₦airaland Forum

TimmyTen:
Igbo man wanted a male child so he choose to marry another woman!! Moreover its part of our culture to marry as many as we can take care of.. Happiness should be Paramount in life not what people think or expect from you.. Nobody holy pass!!

Congrats Mr. Yul

God1000:
Our intelligence agencies should do more abeg, I don't understand why a group like Muric will be the one advising Nigerians on potential danger.

We have

1. State Security Service (SSS) – Responsible for domestic intelligence.

2. National Intelligence Agency (NIA) – Responsible for foreign intelligence and counterintelligence operations.

3. Defence Intelligence Agency (DIA) – Responsible for military intelligence.

What exactly are they doing?

Boliboli760:
Yes, it is back and regular too. That will be nice. Thank you.

obi4eze:


The onslaught of the enemy on godly marriage is so strong these last days. One marital mistake a person can make is to marry a divorcee.

nokspos:
lol you should try polyandry then

nokspos:
Polygamy would have been fine if christianity didnt preach one man one wife in the first place. Yet many prophets married more than one wife in the bible and God never condemned them, something tells me it's one woman that wrote that part of the bible that says one man one woman, it doesn't look like what God wrote. Only the quran got that marriage thing right. Now women are beginning to accept that their husband could have side a chick but why not wife her and personalize this side chick to avoid the risk of STDs.

The only reason any man including me , wont want to be polygamous is because women dont want it , and the only reason women don't want it is because the bible preached against it and taking a second wife forcefully will most likely lead to early grave for the man because the first wife is against it. But in the real sense every man wants a second wife or more wives because biologically we are wired differently from a woman, God didnt create a man and woman the same way biologically. We may have similar brain and other future but our sex organ is different, a man produces millions of spam every seconds... to use it with one woman ? I dont think so. A woman was born with a hymen covering their virginal indicating only one man owns her while a man comes with nothing of such meaning more women owns him.

Woman are not seeing the advantage of polygamy because if you take the envy out of it, you can borrow money from your other wives , they can take care of your children while you went for a weekend party , you can do a family business , a man can have sex everyday or twice a day , but most women are not designed to do this expecially after they've given birth to a child, so your other wives can help you out on bed when you focus on other things, when you give birth to a new child , while you cant have sex immediately, your husband can have sex with the other wives. More women will be off the street and have a home too if polygamy becomes a norm in our society, your wives and your husband can save up money faster to buy properties and do bigger things, the advantage to polygamy is endless , but christianity messed up everything for us. I'm a christian and christian is a good religion but I doubt that marriage part is right

cococandy:
thankful for the ones like you who get it!

emmanuelbrown26:
Well, as an elder i hv to come in.
First and foremost, d problem started from d garden of eden. Adam was in good terms with d whole animals, trees, water and sea, including d things beneath water.
Jah brought in Eve, problems started, enmity came, nagging started, backbiting started, manipulation started.
A situation whereby 10 men stays in a room for years without any issues, but put 2 ladies in a room and watch as they would turn d room into wwe.
D gods are wise

Belafonte:
But each woman has the choice of not dealing with man who wats more than one woman. I mean men divorce cheating women everyday, no?

pocohantas:
What exactly are you talking about? Is Pete Edochie rich?? No be yesterday Kanayo build house? Tony Umez is still living in a rented property till date. Didn’t some other old actors die of sicknesses?

There was no money in acting (and entertainment) of the old! They were at best comfortable like an average family.

Fame isn’t equal to wealth!

Now you guys are twisting in all angles to refute the grass to grace story. Do you know his father more than him? Same Yul that celebrated Pete on father’s day saying he didn’t have more than 5 pair of trousers while they were growing up. Abeg rest!!

JONNYSPUTE:
...... Hehehehe.

JONNYSPUTE:
.... You don't know what you are saying bro.
Yul's father Pete was a civil servant and a presenter in radio Nigeria.

When he featured in things fall apart then,he acted so well that when he retired he joined nollywood so he wasn't rich.

It took him,Pete more than 10 yrs to complete his personal house in Enugu so tell me how such a person will be tagged rich then?

Yul him self after writing his waec then in 1998 from New heaven boys secondary school got admission,graduated and while waiting to serve got his girlfriend pregnant.

It was the dad that stood for him and was taking care of him and the wife .

And it was at that time that Pete introduced him and the other of his son into acting and luck smiled on Yul.

Believe him when he says he had nothing.
This na guy weh I know too well. Grew up together in the same vicinity,move around and belong to the same group chat of our old boys though he left the forum now.
So you won't tell me about the family.

Emarvel:
I will skip your rhetorical questions and respond to the bolded, when you say or write that a woman suffered with a man, is it that the woman was far better than the man but she chose to marry the man or both of them were just managing? If both of them were managing, then stop using the term stick by or suffer with because its not applicable, life is just a race and we all came to be part of it, nobody invested his/her life into another, let's stop playing the blame game.
If he was maltreating her or she cried out because of domestic violence, then i will be a critic of Yul, but right now he has done nothing wrong by marrying a 2nd wife, unless he stop caring for the first wife.

Emarvel:
He has repeatedly praise her till date, but there's no where he promised her monogamy.
He married a 2nd wife doesn't mean he now detest her, he just want to continue to live peacefully.

Acidosis:
Is this message for me or the OP?

Acidosis:
Good. We can condemn Yul's actions without trying to make ladies who are "really suffering" with their decent husbands look like f00ls for upholding their vows. Odabo.

Acidosis:
I'll really like you to bookmark this thread 'cos the same Yul will come back again in two decades to hype the second wife about how she stuck with him in 2022 when he had "nothing".

I hope my aim is clear now? Please bookmark the page and save us the stress of having to type the same thing repeatedly.