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Barbados20:
Goodmorning house. Family and friends are pressuring me to marry but this is the dilemma am going through.

Genotype has become a major barrier for me to get married to lady whom I love. We are tested both AS. My fiancee is from the same ethnic and christian background like me.

On the other hand, I have this female friend whom i recently ask to know about her gnotype. She told me she is AA. Like joke, i ask for confirmation and she brought all d test results frm different lab. The issue is now this female friend is not from my tribe, she from a muslim background although she does not seriously practice it.

My fiancee from my tribal background, but genotype did not match with me. And the other lady from different background, she is AA and match with me. One girl I dated then was AA but the love was not there between us.

Its really frustrating to be AS if you are a Man that want to settle down I am really confused right now. Am above 30. How do i handle this issue of Genotype, ethinc and religious issues? Pls i need advice.

Temmylee02:
Bag of rice is 41k here in Abuja so I don't knw where you getting these figures from.
Any ways let do your logo design for as low as 2k

DouyeEbi:
Hi Nairalander,
A friend of mine lost his wife about a year ago.... October 2021 to be precise.
He has a son who has been with him since the incident...
His Mon is now telling him to get married again because of his son.
He is now asking me if it too early to start a serious relationship that can lead to marriage.
I say let me bring it here for advice.
Thanks

Mindlog:
For covering up for her son, who is also a minor under her care.

It is an offense to cover up the sexual abuse of a child.

That toddler is scarred for life.

Fountainofyouth:
Pls go to the village and arrest the useless brother and mother, he is the the main culprit in these, and also, do not bail your wife, let her rot there

I hate when evil is permitted and covered because it is a family member, that foolish guy has been doing it to other little girls and if not arrested, he will continue, so many pedophiles on the loose these days.

Hamzashaf99:
This is overkill. Tomato paste in Okro soup, after putting in the Okro, and then you added raw fish?

How?

Dgamezzz:
5 children is the ideal number for me . Money is not a issue for me, I am already taking care of 4 children 3 are not biologically mine , nothing will stop me from taking care of my own children.

Dgamezzz:
We have been dating for 4 years , living together for 2 years we are planning to wed next year .

We been having unprotected sex 2 to 3 times a week but no sign of pregnancy so far. I haven't given her any condition for her to be pregnant before marriage neither we are trying to conceive just being curious if she is fertile or not hence why I am trying to mpregnant her without her consent . If she becomes pregnant during the process it will not be a problem for me.
I am a responsible person the baby will not lack anything.
My baby mama was pregnant 4 months into the relationship my daughter is 7 years . I am worried that she is not fertile because i want to have 3 to 4 more kids . I don't want to marry her to divorce her later because of the inability of her to conecive. I only want to marry once in my life.
I want us to go for fertility test before the marriage but I don't know how to tell her without hurting her feelings.

Please fams help me out I am getting depressed, as I don't know what to do. Please no insult please

blessbunmi:
Yes it is! It is for children who needs to get fat!�

blessbunmi:
Banana and Milk smoothie for the afternoon �so creamy!

Registeredguest:
I'm a lady in my mid- twenties, I got married aged 22, (always wanted to marry early) on the second year of our marriage we were blessed with a baby, parked to our house and things were rosy. I have always been a workaholic due to that I have never lack as a young lady in terms of finance.

No insult please, I have cried enough.

Jovialjune1:
Zonefree is an educated illiterate, he begs for a living.

sisisioge:
All these low intelligent oyinbos should stop disturbing people's peace jare. Even if it is in the guy's culture to batter his wife, is it now in the wife's culture to accept it? Abeg! She should swerve! Some women are just destined to die in the hands of men. Whew!

Romanoff:
She is not toxic. Her concerns are valid and no two human is the same.

Just cause it will be easy for you to forgive such dishonesty doesn't mean it will be easy for her.
With a husband that can scam you like that, who needs an enemy? A wife that has always supported you and is equally hardworking. What is in common 200k that he still had to scam her for?

They sha both need counselling to get past this, it won't be easy but it's doable.

That trust has been broken already so after this, going forward, please, have your own savings as you contribute to the home and family projects and keep receipts.

Next land or property you'll buy, inform him about it, carry him along but source for your own agent yourself to avoid situations like this.

The trust can't be the same again sha, but na to dey manage the situation and to avoid such in the future.

Zonefree:
If your SIL is from Imo, that makes your husband from Imo too unless your SIL got married to an Imo man.

Kennydoc:
Someone that cannot read or write CANNOT give me peace of mind. How can we even have any meaningful conversation is she is a stark illiterate? Where will the chemistry come from?