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cococandy:
You fear heartbreak yet you are afraid of committing to one woman. Whose daughter do you think like heartbreak?

As you are like this, are you coming or are you going?

anslem04:
I like your kind of curosity buh b4 i make some emotionaly annoyin analysis,let me emphatically say i am nt justifyin infidelity for men.
We all knw life is not fair, even nature/creation is not fair ... for a man sex is jus sex , to a woman sex as to mean sumtin she jus as to define it to accept it,that is why rape traumatize dem.
Women are emotional beings, ofcus they do av heart & feel pains more buh these wonderful creatures understand pain d way the strongest of men would never, some men won't even survive menstrual pain not to talk of labour pain ... the way a woman feels wen she see her hubby on top another woman is funnily different from the way a man who caught is wife under another man will feel.
the woman feel cheated emotionally she is less concern abt the sex act, while the man feels cheated bodywise ... what disgust n hurt him d most is anoda dick savourin pussy to be his.... bottom line is nature in to be blamed in all these women don't do ego dey deal in pride.
sex appreciate a man's ego buh same sex depreciates a woman's pride ,sey u see life

sharpwriter:
Lol... I've been laughing hard since at your comment. Reason being that your moniker being "satan" can call another person animal... Then that person must be an animal indeed to have infuriated and disgusted you this much... Your satan sef get little morals... Lolz

hresso:
Signs. You can't hide your true feelings for long.

Godmademan:
1. I feel polygamous. I feel one wife will not do it for me. Just love women. Perhaps my out look will change when someone captures my inner being.

2. Phobia for Heartbreak.

vickydevoka:
I have bleeped so so many married women bcus of their big soft ass. I am scared of kama. B4 person go begin Bleep my Wife.
I still don't knw y married women are easier to Bleep dan single ladies. I even Bleep one today. N the husband can never catch a cheating wife.

anslem04:
Well i guess some of you can't just deal with the message without huntin for d sender.
it doesnt matter if it happens to my grandma, mom or sista sef ... its jus d truth n reality out that no one can do anytin about. if my daughter hubby cheat on her will i kill him n even she divorce him wil i marry my own daughter to safe her frm all men... or what is probability other men she tries won't cheat.

victorian:
I don't have any fears on marriage anymore, because Imma look well, before I leap into it with the man I have chosen.

I will never ever marry blindly or rush blindly into it.


Never I won't!

zigzagluv:
i have left the dating scene since 2012 , i only do friends with benefit because i dont want to hold any girl down with relationship and not marrying and blocking her chance to get married , so i have made of my mind to start a relationship but really scared

Utthaan4:
Surprised with comments here

Mood11:
I was 17 then, after attempting JAMB and didn't get the Post-UTME cut off mark I got a Sales Rep. Job in a Pharmacy...

When first salary came it was N15,000 then. I shared it and gave my aunt whom I lived with N5,000 for Pocket money, bought foodstuffs and toiletries for the house.

Guess what, the Sunday that followed, She legit gave me her lipstick and eye Pencil to do make Up for Church

By the end of the second month, I noticed that even my cousins who were older would seek my consent before going to Watch ball. If I had gone out, my aunt called me to tell me what they intend cooking for Dinner or asked me what I wanted to eat..


Till today, even when I am broke to stupor I will just package myself so that nobody will know I am leaking
I did not only come off Age, I brought Self Respect along..

Lionpikin:
most of them are weaklings who are not matured enough to handle relationships talk more of marriages.....just sitting down to think for a moment will solve most of the problems they are crying of....too many sissies nowadays

Fizzymike1:
Who told u am not married

Lindaa97:
Most guys are too self centred to allow that plus the Nigerian factor.

MedicH:
Lol i know men and i use a lot of psychology. Anyman addicted to soccer cant help but seek reward for his passion via bet9ja. On this pedestal, he is doomed. I hardly watch soccer games. Hardly. Betting na no no no.

fatymore:
lol

maynation:
Yeah from experience, I have seen enough.

Not personal experience tho.

Godsonkemz:
Economic reason such as uncertainty in finance and job security to sustain the union, and psychological reason such as trust and betrayal.

maiahsaiah:
Probably, but from observations, not completely.

UnknownQueen:
I used to have same thoughts but today, I'm an overcomer with two children via Vaginal birth..
And u know what only you can help yourself, yes the process is extremely painful but the koy they bring afterwards is immeasurable, but please of you must do, have great financial plans before venturing into child rearing oo also it' isn't a must u birth one via V. B ELECTIVE C. S IS LESS PAINFUL compared to V. B

MJBOLT:

i agree with some of the ladies here because i have seen boys do these stupid things.

WhereIsOldRoger:
That so? then 90% of guys have back up plans that's why when it's time to marry they will ask their friends which should they marry between Kehinde, Aisha or Amaka.Why date multiple gals?

maiahsaiah:
Is it a baby boy you had? When most couples birth boys, all manner of hardship comes. You’ll have to endure and pray.

Try and birth a girl the next time for uncountable blessings. To birth a girl, you need to show your wife overwhelming love so that she loves you genuinely in return. Girls only come from a place of genuine love. There is a science way too. But I only believe in tradition. (Joys of Motherhood)

realtalk19:
Marrying the wrong partner who isn't able to cater and provide for the family hereby making me a bread winner.

anslem04:
cheatin for men is nt a norm rather it is all about our biological edge over woman when the worst happens.
1. A man can keep multiple wives under one roof n the world won't end,
2.Men appreciate with body counts buh women depreciate over body counts.
3. A man can. av babies outside n till be fully available to his wife.
4. like i said b4 it natural in play ... a man can cheat becos his emotions are not attached to sex, the wife remains d luv of his life but asides whores , can a woman sleep around n stil respect his man talkless of love.
5. when a man cheat n get caught is either d wife leave or stays becos its d man's house ..
reverse be the case can women do all these, can a woman sleep around n stil respect his man talkless of love. lets even ignore what d society think.

Simplep:
That he doesn't wake up one day and say he's no longer interested without doing anything wrong..

Advancedman:
3. This one is the most important one, DONT COME BETWEEN ME AND MY PARENTS/SIBLINGS, they all went through hell for me so when it's time to reap what they sowed u Better don't try to stop it because I'll stop you first


Just marry any or all of them Fool!

makavelli80:
The fear of marrying a second hand lady. Aside family I can't imagine living with another person for the rest of my life. Is there any thing one can enjoy in a woman without getting tired of one day?

Heineken:
hahaha nawao. Some women bad

FuckThaMod:
She might run away cos i will destroy her pussy day and night.. I love sex too much and I'm hardly satisfied. Today alone i had 14 rounds with 3 different girls. I'm a sex freak and I've tried so hard to control it but it's very difficult.