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gracefulygrace:
it does depends on how you manage it after childbirth...I'm a mother

gracefulygrace:
can I still post mine ?

nlPoster:
Nigerian marriage is not a synonym for death.

If you believe it is, why not remain single.

I've mentioned earlier, you folks should stop this type of talk, your mouth is for you alone, not other people.

Have you given your life to Christ btw? He can heal your spirit.

theButterfly:
LOLs https://www.mysmiley.net/imgs/smile/happy/happy0040.gif

Allsingles:
Single Mums are SUPERWOMEN.
For a woman to play the role of both parents and bear the responsibility of raising a child or
children, don't joke with such a woman, because even if you die in future she can take care of ..
https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2019/11/the-untold-life-of-single-mothers.html

WaywardSon:
swings both ways lady

Now replace "girl" with "boy" and reverse roles you'll see that nobody is fooling anybody. Las las if you approach every new relationship with shiit baggage from previous ships you have already killed it yourself.

jackals:
Shut up Martinez, you have been brainwashed. There are many good Ladies out there who support their men. I don't know where u lot are getting women from. When I love a man, I give him full support

jimyjames:
A lot of Igbo's in diaspora need a wife that's 100% Igbo tradionally morally they want a wife that will teach their kids the Igbo language , not all these Igbo girls abroad that can't even speak igbo

Charleys:
Igbos do not sell Aso-ebi for people to come to their marriage.
Hope you know that

deltateam:
Why did you accept it?

You see Abuja, PH, Lagos. Any payment less than #50k is a crime against humanity.

Phenomenal16:
...hahha....odikwa egwu really

tundchip2:
Damn, standards are getting Fu.cked day by day.

MumNatasha11:
to answer ur question, it was my mil that refused seeing or talking to me, my mum started maltreating me when she learnt I was pregnant because of her post in church, her maltreatment made me run away. I can't go back to my parents because I have made all effort to do that but we weren't welcomed, and for the father of my daughter, he didn't deny the pregnancy, but never asked after me nor the baby ever again. If u think am lying, my shop is at 83 Rumuola/rumuokuta , opposite first bank. Lastly I registered today because a friend that knows what we are going through sent me the link to try my luck

onwuakpachris:
can I rest now?

CHoccolaTE:
Some people lack manners and common sense

This thread could have been a great Avenue for people to learn from others life experience and make decisions for themselves
Somebody even said he learnt that teenage girls need attention and hands on parenting which is a positive lesson to pick from this type of thread

But alas the epidemic of women bashing in nairaland has ruined a good thread again. Even without monetary benefits a thread like this is valuable and those sharing stories should be welcomed and treated decently, and encouraged to hang in there for their kids, never neglect then for any relationship and so on, because they are survivors and it isn't easy for anyone to come forward and tell a story with such a sensitive topic.


So many foolish people on this site I swear.

To all those who shared stories,
Iyatola
Blazing12345
Mumnatasha11
Desan
Steveofu
Purpletee
Hamachi
Others,
Sorry if I forgot to add you,

May God give you strength to carry on and raise your kids, bless you with money and emotional stability and goodhealth, give your kids a very bright future to bring smiles to your faces in old age and as a reward for your hard work.
Amen

onwuakpachris:
Tramadol hydrochloride... a narcotic painkiller that gives u an 'high' similar to heroine wen taken in high doses...r u okay now girl?

MicroSweet:
And you think that these ladies don't know all this? They definitely do. Just that they are looking for that dude who'd fall for that 'enticing body', and become 'magarized'. It's all about the Benjamin's, dude. They know what they're doing.