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1StopRudeness:
So all she wants is to tell a story to ruin The guy more like a vindictive move.....gaining sympathy as a victim but she doesn’t want to go legal about it..but if the guy were a road side mechanic she wouldn’t have bothered

doesn’t that sound really wrong?
This isn’t just telling ur friends and colleagues at work...the is like a press conference

Nigerians are just very annoying??

Are you kidding me, do you expect her to win in court without proof? He's a powerful person and a supposed man of God too.

NextBuhari:
Fine, but can she and her husband survive the legal onslought should Fatoyinbo decides to sue them for defamation. The media is not a police station nor a law court. I think that's the crux of the message the OP is trying to pass across.

That's the only thing she thinks she can do, both to heal and to get back at him. She probably has the gut feeling that her former pastor can't go to court because he knows what transpired and can't do more harm. Hearing her, you'll notice she still has some regard and respect for him.

dyydxx:
so his image is forever tarnished. Mission accomplished. Biodun Serial sexual manipulator. The slayer of coza girls...what a title

He doesn't have any image of righteousness. People don't attend his church to be righteous, so his image is not tarnished. Instead, unfortunately, he just got more popular. I first heard about COZA well during the Ese Walters case. Do you know how many new comers were in his church today? Very many.

TonyeBarcanista:
The accuser should file report at the nearest police station

She can't sue because she doesn't have evidence or a strong case. It doesn't mean it didn't happen though. The highest she can do is what she has done which is to broadcast it. Her pastor too cannot sue because he is probably guilty and afraid. Though he can get some people to convince him to sue since the accuser doesn't have a strong case in court.

dyydxx:
Then let him sue...what the fucking hell is he waiting for? ... His reputation is already tarnished forever as a serial sexual predator of young, married, unmarried COZA church girls. We are still waiting for his robust response since 2013 more will still probably come out. Anything less than suing to make Busola an example if he is truly innocent is just a sham. He's as guilty as hell and those who know him well know it.

He's not going to sue and she's not going to sue. Others may sue on the lady's behalf though.

dairykidd:
Not with other people (her sisters around) Even the most timid person would scream or run or struggle that would attract other who are close enough to hear

In this she's complicit even biblical. But not totally impossible because of shock.

NextBuhari:
Her inability to produce any substantial evidence after 17 years (if any) perhaps will make her case more precarious and equally easier for Fatoyinbo to nail them for defamation.

That's why she's not going to court but to the media.

dairykidd:
You finish work here. No mind people when go see truth dey call am lie because a pastor is involved.. The whole world loves fascinating stories like these on the news so that they can always have a bad guy to point out and pretend that they are good people.

Of course, there should be a difference because a pastor is involved. Pastors and clerics are placed in high esteem and can be quite manipulative and forceful/persuasive.

Joromi12:
He raped you twice in 1999 but u still attended his church. In 2008 u still followed him to abuja as chior mistress. The story no dey add up

Either she was raped or she feels raped. There's that after feeling when you see you have been cheated, even though initially, you may not have felt that way. But the fact is that a pastor should not be sleeping around, consent or no consent. A sweet mouth pastor manipulated a secondary school girl and your arguing consent?

It doesn't seem that the Bisola wants to sue her former pastor, she just wants to let it out. Watching the interview, she still has a lot of respect/fear for "pastor" Biodun.

Egwuleke:
pls house how much is 3months visa now and what can someone budget for relocation purpose?

Relocation for what purpose? It's a broad question. Some people want to relocate to find work, some to school, some to do business, some with family.

centoqoh:
Well, what it means is that one still needs an agent las las. But I thought many have said it's possible to DO IT YOURSELF? (DIY)

Also, is police character certificate still needed? What's d cost pls.

PCC not needed for now.

landmark86:
What if the lady is being use by the devil
Have we not seen cases like this in the past?
Satan has power but not salvation.
Mind Satan is not working against Fatoyibo but the church of God.

Did you read yourself? WHAT IF. What if the lady is saying the truth? What IF satan is using the said pastor? Have you proved all things like the bible says?

landmark86:
I felt bad as a Christian with some bad comments from the so called Christians/believers.
Are you people now telling me that there are no real men of God in Nigeria anymore? Nigeria has no turn to a place now where anyone can just wakeup a night and condemn anointed men of God, so bad. And we keep Christians keep encouraging rubbish. Even TB Joshua, Bishop Oyedepo have been condemned too in the past but what was the outcome, progress & success in their ministries.

Am not a COZA member but I know Pastor Fatoyibo way backs in Ilorin, is a true man of God, but i'll never be surprise with allegation like this because that's the only thing any woman can use against him being a very handsome, good looking man. Even our Lord Jesus was also condemn during his own time.

For Timi Dakolo & his wife, I never know what they intended to gain in this, but I pray the repercussion of this doesn't affect you and your children children in future. Because the words of God said" touch not my anointed one and do my prophet no harm".

For me, I stand out as a Christian to condemn this acts, Fatoyibo is innocent.

You don't even know yourself so don't even start. How well do you know him? What made you conclude that one is a true man of God or not? Can true man of God ever do wrong?

Iceking1:
The last time she menstruation i refused to have sex with her on the first day of her menstruation, that same-day her ex had sex with her, she went to meet him i caught her because i had sex with her the next day and i felt the difference then she opened up to me what really pained me most that day was instead of her to apologize she started saying if it was me i would ve done same, that she couldn't control herself because it was her ex because they still have something holding them together, b
*she has a son for me, 6years old now, that was the fifth time i called off the relationship where by she kneeled down begging me for close to two hours, the blood i saw on my dick the second day of her menstruation wasn't much but there was blood all over my dick

She needs marriage and a manageable job, that's all to this. You didn't consider marriage, only free sex. Now, it's too much for you.

And why am I not sick? We wey don use pit latrine, nothing do us. Flush with bucket and visible splash, nothing do us. Na invisible germ for toothbrush wan make mouth?Yah tah tahhhhhhh

He condemned a failed coup brethren. A coup should be successful. Lol

adoyi8:
One of the weirdest thing in this world is that about 4 billion people believe that humans were created by an egomaniac being to test their ability to praise and worship him. And that he will reward those that worship him well with an eternal life of praising and worshiping him.

Ignorance.

seunlaww:
I remembered reading this thread from beginning to the end asking questions up and down, searching Google for info and uae job website before I embarked on my journey. The truth is I had a job in Nigeria, it wasn't big but at least it was paying the bills. The risk of traveling , losing the job and not able to get a job before the expiry of the 3 months visa gave me a lot of headache and reason to dig deep before taking the step.

So after gathering enough info, I draw up my plan, I have a professional job and that's the job I'm going to hunt for.

I entered Dubai on Monday, got a bedspace for 50k , different kind of people in that 6 bonk room but I was surprised cos I've read about that before. I'm not a big talker so I was just on my own pressing phone and checking job site and applying. I was observing the other guys and listening to different stories and experiences. I wasn't surprised still cos most of the issues people had has been discussed, advised for or against on this thread.
I noticed
1. People do like 5 different type of CV ranging from general helper, cleaner, security,Watchman househelp etc. People don't really have plans or know what they're going to do or how to go about it. So when they enter they just follow them do whatever they're doing.

2. People move in pack/group to search for jobs together.
3.people share links and email address of employers and bombard them with CV. Like who does that? You don't know who their village people follow enter Dubai that will kobalize your own destiny, go in group and they'll tell them to drop CV but go alone and you might get an instant interview.

4.people rely on their Nigerian agent/landlords/friends to get them jobs. 97% of those guys are fraudstars with their WhatsApp job message. Some will even say come with your bag and start immediately

5. People cook,eat flex and take pictures like they're really having the best time of their lives. One thing is sure in my bedspace and that's food. The gas don't rest. Contributed 7aed for gas and within a week the gas has finished meanwhile I didn't boil ordinary water o. They asked me for another money and I change it for them like e ti ya were, ounje yen Loma pa yin.

6. Lot of scam and scam stories. People get job only to be paid and released after a month or two months when visa is about to kalas.

I had two options, go out and get the job or use a real agent (yes they exist )
I printed my CV, lectrical technician.I went out for 2 days, spent 107aed on transport, one interview (900 aed salary with over time, I walked away)

I Submitted enough CV online. I have account on all the job site I know and keep sending mail. I got just two response online , the second one called me and once he knew I was Nigerian, he said no no no and dropped the call.
Then it downed on me that Naija ti cast. Only few want to hire us.

I was getting low on cash cos of feeding too. So I decided if I see a legit agent im ready to deal. One guy I met at the restaurant took me to one agent office, a registered company and a very big office setup.i said to myself that Even if I'm getting scammed at least it will be professionally as jejely paid 100 aed registration fee.

Few days later I was called for interview, I passed, the second day the agent took me to another agent that has the link,collected agent money ,that one took me to the company, the HR said they've stopped employing Nigerians that too much trouble but the man pleaded on my behalf.so I did another interview, passed and was offered a job.free food, laundry, transportation, accommodation and WiFi.

Atimes The stress of the job, insult, living in free zone area and coping with the Indians and Pakistani still makes me think if this country is really worth it but I managed to forget it when I remember I'll collect salary on 26.

The truth is You can enter uae with 500k BTA and blow everything and still not get a job, your greatest enemy are your fellow black guys, everyone now is an agent who wants your money.

The truth is Nigeria has been blacklisted by most of the employers except you have a skill they need and God's grace. If you're coming to search for cleaning jobs, househelp,helper and co, I urge you to rethink what you can actually do with that money in Nigeria cos even if you get the job and you go home in 2 years, people won't believe you went to Dubai cos the hardwork will tell on your body..

I don't know about working with certificate cos I didn't meet anyone who does, I had mine on the CV but noone gave a Bleep. Na giant electrical drawing they gave me to explain.

But what I know is If you're a professional and e sure for you, you will find a job and if you get the body for security or bouncer you will also get a job or continental chef
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WORD OF ADVICE

I won't say come or no come to UAE but Please before you enter this country, don't rush, make your findings and have a solid plan A and B. Don't pay for visa until you're sure of what you're coming to do. It's not about lemme get there and find job, know what you're coming to do. That's the best thing you can do for yourself

Lemme stop here it's too long already [left][/left]
Please no one should ask me for the agent as I have flashed my phone so I lost the number and the address. Thank you

Words on tiles, lol.

The thread has literally gone to the dogs.

Lol, 2.1billion beds and stretchers.

Christian state with unchristian behaviour. That statement alone can give him a third term. God have mercy on my people.

Emmite:
Good day my Ogas
Please can someone tell me the amount and requirements to register and get the SIRA Certificate. Those that have done it before. Thanks

This has been answered several times. 170,000naira, your international passport and being physically fit, plus not too short.

If the goal keeper cannot take goal kicks, someone else should help him. His goal kicks are very poor.

iffydave:
Lol....

You can't confirm visa but you can assist someone on visa application

Weydon saa

I fear oh

What have Kola Abiola and Bode George done for the so called June 12? Who has their existence helped?

Of what benefits have the past chairmen being to their state and to the nation?

emmymdk:
I want to relocate to Dubai, i have a friend who promised to assist me get a company that will help me obtain an employment Visa at the rate of 800k. She further explained that the company is into Security. She said i will send me details (including scanned Nigerian passport to her), deposite half of the money and complete the payment when the print out of my visa is ready. Upon arrival, the company will further process for my emirate ID and stamp in the 2 years employment visa into my passport when its ready. She said all medical will be done when i arrived Dubai and not in Nigeria

A cousin of mine who just traveled to Dubai for like 2months now got in touch with me and Requested i use the link he used.. According to him, he said it will cost me 500k to process the employment visa of 2 years, he equally said its a company that runs car services (driving). Some of the process he said i will go through is to go the embassy with my entry print out, authenticate it and go to hospital for check up.. Return to the embassy to submit it and gets a 3months entry permit. Upon arrival in Dubai, the company provides accommodation for 3 months during which they will continue to process my employment visa after i do another medicals there before i can get Emirate ID.

Sorry for the long story, but my question is this? From your experience, what can you advice me?
I know both are not of same price, so it makes me wonder if the cheap one is actually real or the expensive one just wants to gain more?

And does the company that helped you acquire an employment provide a job at least for a short time...

Format. This is 3months visa for 500k or 800k depending on who you choose.

He did it in 2010. Is there no Nigerian to tell them that?

I'd have hoped that the older women gathered to correct her, not admire her. Check them well now, you'll see they all go to church. Stains.

kannyt01:
Hi professionals and experienced UAE expatriates.

My story I just got an offer of employment to an oil n gas firm in Abu Dhabi but with a condition of using a designated travel agency MENA tourism agency LLC UAE, are they real? plus my employment letter covers for me n family, benefits stated on my offer letter too. But I am a bit skeptical on the condition of paying for the travel package but surely the organisation will reimburse me total expenses for the migration.

Please advise are they real?

This is not an oil and gas firm.