Crime › Re: Nabeeha’s Father: How Bandits Got Access To My Daughters by Gentlesoul2021(m): 7:51pm On Jan 22, 2024 |
jmoore: The kidnappers are more intelligent than the police. With all the education and training of the police, they cannot intelligently outsmart the useless kidnappers... |
Romance › Re: Old Man Shows Off Amazing Dance Steps With Old Woman At An Event (Photos, Video) by Gentlesoul2021(m): 11:56am On Jan 22, 2024 |
foreveryoung1515: They’ve been doing this for long. What do they say about old habits again? It shall pass away but this one no gree pass |
Events › Re: An Event Guest Shows Off His "Amazing" Dance Skills (Pics/Video) by Gentlesoul2021(m): 11:43am On Jan 22, 2024 |
Zonefree: To dance in this Tinubulation should be classified as a criminal offense.
Why should a man be this joyous and dance like this in another man's wedding?
The groom should carry out proper investigation. Lol Easy na |
Celebrities › Re: ‘85% Women Want To Leave Their Marriages, I Tried Thrice’ – Actress, Jaiye Kuti by Gentlesoul2021(m): 11:32am On Jan 22, 2024 |
LordPsalm: That Jenny girl is too bitter and ugly.
How did thry even manage to be with such combo.
She already have a dog. That is what she deserve.
VERY BITTÈR SOÙL I seconded... |
Romance › Re: Picture Of 14 Year Old Shakira And 4 Year Old Pique In 1991. by Gentlesoul2021(m): 10:36pm On Jan 21, 2024 |
Kentursky: This 4 year old Pique later became the boyfriend of this 14 year old Shakira and they have 2 children today.
#Ijeuwa Na football age pique dey use na |
Celebrities › Re: ‘85% Women Want To Leave Their Marriages, I Tried Thrice’ – Actress, Jaiye Kuti by Gentlesoul2021(m): 10:29pm On Jan 21, 2024 |
FRANCISTOWN: It gladens my soul that you lost both relationships because obviously, you were two timing.
You got out of 2 long term relationships in 2020. Which means you must have been in 2 long term relationships until 2020. Long term relationships count years and not months.
That is. If you got out of one long term relationship in 2020. It is impossible to get out of another long term relationship in the same 2020, as anything long-term relationship is at least 2years. The next one should be 2022 at least.
I hope guys can see that No Nigerian girl ever has one boyfriend at any given time. The weyrey dey weigh her option,,,, good enough those guys left her smelly ass... |
Romance › Re: Is This Guy's Opinion About Moses Bliss Too Extreme? by Gentlesoul2021(m): 2:47pm On Jan 21, 2024 |
SweetBuns: Jobless bad belle individuals They should leave my man alone Abeg Your man?! Are u the one in the picture with him... |
Romance › Re: Red Pill Ideology Ruined My Relationship With A Nairalander by Gentlesoul2021(m): 2:16pm On Jan 21, 2024 |
Doolove: I've been dating a staunch Nairalander for two years, and he also introduced me to the site. While I visit once in a while, he can't go a day without scrolling through the site and at times he draws my attention to some interesting topics and we would go through the comments together. I told him that I don't like the site due to the constant bashing of women that goes on here. To my uttermost dismay he has been so influenced by the red pill movement and it has left our relationship in tatters.
I can't remember the last time I felt pampered or got treated like a woman because he doesn't want to look like a simp. There is no love in the relationship anymore because he is always too hard on me and treats me like a man. My guy hardly ever apologizes to me, if he annoys me and I try to give him the cold shoulder he ignores me completely and moves about his business like I don't even exist. He calls my two exs simps because I gisted him about how they adored me and was always scared of losing me. It hurts me that the guy I am dating doesn't value me and is ready to move on immediately as I walk out the door.
He convinced me to come stay over at his place for a while because he wanted to train me for a remote job that he got for me which I am supposed to start next month. I objected because I know how he treats me each time that I am around but he insisted so I caved in. It's been one problem to the other since I came over. He faults every single thing that I do, I wore a cloth that a guy gifted me on our anniversary and I got the scolding of my life. I got moody and told him to avoid me when he tried talking to me later that day, he simply said okay and disappeared from the house till late in the night.
He sees everything as an insult to his person, he said it's disrespectful to pick calls from guys in his presence, he would still accuse me of cheating if I go outside to pick those calls. Just two days back I was angry at him because of something he did that I didn't like so I flung his hands away when he tried to touch my cheeks and play with me, Oga stood up and started ignoring me. I was just expecting him to apologize and pamper me but he just locked up and left the house to God knows where. When he returned, I dressed up to go out with a friend and he told me not to return to his house if I leave. He treats me like a piece of furniture and won't still let me go out with people that are ready to give me attention.
This issue is making me lose my feelings for him and he doesn't even care. We hardly have sex because his touch irritates me due to his attitude towards me. If I turn down his advance once he doesn't bother to try again for days. In my previous relationships the guys always comes crawling and begging at night to have sex but this one doesn't even send, he can lock up for two weeks which makes me wonder if he is gay sometimes. He came back home very late on Friday night because he was avoiding me, I hid the food in the house because I was angry at him and he went to bed hungry. He woke up late at night to boil potatoes and woke me up in the process, I told him where I kept the food and he told me to eat it alone.
He left home by 7am yesterday for his football training only to come back by 10pm leaving me all alone in the house. I had to go out with a friend only to come back and didn't still meet him at home. He came back, took his bath and left the house again. He came back one hour later and slept on the floor. I woke him up to eat because I cooked with the money he left at home and he rejected the food citing the previous incident of me hiding food from him so I should continue cooking and eating alone. I told him that the food would waste because I already enjoyed where I went to. He just said I was disturbing him and should have gone home with the guy instead. He keeps making me feel like I am not wanted, he would tell me that he has the right to do whatever he wants because it his house but I must abide by his rules because I am a woman. He can go out and come back anytime he likes but I can't do the same, if I try it he would ask me to leave as if I am an IDP. All my complaints about how bad he was treating me fell on deaf ears, he just ignored me and slept off. He woke up this morning and is keeping to himself.
Please is this what the red pill is all about? I keep craving attention and love from my man and it's not forthcoming, I would have broken up but I really need the job he promised me while I wait for service. Is there something that I can do to salvage this relationship? Please I am sorry for the epistle and errors, I just needed to pour out my heart somewhere. Until we hear his side of the stories too.... Ur two ex are adorable yet u left them... I'm confused .. |
Romance › Re: Single Mum Proposes To Her Man With The Help Of Her Kids (pics/video) by Gentlesoul2021(m): 1:07pm On Jan 21, 2024 |
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Romance › Re: The Weekend Started With A Bang by Gentlesoul2021(m): 9:28pm On Jan 20, 2024 |
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Romance › Re: Single Mum Proposes To Her Man With The Help Of Her Kids (pics/video) by Gentlesoul2021(m): 9:05pm On Jan 20, 2024 |
yomi007k: I just dey pity the guy...lol  The kids dad Na the real dad the mumu Na aka dad... |
Romance › Re: Single Mum Proposes To Her Man With The Help Of Her Kids (pics/video) by Gentlesoul2021(m): 8:52pm On Jan 20, 2024 |
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Romance › Re: Should I Take Back The Money I Sent Her by Gentlesoul2021(m): 8:51pm On Jan 20, 2024 |
Matix222: Me and this girl have been dating more than a year though the relationship has ended now I mean from her side but I didn’t know she refused visiting me since December but we talk from time to time
Yerstaday she called me and we talked for sometime she told me to send her money which I did thinking we are still together not until I asked her if we could see then she told me she has gotten a man now and she is not coming please should I tell her to send back the money I sent her
Nb: she is also using the phone I bought for her but I’m leaving that for her She cannot ask her man for financial aid but turn to you cos she knows u b mugu.... |
Travel › Re: Twitter Japa Advisor Caught Going Against Her Own Advice 2 Years Later by Gentlesoul2021(m): 8:12pm On Jan 20, 2024 |
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Properties › Re: My New Borehole Pumps Out Dirty Water First, Before Clean Water. Help! by Gentlesoul2021(m): 10:28am On Jan 20, 2024 |
EEIA:
 This Topic Reminded me of the Nairaland Loves of my life. Sweetbuns and JennyClay. 
may your boreholes never run dry.   |
Phones › Re: Once You Lose your Phone, You Lose All Your Money In Your Bank Account. by Gentlesoul2021(m): 10:18am On Jan 20, 2024 |
Truvelisback: Mobile app isn't safe either. With what I have read so far, nobody can break into my phone to have access into my mobile app |
Romance › Re: MTN Blocked My SIM Card Of 7 Years by Gentlesoul2021(m): 11:38pm On Jan 19, 2024 |
Peacfulmindset: Please I need help. My SIM card of 7 years was blocked three days ago by MTN. The reason they gave was that my line was barred for not submitting my NIN.
I called their customer care number and I was asked to dial *996# and then follow the prompt to submit my NIN, which I did.
Two days after submitting my NIN, I'm still unable to make calls. Please I need help. They didn't block mine but barred me from making calls. I dialed*996# Nd everything was rectify within 30 mins.... Why them come block Ur SIM |
Crime › Re: Ever Had Any Experience With Cultists? by Gentlesoul2021(m): 10:56pm On Jan 19, 2024 |
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Celebrities › Re: Mohbad’s Management Slams N200m Suit On Late Singer’s Father by Gentlesoul2021(m): 9:33pm On Jan 19, 2024 |
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Phones › Re: Once You Lose your Phone, You Lose All Your Money In Your Bank Account. by Gentlesoul2021(m): 5:32pm On Jan 19, 2024 |
Truvelisback: I think it isn't safe either because of the use of U.S.S.D code. I deactivated ussd banking on my SIM.... I don't even like it. I'm good with internet banking or mobile app... |
Politics › Re: Bandits Caught On Tape Brandishing Automatic Rifles They Recovered From Security by Gentlesoul2021(m): 11:57pm On Jan 18, 2024 |
jeff1993: Anything wey go carry me go North either business or pleasure, Hid should cancel it from my life!!! I'll never step my foot in any northern soil .. |
Sports › Re: Egypt Vs Ghana : AFCON 2023 (2 - 2) On 18th January 2024 by Gentlesoul2021(m): 9:30pm On Jan 18, 2024 |
foleskay: Salah and d referee having a shouting match against each other. No gree for anybody mood  Salah deserves a yellow with the way he shouted back at the ref. I trust European ref sha, they are known for no nonsense... They'll b telling u to keep shut or u get booked |
Sports › Re: Ivory Coast. Vs Nigeria: AFCON 2023: 0 - 1 On 18th January 2024 by Gentlesoul2021(m): 7:36pm On Jan 18, 2024 |
Ivory Coast in the mud... This Nigeria team are just something else. We look weaker on the paper and now the result is proving otherwise.... |
Sports › Re: Equatorial Guinea Vs Guinea Bissau: AFCON 2023 (4 - 2) On 18th January 2024 by Gentlesoul2021(m): 4:44pm On Jan 18, 2024 |
Everywhere don stew for guinea Bissau ooo. Nigeria doesn't look like they can survive this group stage ooo |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: I Have Changed Since I Got A Job by Gentlesoul2021(m): 1:40pm On Jan 18, 2024 |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: I Have Changed Since I Got A Job by Gentlesoul2021(m): 11:25am On Jan 18, 2024 |
PowerOfLove: There's no two ways that unemployment is responsible for most of the crimes committed by young ones. I was there and I know it.
I used to do pilfering/petty theft to help myself. Even on this forum, I used to beg or try to swindle people to get any little financial favour just to survive because I didn't have a job.
Could you believe since I got a job (to God be the glory), none of such thought ever crossed my mind again?
With this, I wante to say every bad person out there deserve another chance with a job.
I have changed. What's the nature of Ur job now..?! |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Portal Shut As Kwara Garment Factory Gets Over 8,000 Applications In 48 Hours by Gentlesoul2021(m): 8:56pm On Jan 17, 2024 |
Kushites: Exactly. I was on Linkedin the other day, and for one job, you will see like 500 applications.
In today’s world you have to find a way to generate at least some of your own money independently. U never see 1k+. I don see am bfr |
Romance › Re: Rate This Business, Give It A Score On A Scale Of 1-10 by Gentlesoul2021(m): 5:49pm On Jan 17, 2024 |
Nackzy: The profit is jst too much oga, maybe it's ponzi Na all those loan stupid people. Na then dey give 7-14days period... |
Sports › Re: Tunisia Vs Namibia AFCON 2023 (0 - 1) On 16th January 2024 by Gentlesoul2021(m): 8:12pm On Jan 16, 2024 |
I have been saying this from the start of the competition;
The underdog teams are falling.... |
Family › Re: Nigerian Men Married To White Women What's Your Experience? by Gentlesoul2021(m): 2:40pm On Jan 16, 2024 |
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Phones › Remember These Nokia Phones? by Gentlesoul2021(op): 2:32pm On Jan 16, 2024 |
Below Nokia mobile phones served me well for years. Back in the days when browsing didn't require a lot of data, and the QWERTY keypad made life simpler. Those were the good old days.
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Sports › Re: Jose Mourinho Sacked As Roma Coach by Gentlesoul2021(m): 10:07am On Jan 16, 2024 |
Realdeals: He may return to Chelsea Is Chelsea planning to sack Pochettino.... |