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RomanceRe: What Will Your Ex Remember You For? by gonkin(m): 5:25pm On Aug 26, 2018
My ability to satisfy her sexually
RomanceRe: 6 Ways To Identify Girls You Should Never Get Married To by gonkin(m): 11:19am On Aug 26, 2018
Uncontrollable temper can be awful
RomanceRe: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by gonkin(m):
gonkin:
I just turned 30 on the 20th December
I am average cute.
Genotype & blood group AA & A+
6ft 1in, 71kg
Not too light in complexion
Delta state origin
Urhobo tribe
2 brothers and a sister


Hyper talented cuz i can work and fix anything
I studied elect/elect in petroleum training institute and graduated with 3.08 (lucky me)
I am really good in computers, i can fix any Japanese car both via diagnostics and via spanner. I used to be a lines man and power station operator as intern.
I speak good, cool tempered all the time and love the spund of a revving engine.

Ok time for the real deal. I have been unlucky with relationships. My 1st serious relationship was with someone older than me with almost 6 yrs. It was one of my best we dated for almost 2 yrs but alone the line she backed off cuz i was a lil premature at 23. Felt bad but i understood.
My 2nd was with a nice dark perfect girl. We dated for 4yrs she tried alot was so responsible till her 2nd year in the university. She became a high class public toilet. Was trying to cope but she's tasted wealth and even denied me in the presence of another guy. Had to call it a quit. At 27

The 3rd was an orphan. Practically sponsored her to school but she wanted more and i was still yet to get a job. So along the line she got discouraged and told me i wasn't moving as she expected and left. Dated for a year plus.
So since then i felt cold that my only flaw was not been financially stable. And I'm sick of breakups.
Currently im in construction under an a power station proton energy limted. Although the salary is shared with my uncle that fetched me the job. Passed an interview with another power company and been expecting to resume since September.
I live in delta but im currently celebrating with my parents in lagos. And im really looking for a serious relationship that would evolve to marriage.
Although my choices are.

She should be educated not necessarily a graduate
English speaking is compulsory
Should be determined to be successful
Not the type to relies on her guy for every financial need *VERY IMPORTANT*
Maximum age 32
Be very responsible with little or no pride.

Check my signature.
This is 2018 so if im OK for u Dial me 07035107426
Update...........
im back in Delta(Sapele). Im now 76kg and i work as O&M in a 26MW power generation station, full time. Met someone from my post at February although i got a few calls later but turned em down cuz i was trying to build something with her but i really dont know her game plan plus distance has become a con factor. And it seems im the only person trying. Dont think she's really interested just wasting my time.

So im still single(so annoying at this age) and searching but now a new RULE. I DONT LIKE A GIRL THAT KEEPS TOO MANY SECRETS OR INSECURE about sharing some tales of herself. So if u are the discreet type dont even bother

ONLY A SERIOUS LADY PLEASE and be sure of yourself NO JOKERS. You can whatsapp me.
RomanceRe: If A Guy Has These 8 Habits, Marry Him Right Now by gonkin(m): 9:23pm On Aug 24, 2018
To some ladies there just 1 quality they need. Money quality.
Do they really care about the qualities you've mentioned? Cuz 5 outta 10 guys show these said qualities and 2 of 10 are valued for these qualities

FamilyRe: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by gonkin(m): 10:43am On Aug 24, 2018
Hanseel1:
Why won't I take it?
Strong men
TravelRe: Third Mainland Bridge Closure; What Is Your Experience So Far? by gonkin(m): 7:39am On Aug 24, 2018
majamajic:
not having it so good

live map from akowonjo to Lagos island this morning,
Thank God im not working in lagos..sometime in June i spent 2 hours driving from palm groove to surulere. Hold up na die for lag oooo.
FamilyRe: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by gonkin(m): 5:56am On Aug 24, 2018
[quote author=Hanseel1 post=70552289][/quote]She doesn't have to give u directly would u even take it if she does?
FamilyRe: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by gonkin(m): 11:58pm On Aug 23, 2018
At least 20% of your pay. If she earns more than you do give her 10%. So if you earn 200k, give her 40k. If its 100k give her at least 20k. Just use your mind
RomanceRe: "Women, Stop Sleeping Around" - American Lady Says by gonkin(m): 1:11pm On Aug 22, 2018
Pataricatering:
mscheew ! Is it your body ? Is it your single ? Did they use your head as mattress ? Silly Woman wrapper - once they hear women issues their ears will stand ! Ode

RomanceRe: Guys, Can You Date A Lady That Smokes Weed. by gonkin(m): 9:14am On Aug 22, 2018
BIG NO. Why should she smoke. Smoking is bad for the health, and smoking weed is worse imagine she has a joint in her bag and police does stop and search on me while we are cruising around. Thats an implication. Besides i still have virgin lungs.
RomanceRe: Ladies What Would U Do If U Find Urself In A Room Like This by gonkin(m): 8:07am On Aug 22, 2018
Some Naija babes would have served so many already if not more
RomanceRe: "Women, Stop Sleeping Around" - American Lady Says by gonkin(m): 8:04am On Aug 22, 2018
If u correct them, they will never listen. But when age has done its part and they are still single, unworthy and expired with several years of experience serving so many d!cks like public lavatories they would attend every church program and start advising the younger generation that's already doing worse cuz now diseases are everywhere.
CrimeRe: Dead Girl Resurrected By A Pastor In Ebonyi State (photos) by gonkin(m): 7:49am On Aug 22, 2018
And someone was present taking pictures. Abeg this one na advertisement abi na nollywood movie?
PoliticsRe: President Buhari Treks 800 Metres From Prayer Ground To Private Residence by gonkin(m): 2:13pm On Aug 21, 2018
800m, well another London medical check up loading....
Car TalkRe: Would You Buy A Modern BMW-type "Front-Opening Door" Bubble Car For N4.9M? by gonkin(m): 2:10pm On Aug 21, 2018
aforosco:
Keke for N800k.How much come be moto
My brother first time i heard the price from a keke rider i was shocked. He was arguing with the owner of a 1998 camry that his keke costs more than the guy's camry.
Car TalkRe: Would You Buy A Modern BMW-type "Front-Opening Door" Bubble Car For N4.9M? by gonkin(m): 2:07pm On Aug 21, 2018
Thats the urkel

AutosRe: Used Tokumbor Tyres, Will Pass For Brand New. by gonkin(m): 4:09pm On Aug 19, 2018
I need 2 tyres
(31x10.50 R15)
CrimeRe: Mark John Osigwe Shot Dead In Owerri By Assassins (Photos) by gonkin(m): 3:47pm On Aug 18, 2018
Sirpaul:
Big boy or cultist..... rubbish
Same thing i have in mind. Who dash am big boy, . All na fraudster. We too dey over hype all these guys sef

PhonesRe: Motorola Unveils The Motorola P30, A Copycat Of The Iphone X (Specs And Photos) by gonkin(m): 7:34am On Aug 17, 2018
Hype phone Motorola should be ready for sue
SportsRe: Meet Oluwatofunmi Fadesire 'Olu Strong': The Secret Of Nigeria’s Strongest Man by gonkin(m): 5:53am On Aug 17, 2018
Strongest indeed he never meet those edo boys wen dey do 1 slap knock out. Muscles dey quiet for where jazz dey
RomanceRe: No Need For Test: See How To Do The Tooth Paste Pregnancy Test.. (must See) by gonkin(m): 6:32pm On Aug 14, 2018
Naija has adulterated tooth paste
Car TalkRe: See How The Toyota Supra Has Evolved Since 1978 (photos) by gonkin(m): 9:15pm On Aug 13, 2018
Love the 1994 model design
Car TalkRe: See The Difference Between Bose Amazing Suspension & A Normal Car Suspension by gonkin(m): 7:32am On Aug 13, 2018
Yeah, i read about this long ago.
RomanceRe: If Wishes Comes True, What Would Be Yours by gonkin(m): 7:30am On Aug 13, 2018
ManBeast:
You won be like Vandal abi, make you bring another katakata come dis world..... the nuclear weapons threats and killings wey dey dis world never do u, u won bring another mayhem come here.


Make thander scatter dat your wish.
Haha, someone gets the memo.
RomanceRe: . by gonkin(m): 11:11am On Aug 12, 2018
BianoJay:
I understand...She surprised me beyond what I could imagine.
Good for you. Hold her close ok
RomanceRe: . by gonkin(m): 11:04am On Aug 12, 2018
BianoJay:
You don't get it, I was playing a game, I never even dreamt of leaving her or pushing her away. Just wanted to know what her reaction would be if something like that happened.
What if she left? Im just saying its too expensive.
RomanceRe: I'm Using A Phone With A 5000mah Battery But I'm Seriously Disappointed by gonkin(m): 10:08am On Aug 12, 2018
I using a 5000mah phone for 3 years and ive been using it since 6am at 93% now 10am at 51%

Just ordered an oukitel k7 with 10000mah cuz the 5000mah aint enough for me

RomanceRe: Why Do Ladies Of Today Lie About Their Genotype? by gonkin(m): 10:01am On Aug 12, 2018
romenna:
Dnt ever marry without going for medical check up.
Test everytin. From fertility to HIV n genotype.
The level of deceit is extremely high today.
Im telling u. I wish a girl could just show me her medical report before we start dating.
Was really impressed with my medical report last year. Haven't done any this year. Wished nigeria had a legit database where we can consult for medical history cuz i really dont want someone to lie to me and bring problems into my life. Not just genotype. I see a girl i have feelings for i do not fear for love, i fear for health flaws. Also Std is the biggest issue of all.
RomanceRe: . by gonkin(m): 9:39am On Aug 12, 2018
BianoJay:
Good morning guys.
I've been in a many relationships before now, and I wouldn't say I have had the best of experiences, but I have come to believe that there isn't anything like unconditional love, well, that changed, yesterday.

I will try to keep this short. I'm a graduate and since over 3years after graduating from one of the best Universities in Nigeria, and with a second class upper (largely overrated), I haven't been able to get a job. Being the kind of person I am, who believes that being in a relationship is all about responsibility, and also with the fact that I'm someone who loves giving a lot, I decided I wouldn't get into any relationship until I get a job and be able to meet some financial obligations as real man.

Well, have been that way until I met this very young girl. We started out as friends. She sings and I play the piano, so, it was a musical thing. One thing led to another and we became closer. She is very young but, emotionally and psychologically mature. Enjoyed talking to her a lot and with time, I forgot all about my vow not to be in a relationship, and I fell for her completely. I later got to know from her that she has always crushed on me for a long time, because she saw a big difference in me, that I was like no guy she has ever known (I took that statement as one of those things, but it really wasn't).

We have been cool, talking about future, marriage and all. I don't have a job, and broke, but this girl believes in me so much that it scares me. She is so proud of me and has never made me feel less a man that I am. Now, this girl isn't just any kind of girl: she is extremely beautiful, tall and exceptionally intelligent, and most times I feel like I don't even deserve her, rather, for reasons best known to her, she believes she isn't even good enough for me.

Two days ago, I decided to do a general lab test and know my health status, she encouraged me to. When I went yesterday to collect the test results, an idea came to my mind. When I came back home, I texted her and told her that the relationship can't work, that the lab results showed I was HIV positive. She called me immediately, was calm and asked me what I wanted to do. I said I wanted her to stay away from me and focus on her life and career, that we don't have a future together. She wouldn't hear that, she kept calming me and asking me not ever say we can't be together, that she could never live without me. I told her I didn't want to tell my parents about it, and wanted leaving town, but she said I should give her just two days to get her stuff and go with me, that she couldn't let me be myself. She was almost crying and I couldn't bear it anymore. Had to open up to her that nothing was wrong with me and that it was just a game.

The relief in her voice was even more touching than the concern she showed. I'm just so happy to have her in my life. I feel blessed every day.

This isn't a fictitious story, it's absolutely true.
Yeah thats the format used to get rid of a girl u dont love but she loves you more than her parents. Its really expensive though. In other words u dont really love her. Well you're lucky better hold her close and grow feelings. These days you only get oloshos and public toilet girl. They love u same way they love the other guy and the next guy. Thus 1 girl with 5 boyfriends.
FamilyRe: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by gonkin(m): 10:50pm On Aug 11, 2018
I really hate secrets. Really uncomfortable with a girl that holds back some things especially the important ones

ProgrammingRe: Meet Tanmay Bakshi, Boy Who Works For Google And Earns Over N450m Annually by gonkin(m): 1:48pm On Aug 11, 2018
Here In nigeria our teenagers are plotting to become yahoo boys.
CelebritiesRe: Weflo: "As An Upcoming Artiste, You Either Have A Sponsor Or You Are A Yahoo" by gonkin(m): 11:15am On Aug 11, 2018
Dacronym:
All my life I have never my Father me or my late Parents
We never at any point had up to 20-30M I can say that and here you would see ppl buying brand new cars
Spending Millions weekend week out
Did you notice since this buhari administration yahoo yahoo has gone up but plus and ordinary hence this SARS nonsense
Its simple. The dollar went up. To N500 at a time

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