₦airaland Forum

sisisioge:
All these low intelligent oyinbos should stop disturbing people's peace jare. Even if it is in the guy's culture to batter his wife, is it now in the wife's culture to accept it? Abeg! She should swerve! Some women are just destined to die in the hands of men. Whew!

Romanoff:
She is not toxic. Her concerns are valid and no two human is the same.

Just cause it will be easy for you to forgive such dishonesty doesn't mean it will be easy for her.
With a husband that can scam you like that, who needs an enemy? A wife that has always supported you and is equally hardworking. What is in common 200k that he still had to scam her for?

They sha both need counselling to get past this, it won't be easy but it's doable.

That trust has been broken already so after this, going forward, please, have your own savings as you contribute to the home and family projects and keep receipts.

Next land or property you'll buy, inform him about it, carry him along but source for your own agent yourself to avoid situations like this.

The trust can't be the same again sha, but na to dey manage the situation and to avoid such in the future.

Zonefree:
If your SIL is from Imo, that makes your husband from Imo too unless your SIL got married to an Imo man.

Kennydoc:
Someone that cannot read or write CANNOT give me peace of mind. How can we even have any meaningful conversation is she is a stark illiterate? Where will the chemistry come from?

edoman2016:
She may be dead. Its a possibility. From dust we come from and to dust we all shall return.

Exquisitely:
Learnt something new today, this is true

Ishilove:
O ga o. Your in-laws are very tolerant. Someone like my mum would have canceled you immediately

Chisomann:
My mum is late i am the only girl among 3 boys we have differents dads . How do I tell my brothers that I don't want to help them they should go and hustle I am tired of them begging me for everything. I don't want to carry their burdens cos I have my own life to leave I want to focus on my life first and they should also focus on theirs. I am sick and tired of them

ahnie:
Kids they say can be naughty at times,but in this case,I refused to CAP.

This morning my kids(daughter) really got on my last remaining isoko nerves,and I was furious spitting missiles and RPG.

Out of anger,I had to get them food each in their coolers and I sent my son who spent time there playing, forgetting he has to go to school.I deliberately refused getting them snacks just to punish them.

They returned back from school,my son,my son requested for roasted plantain,and beans and Ugba as lunch.

Whilst my daughter requested for noodles and fried egg.i even went extra miles of adding 3 meats to my boys order and completely forgot to include *Ugba**

Like play,like play my boy refused to eat the food because I forgot to add *ugba*
Just to appease him I even added fanta cola to bribe him,he still insisted**Mummy m not going to eat.

Omo,no time,I gave my daughter her own and devour his meal....make he go sip garri flakes I don't have time for rubbish.

He said...m not a good mother


I want to know if m a bad mother,by helping him to eat his food?


First pics....the food that caused the lacuna.
2nd pic....The bribe fanta cola
3rd pics...me helping him to chow the cornerstone meal he aptly rejected

Channah1
Sageb

Romanoff:
Na why many of them dey find women wey dey ten years younger than them so them fit turn her to house geh.

Romanoff:
I even added that as long as she's not disrespectful to the husband but to these men, it's an abomination for a woman to send her husband on her errand.

The Umunna must hear it.

Ikpongiton:
you and Romanoff are the same.you are only living with wives and not husband.

NemoDatQuod:
I wish I were female in this instance and your sister in-law. You will talk?
I will put strong pepper in your mouth and you will explain to me what you are doing in my house, let alone asking me to explain myself to you. I am not married to you. I am married to your brother. Because I tolerated your presence in my house, you then have the audacity to ask me questions about my family affair.

Most of you need to have your heads examined. Really!

You don't understand the concept of boundaries and privacy. She owes you nada! and your own brother also owes you no explanation with regards to his relationship with his wife.

It seems most people in that Nigeria are mad in one form or the other. You wake up, dust your seat pants, go to someone else's home and start questioning her on how she relates with her husband. Come and try it here and see where you will spend the night.

It is men like you who will subject a widow to all sorts of indignities on the death of her husband, instead of having fellow feeling for her and comforting her on the loss of her closest companion. Mtchew!

Nigeria is backward, but it shouldn't be this backward.

StilmaVsBorn2w:
This is so embarrassing to say, I would never advise a man to be so sluggish in life. It pains my heart having to experience this several times but since he is an elderly bro that senior me very far I can't put my mouth in his family affair because of this.
I went to visit my brother yesterday was surprised while we were sitted in the parlour... the wife told his husband to go check if the woman selling provision is back. This wasn't the first time, my brother stood up and went..I was looking at her the whole time, she was looking at me.the anger was so deep but theys nothing I can do.
They are different instances I can give but no need for that...All I just want to say it's not good to be that calm type of guy.
This is not about being the bread winner of the house, my elder brother is doing very well for himself so his is wife.
As a man it's just not good to be quite always or be quiet all the time.. gentlemanly.I just don't know how to say it.
Guys what do you think?

Nlfpmod
Mynd44

Stillwhites:
Is a woman supposed to leave her husband just because of allegation?

naijamanyoutube:
We don't have swallow here, but I wanted to be connected to Mama Africa, and Nigeria, so I got this corn flour thing called Polenta.

Messi1:
Two ladies rejected me in different occasions simply because I'm naturally dreaded.


I wanted to cut it but people say if I cut it I will die.