₦airaland Forum

paschal47:
This is hilarious
What would you say about my "Oga's" like Gboyega.D, Preston.n, Akposk.y and they nice men keeping this thread alive.


Thank you ma

paschal47:
Made 2 soups for the week

Nsala

Egusi



CC; gloryhomemaker

dacblogger:
We the people of anambra DNT add uziza to our bitter leaf soup at least my own side of anambra. looks yummy tho.

Pinkie2018:
I understand that he hate that I threw the money but I think where there is love, he wasn't supposed to react in that manner. I tried to explain but he wasn't having it. Heaven knows I didn't intend to insult him but for the effect of the concoction I drank

jify:
I think you should help yourself and leave. Same thing happened with me, each time we have issues, my husband asks me to leave his house, before I come back from work, he would change the door locks and I would be outside with my kids and sometimes running to my sister's place to sleep.
The last time he tried it again, I simply left and went to rent a house. 6 months later he's begging me to come back.

For those saying she is troublesome, you have not met a troublesome man. My husband whenever we have issues and I refuse to fuel the conversation, would keep insisting that I must talk and when I refuse to reply in order not to provoke him, even telling him that if I open my mouth to comment he would not like what will come out, will still throw me out for refusing to join in the quarrel.

Please leave, when he throws you out just leave and not come back. I left without a single thing, even with 2 kids and today he's the one bringing our clothes in batches, it would help to restore his brain to factory settings.

Filly3:
Yeah no kids yet still hoping on God.

I do home lesson. You know the pay is not reliable due to the fact that most of the parents are lecturers.
When there's a delay in their salary payment someone will tell me to stop while some will owe till I see it.
Thanks dear.

RightToReject:
Everything you have tabled here revolved around thoughtlessness (insensitivity) on his part and your expectation of thoughtfulness from him instead. The truth is that only you here know whether he is truly dispositionally thoughtless or your bad attitude all this while has made him so towards you. For instance, at that point where he was giving you money that you claimed to have thrown on the ground; under normal circumstances, a thoughtful close person in his stead would have detected the slight changes in your demeanor even before giving you the money and would have accorded you both the emotional care and physical support you needed.

Well, if your attitude all this while has made him become thoughtless towards you, the onus lies on you to retrace your steps and work and walk yourself back to his mental nervous chamber so that you can start commanding his emotional care, this will take time to materialize but the end will be worth it.

If he is, however, dispositionally thoughtless, there is nothing much you can do to change him, especially since it is obvious that his "mumu button" is not under your command. The best you can do is accept the hard truth that he is a thoughtless person (which doesn't automatically make him an evil person) and stop expecting emotional care from him. To make him sit up a bit and for your mental health balance, deliberately stop taking him seriously even without treating him like an enemy and watch him adjust gradually.

Filly3:
My husband earns #19750 monthly myself I earn #35k.
This is the breakdown of how we survive:
#200 transport for me (for 5working days)
#50transport for him only to cos he do follow a colleague after work, the colleague owns a bike.
Feeding
Sunday stew: 2k
Rice: #1800
This will last us till Tuesday morning.
Tuesday afternoon we will cook beans 5cups (#375) potatoes #200. I'll put 2pcs of Maggi seasoning (#30) salt #20 though I'll not finish it.
This will last till Wednesday morning.
Wednesday afternoon I'll cook soup depending on the soup sha but it doesn't exceed 2k.
Corn food I usually grind the one that will last us for two weeks (#1500).
This will last us till Saturday morning.
Saturday afternoon I'll cook beans and potatoes same way of Wednesday.
Miscellaneous:
House rent ( 100k) yearly.
Toothpaste: # 400 once in 2 months.
bathing soap: #400 twice a month.
Laundry soap: #350 this one I never notice when it usually finish.
Pad: #500 monthly.
Shaving blades: #100 monthly.
Gas: 3kg monthly.
Dstv sub: yanga # 3000.
Card: #500 for myself monthly my husband make sure of that. As for him he can use #200 once in a blue moon.
Barbing: #150 twice a month.
Plaiting : #100 weekly
Nah how we dey push am be that o.

UEDIBO:
It's happening. I'm a Masters degree holder with many other qualification.
I have never received salary more than #20,000 in my life before. I'm 38 years with 4 children. Things are happening.

iykbethany:
With this high cost of living, how do people survive on 30k per month salary in Nigeria �?

I mean from this meagre salary, you pay for your transportation to and from work, rent, utilities, medicals, food etc

1Sharon:
If the IVF wasn't successful, should they curse God instead?

Like the people that clap when a plane lands.

What will they do if it crashes?

Gistlobby:
Dressing decently for occasions should be one of the priorities of all ladies. However, some ladies seem to dress anyhow for occasions these days.

The woman in your picture has been captured on camera wearing a seductive dress to church. One cannot tell whether she is a singer at the church or she was invited to sing at the church.

However, most social media users after coming across her picture said that her dress doesn’t suit the occasion.

ransomed:
You want your own son to survive but endangering the son of another?
You used money to entice and lure him abroad without the consent of his family. UK should give Ike and wife full wrath of the law as laid down without mercy.
He is a medical "kidnapper"

Hoelujohn:
Na street things Dem run Ekwremadu. The boy intentionally said he was 15 years old . He must have learnt or told that once you are below 16 years in UK, you are regarded as minor and you will be protected. They can't even deport you if you enter illegally.
I am sure the boy has watched UK border force agency programme where he learnt about the loophole in the UK immigration system.

backtalkG:
What's wrong with taking a second wife if he is capable of taking care of them
African values has been deeply eroded

TimmyTen:
Igbo man wanted a male child so he choose to marry another woman!! Moreover its part of our culture to marry as many as we can take care of.. Happiness should be Paramount in life not what people think or expect from you.. Nobody holy pass!!

Congrats Mr. Yul

God1000:
Our intelligence agencies should do more abeg, I don't understand why a group like Muric will be the one advising Nigerians on potential danger.

We have

1. State Security Service (SSS) – Responsible for domestic intelligence.

2. National Intelligence Agency (NIA) – Responsible for foreign intelligence and counterintelligence operations.

3. Defence Intelligence Agency (DIA) – Responsible for military intelligence.

What exactly are they doing?