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Phenomenal16:
...hahha....odikwa egwu really

tundchip2:
Damn, standards are getting Fu.cked day by day.

MumNatasha11:
to answer ur question, it was my mil that refused seeing or talking to me, my mum started maltreating me when she learnt I was pregnant because of her post in church, her maltreatment made me run away. I can't go back to my parents because I have made all effort to do that but we weren't welcomed, and for the father of my daughter, he didn't deny the pregnancy, but never asked after me nor the baby ever again. If u think am lying, my shop is at 83 Rumuola/rumuokuta , opposite first bank. Lastly I registered today because a friend that knows what we are going through sent me the link to try my luck

onwuakpachris:
can I rest now?

CHoccolaTE:
Some people lack manners and common sense

This thread could have been a great Avenue for people to learn from others life experience and make decisions for themselves
Somebody even said he learnt that teenage girls need attention and hands on parenting which is a positive lesson to pick from this type of thread

But alas the epidemic of women bashing in nairaland has ruined a good thread again. Even without monetary benefits a thread like this is valuable and those sharing stories should be welcomed and treated decently, and encouraged to hang in there for their kids, never neglect then for any relationship and so on, because they are survivors and it isn't easy for anyone to come forward and tell a story with such a sensitive topic.


So many foolish people on this site I swear.

To all those who shared stories,
Iyatola
Blazing12345
Mumnatasha11
Desan
Steveofu
Purpletee
Hamachi
Others,
Sorry if I forgot to add you,

May God give you strength to carry on and raise your kids, bless you with money and emotional stability and goodhealth, give your kids a very bright future to bring smiles to your faces in old age and as a reward for your hard work.
Amen

onwuakpachris:
Tramadol hydrochloride... a narcotic painkiller that gives u an 'high' similar to heroine wen taken in high doses...r u okay now girl?

MicroSweet:
And you think that these ladies don't know all this? They definitely do. Just that they are looking for that dude who'd fall for that 'enticing body', and become 'magarized'. It's all about the Benjamin's, dude. They know what they're doing.

onwuakpachris:
my man I js tire o....but I still dey afford am o...na only t.m dey give me joy 4 ds life I swear...I don use cus of t.m break up wit so many girls o...t.m dey sweet me pass girl o...t.m na my life in short

Purpletee:
hmmmm,most reasons wasn't because the single mums out there are promiscuous but because they trusted too much,loved too much and got disappointed at the end.

So mine was that, i met this guy while in school,we started dating,dated for a year and five months,he was a cheat and I was always forgiving, eventually broke up with him only to find out I was few weeks pregnant,i got misoprostol and mifepristine,but couldn't take the pills,dunno why,was in the hostel then,my roommates kept pestering me if I had taken the drugs but I lied to them,and no,it wasn't fear,my biological mum had me and gave me up for adoption, probably I felt I wouldn't be where I was if she had aborted me,or maybe I still held unto my affections for him and thought that would change him,until today I don't know the reason I decided to keep my baby,but in all,that was one of the best decisions i've taken in this life,though I dropped out of school,and had to get a job ,the journey wasn't easy,but above all I CONQUERED.


To all single mums out there,forget the societal stigmatization,you've carried a child in your womb for nine months,and gave life to that baby,you're awesome, even though it wasn't what you planned for your life,keep strong,it can only get better.

favoryte33:
If i enter 2020 celibate,make i baf naked.

chigoizie7:
My parents and siblings

Phenomenal16:
.......ahhhh..oh yes...it makes u stronger n more strict.....is gud to experience it once at least......intact is gud.....is inevitable so is gud...very natural as d air we breathe....more real than love...
No mentions abeg

seangy4konji:
you need am pass me

Fairview1:
Marrying the wrong woman. Someone who isn't meant for me. Someone who will mask and shroud herself in a different personality, claiming she's what she's not. I am an introvert by nature and most times, my strength lies in few words, proceeded with actions. I find it hard to speak out so much hence the reason for my silence.


My Dad never got it right during his prime days and it left him with perpetual agony and broken home, until the day of his death. Everything has spilled from the top leaving us the kids with the same agony and fear of women. It has also gotten to a point that I find it very difficult to cultivate a serious relationship the ladies thinking I may end up been controlled or sth.

tiptoe1:
Fine gyal

I broke the table

monex:
I would say both misogynists and misandrists

seangy4konji:
Brain is paining you.

tiptoe1:
Cabron, shut up