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Olamsoh:
I jokenly told her that I have oesophagus....she screamed and said she can't marry someone with oesophagus...I was trying to tell her it's a joke that oesophagus is a part of the inner body..she still no gree....I even heard she shared it as testimony..that God saved her from marrying someone with oesophagus

Kingsteve:
They must have dealt with you...

Blu03:
money

Blu03:

'I'll never break your heart'

chibuike65:
Not having sufficient financial, though am working but am dead scared that salary will not be enough to start a family really don't want to suffer someone's daughter and I plan to give my wife the best attention she needs and the children when the start coming, but no enough money get me scared of marriage, I want an average family not suffering and smiling, but I see people that I have more pay than them get married but I don't won't that

NathanAnomaly:
in other words, men are now having standards like you women do

and most of you are pained.

Having a vagina is no longer enough, that's the summary of this post

neonly:
Common u guys marriage is not dat bad is just dat unfortunately we find ourselves in dis era of slayers
Been married for 15yrs though we always I repeat always issues but d love for the children and d fear of of separation dat will affect d children always comes to our mind
But honesty once u are ready for marriage all excuses will disappear

Davash222:
My only fear is getting married to a Nigerian girl and no one can clear my doubt about that.

Ariza:
Nonsense post! If you only see love in rich going for poor or a man settling for a pauper, then your definition of love is questionable. Very selfish and one-sided love you got there.


BTW whatever happens to being that beautiful person you always desire in others? If it is very difficult for you to the better person then you do not have any right expecting it from another. Aunty go and work!

CAPSLOCKED:
imagine the audacity.. a poor (and maybe very lazy) woman "demanding" for a rich hardworking man. just imagine.
oriaku. thieves.

Aladdin1:
so true.but methinks its a problem caused by this modern day generation of nigerian women who believe that the only contribution they can make to a relationship or marriage is having a vagina and giving sex.nothing else.the day you decide to date a nigerian lady that is the day who start to owe her money.all her financial burdens becomes automatically yours.so nowadays most men would like to seek out a financially independent lady or at least a lady thats got something doing for marriage.if not! am afraid a guy may inherit a womans personal,family and ancestral financially bondage here in nigeria.

Akinbahm:
Really

Etteanna:
excuse me is the wife jobless or where is it stated that the man has to do every damn thing for her abeg marry woman that can share responsibility if not what is her use

Mobree:
As much as I agree with the whole write-up, the whole idea is overrated.

Someone told me last night that "A man always knows what he wants". If you like, be a virgin that has never seen a man in her life, if you do not have what he wants, ya still going to be dumped.

I think it's time we take our eyes off this sex thing and focus on what truly matters.

Like I earlier said, I agree with the post. However, there's more...way more to relationships than sex.

I rise...Coooooooooooooooooooourt!!!!!

Pluto11:
I live in a 4 bedroom bungalow in Lagos and don't pay rent cos it's mine. I make my money online in dollars which makes the currency market one of my biggest worries. I use a money exchanger right here on Naiiraland when I don't want to do direct international transfers.

I work for no man and sit in my home all day with my PC where my troublesome relatives come to me for money. The church I've been invited to join as a pastor is based in the USA. Texas to be exact. I did not attend their interview last October but will this year unfailingly, which is one reason I want to marry now so I can get my own church fast.

You earn a salary to manage life but I make a lot of money to help others, some of whom I don't even know.

You don't know me from Adam, have never met me and yet feel you can talk trash to me because we are both on a faceless forum where I am looking for something?

What is wrong with you, you mannerless 124th baby of a wayward tortoise, is that your young mouth is itching and you don't know how to scratch it back. Go and eat raw cocoyam. It should help


Nonsense!

AryEmber:
To each his own.

iamharkinwaley:
One question Op, did you marry a virgin ?

superfitsez:
you ugly nah,

slimdamatrix1:
I have telegram but I use it only for work.

I dunno about leaving WhatsApp in the dust. Telegram is kinda boring and rather serious, which isn't actually a bad thing. Like I said, I use it only for work.

alphaNomega:
WhatsApp actually copies all its updates from telegram, always playing catch up to Telegram with every major update.

officialfestus:
telegram any day any time.... Far better than whatapp that requires backup and update every now and then.... Just login your telegram account on another phone and all your chats will appear instantly unlike the rubbish whatsapp

funmisticqueen2:
LOUD IT.

GeneralPula:
Streeti way of telling people not to worry!

Mafo...Moh wah Peh Luh eh!

Don’t worry..I’m with you!