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SportsRe: Startimes To Show African Nations Cup Matches Live by Gentlesoul2021(m): 12:24pm On Jan 06, 2024
Kingray10:
Nice, DStv yanga too much.
Na one of DStv package u mention so grin grin
PoliticsRe: Betta Edu: Why I Approved Payment Of ₦‎585 Million Into A Private Account by Gentlesoul2021(m): 12:18pm On Jan 06, 2024
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Federal Fire Service 2023/2024 Recruitment by Gentlesoul2021(m): 10:43am On Jan 06, 2024
Mchearan:
If it's about state issue. If you can obtain a certificate of origin of the state u mistakenly used, that's fine and safer than reapplying. Reapplying is only necessary when you lost your Application number. Because that's the only means to login into your profile to view your Application progress incase of shortlisting. Losing that login details is the same as not applying atall. Gone are the days these people communicate through mails. Your portal will only be the medium of communication now
Thanks for this...
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Federal Fire Service 2023/2024 Recruitment by Gentlesoul2021(m): 10:01am On Jan 06, 2024
Mchearan:
I will advise you to reapply again using different email and phone number. Because two things are involved:
1. You would be asked to present certificate of Trade for that position you applied for.
2. You would be given level 03 eventually you made it.
Won't the application be bounced for double registration. I made a mistake by filling my state of residence in place of my state of origin. I was carried away by the address and city on the application form. I av been uneasy since then thou I am planning to go and obtain certificate of origin of this State I reside in as I am also born and brought up here.
SportsRe: EPL Stars Who Won't Return To Action This Weekend Because Of Afcon/asian Cup by Gentlesoul2021(m): 8:05pm On Jan 05, 2024
Tallesty1:
https://www.flashscore.com/news/soccer-asian-cup-who-s-missing-the-premier-league-stars-in-afcon-and-asian-cup-action/QLo5prPk/
Some team formation will be distorted... Expect less from them...

I expected AFCON and Asian cup to be played during the European competition....
Nairaland GeneralRe: Theme Of The Year: No Gree For Anybody. by Gentlesoul2021(op): 5:26pm On Jan 04, 2024
Thundafireseun:
Hahahahahaha

Quite hilarious 😆
Hold anybody for neck even that job rejection....

Nairaland GeneralTheme Of The Year: No Gree For Anybody. by Gentlesoul2021(op): 4:40pm On Jan 04, 2024
Always remember the theme for this year;

NO GREE FOR ANYBODY!!!!

TravelRe: Japa: Lady Relocates To Canada With Donations From Friends And Classmates by Gentlesoul2021(m): 2:02pm On Jan 04, 2024
BrownEnvelop:
A Nigerian woman was left in shock after a former classmate and her family relocated to Canada months after donations were made to help the same family out of “financial problems”.

In a series of posts on social media the Nigerian lady said sometime in March 2023, she was added to a Whatsapp group .

She said that the admin of the group later informed everyone that the purpose for the group was to seek financial assistance for a former classmate of theirs whose husband had no job and she was pregnant with their third child.

The Nigerian lady said they all contributed immensely with the lowest donation being N50, 000 and the highest N500, 000. She said she was shocked on January 1, 2024 when she stumbled on the said lady and her family’s photos in Canada.

She said she reached out to the admin of the group to get some clarity and she was informed that the lady who was in dire need blocked her immediately after collecting the donations.



Credit; FOUNDATIONAL IGBO WOMAN



Source: FOUNDATIONAL IGBO WOMAN
Are u saying you that donated are in naija while the lady being donated to don dey obodo oyinbo... Hah e b things
PoliticsRe: Soldier Reacts To Video Of Governor Sanwo-Olu Arresting His Colleague (Photos) by Gentlesoul2021(m):
Hurbashola:
SOLDIER REACT TO VIRAL VIDEO OF GOV SANWO - OLU ARRESTING HIS COLLEAGUE

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iHSIJhbvALA
Lol governor dey talk u dey put mouth. Them no even born Ur godfather well. All these recruit sha... No sense....
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigerian Breweries Graduate Management Development Scheme 2023 by Gentlesoul2021(m): 12:11pm On Jan 04, 2024
Deronke1:
This is also same as GiantStrides11. Its seems he is the same person with different account because they have same Past questions.
Can you pls help me with it ..
PoliticsRe: EFCC Freezes ₦‎30 Billion NSIPA Cash Traced To Private Accounts by Gentlesoul2021(m): 10:57am On Jan 04, 2024
Islie:
Anti-graft body grills coordinator, arrests ex-DFA

Ex-Humanitarian Affairs minister fails to honour agency’s invitation




https://thenationonlineng.net/efcc-freezes-n30b-nsipa-cash-traced-to-private-accounts/
U want to eat what belong to thousands of beneficiaries... Wickedness....
RomanceRemember This Child Meme,!! She's Grown Up Now..!! by Gentlesoul2021(op): 10:07am On Jan 04, 2024
Our baby meme is all grown up now 😘 😍

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Mynd44
OAM4J
Seun
Nlfpmod
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Mukina2
CrazyMan

Jobs/VacanciesRe: At What Age Did You Land Your First Job? by Gentlesoul2021(m):
Sirchiboy:
Not yet gotten job.
40 and I haven't work before 😂
Started labour job in 2008 and I stopped in 2018 just a year to end my university education. This is what I used to hold body and soul during those time at school. I have done different kind of odd jobs. Factory, block industry, rental service, site work, tiles work, worked in a farm etc...

In 2019, just after my final year examination I got a paid job in a warehouse as a storekeeper with a salary of 50k while waiting for NYSC mobilisation and in 2020 I got mobilised...

After NYSC in Feb 2021, took me 20 months to land a paid employment in Oct 2022 thou I was in a volunteering role. Resigned after 6 months of landing this job in Mar 2023 because of the toxicity of the work environment. I was drained physically and mentally had to flee for my life....

I am now into buying and selling while also looking for opportunities. The goals is to keep pushing. No room for excuses.....
Jobs/VacanciesRe: At What Age Did You Land Your First Job? by Gentlesoul2021(m): 7:51am On Jan 04, 2024
Moyinoluwa35:
At 24 , got an opportunity to apply for airforce direct short service
Are u still in the air force....
PoliticsRe: Akeredolu Was Weak In Matters Involving His Wife — Ex-Aide by Gentlesoul2021(m): 7:06pm On Jan 01, 2024
FamilyRe: Are We Been Insensitive Or We Should Just Help Our Neighbour. by Gentlesoul2021(m): 4:05pm On Jan 01, 2024
Look away
CelebritiesRe: Comedian Cute Abiola Share Lovely Family Photos From Mecca by Gentlesoul2021(m): 3:51pm On Jan 01, 2024
adesegun121:
Comedian cute Abiola Share lovely Family photos from Holy land and wishes his fans happy New Year

He wrote on his facebook wall:

The first time I came to macca, I came here Alone begging for a child from Allah,
The second time, I came here with my wife with a Baby bump,
This is The third time, I am here with my wife and my Son ! God we are grateful for everything ❤️😭
.
2024 will be better 🙏 happy new year

Source: https://gistmeloveblog.com/comedian-cute-abiodun-share-lovely-family-photos-from-holy-land-and-wishes-his-fans-happy-new-year/
Who discourage this guy from not marrying adeherself
EducationRe: Nigerian Reporter Bags Cotonou University Degree in 6 Weeks by Gentlesoul2021(m): 3:35pm On Jan 01, 2024
heykims:
Name the school abeg and give us an instance
I think he's talking toward direct entry
EducationRe: Nigerian Reporter Bags Cotonou University Degree in 6 Weeks by Gentlesoul2021(m): 3:30pm On Jan 01, 2024
Ishilove:
Image 1- The degree certificate

Image 2- A page in the reporter's passport, showing exit and entry stamps of both Nigerian and Beninois immigrations.

Image 3- Umar Audu fully kitted at Obubra NYSC Orientation Camp, Cross River State

Image 4- Umar Audu, DAILY NIGERIAN reporter at NYSC orientation camp
Lol, nysc in the mud. But lemme ask hope they won't arrest this reporter having involving himself in a shaky deal...
Nairaland GeneralRe: What Negative Act Are You Stopping This 2023? by Gentlesoul2021(m): 6:18pm On Dec 31, 2023
Popeonah:
I will stop being to nice too everyone, and I do "my friend my friend" alot. It really dealt with me. I must stop.
I also learn the hard way....
Jobs/VacanciesRe: I Need A Person That Can Ran Errand Every Now And Then In Abuja. by Gentlesoul2021(m): 9:23am On Dec 31, 2023
Hmmm
FamilyRe: I Want To Cancel The Marriage Plans. Is It Worth It? by Gentlesoul2021(m): 3:51pm On Dec 30, 2023
FanRong:
I'm sorry, this post is going to be a long one. But you're saving a soul if you read through and advice candidly.


My story
We've dated for 6months and we've lived together for the 6months.

On our 3rd month, I found her interesting and told her I'll like to marry her. She accepted but no engagement ring or anything to show. We just accepted by word of mouth.

Since then, I've worked towards it. I've told her to call her mum and eldest brother(dad is late) to relate my idea and understand their feeling since it won't be that easy to marry. (same state, but my people and her people are highly selective in marriage)

After several persuasion, and threat that I'll throw her out if she doesn't relate the circumstances to her family, she called the mum. And again I had to force her to call the eldest brother. She claimed she did. And that's enough. I'm ok.

Meanwhile, there's this guy(her ex) she claims helped her when she came to Lagos. It was when I started accommodating her that I found out in her chats that she was living with this guy, but lied to me she was living with her Aunt and the aunt's husband was harassing her sexually and she wants to leave. She later told me the guy, though provides for him but has never had sex with her, even when she was living in his house. These stories doesn't move me since everyone, who is not a virgin has an ex. So I forgave all that and we moved on.

She wasn't everything I need in a women, but I told myself I could train her the way I want. We continued adjusting to each others likes and dislikes.

I feed her this 6 months, provide comfortable shelter, buy her things she needs,(not want). Told her I'll do more and open a shop for her, if we get married, but she still confronts me asking why should I wait till after marriage? . I didn't allow the words move me cos Its my decision and my money and also, I'm used to gold diggers.

A good number of times, I see her as being selfish. If things doesn't benefit her, she'll not get bothered even if I'm involved.

Just this week, It became obvious to me that she argues everything I request her to do. From 24th Dec, we've been on holiday, we're always at home.
1. I'll wake her up at 9 and ask her to prepare breakfast for the family, she'll prefer to roll on the bed than do it. I'll finally have to do it myself so I can get things done and get busy.

2. I detest girls on eye lashes. I've repeatedly told her how I dislike it, but when she went to fix herself for the Christmas, she fixed the eyelashes, Contrary to my demand.

3. I got her some sneakers to upgrade her fashion style and look smarter, instead of the usual slippers and sandals she wears.
When we prepared to go to the beach few days ago, I requested her to put on the sneakers to look more fashionable, but she refused buttressing that she must wear what she wants, sandals.

4. Few days ago, we had a heated argument and she said that if I'm not happy that she's living with me, that she can go, afterall, she has somewhere to stay. I asked her to go and she immediately called that her ex bf to come to my house. I immediately swung into action, took all her belongings out, before the ex will arrive, at the same time, retrieving the items I gifted her.
While she was struggling to have her gifted items back, our neighbours heard the struggle and had to come and settle for us. She apologized and I forgave her. we were back into the house.

5. Just yesterday , we left home together, and I locked the door and I took the keys with me. We walked down the street together to the Busstop, I have almost no friend and seldomly greet. But there's this my ex girlfriend by the roadside, she saw me and yelled my name, I went to greet her and my Fiancée picked offence, left me without waiting for me. After that I chased her and told her it's nothing because I've told her everything about this ex.
Before we could get to the Busstop, she demanded for the house keys and I gave her since she might come back earlier than me.
We couldn't say bye. The anger was clear on her face and we parted ways.

After about 15mins, I got to where I wanted to make payment for the items I picked only to notice I am not with my transaction phone. I was confused where could I have kept it, the seller insisted I may not have come to his shop with the phone, and the phone rang as I called with my second phone. so I had to call my Fiancée for assistance since she's with the keys.
At first, she said she was still around the Busstop but when I told her I needed her to go home and confirm my phones whereabout, she said she can't go back that she has gone far, shouted on me and hung the phone.

I called and called and called, but she didn't pick. Many thoughts ran into me. Who took this phone? My money? , my phone? , my sim card? . I had to find my way and trekked back about 4km to the house since I had no cash with me. And finally saw the phone ringing in my house. I was relieved.

The way she shouted to me on the phone got me unbalanced, I felt she would be fire if I get this girl as a wife.

We finally traveled to our home state today and I paid the bills for the traveling. My major plan of traveling was to see her people and do the needful before I mistakenly get her pregnant. But I'm seriously contemplating of canceling this plan and throw her out come January. I need peace.

Dear nairalanders, I'm really in the middle of the deep blue sea and the devil.

I need mature and candid advice please.
Should I continue with the marriage plans or the redflags are obvious?
They've told u guys never to swing into action for any woman as if u are her fatherly figure... Look at the trash u are enduring. Learn from the ex who was maltreating her anyhow he likes. That's how to treat a hoe....
RomanceRe: Reply From The Guy Whose Claim To Jilt A Girl On His Wedding Day!! by Gentlesoul2021(op): 3:39pm On Dec 30, 2023
Rejouir:
grin grin Omo guy, just the small news you dn go dig her family history. Are you an investigator? grin. how do you guys even bring up these evidences grin grin. Truely looking at these pictures the babe na ashawo.
😂🤣🤣🤣
RomanceRe: Reply From The Guy Whose Claim To Jilt A Girl On His Wedding Day!! by Gentlesoul2021(op): 7:59am On Dec 30, 2023
UptownVibes:
See as she comot tongue for mouth for the last pics as dog wen she be.. The guy might be right
I swear,the guy man use his head. U cannot tame this one rather u walk away....
RomanceRe: Reply From The Guy Whose Claim To Jilt A Girl On His Wedding Day!! by Gentlesoul2021(op): 7:57am On Dec 30, 2023
faceland:
This is the type of girl that when you don't having sex you would feel like she raped you due to her years of bedroom experience.
A northern guy can not show his friends that this is who I want to marry.

Her only hope is to pretend to be converted when she is ready to settle down.
The pretense from them is topnotch...
RomanceRe: Reply From The Guy Whose Claim To Jilt A Girl On His Wedding Day!! by Gentlesoul2021(op): 6:45am On Dec 30, 2023
Gadafii:
Damaged goods want marriage?

These girls do anyhow online and offline and expect men to overlook such and just wife them, men are now getting wiser, you had my child, does mean I must marry you, with your lifestyle I do t consider you worthy to share my life with, imagine marrying a liability of a lady, god forbid bad things

Men should start setting standard when it comes to the choice of a wife, let her be gainfully employed and affording her basic needs, responsible young woman, don’t just settled for the availabile if not you go cry tired
Don't mind them
Mk them dey play

See person the guy for carry for house.... The guyman went for peace of mind

RomanceRe: Reply From The Guy Whose Claim To Jilt A Girl On His Wedding Day!! by Gentlesoul2021(op): 10:58pm On Dec 29, 2023
Creamypie:
Baby mamas are left covers. How can a single man look for a wife 2 marry, and then marry a baby mama? Its like attending night party by 5 am the next day. Very irritating, toxic, and smelly
grin
RomanceReply From The Guy Whose Claim To Jilt A Girl On His Wedding Day!! by Gentlesoul2021(op): 10:30pm On Dec 29, 2023
Sequence to this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/7952461/jilted-girl-curses-ex-boyfriend#127680899

that graced the front page about a jilted girl who cursed her boyfriend on his wedding day.

Here is the reply from the guy. From his narrative, the girl is just his baby mama and ex since 2017. The girl is only pained because the guy didn't marry her.

If you take a look at the girl's profile, she's one of the indecent girl out there but want a good man to herself. I think the guy dodge a bullet...

RomanceRe: My Husband Divorced Me 6 Months After Our Wedding For Calling My Ex –lady (video by Gentlesoul2021(m): 11:17am On Dec 29, 2023
BrownEnvelop:
A South African lady has revealed that her husband divorced her six months into their marriage due to his insecurities and lack of trust for her.

She said her husband ended the marriage after finding out that she was calling her ex-boyfriend shortly after walking down the aisle.

The young woman who narrated her story during a podcast, said she she married a very jealous man who monitored the people she talked to and barred her from keeping male friends.

According to her, the major drama started on a random day that she was missing her ex-lover and decided to call his phone number but he didn’t pick up.

Her hubby found out about the call, confronted her about it and accused her of cheating with her ex. She said he even reported her to the pastor who officiated their wedding. In the latter part of the podcast, the divorcee clarified that she was not cheating.

Watch video below:
https://nigerianstreet.com/2023/12/24/my-husband-divorced-me-6-months-after-our-wedding-for-calling-my-ex-lady-video/
Mumu why Ur ex no marry u... Weyrey
HealthRe: NAFDAC Lists Adulterated Wines, Drinks, Shows Steps To Verify Original Products by Gentlesoul2021(m): 8:32am On Dec 29, 2023
Starships4u:
Why is Arsenal and Tottenham loosing this night?
Useless Tottenham
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Federal Fire Service 2023/2024 Recruitment by Gentlesoul2021(m):
Prudent5217:
I just applied it’s smooth and easy.
I told u...

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