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FamilyRe: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Hamachi(op): 8:19am On Nov 27, 2019
Yes o!!!!!!!!!!!! Men on this forum are not smiling.
MedicH:
Lol oh my world.. .
RomanceRe: If You Are Above 30 And You Are Still Single As A Guy by Hamachi(op): 8:17am On Nov 27, 2019
smh for you too.
24kmagic:
SMH for op
RomanceRe: If You Are Above 30 And You Are Still Single As A Guy by Hamachi(op): 8:15am On Nov 27, 2019
dake40:
People like you contribute to Nigeria's Backwardness GDP

The issue of marriage is subjective, you cant force someone to marry if they are not ready... Don jazzy is 37 and not married, does that mean he's useless?


It high time you stopped generalizing.

FYI, I'm in my mid 20s
But has a baby mama lol
RomanceRe: If You Are Above 30 And You Are Still Single As A Guy by Hamachi(op): 8:14am On Nov 27, 2019
Henry you have no point.
henryobinna:
you even answered the her...
wait till she brings another question or claim...

no point arguing with them as you don't win... they'll revert to their default; emotional blackmail
FamilyRe: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Hamachi(op): 12:16pm On Nov 26, 2019
Send her a dm before someone takes her
MedicH:
emzor pharmaceuticals... you're pretty
RomanceRe: If You Are Above 30 And You Are Still Single As A Guy by Hamachi(op): 12:15pm On Nov 26, 2019
Society has some very wrong-headed ideas about what constitutes success. You need to unlearn the negative and sabotaging programming from public education & even adulthood.

Learn to redefine your success & what you consider as centerpiece of your identity and life's purpose.

Make sure you don't place yourself in situations that can destroy you ---

●Toxic credentialism
●Onesmanship
●Workism
●Hustle porn
●Performative busyness
●Work Martyr Mentality
●Money-centric mindset and babbittry
ovkie:
I’ve built an investment portfolio, charity support and rendered financial assistance to grow a business for a few in my own way.
FamilyRe: Some Of The Problems We Have Today In Our Marriages, Is From Our Upbringing. by Hamachi(op): 10:50am On Nov 26, 2019
wink
crackhaus:
To the best of my ability, yes.
RomanceRe: If You Are Above 30 And You Are Still Single As A Guy by Hamachi(op): 10:49am On Nov 26, 2019
what have you inpacted to nigerians
ovkie:
No mind am jare. A man is not known for getting married but rather his impact & contribution to the society. How many people know the wives name of Dangote, Jeff bezos, warren buffet, Jim Ovia, Tony Elumelu, Charles Soludo, Wole Soyinka, etc? A man’s honor is his work and self discovery before marriage. That has always been and will always be the order!
By the way Bill gates married at age 39.
RomanceIf You Are Above 30 And You Are Still Single As A Guy by Hamachi(op): 8:09am On Nov 26, 2019
If you are above 30 and you are still single as a guy, better start going to churches or start working on yourself, it's either you have a bad character or your Uncle in the village don't want you to get married.

Yes, this is the bitter truth...

Being single at 30 and above is bad, and the chances of you getting married and having your kids on time is slim...

What if delay in child bearing occurs and you happens to stay for more 5 or 10 years before children starts coming...

Uncle, get married now ooo, time waits for nobody

How does it sound?
Does it sound stupid?

This is the lines most you use on ladies, making them believe they are overdue for marriage.
This is the lines most of you use on ladies, that talks them into depression.

At 40, he got married to her when she was 20, believing he has higher advantage as a man, yes, God blessed them with a girl and since then no issue.

Uncle is running to 50 and becoming very weak, Aunty is running to 30 and looking more sound and beautiful ❤️.

The chances of Uncle dying anytime soon is 50-50 because he has a diseases which keeps him in the hospital all the time.

When next you think about shaming a woman, because she is 30 & above and single, read this...

Written by Chiamaka Inyama.
FamilyRe: Some Of The Problems We Have Today In Our Marriages, Is From Our Upbringing. by Hamachi(op): 8:07am On Nov 26, 2019
are u sure?
crackhaus:
You know I won't lipsrsealed
RomanceRe: Sometimes It’s Better To Move On Than by Hamachi(op): 8:06am On Nov 26, 2019
wink
KaBabs1:
True
RomanceRe: If You Leave Nigeria Today, What Will You Miss? by Hamachi(op): 8:05am On Nov 26, 2019
grin grin
Kobicove:
Bitter leaf soup! grin
RomanceRe: If You Leave Nigeria Today, What Will You Miss? by Hamachi(op): 8:05am On Nov 26, 2019
mafiano1986:
I will not miss jack shitt! if its our nigerian food, i can always buy them once in a while from various nigerian restaurants, just like i did before when i was in university abroad, im not going to mention the country because i dont want people to start bashing me for bragging.
u miss that nah
RomanceSometimes It’s Better To Move On Than by Hamachi(op): 4:54pm On Nov 25, 2019
SOMETIMES IT’S BETTER TO MOVE ON THAN to hold on to a person who doesn’t understand you. Sometimes your absence will teach what your presence cannot...

Hey you, Stop breaking your own heart by trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn’t meant to work. You can’t force someone to care about you. You can’t force someone to be loyal. You can’t force someone to be the person you need them to be.

I’ll be real with you, sometimes the person you want most is the person you’re best without. You have got to understand some things are meant to happen, but just not meant to be. Some things are meant to come in your life, just not meant to stay.

Don’t lose yourself by trying to fix what's meant to stay broken. You can’t get the relationship you need from someone who’s not ready to give it you. And I know it’s hard when your heart has labeled that person as someone you could spend forever with, but you just have to accept that they’re not that person anymore.

And you might not understand WHY NOW, but I promise you your future will always bring understanding of why things didn’t work out.

TRUST ME, It is better to be alone and be happy than to be in a miserable relationship...
Whoever sees you as an option doesn't deserve to be a priority in your life, you call him honey but he treats you like a monkey, He is your everything but you are nothing to him, you are doing everything to make it work, but he keeps thinking you are desperate and turns all your efforts to weakness...

Never keep awake thinking about someone who is deeply sleeping with someone else. Never stay a minute thinking about someone who cant spend a second thinking about you.
Leave that person who takes your love for granted and doesnt love you back the way you do.

Love should be balanced not based one side.
Its better to be single than being in an ugly
relationship that will make you cry forever.

To d girls should I increase d volume.
RomanceRe: If You Leave Nigeria Today, What Will You Miss? by Hamachi(op): 11:42am On Nov 25, 2019
They why are you here?
MrCork:
...do i look naija to u? Who cares!!(No oofeense) angry
RomanceRe: If You Leave Nigeria Today, What Will You Miss? by Hamachi(op): 11:41am On Nov 25, 2019
FamilyRe: Some Of The Problems We Have Today In Our Marriages, Is From Our Upbringing. by Hamachi(op): 11:14am On Nov 25, 2019
Too bad, we learn, unlearn and relearn.
ireneidiva:
When he has been that way right from time and she decided to marry him, how will he change? If she tolerated it from the beginning, that is how she will continue. How can someone not clean his house in one month and comfortably live inside?
RomanceRe: Can You Appear Naked In Front Of A Magazine Cover For 4 Billion Naira? by Hamachi(op): 11:12am On Nov 25, 2019
grin grin grin
Darkseid:
Even the gods of my ancestors would be angry with me if I refuse the offer, they'll be like; this guy na God go punish you angry angry
RomanceRe: If U Are Earning 160k As Salary, Pls Don't Marry by Hamachi(op): 11:11am On Nov 25, 2019
wink
Biingoo:
Nice set of boobs
Thank you.
RomanceIf You Leave Nigeria Today, What Will You Miss? by Hamachi(op): 11:10am On Nov 25, 2019
If you leave Nigeria today, what will you miss?
FamilyRe: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Hamachi(op): 11:08am On Nov 25, 2019
lipsrsealed
Eaganguolly:
You get it right
FamilyRe: Some Of The Problems We Have Today In Our Marriages, Is From Our Upbringing. by Hamachi(op): 11:06am On Nov 25, 2019
DeeMain:
I agree. And yet sometimes the problem is that the programming is so deep and unconscious that they can't see they are wrong or that it is limiting their relationship or progress as a family. You can't change what you don't know or haven't diagnosed.

It's why I said that consciousness is key to making those changes. The ability to be open and willing to learn and get feedback from others is critical in these things.

If I were to counsel anyone intending to marry, it's the very first thing I will ask them to insist on the must-have quality of their significant other. It's on my own must- have list.
No, their temperament traits and what they saw their parents doing while growing up
FamilyRe: Some Of The Problems We Have Today In Our Marriages, Is From Our Upbringing. by Hamachi(op): 11:01am On Nov 25, 2019
True
bukatyne:
OH well, people should learn to be observant during courtship.

Also pray and discern.
RomanceCan You Appear Naked In Front Of A Magazine Cover For 4 Billion Naira? by Hamachi(op): 5:21pm On Nov 22, 2019
Can you appear naked in front of a magazine cover for 4 Billion Naira?
FamilyRe: Some Of The Problems We Have Today In Our Marriages, Is From Our Upbringing. by Hamachi(op): 5:20pm On Nov 22, 2019
ireneidiva:
When he has been that way right from time and she decided to marry him, how will he change? If she tolerated it from the beginning, that is how she will continue. How can someone not clean his house in one month and comfortably live inside?
Pigs
RomanceRe: If U Are Earning 160k As Salary, Pls Don't Marry by Hamachi(op): 2:28pm On Nov 22, 2019
Not all of us are destined to marry rich husbands,some of us are meant to be the key to our husbands success
SassyBella:
undecided
RomanceRe: If U Are Earning 160k As Salary, Pls Don't Marry by Hamachi(op): 2:24pm On Nov 22, 2019
says who?
rexington:
If 160k is not enough to start a family for even 1 million will not be enough, it is never enough, trust me i know people who earn over 700k or more and still borrow. By the way what are u doing with laundry services, buying two cloths every month, DSTV Subscription. Some of these things are not needs but wants.
RomanceRe: If U Are Earning 160k As Salary, Pls Don't Marry by Hamachi(op): 2:20pm On Nov 22, 2019
lipsrsealed
SassyBella:
undecided If I wooooooose u
RomanceRe: If U Are Earning 160k As Salary, Pls Don't Marry by Hamachi(op): 2:18pm On Nov 22, 2019
grin grin grin grin
Dimples0303:
All these treatments because she's disabled huh

I need to marry a Nigerian man because you girls are enjoying! So... He'll even cover my father's bills for my father's house shocked

9ja girls are enjoying undecided
FamilyRe: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Hamachi(op): 2:16pm On Nov 22, 2019
It goes both way bro
Tchange1:
The only answer is Marrying a lost glory as a wife is the greatest fear of any man.
RomanceRe: Dear Nigerian Men by Hamachi(op): 2:16pm On Nov 22, 2019
grin grin grin
ednut1:
Dem dey talk abroad you dey talk libyahuh Italy cyprus dem no be abroad again. Dubai favours just few people the salary is low but they sometimes get free house to sleep. Such is life.

Pre uk pics- 18 likes 2 comments


UK pics- 190 likes 38 comments

Who is at faulthuh
FamilyRe: Some Of The Problems We Have Today In Our Marriages, Is From Our Upbringing. by Hamachi(op): 2:10pm On Nov 22, 2019
Does, that mean he cant help out?
ireneidiva:
You knew he was like that and you married him. So you have to live with it o

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