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because you are trying to buy her love wit goodies. most tyms, we automatically assume dt buying a lady stuff will make her return her love bk to you.

It only pulls her to stay to enjoy benefits bt it won't make her settle for you. let her buy into your person bfor ur Goodies.

I started dating this lady and less than 3 mnths into the relationship she told me " the person that puts a ring in my finger that's the person I will get crious with"
I was confused to hear sm1 in a relationship wit me already making such statement. I told her to chill let us give d relationship tym bfor we talk about ring. She hz since refused communicating with me since I replied her dt way.
Does it mean she is desperate or she wants assurance??

Faultfinding starts popping into a relationship wen either partner starts seeing sm1 dat is beta Dan the current person ur with.

faultfinding starts popping into a relationship wen either party starts seeing anoda partner dt she/he likes more Dan you.

wateva good gestures you do for an average babe don't expect Dem to repay you in good return.

don't attach much emotion to the gift or money you give Dem.

Do it bt DNT give all dat you have to dem and take ur mind off it .
Most ladies are not Soo good in reciprocating good gestures done to dem.

seanery:
They should CUT the leg naah.
I know one Man wey fit butcher anything.
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Why look for Millions of Naira to cure it, when you can just CUT it off with roughLY N5,000... at least.

abeg no kill is wit laff.

you Dey vex o

She wants you to kip providing her comfort on a steady basis .

u no fit get 8.5 jooor. Shey u be horse ni

Der is no working master rule or pattern to approach a lady.

D kind of personality the man posses ND how he uses it in front of a lady is the Koko.

Dis ur formula no go wrk for shy guys.

Uncle, you are going for a deadly option of exporting your pregnant wife to Lagos.

It is safer your wife stays wit u wherever you are across d Niger. Don't dare wat ur Abt doing?

A 34yrs old man commit suicide over a 24yrs old gal? He is older Dan d gal by 10yrs?

Maturity somehow is indirectly proportional to AGE

Gal wen u never marry?


it's obvious the gal hz bin the only babe he hz ever dated in his life for him to get completely swallowed from the psychological trauma from the brkup.

He put too much trust on the babe nd the babe wud av bin assuring him dt she will spend d rest of her life wit him not to jilt him until she finally dump him. Too much trust led to him to suicide.

He hasn't experience brk up bfor in his 34yrs of living .

hopexter:
Useless Student who wasn't even considering the person paying his school fees. If any of my sons commits suicide because of a mere punna, I will set his body and spirit on fire then sprinkle acid on his ashes.

Bros you dey vex o.

Dis got me quacking in lafter

To save urself plenty drama. Don't tell her.

Most women don't reason like men.

Sometimes they get Soo excited abt success story abt d man in dia life Dt they unconsciously brag abt d man to intimidate odas esp if the man is stupendously rich ND d lady hz not seen a good life Dt is laced with money.

even sef, it's not always good to tell ur wife certain tinz as regards money not to talk of "gfrnd"

Just kip taking good care of her wit wat ur money can offer.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Certainly. It's not a big deal. If only he'll remain humble and not behave like a braggart. Some Nigerian men really do know how to bite the hands that fed them.

ur post amazes. Wc one be say the man go bite the hands dat fed him. Are u separating urself from ur husband .?

he is ur Oda half not the guy next door ur tryin to feed ND give a life.

Playing dat temporary role dt period the man is dwn financially shud not be seen as you doing him a favor.

You are feeding ur king dat u said yes to for richer for poorer.

It will be better if ur specific wit wat you fear so that you will be understood.

Wat exctly do u mean by you don't know how to go about it

Good thoughts from you bt you can only wet pples appetite to join you if you have atlist one side income u are currently doing. Anyway add up 08094943690

Henri8:
Shey these deeper life people, their ladies, them dey gbensh?

wats the meaning of gbensh sir!

LesbianBoy:
Three things are wrong with you

1. You don't have money

2. There is no mystery about you

3. You don't do thing what your mates do so they underate you. Things like having a girlfriend, drinking beer etc. You will be surprised how this little things bring respect

Diz ur points no hold water. smbdy dt is not well raised nd guided with good morals from d start ends up oozing out mischief, stubbornness nd Oda terrible vices.


Her bad character comes from inside outside. It's in d blood.


Av bin squatting a young man for few yrs nw bt I see unpleasant attitude from him from telling lies to leaving the dishes unwashed frm mor til nite for plate wen me ND him use eat o, he sometimes snub mi nd won't want to greet me gdmor or Bros welcome bk from wrk.


And am d older for huz wen me dey pay rent and squat you. the good hrt wen I get no wan make me kick him out despite him not behaving well.

I had to ignore him. started doing d huz chores myself. I stopped giving him food. He too refuse washing d plates nd me too no send am .


Few days later, wen hungry Don do am strong thing, nobody tell am ,na him use him own hand to start wash d plates even bfor I com bk from wrk.

my advice is dat, don't beat her. Just ignore her nd play solo . Na she go draw herself bk to you if u withdraw dos benefits she is getting from you

FALSE STORY.

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Dis fusion of a 19yrs old teenager almagamating with a 59yrs old man is stunning,bizzare and resonating with consternation.

Is she a wife to him or......?

Der isn't a bit of pictorial glamour in dis combo.

obamartins:
I just stumbled on my marriage note where I wrote down all my expenses while I prepared for my marriage and decided to share. This topic is to guide those planning for their wedding on how much on the average they should budget for their marriage. Although the amount you will spend depends on what you want and the tribe/family you are marrying into. I actually budgeted N1,200,000 (1.2 million) but ended up spending close to 2million.

I got married November 2018 to my beautiful esan girlfriend of 4 years. Here is the breakdown:

Pre-wedding
1. Lab test for HIV, Genotype and pregnancy (as instructed by the church) - N5000
2. Transportation to take her to see my parents - N10,000
3. Ring 18 karat gold (engagement, and wedding rings) - N75,000 (from aboki)
4. Wedding certificate - N4000
5. Wedding seminar organized by my church - N4000

Federal Registry:
1. Affidavit for spinsterhood and bachelorhood-N2000
2. Main fee - N34,000

Traditional marriage
1. Drinks - N140,000
2. Yams - N40,000
3. Salt - N4,000
4. Bride price - N10,000
5. Make up - N20,000
6. Food - N200,000
7. Transportation - N20,000
8. Photograph - N6000
9. Canopy - N6000
10. Palmwine - N2000
11. Palm oil - N12,000
12. Native kola - N3000
13. Introduction - N12,000 (did introduction same day as traditional marriage)
I love esan marriage, they don't put hole in one's pocket

White Wedding
1. Drinks and food - N300,000
2. Reception hall - N105,000 (a Catholic church event hall)
3. Decoration - N50,000
4. DJ plus MC - N35,000
5. Guest house accommodation for my parents - N15,000
6. Souvenir 100 unit (Jotter, bag and notebooks) - N93,000
7. Photographer - N20,000 (soft copies)
8. Video coverage - (Hmmmm! Money no reach)
9. My wife's wedding gown - N35,000 (rent)
10. Me and my bestman's shirt and suit - N36,000
11. My wife's makeup and accessories - N50,000
12. Hotel room for after wedding panpangolo - N18,000 for 2 nites
13. My shoe - N2,000 (it's a long story)
14. Cake (4 steps) - N15,000 (my wife baked it if not e for pass that amount)
15. Transportation for my parents back home - N10,000

This are the little I could remember, I will update as soon as I get them. It was supposed to be a budget marriage but I spent close to N2,000,000 despite cutting off as much expenses as permitted. What was ur marriage budget? Did you stick to your budget or did some unforseen expenses prop up? Please share for the benefit of those planning theirs.

Lalasticlala

o boy eh! #2million naira. Dis amt wil buy land and build a huz for outskirts of lagos. Is wedding expenses really an investment ?? My bae na esan oh and I DNT av #200k for account to wife her not to talk of #2millionnaira. I dey fear ooooo

alBHAGDADI:
Satan didn't know he was doing humanity a favour by crucifying Jesus. He regretted after Jesus resurrected. He wished he hadn't, because now mankind is free from his grip only if they accept the sacrifice Jesus did. This has made Satan to employ a new tactics which is to make humans reject the sacrifice of Jesus and to depend on their own effort. That's why many people think they can only make heaven if they don't sin. Instead of them to be like Abel who depended on the blood of the Lamb to get saved, they rather be like Cain who depended on his own effort.

If you don't believe in Once Saved Always Saved, then it means you dont believe what Jesus did is enough to save you once and for all. That's why you decided to add your own effort. This clearly means you are not saved but doomed like Cain.

You have rejected Jesus Christ and have chosen to make heaven by your own effort of not sinning. Let's see how far you can go with that. Just make sure you don't break a single law.

youngman,I don't get dis ur philosophy of once saved always saved.

Can u plz tell us categorically were it is clearly written in the Bible .

D cause is from your mind sir. The thoughts you feed your mind with

franchasng:
I said it and I will repeat it:

Money is the number 1 problem every marriage and relationship face in this our time and generation, take it or leave it, u will realize it someday

After money, it is sex or inability to conceive!

So guys, in as much as they advice you to marry early, remember, time have changed, we are not in the 1980s nor 90s that you don't need:

- a TV
- a freezer
- an Air conditioner
- a fridge
- a washing machine
- a satellite TV
- a mobile phone
- internet subscription
- generator
- a mini or full flat

Etc to settle down!

Prepare financially before u approach any lady to marry u if not, you will be marrying another man's mistress as wife, its that bad!

Married ladies cheat more than in the past!

Internet and social media have opened the eyes of women!

It is not a crime to die a single man if you cannot afford marriage and run a happy home!

If you die, you won't know what's happening in the world again, so don't be fooled that if you die single your name will die, and so

It is better to be financially prepared and marry at 40yrs as a guy than to be financially broke and marry early and end up not being able to cater for your family!

It is no crime not to marry as a guy, marry when you are financially ready, don't marry to please anybody and don't beg any lady to marry you unless she is very rich and generous enough to enrich you and end your financial poverty, if not, don't beg any girl to marry just because she is a fine girl, if u do that, u are an slowpoke

ur view is skewed and bent as regards having all dis gadgets u listed bfor you marry.

Of a truth,money is very important to Kip the marriage going .we all know dat money is like a visitor. It comes and it goes.

Wat if you loose ur source of income after som yrs into the marriage,dat means it is justifiable for the woman to divorce you since ur hinging d longetivity of marriage on dis ur long list of gadgets a man shud have bfor marriage.

u DNT nid to have all dis bfor u Tek dat bold step to ask a lady to marry you.

funny enough some very biutiful ladies marry an average guy dt dey like.

Grupo:
Don't use your own reality to determine how others would live their life.

Some people are not afraid of being alone.

Grupo:
Don't use your own reality to determine how others would live their life.

Some people are not afraid of being alone.

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Dem say na una get the most Lomantic Governor!

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Olho:
Is there hope of getting a good job @ 40 with an MBA in Nigeria?

why not. Even at 45, you are still employable.

Titugirl:
i'm a law student but i'm always shy when i have to speak in public, please i want suggestions and ideas on how one can build up a good advocacy and public speaking skill?

d hidden truth of bin a good public speaker is not rilly attending a tutorial session or master class or wateva sematic it is called.

Dos master class most tyms gives you a temporary therapy to your hunger to be a good public speaker.

A lasting solution comes from inside outside. If you want to be a very good public speaker,be a lover of books. Be a very good reader of any ND everything you can lay ur hands on.

Watching professional tv presentation too will help.in here, I will say watch more of news,talk shows and mature on-air debate ND less of Nollywood crap

Be observant too how presentation is done in seminars ,churches and events.

This will surely help you dou not making you an overnight guru in pub speaking but it's a sure ND gradual way . watsapp mi a PR officer08094943690

alphabbey1:
Good day ladies and gentlemen.
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Am currently an Industrial Chemistry undergraduate in The Prestigous University Of Ibadan and think we chemist need to advice each other and talk about the Job prospect. Especially the graduate, how is The Job sector? Is it promising for the upcoming ones?
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Lets drop our opinions or inquiries

fear not young man. I wanted chemical engineering but found myself doing chemistry. I never knew were a chemist wud fit in as regards career til in my final year. TnkGod ryt nw am in d manufacturing sector representing my field. Chemistry all da way!

Jeboy:
Having gone through these thread, I can see that moral decadence is at its peak. And it is also a reflection of how the society sees a guy and a woman who has had multiple body counts in the past. While one is demonised, d other is seem like a conqueror too bad.

Finally some of these guys complaining about ladies above 30 practising no sex before marriage will gladly preach same to their sisters, daughters and even nieces. This is to show that its about self satisfaction entrenshed in selfishness.

Some complaining now will sleep will d lady and not just dump her but:

1)kiss and tell
2) impregnate her and not take responsibility
3) infect her with STDs and others

And still you feel having restraints is abnormal.

If you re lady here, the right to having sex is your choice, don't let any man manipulate or coerse you into doing it in the name of marriage promise. For me, d more I have access to your body, d less I become interested because I naturally see you as being cheap (sorry if this surprise you as my orientation of sex is very revered and should only come in during real commitment such as marriage).

Odi egwu!

Funny

Originalsly:
I guess because those women been giving it up after promises of marriage which never happened. Now by 30... they need to reset their profile.... in a way... ehmmm.... regain their virgin status.
As a guy... the problem is finding out if the babe is truthful..... and if you are able to say have a healthy no sex until death marriage relationship. The babe knows what she wants.... can't be mad with her.