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RomanceRe: If You Leave Nigeria Today, What Will You Miss? by Hamachi(op): 8:21am On Dec 10, 2019
onwuakpachris:
my man I js tire o....but I still dey afford am o...na only t.m dey give me joy 4 ds life I swear...I don use cus of t.m break up wit so many girls o...t.m dey sweet me pass girl o...t.m na my life in short
what's that
FamilyRe: Single Mother Challenge. (SMC) by Hamachi(f): 8:17am On Dec 10, 2019
Purpletee:
hmmmm,most reasons wasn't because the single mums out there are promiscuous but because they trusted too much,loved too much and got disappointed at the end.

So mine was that, i met this guy while in school,we started dating,dated for a year and five months,he was a cheat and I was always forgiving, eventually broke up with him only to find out I was few weeks pregnant,i got misoprostol and mifepristine,but couldn't take the pills,dunno why,was in the hostel then,my roommates kept pestering me if I had taken the drugs but I lied to them,and no,it wasn't fear,my biological mum had me and gave me up for adoption, probably I felt I wouldn't be where I was if she had aborted me,or maybe I still held unto my affections for him and thought that would change him,until today I don't know the reason I decided to keep my baby,but in all,that was one of the best decisions i've taken in this life,though I dropped out of school,and had to get a job ,the journey wasn't easy,but above all I CONQUERED.


To all single mums out there,forget the societal stigmatization,you've carried a child in your womb for nine months,and gave life to that baby,you're awesome, even though it wasn't what you planned for your life,keep strong,it can only get better.
cry cry cry cry This brought tears
RomanceRe: Apart From Me, Who Else Is Entering 2020 Single? by Hamachi(op): 8:12am On Dec 10, 2019
U lack discipline
favoryte33:
If i enter 2020 celibate,make i baf naked.
RomanceWhy Do The Innocent Suffer Most? by Hamachi(op): 11:10am On Dec 09, 2019
Why do the innocent suffer most?
And in whose hands do they suffer?

Someone said to me one time ago, that karma is never protective of the innocent, If not why do the innocent suffer most.

When I tried giving it a thought, all that could come to my mind was that, there are More of those with wounds who have sworn that they must Carry out revenge on anyone at sight, and since The offenders are so Wise to take their hidings, The innocent Who Wish to assist kindly turn victims of such vindictive act.

Many you see on social media platforms, on the street, in work place or school are filled with bitterness of their past, and with mind made up for carrying out vengeance on any who comes across them, simply because they are so wounded that they feel no more chance should be given to be hurted again.

How could one identify anyone with such mind?.. it is very simple, try engaging in a discussion on any subject matter, all you would be dictating would be nothing but hate speech.

Due to the abundance of hate in the heart, all of His/her speeches would be hateful.... Don't forget, that out of the abundance of the heart, The mouth speaks.

When you come across such persons, all you should do Is to offer lenthy arms, be strict while dealing with such persons, If you can't be, simply flee from such, lest you fall victim of His/her circumstances.

The world has no rehabilitation center for The downtrodden, not even a quarantine space, and Even those hurted don't want to do themselves any good by allowing nature to heal them, instead they are so determined to carry out vengeance.

Will vengeance heal such brokenhearted?... The answer is no, for an eye for an eye can only make the world go blind, said Mahatma Gandhi.

What am I saying, to the innocent, do not put yourself into the trouble you know nothing about.
Be smart to first study the content of the heart coming your way.

Before you feel relaxed with any person, first know his or her mission to your Life... Never you take chances when you don't know why he/she has come your way.

Becareful and be Wise!!
RomanceRe: If You Leave Nigeria Today, What Will You Miss? by Hamachi(op): 11:06am On Dec 09, 2019
wink
chigoizie7:
My parents and siblings
FamilyRe: Single Mother Challenge. (SMC) by Hamachi(f): 8:53am On Dec 09, 2019
Taking myself back to the reason I became a single mother.. Hmmmmm let's travel down there shall we .
Once Upon a time, I became a single mom at 25, my baby will be 7 yrs by February. I never choose this path but I had a failed marriage because of the inability to bear children and the marriage was just 2 years. He left and remarried someone else. When pastors, parents and friends intervened, he told everyone bluntly that he cannot stay with a barren woman. His Dad called me a man. His exact words. My son can't be married to a man. I had just diploma then and I remembered how he robed that on my face saying I am cursed in so many ways. I can't be pregnant and I can never ever be a graduate.

I picked those words and was determined to build myself up. I used my handwork which is catering. I cooked for occasions, bake and hawk snacks to earn a living. Afterwards, I was able to save and get admission. I continued with the hustling as I do take snacks to school to sell and then hawk weekends and go from church to church to get snacks and food contract.

Second year into school, I almost lost my admission as I couldn't save up to my school fees and few days to exams, I had no hope. That was when I met the father of my baby. He assisted and became a good friend. We weren't dating but on his birthday, he paid for cake, snacks and peppered meat. He also invited me for his birthday which I attended. After the party around 2am, I couldn't go home so he gave me his sitting room to sleep.
He was a free man and so was I. Honestly, I made the move for sex and he turned me down but with so much pressure from me, he gave in.
I became pregnant and he was there all through.
After 2yrs, I couldn't marry him when he popped the question and reason being that; I wasn't in love, I still haven't gotten over my ex and I was still in depression and above all, I never wanted to marry him out of pity so he left.
It's been years, he doesn't call or assist in any way but I thank God because today,
I am happy
I am out of depression
I'm no more living in the past
The people that called me barren today, I proved then wrong
And 5yrs today, I became a graduate.
Life hasn't been easy but I keep thanking God everyday.
If asked if I will want to go through that path again, my answer will be NO.
Reason is; I want to take good care of the one God gave me. I wish to give her everything I never had, at least, the basic things. The struggles I went through because I had no one to support me to go to school nor cater for my baby, I don't want her to go through that and I don't want to go through that myself.
All I wish for is; life should be better so that we both can be completely happy.
RomanceRe: Nairaland End of Year Party by Hamachi(f): 12:53pm On Dec 05, 2019
wink
RomanceRe: Have You Ever Been Heartbroken? by Hamachi(f): 12:53pm On Dec 05, 2019
Phenomenal16:
.......ahhhh..oh yes...it makes u stronger n more strict.....is gud to experience it once at least......intact is gud.....is inevitable so is gud...very natural as d air we breathe....more real than love...
No mentions abeg
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RomanceDon't Take It Personal, It's Just An Advice by Hamachi(op): 12:52pm On Dec 05, 2019
DON'T TAKE IT PERSONAL, IT'S JUST AN ADVICE

Dear Ladies!!!
There is one thing I want you to understand about Our MEN.
When you post half- naked pictures of yourself on Facebook, doing a
sexy pose, or showing them your Boobs or lying seductively on your bed.
The only thing you are doing is making them feel lust about you
I know you will feel excited about the 500 Likes, 120 Sweet Comments and Countless inbox Messages you will receive and you will feel so high more so to be on top of the World

BUT ONE IMPORTANT THING YOU SHOULD KNOW..
Men whether rich or poor admire ladies who dress decently and respect themselves.
Decent clothing that reveals less about your body makes men love and respect you.
It tells them that you are a virtuous woman and a wife material one would take home to be a mother.
It tells them how you were brought up morally and gives them details about your good family background.
Most of them don’t really care alot about excessive make-ups and face paintings.
A good wife material remains no matter what.
Value your Body, Be real and Respect yourself.
And a good man who will respect you will find you.

Play your Role and Leave the rest for God

Good day my Beautiful People
RomanceWhat Are The Signs That A Babe Does Not Really Like You by Hamachi(op): 12:05pm On Dec 03, 2019
What are the signs that a babe does not really like you and she is only after your money?
RomanceHappy New Month by Hamachi(op): 8:17am On Dec 03, 2019
Dear Kings,

Are you wondering why that lady hasn’t been responding to your messages? Well wonder no more because today I bring you top 5 reasons why women snub your messages.

1. Hi and Hello: are you that guy that just sends a lady you admire “Hi” and stop at that? Please stop it. An average lady receives a minimum of 10 HI and Hellos a day and doesn’t bother responding or even opening the messages because it lacks content. Next time you chat up a lady for the first time, please start with “Good morning or whatever time of the day it is”*insert profile name*, how are you, then proceed to introduce yourself and your purpose for being in her dm. Be confident, and if she doesn’t respond that’s her problem.

2. Pet names: I can’t stress this enough but noting irritates a lady more than a stranger calling her pet names. A lady you’ve never had any form of contact with you start of by calling her “baby” “Sweetheart” “angel” “my color” . Please please kill that habit today, die am! Die that habit!

3. Over familiarity: She might have replied your comments before or maybe say hi back, then instead of you to act like an acquaintance abi stranger that you’re, mba! your isi aki won’t let you act right, you’ll rush to her dm “hey Chioma how far na, you done dey add weight oh.” Nna please stop embarrassing yourself and act accordingly.

4. Flirting: Uncle Casanova do you not find it stupid when you type “hey sexy” “hottest” “damsel” ? How do you want her Respond to this? “Hey papi”? “Fine man”? “Hey Zaddy” “hey handsome”? What response do you expect when you send out this messages? Because I for one I’m always confused and confusion=ignore. Do better please.

5. Nudes: So she posted a sex trap picture or even a normal picture and the very first thing that comes to your head is “ha this babe is Hot and in need of my 3’ p*n*s, let me send it to her ASAP” . I want you to know this from the bottom of my heart no one wants your STI infected manhood or your body odor sex. No lady wants your unsolicited d*ck pictures. So Oga anyi, keep your thing to your self. Thank you.

If she still doesn’t reply after you’ve tried to be a gentleman, then leave her alone. The Ocean is mighty and fishes plenty wella wella. Move on.
Queens, have I spoken your minds? Please add other things men do that makes you snub their messages. And Kings, I hope the information is well received. Some of you will say it’s Shiloh 2025 that will teach us and not take correction, na you sabi.

Disclaimer: this might work for some so I might not be right, please don’t throw shades at me for I’m a fragile being.
I remain your humble Black Queen, Pearl Akah. Also Enjoy my Throwback pictures as I’m still in the market.

Happy New Month
RomanceRe: If You Are Above 30 And You Are Still Single As A Guy by Hamachi(op): 8:16am On Dec 03, 2019
shocked
seangy4konji:
you need am pass me
FamilyRe: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Hamachi(op): 8:15am On Dec 03, 2019
Sorry.
Fairview1:
Marrying the wrong woman. Someone who isn't meant for me. Someone who will mask and shroud herself in a different personality, claiming she's what she's not. I am an introvert by nature and most times, my strength lies in few words, proceeded with actions. I find it hard to speak out so much hence the reason for my silence.


My Dad never got it right during his prime days and it left him with perpetual agony and broken home, until the day of his death. Everything has spilled from the top leaving us the kids with the same agony and fear of women. It has also gotten to a point that I find it very difficult to cultivate a serious relationship the ladies thinking I may end up been controlled or sth.
FamilyRe: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Hamachi(op): 1:41pm On Nov 29, 2019
wink
tiptoe1:
Fine gyal grin
RomanceRe: I Feel Like Walking Away But My Heart Is So Loving Her.. by Hamachi(f): 1:41pm On Nov 29, 2019
Guy babes don wise up now, who spending on bf epp b4 and now?
Is it the one u will get the shock of ur life after forming good and generous guy, he will now leave u for that bad and stingy babe. Abeg free the babe, if he wants to marry her, he should do so, and not telling us how she has 1.5m and not helping him, what if the money actually does not belong to her?
RomanceRe: Ladies What Are You Bringing To The Table ???? by Hamachi(op): 12:36pm On Nov 29, 2019
huh
I broke the table cry
RomanceRe: Tell Us Exactly What Is Stopping You From Dating Someone Here by Hamachi(f): 12:35pm On Nov 29, 2019
shocked
monex:
I would say both misogynists and misandrists
RomanceRe: If You Are Above 30 And You Are Still Single As A Guy by Hamachi(op): 12:34pm On Nov 29, 2019
See a doc
seangy4konji:
Brain is paining you.
FamilyRe: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Hamachi(op): 12:34pm On Nov 29, 2019
grin
tiptoe1:
Cabron, shut up
RomanceRe: Ladies What Are You Bringing To The Table ???? by Hamachi(op): 10:00am On Nov 28, 2019
True
chiommy123:
I think the ladies are trying this days and should be encouraged. men need this more cos they're lazy
RomanceLadies What Are You Bringing To The Table ???? by Hamachi(op):
Ladies what are you bringing to the table huh?

Many ladies do things and term it to a poor background.
Being born into a poor home has nothing to do with how you turn out to be—oh before you tell me I don’t know
What am saying —please listen —
I grew up in Ubakala Umuahia-where most days we have to run to the bushes to cultivate wild potatoes for food ,I farmed for people for school fees—the difference between me and other kids in that condition was my mindset —-i can never be poor,even in that poor environment-living from one house to another I had a rich mentality,the way I was ahouting it even made my elder sister to tell me
—Chinwe make sure you marry a rich man.if not eh you will suffer in this life,I vividly remembered telling her —I don’t need a rich man to be rich.i only need a rich mind to be rich.
I sincerely want to talk to ladies here,stop waiting for that rich guy to come and rescue you -YOU are YOUR own rescue.Work hard so that when your husband finally comes you will have something to present to the table. ladies I will always tell Us this

If your husband buys a bed -please buy a pillow.if he buys a chair buy a throw pillow.if he buys a Tv rush and buy remote control,make sure you have something to present to the table ..you are called to be a help mate not a consumer mate
So ladies while we wait for Mr right to come,get yourself busy so that every man that has money doesn’t look like Mr right
Thanks
RomanceRe: If You Are Above 30 And You Are Still Single As A Guy by Hamachi(op): 7:47am On Nov 28, 2019
bdchange:
I know you are just joking around because you know ovulation can't be compare to ejaculation.
Go to quora and read findings of ovaulation
RomanceRe: If You Are Above 30 And You Are Still Single As A Guy by Hamachi(op): 7:46am On Nov 28, 2019
angry
ZaOzaRoom:
This write up makes you look dumb.
RomanceRe: If You Are Above 30 And You Are Still Single As A Guy by Hamachi(op): 7:45am On Nov 28, 2019
Yes
uthlaw:
once I see a lady I like na too chop b my own.... answer the second question,is marriage an achievement?
RomanceRe: If You Are Above 30 And You Are Still Single As A Guy by Hamachi(op): 7:43am On Nov 28, 2019
grin grin grin grin
funmisticqueen:
you will still need, tramadol, Viagra and agbo to ejaculate so who are you deceiving
RomanceRe: If You Are Above 30 And You Are Still Single As A Guy by Hamachi(op): 5:07pm On Nov 27, 2019
lipsrsealed[quote author=Raalsalghul post=84417581][/quote]
RomanceRe: If You Are Above 30 And You Are Still Single As A Guy by Hamachi(op): 4:05pm On Nov 27, 2019
How did you know that her response?
praz001:
So....
Get married late 20s and file for a divorce four years later.

Ques.
Aunty: Will you get married to a man in a single room apartment age 25...

resp.
No, I won't. I hate sharing place with people...



When we get to the bridge, we cross it.
PropertiesRe: 3AD Nightclub In Otta, Ogun On Fire by Hamachi(f): 3:50pm On Nov 27, 2019
shocked shocked shocked
RomanceApart From Me, Who Else Is Entering 2020 Single? by Hamachi(op): 3:47pm On Nov 27, 2019
Apart from me, who else is entering 2020 single?
RomanceRe: A Letter From An Aborted Child by Hamachi(op): 3:46pm On Nov 27, 2019
sweetonugbu:
The best to happen to the western culture is family planning and abortion, Africa will continue to be in darkness with this mindset, I AM PRO CHOICE
shocked
RomanceA Letter From An Aborted Child by Hamachi(op): 1:04pm On Nov 27, 2019
A LETTER FROM AN ABORTED CHILD

Dear Mum,
I have decided to talk to you to let you know my feelings. I want to know why you did it. My story is short. I stayed inside you for only a couple of weeks. I was very comfortable and warm. I felt really protected. I knew you were a special person because you never stopped me from eating the food you ate. I longed for the day I would see your face. Nine months was a long time to wait, but I was determined to wait. I had to be patient.

A man then offered you some amount of money to get rid of me. I was happy and prayed that this meant that I would at least see you, the only person that I knew in the world. I was wrong. I had almost forgotten the issues until I felt something sharp pierce my tiny ear. I jerked silently and in pain, and asked you to protect me. Seconds later the object came, fiercer than before. My tiny body was cut up, starting from the ears then arms and legs. It was an agonizing experience. My head was then cut off and I died.

It took me a whole hour to die. A whole hour for an innocent few weeks human being to be murdered in cold blood by you! I remember the whole incident vividly and I keep asking myself what I did to deserve that cruel death.

Why me? Why did you do that to me?
And why was I not given a chance to live just like they children you hear playing around? How do you feel when you send some of them on errands when I could have done that with pride if you had given me the chance to live? Don't you see the beauty in playing with a child that calls you mom with a sweet soft voice?

I know you are having a lot of nightmares. You remain guilty for the beastly act. Please explain to God why you committed the heinous cruel act. He sent me to you as a very special gift. My purpose was to make you proud by being the great person God meant me to be.
I have forgiven you though I never lived to see your face.

My journey back to my creator was safe, and I arrived safely. I was given a red-carpet welcome by an angel. I am in fact without bitterness. I still love you, mum.

Yours,
Never-seen child.

If you are touched, join the "STOP ABORTION" campaign by sharing this post with your friends.

....STOP ABORTION!!!.
FamilyRe: Some Of The Problems We Have Today In Our Marriages, Is From Our Upbringing. by Hamachi(op): 8:21am On Nov 27, 2019
You need not to reply him in th e first instance
Hadeehart101:
1. I can't point out anywhere in my post where I typed that Nigerian marriage is a synonym for death
2. Of course, I'm speaking for me alone. Anyone that thinks I'm speaking on behalf of him or her is on their own.
3. My spirit is not injured. I don't need your advice on who and who not to give my life to.


PS: If you keep quoting me with the intention of shoving your moral and religious values down my throat, I won't reply you. You are definitely gonna be OYO.

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