all time movie..... 'Titanic'

Nigerian government think these guys are joking. Now I know why the government instructed the Swiss embassy not to allow Kanu's family travel to Switzerland.

It's only a matter of little time, Biafra must be a reality. IPOB is taking the right direction in their nonviolent agitation so as to lobby more countries and present IPOB to the international communities in case of any future eventuality.

No force can stop an idea whose time has come

beautiful
our afonja neighbours fielded our Igbo sisters. that's good
The only enemies we have in this country are from the north

beautiful
our afonja neighbours fielded our Igbo sisters. that's good
The only enemies we have in this country are from the north

hmmmmm
these people again

I'll say that the guy is taking advantage of your desperation to marry. Ladies are usually selfish when it comes to marital issues.

A guy was interested in dating you which could lead to serious relationship and possibly, marriage, all you did was to tell him YOUR PERSONAL selfish want in a relationship that was then yet to start... Why not you wait and build the relationship for a little time first before bringing in those marriage ish? If not that marriage favours the female folks the more, most of them can never marry. If you want to chop a Nigerian girl, carry marriage come.

We should learn to build relationships because marriage to men is not a child's play, but to women, it's a beautiful fantasy they want.

I'll simply hide from her but any day she noticed that I'm working under her, I'll simply resign.

The Bible says 'for jealousy is the rage of a man(either male or female) and in the day of vengeance he/she will not spare

They'd have a wonderful mindblowing sex...
I envy them

mine was around 2010 while traveling to port Harcourt from Aba to write postume. I didn't know anyone then living there. After locating my center which was somewhere around borikiri, I began to wander about with my friend then.. we had no money to lodge in a hotel. The money we had was just for transport and food. I decided that we go to my own church. When we reached I explained everything to the priest and even showed him my exam papers. I also told him the name of my church branch at Aba and the name of my priest but he refused us to sleep over in the church premises claiming that they're not sure of the security of church properties with our presence. This was around 9. 30pm. I really thanked God portharcourt wasn't that bad like of recent. We continued our wandering till about 11pm. The roads were gradually deserted by people. Me and my friend summoned courage and went inside one catholic church like that(I can't remember the location) and explained everything that we're jambites and we came for exams but have no place to sleep over. Initially they refused but because of the intervention of one guy who might be a youth leader, we were ushered in and we slept on the bench. mehn, it was terribly cold in the night. The following morning, we woke up and thanked them with all our hearts. I really learnt my lessons on travelling after that day. Though I didn't do well in the exam that year but that my friend did well and got admission that same year.

As for me, I'll calm my wife down and settle the issue amicably

Na dem dey rush us now
Konji is a respecter of no gender
But I thought women no like am?

truth..

it's difficult to know because they rarely reveal it.

the only time we hear the workers' voices is when they're owed... we can only access them based on their properties they're acquiring.

The workers won't tell you or maybe lie to you so you won't bother them

tentheded