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IamFreeBorn:
Hello. May I know how you treated the staph?

I'm seriously at a loss here. One lab in a private hospital said I have staph... After research, I began to doubt her... I went for a second test again at the first place and another bigger hospital same day.

Few days later, first hospital lab scientist said I now have heavy growth of staph... Second bigger hospital said CULTURE YIELDED NO GROWTH... Two very different result for one person.

Right now I'm confused.

Please advise.

Cc: roland545
partnerbizz5

IamFreeBorn:
Hello. May I know how you treated the staph?

I'm seriously at a loss here. One lab in a private hospital said I have staph... After research, I began to doubt her... I went for a second test again at the first place and another bigger hospital same day.

Few days later, first hospital lab scientist said I now have heavy growth of staph... Second bigger hospital said CULTURE YIELDED NO GROWTH... Two very different result for one person.

Right now I'm confused.

Please advise.

Cc: roland545
partnerbizz5

dasparrow:
You know, family members can only pressure you if you allow them and if you live in Nigeria. When you live overseas in societies where marriage is an individual choice and not a societal obligation, no bomboklaat can force marriage down your throat. This is even more so when you keep nosy Nigerians at bay when you live abroad.

No bloody Nigerian family member can force you into what you not ready for. Just change your number and block obnoxious Nigerians including so-called family members and friends from your WhatsApp, Facebook and Twitter and have your peace.

Duggedised12:
must be 32 years and above , must not be a Muslim, must not be a northerner,must have a source of livelihood that can two people can comfortably live on.

yettymuse:
So 2 adults had an unprotected sex that resulted in pregnancy and you're threatening yourselves with sniper and suicide?

You need to set your priorities right dude and stop guilt tripping members of a faceless forum.

Wait!! are you actually crowdfunding to sponsor an impromptu wedding ceremony. Haqhaqhaqhaq! I'm laughing at you freal mehn!

I hope you both have a well-paying job cos when the hurricane of marriage hit una.. You fit no get strength to write all these jargons again o.

Depression and suicide is the new way to gather sympathy in Nigeria. Tueh! You deserve some bouts of slaps.

hpretty:
I'm looking for a guy to chat/hang out with. if you are going to be around this holiday, bored like me and you have no one to spend this season with, maybe we could spend time chatting or hang out. like visiting some interesting places within, watch movies, play scrabble game etc. please no string attached. Thank you.

Anybody operating stanbic money market

catwalq:
You may be right that I know nothing about love,but I know people make time for what is important to them. I repeat, no one is that busy...

BobiNick:
STOP DATING MENTALLY BROKE GIRLS

I know many girls and ladies gonna be angry with this post but try learn more about it .
Men!!!!!!!!

Guys, how do some of you even cope with dating a mentally broke girl?I know some still don't understand what I mean by Mentally Broke Girls.
I mean:
1. A girl who doesn't have transport fare to see someone who she claims she loves every damn time.
2. A lady who can't get you a birthday or a Valentine's day gift, but expects you to bring down the world for her during hers.
3. Someone who can't comfortably call you on phone for 5mins. Always flashing and
complaining she doesn't have airtime even when you know you just sent her airtime.
You will still be the one to call her and ask her whether she has seen the Card.
4a. I mean how do you guys cope dating a lady who thinks relationship is an occupation;
where she is supposed to be paid and taken care of?
4b. Even if it's an occupation, what services is she actually offering to be privileged to receive such benefits?
4c. Or is she a ghost worker?
( NOTE: sex is not a benefit ONLY to men )
How do some guys manage to date such ladies?
Am not saying this because am working but it's what I see in most ladies.
5. No wonder suicide and depression victims are mostly men.
6. See guy, don't ever date a mentally broke girl no matter how gorgeous you think she is. They are serious liabilities.
7. Rather date a lady who adds something beneficial to your life. Things like emotional intelligence; financial intelligence; spiritual
intelligence and other intelligence.
8. Date someone who's capable of calming the storm within your soul ( an average man has enough storms ); and not someone who
adds stress to your life.
9. Forget that yehn yehn talk, don't tolerate any woman's brokenness or stupidity just
because of her physical beauty.
10. There are actually a lot of extremely gorgeous and beautiful ladies with common sense.
11. So don't ever think of settling for less brother.
One thing I've realized about all these broke girls is not that they don't actually have money...
12. Most of them do; but it's just that they're mentally broke, which is way way worse than not having money.
I know many girls and ladies gonna be angry with this post, they won't like or comment in it .
But
Ladies please don't be mentally broke.
Even when you have a little,try to support your guy sometimes.
Guys please don't date mentally broke girls
i hope you understand what mentality broke means ?? I know some lady's will insult me... ,but it's just here on online because you can't come to the barracks and beat me.

elipheleh:
That woman is a bloody liar. She's not telling the truth. I know women. The nature of women is always defensive and they won't ever tell you the wrong they did. If a woman confesses the truth to you, someone forced her to do it.

A full blooded man can't walk away from his responsibly without provocation. Loyalty and brotherhood are definition of MEN. A man will stand by his friend and family even in face of death. If he ever leaves, it's only in cases of unforgivable offences.

Loyalty and brotherhood means nothing to a woman. She'll lie, scheme, and manipulate to appear like a saint. They care too much about public opinions. To appear like saints before the public is their priority.

GAINltd:
Against popular belief, rendering a cleaning service is actually more empowering than you think.

So if you are looking for a humble stepping stone to prosperity and connections with the right network, then we are looking for you.

We need young individuals who are interested in a contract cleaning job [for a short period]; which will eventually open doors to other possibilities [after all, WE ARE A RECRUITMENT AGENCY - we got you.

Similarly, if it is not for you please recommend someone who would be willing to learn something new.

Thank you.

lordskid:
NL_NATION
CB

People seem lonely and depressed even more so than in past times. Can science help us understand why? Loneliness and depression seem to be in every household now, leading to feelings of hopelessness and even attempts of suicide. So, why is it so much worse than before?


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Science has reasons for this modern increase in loneliness and feelings of depression, and it’s interesting, to say the least.

Here are a few reasons for this increase:

i. MATERIALISM

Materialism has become an addiction for almost everyone, and if you can’t afford to keep up, you may find yourself stricken with loneliness and depression. The reason why we’re depressed is that we’ve grown used to acquiring more and more with no end in sight.

If we really took the time to realize that these things are only temporal, useless after death, then maybe we would slow down and enjoy
something else for a change . Happiness, trust me, is not found in material possessions.

ii. Avoiding Nature

Nature has this ability to lift the spirits in the most amazing ways. The breeze, the chirps of insects, and the earth itself all improve mental health. Many believe that just placing your bare feet upon the earth at least once a day improves your health and mood – it’s called grounding.

People seem more lonely and in the throws of depression because they don’t go outside as much as they used to. Most of the time, electronics and technology take first place over going outside to enjoy the weather. I fear it will only get worse if we don’t wake up and notice the direction our lives are going.

iii. Lack of physical activity

Just like most people avoid going outside, they seem to also be avoiding any sort of physical activity too. It’s so much easier to do things without moving around.

There is a decrease in hiking, camping, and fishing now, replaced by indoor activities like watching movies and playing video games.

Our brains are actually changing so that we prefer these indoor activities and feel more comfortable doing these things. And this is making us more lonely and more depressed as time goes by considering our physical and mental states are connected.

iv. Diet

As you already know, fresh and organic foods are good for you, both physically and mentally. This means processed foods and fast foods have the opposite effect. It has been proven that fast foods, especially commercially baked foods, hamburgers, and hotdogs can cause an increase in depression.

Feeling lonely and a bit depressed? Well, it could be the food you’re eating . Now, as far as humans being more depressed than in decades before, well, that’s because fast foods, processed foods, and food additives have increased greatly.

goodman41:
I got to know this girl through facebook, a 21 year old IMT student. After chatting like 3 month i invited her but she refused to come but asked me to come to Enugu to see her which i went on getting to Enugu i asked her to come to holy ghost catholic church compound to see me on hearing this she shouted "church kwa" i said yes maybe she wanted a hotel. I waited before she now came to holy ghost, we talked and liked each other when i wanted to go i gave her N1000 for her T fare back to her hostel but she refused that she don't need my money that she is the one that sopposed to entertain me. I was happy that i have found a wife, before i left she promised to visit me after her exams but after her exam she didn't come she keeps promising and failing one day she texted me that she needed N5k to make up with her house rent i laughed and texted her that i am disapointed from her for making me looke like a mugu/maga. Girls i cant understand u guys now am still looking for a good wife.

Kingosytex:
Is dis Mr Okafor a lecturer in a university or wat.?


Okafor's Law states that once a man has had a woman, he can have her again at any time


Cc Calabardick

frankyychiji:
The irony is that even if he's guilty, he may have made peace with his God long ago while we sit here to condemn a man God has not condemned

Rollins777:
*AGREEMENT BEFORE SEX!*

Due to the current and often false allegations made by women, which include Rape, Harassment, Blackmail etc. there is now an agreement to be signed before "action".

By. *Com. Usman Abdulgafar*

*AGREEMENT BEFORE SEX*

I, ___________________, the undersigned female partner (herein referred to as the 'Screwee'), am about to enjoy sexual intercourse with _________________ (hereafter referred to as the 'Screwer'), certify the following:

1. THAT I am above the lawful age of consent.

2. THAT I am not under the influence of liquor or any narcotic.

3. THAT the afore mentioned Screwer did not use any force, threats, coercion or promises to influence me.

4. THAT I, the Screwee, am in no fear of him whatsoever.

5. THAT I do not expect or wish to marry him.

6. THAT I do not know if he is married or not and neither do I care.

7. THAT I am neither asleep nor drunk.

8. THAT I am entering this relationship with him; because I love it and want it as much as he does.

9. THAT in the event that I receive full satisfaction, which I expect, I declare in advance the capacity and willingness for further participation at regular intervals.

10. THAT I will not act as a witness against him nor will I file charges against him in the event that,
(a) I contract an STD
(b) I become pregnant
(c) I feel that he is violating any legislation - moral, legal or otherwise.

SIGNED BEFORE JUMPING INTO BED

ON THIS ___ DAY
OF _____ (MONTH)
________ (YEAR)
AT ______ (AM/PM)

_______________________
(Signature of Screwee)

-------------------------------------
(Signature of Screwer)

Guys, is this cool?�‍♂�‍♂�‍♂�‍♂

*~~Com. Usman Abdulgafar*

oluwasegun007:
JESU!

Medical items worth billions inside Pali...

I was expecting to see MRI and the likes.

Oya na... We are watching from high places

Amanda4life:
Only 5 months courtship.

Mccheww.


When the wahala will start they will start disturbing somebody here in nairaland with their story

Fourwinds:
Acting as if you are already dating is wrong because it might be too late and you can't blame the girl if she is seeing someone else

nkemjacob2:
Dis sort of girls playing hard for their man to get, mostly fall under the age of 18- 24. If u want real relationship aim @ the higher age

gerizzim:
Seconded to be true

internationalman:
As for me I only date the girls I make friends with...

From friendship I just start acting like I have already started dating her while I take her own reaction into consideration..

It works 80% of the time..

Preshy561:
She doesn't want you to waste her time and she knows what she wants.

She's not desperate.

Preshy561:
She doesn't want you to waste her time and she knows what she wants.

She's not desperate.