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yazga:
Is it right for a MIL to bring food for her son (he's an only child) and recently got married.
His wife isn't comfortable with the way Mama comes to their house daily with food and the guy doesn't know how to tell his mum to stop.
This whole thing is causing friction already..

Why should this be an issue in the first place ❓

What is wrong if the mother brings food for him ❓

Why won't she even collect the food and dish it in portions and eat her own ❓

His only child for that matter, do you think mothers forget their sons just like that

That woman she is underating is capable of putting her home on stand still

Well for me ohhh, its even a relief to have her cook for the son because I will participate in eating the food

That doesn't have even stop him from eating her own food

In truth and fairness, it's nit her duty to announce who succeeds her dad

There are some protocols to be observed before such announcement is made, but because there was no peace among them, she has to blow the trumpet to scare others

They know that she is powerful and may succeed in putting his brother

But I believe there are elders and they know what to do

They should just disregard her actions and do the needful

sisisioge:
Not money here...power.

What is power if not money, ❓

gabi98:
Please nairalanders I need your honest advice on the type of midrange phone to get. Budget is between 45k to 50k
Preferred specs are -

- At least 3GB RAM and 32GB ROM

- At least 4000MAH battery

- Double SIM

- Running on Android 9

- At least HD display.

Your suggestions will surely be of help.

Go for tecno Pouvoir 2,am enjoying it with battery capacity of 5000 MAH, I bought it in August for 42000 at computer Village

Am proud of it

Ohh my God, what would have warranted this kind of barbaric act ❓

That state harbors all kinds of crime join together

Skull mining
Rape
Organ harvesting
Cybe crime
Rituals

Just name it.

Purfee:
Good day Nairalanders,

So I had to create another account to share my story.
Please I need sincere counsels from you all.
Now to my story.

I'm in a relationship with a guy for almost a year now. We actually both left previous relationships to be together. In the start of our relationship we were together for few months before it became a distant one.

While we were together I know he loves me but maybe not as much as I would have loved it. We've had issues he has strived to settle and all. When it became distant, he got a job and the relationship got strained cause we weren't communicating as much as we used to. Initially he got a really low paying job but that was in the midst of guys. I still had all the attention. But when he got a job in the midst of plenty females.. Young guys and ladies I felt the relationship strained. I had reasons to accuse him of not loving me. And he says what do I know about guys in love. He loves me and all. Now I feel that I tend to love him a lot. I worry about him being close to other girls at his place of work.

He recently just got a browsing phone and I saw his close conversation with girls at his place of work and he says they are just his friends.

Of a truth all these happening has given me different causes to worry a lot. This is a guy I love so much. We don't even chat much and he doesn't flaunt me on Whatsapp at least. Since he came online he's only uploaded a picture of me once and a picture of us on the day he was traveling abroad.

Now that's another crux of the matter. He travelled after months of we being distant. He says he will come back after a year. He says he's leaving so our lives can get better and we'll achieve our goals.

His friends were telling me he will come back for me. I saw him off to the airport though.

Lemme quickly round up my story here.

I love my boyfriend so much. He says he does too but I'm not feeling it as much. I saw his close conversations and pictures of girls on his phone and he says they are his friends just barely three months of working.

How do I know he loves me as much and how do I put my mind at rest. I know his mum and family members. He knows some of my siblings too. I'm 24 and I hope to get married soon.

He says I crave for attention a lot and I take relationship too personal.
He says he loves me but it doesn't sound weighty too me. And how do I know he'll fulfil all he's promised to fulfil. He's 2yrs older.

I hope y'all can put the tiny bits of my story together and advise me.

Thank you.

Ask questions too I'll be ready to answer.

He is facing some challenges and that alone can take his attention

He is a young guy, though dating you, he is going to have friends just to be happy with people

Stop thinking negative and keep greeting him on phone and keep communicating with him

Most times pray for him for God to guide his ways

Thank God his family knows you, if you are working, visit them and make yourself relevant to them

Spend time too with them

If he is dropping you, you will get the signal from the parents attitude on you

Get fruits for them or snacks , it's a way of showing love and care

Leave the rest for God to finalise for you

This is one of the reasons why they normally heat snakes on the head instead of the body

The danger in it is on his head

There was no need for such act. OK it has happened, will the birth day still hold ❓

Anger and in patience has done more dangerous things than what was supposed to be patience with

I don't know masquerades to be violent

I think an enemy who doesn't want him to exist, hide under the mask to kill him

Thanks to everyone that contributed, I will settle for tecno spark 3 with 2GB RAM

I appreciate you all ideas and suggestions

investigator007:
Not true, the spark 3 is a great device

Pls tell me more about tecno spark 3 and what's good about it, the one that has 2gb ram

He is not a treath, let him remain there, if he is a threat he would have been deported long before now

He needs job and shelter, that's all

Sunofgod:
Madness...what experience does she have?

Experience starts from some where

Pinkybush:
Good morning Nairalanders.

Few months ago I sought for help from this forum in my post titled "I'm About To Lose My Dad's Contributory Pension Bankers/Lawers Help", of which I received good comments.

One of those comments was for me to approach the court for a "Letter Of Administration" if I'm the next of kin or the beneficiary to my dad's properties.

After a long process at the court, I was finally issued with the said letter. I then took the letter to the bank where my dad was operating after being advised to open an Estate Account.

I then applied for Estate Account, but up till today they (bank) have refused to open that account giving flimsy excuse always. I'm beginning to suspect foul play from the bank.

Can I open such account in another bank while presenting the bank my dad was operating with account number for the money to be transfered in or sue the bank while they pay for damages?

HELP!!!

Why not walk up to the manager and find out why they are turning you around

Whatever their requirement is, get it for them

Alternatively, you can go to another branch of the same bank and make further enquiries, to know if they are playing smart in you

If you meet up the requirements from another branch, go back to them and let them know that a branch is willing to accept your request

She just mention things she has been focusing on as her potentials

If you had said that you have a degree, master degree and a professional certificate with a good job, they would have rushed you like hot cake

What you mentioned are already a natural gift

Add some value to it and you will see them going after you

Can't this mumu people leave what is written at the back and use the white leaves inside to write ❓

What's his business if it was rejected ❓

He has nothing to loose after all he is not campaigning again.

Once you don't have same stature like Ebuka, it won't fit you even if the tailor sews it right

Trex4:
Add 5000 More And Get Him The Infinix Hot 8. Thats If Tecno And Infinix Are Your Prefered Brands

Thanks

KolaDream:
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So how do I go about it pls

blackjack21:
I will be as simple as possible.

So me and this girl is dating and she needs a job. She's stylishly asking me to help get her a job where I work, the asking is starting to turn into nagging.
I admire and respect that she wants to work and earn, that's one thing I'll always love in any woman. But the idea of working is the Same company as me is just not comfortable with me, because, I don't date colleagues.
It's one rule I cannot scrap in my life.
No office Romance.

The trick here is I've already said 'Yes' because I thought she was joking, now it turns out she's serious, I. Don't like being pushed into a corner.

What to-do?

Am issue as simple as this is what you can't handle with out seeking for advice from people ❓

Just be polite and tell her that its not possible because you don't know how and when they employ

ARE you scared of losing her ❓

olilanya:
please stop creating Silly excuses because for her

It seems you failed English in waec ❓

Pls can I get any suggestions, a phone with 2gb ram of tecno product and with good battery capacity

carzola:
Take him to a stripper club

You are so stupid and a nonentity

I need a tecno phone for my son's 17th year birthday coming up in October. My budget is between 25000/30000

At times, I just wish that containers should only move from 10pm

This one's left home and hope to get back home to join their families for dinner

It was an organised church program and other artists were invited, it's now sounding as if she was the only artist in attendance

Anyway it was well organised

Who did this to this my brothers that takes risk to carry drugs

Who did this to them ❓

Again ❗❗❗❗

I suggest hence Fort, once any man comes to lodge with any woman, both of them will leave the hotel same moment

Even if he wants to go and buy anything, the both of them must go together and if they wish, they can come back together

NwaAmaikpe:



She helped the wrong person.
Her acting career needs a wheelchair too.

Ahaha, haven't you stopped exhibiting your stupidity just because of the stupid likes your co-partner's will give you ❓

Renderhelp:
Hi @Renderhelp...

I am so confused and tired. I don't understand what is wrong with my 8 year old daughter.

Everyone calls her an ogbanje and I'm starting to think its true.. She is a tricky person and acts older than her age.

One day, I sent her to buy me 2 crates of eggs from a nearby store. I gave her 2000 naira. She spent hours and I became worried, so I went to look for her. I saw her on the way and her eyes were red, she had been crying bitterly. She told me the eggs fell into the gutter and she couldn't jump in to get it as the gutters were flooded. I told her not to worry and we went home.

That same day, my neighbor came to ask me why I sent my daughter to eat at a fast food restaurant alone and I didn't send my other kids. I was surprised and told her I didn't. She said she saw my daughter eating rice, chicken and icecream .. That was how I found out she had lied about the eggs. I flogged her thoroughly that day.

That night, I had my bath and applied lotion on my body. Few minutes later, my body became hot. Both my eyes and private parts were on fire. I ran into the bathroom to pour cold water on my body. I was like a mad woman that night.

The next day, I checked my cream and saw it was red with particles of pepper in it. I became afraid of my daughter that day!!!

She also steals a lot. We can't hide money in the house anymore. Our neighbors have warned their kids to stay away from my daughter.
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Recently, she quarreled with a little boy and slapped him. She later went back to apologise to him and asked him to hug her. The boy hugged her not knowing she had a razor blade in her hand which she used to tear his back. We took the boy to a clinic and paid for his treatment. We also had to apologise to his parents.

My mother suggested we should take her to see a prophet but I don't trust those men.

My daughter is just 8 years old and she is so evil...how about when she becomes a teenager??!!

We have beaten, punished and advised her but she's getting worse by the day.

Please help my daughter!

She has exhibited all you need to know about a possessed child

Take her from one prophet to another, you will meet four out of five prophets who will tell you the same thing

Starts now to arrest her spirits before it will affect her further

Be ready to spend money for sacrifices

They have been having issues and cold war between themselves

Lack of communication and love in between them created that secret